What time of day is he coming home? If I’m working til 10 or 11 at night and grabbing food, I’m assuming every one has already eaten and my children had better be in bed.
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Every time I see these types of questions I wonder where in the world you women be finding these poor excuses for men?!?!?! My husband and I have been married almost 20 years and I have none of these issues like ever. The only thing we have an issue with is out sex drives are totally different. I feel so sad for y’all.
Oh hell naw.
If someone brings outside food and doesn’t offer me any that’s an insult 
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Oh hell no, I’d be livid!
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When he brings its home and eats it in front of you and your son, It’s very RUDE & DISRESPECTFUL! I’d be ticked at him big time , It has nothing to do with you being pregnant
All the over dramatic people in this group lmao. There’s no sense in getting hurt over it. Its take out hes not cheating on you or hurting you in anyway shape or form. He works 3rds and probably assumes you’d feed your child and yourself before he gets home. Talk to him and go to therapy please.
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I remember 43 years ago stoping at the only fast food restaurant open at11:30pm to bring 3 or 4 weeks of rootbeer floats with corn dogs ,and days of 48 0z jars of pickels every other day for weeks, I admit I sometimes feel like that is what may be what’s wrong with him now Lol
I agree…how unthinkable
It’s thoughtless and not caring.I Wouldn’t blow up . I’d just mention it would be nice if you’d think of your son and I maybe we’d like takeout occasionally.Just something people do, little suprises to show affection and they thought of you.
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Bruh if I went to my sisters house and her husband was home, my bil and I was getting food, I’d ask him if he wanted food and definitely got for my niece and nephew.
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I think it’s rude …. Especially if your pregnant
My husband is so considerate its frustrating. I guess I now know i should shut up and be happy. I would definitely tell him. Communication is key in a relationship. I learned that the hard way. But January will be 30 years for us. I hope you get through to him.
I use to work 3-11 and 11-7. I would stop and get something to bring home to eat. When u work those shifts if the other persons stays home you would think they would have eat and have kids fed and be in bed.
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Totally rude and it would drive me nuts no matter the circumstances.
Most men have a dinner waiting when they’ve worked hard alday dont you cook for you and your child then your only pregnant not Ill!
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My husband works nights as well. He works at Walmart so wether it’s food from the store or fast food he always calls me to make sure we have what we need for all of us. That’s very rude of him. If you haven’t talked to him about it then you should do so. It’s very rude to eat in front of people let alone your own family. Thoughtless!!!
Have you ever asked?
Those overnight workers are a different breed! When he gets off work he’s hungry instead of him stopping to get something can’t you have breakfast waiting for him or at least make him an extra plate from dinner?
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I read that to my fiance and he’s like… thats rude, how you not gonna get your pregnant wife anything or your kid… so that is very rude. Yes.
Just say “Hey babe if you are going to stop by and pick up something, do you mind getting the three of us a little something too? Thanks love!” Problem solved! I’m here all week! Lol
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Would be rude if you weren’t pregnant. But he’s not asking what he can get for you while you’re 36 weeks pregnant with his baby? Unacceptable. Stop accepting it, now.
Yes, I’d be pissed lol
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Um no thats effin rude! I would be pissed! My hubby worked at a pizza place when I was pregnant with our oldest. He would always be bringing me stuff. You need to put hubby in check!
Oh hell no! So rude and inconsiderate!
Yeah i think its rude. My hubby or i would never bring food home without asking if the other or kids want something. We wouldnt even go to someone elses house with food and not offer to get them something. Its just common courtesy to not get take out and eat it in front of others without offering it too imho. He could at least eat it before he comes home and not eat it in y’alls face 
But i do think maybe you should mention it to him thats its rude and you would like him to start offering to get y’all something. Sometimes people can be dumb and not think and need to be told.
He’s trash throw the whole husband away
I would be HOT!!!
Nope. I’d be pissed and take his burger and throw it away
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I’d be pissed, his fingers aren’t broken, he could call and ask if you wanted something, especially since he is bringing it home to eat it right in front of you!!
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He should have dinner at home waiting!
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Like most men…You have to tell him in order for him to even remotely think of others before himself
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Rude in my opinion. My husband has done this with drinks at gas stations. He’d stop and get himself something but not the kids. I said something several times. I don’t like doing that to my kids.
What a rude selfish jerk!!!
I know this is more a post for female points of view, but as a husband and father of 3, I dont stop for food on my way home without picking up food for the Wifey and kids. They will always be my top priority. I eat only once they are fed. And to me it seems selfish that he doesnt at the very least call or text to see if you guys want anything.
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Every one has a cellphone, so yeah, it would be nice to get a call asking if y’all wanted anything. If he doesn’t want to share he needs to eat it before he gets home.
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That’s fu, but is the frig empty? Imma be a lil po’ed maybe, but Definitely Not Hungry., pregnant or not.
Make him share. You and your Son should go take bites of his food. He’ll get the point… Eventually.
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Well why are you telling us tell him. He need to know how you feel about not bringing you and the son food home as well. Then again are you cooking for him and he can microwave when he gets home. Sure would save money if there was a prepared meal to warm up.
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This is nonsense and is stupid to get mad over it… simply talk to him!!! COMMUNICATION IS IMPORTANT 
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Well to me it’s according to what time he is coming in with his food - if it’s late like 11pm when he gets off he’s probably thinking you are in bed and the child as well - if it’s early a.m. again he is probably thinking you are still in bed or have already fixed your morning meal before he gets home but if it’s something that seems to truly bother you bring it up to him and let him know that whatever hour of the day/night it is you want food for your child and yourself as well so that you all can sit and eat a meal together before he retires to sleep - very simple solution and not really a big issue until you make it one. Good luck.
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What the. Is he a caveman or something 
I’m not pregnant and my kids are grown,but my husband always asks and so do my adult kids. It’s just common curtsy🤷♀️especially if there are young kids in the house.
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That shows he doesnt care honestly because who does that? And repeatedly?? Um, no.
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That’s rude af. I would definitely talk to him. If he doesn’t see anything wrong with it I would just eat his food before he could.
I think that they just don’t think…
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You probably shouldn’t reproduce with him ever again.
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Oh no… That is so rude… Pregnant or not, that would piss me off and hurt my feelings
Most Men don’t think about these things you need to communicate with him. I’d be pissed too but I’d also communicate with my husband and i know that would never happen again. Communicate is key❤
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See how you feel make sure you teach your son better so his wife won’t suffer. Tell him he is being rude hut not bringing u guys anything
My men of he eat out he always call me to ask of I want some to eat
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Maybe you should start cooking!
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He is a CPU in the matrix.
He is rude and selfish, my husband always thinks of the us(kids and i) and always brings us food if he happens to buy any!
I’m extremely weird about food. If you don’t have enough to share do not bring it inside my house in front of my children.
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Your husband is one inconsiderate mofo… especially not offering to bring you or your son anything to eat says how much he cares only about himself and not about you guys at all. It will get worse once your second baby is here, please make it known to him how you are feeling especially being pregnant and having to look at the food and smell it is a real d*ck move on his part.
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He’s tired hungry. He most likely gets fast food because obviously someone is not making him dinner. If you’re that hungry make food I’m sure there’s food in the fridge. 
Congrats on your pregnancy 
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Omg that is soo freaking rude. Annoying as hell. 
. Ugh I would kill him. Idk why that just makes me soo mad lol
Does he do this because you do not have him a meal cooked or just being inconsiderate?
It’s rude that he does it and doesn’t even think to call you an ask if you’d like something!
He could at least call. Only selfish people do that kind of stuff!
Jack Brown imagine if you did this. Pretty sure your face would be slammed in your food still holding that grudge you bought maccas hashbrowns when I was at work haha
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Its rude and even extra rude that he does this while you’re pregnant! Totally inconsiderate imo
I’ve had to pound this into my husband’s head— if you don’t have enough to share don’t let anyone else see it. I don’t care that he gets himself a snack but he can’t eat it where the kids can beg for it because I don’t want them throwing fit bc dad won’t share or there’s none for them.
On the other hand, HAVE A DISCUSSION WITH HIM ABOUT IT!! If he’s eating supper from somewhere at a ‘normal’ supper time, then why is he not eating with you at home? Make a plan to have him bring everyone food or tell him what’s waiting for him at home. If he’s eating later after normal time, request he eat on his drive home or get you kid to bed prior to him bringing food inside.
Life is a Two way street. Don’t run him over
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He’s rude, selfish and inconsiderate. Yes I’d be upset too and consider dumping him. That’s not ok.
My husband always brings me and the kids food home if he goes out. The only time he doesnt is when he gets himself something for lunch or breakfast at work. I’m sorry hes like that to you both.
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Sometimes they need to be reminded that they’re not being considerate.
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If he’s doing it after work he probably is spaced out not thinking after a late shift and probably super hungry himself. Just talk to him and tell him nicely that it would be lovely if he would consider you both too.
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Is he getting home after you’ve eaten? Maybe he thinks you’ve already had dinner?
Have you tried to talk to him about this?
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Why don’t you just ask him to bring you something too. “Hey honey, if you stop to get something to eat, can you bring me blah blah blah?”
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The # of ppl not reading is killing me. My husband works NIGHTS too. And he definitely does not do this. He will at the very least call me and ask if i want him to grab something for me and the kids too. Its basic consideration and apparently your SO doesn’t have that. And everyone saying oh. He is tired, puhleez. I work days and sometime my hubby only gets 4 hours of sleep during the day and the next morning he can still remember me and the kids. Just talk to your man and tell him its hurts you and makes you feel like he doesn’t care about you and your littles.
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Nope. Inconsiderate.
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He’s wrong, he should call, ask you if you want something. No excuse. She’s not his servant, he works Midnight he can still call .
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That’s rude asf. Pull him up on it because that sort of inconsiderate behaviour is not on, he has a family and needs to be thinking of more than just himself.
Its rude, inconsiderate, selfish.
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he sounds like kind of a jerk
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Call him when he’s on his way home and ask him what he’s bringing you ???
Then they expect you to always bring them something and get mad at you when you all of a sudden stop. like okay ken this inst a one sided street. Like we’re always thoughtful while their not. It’s almost like we have to remind them that we do exist and that we do happen to be hungry and they do know what we like. But he could’ve also thought you already ate. But it doesn’t hurt to call up and ask.
I would be mad, I will cook dinner then decide I want fast food and my husband picks it up for me on his way home from work then comes home and eats what I cook. Mostly because he doesn’t like me when I’m hangry But it’s about the thought, I’d tell him how shitty it makes you feel.
My husband does this, too! Is yours a Pisces, by any chance?
Be mad be pregnant mad! Haha
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Rude AF. Selfish and just awful.
Can’t believe how big of a deal this is…everyone is different I guess. If this is something that bothers you just talk to him, plain and simple. He is a man, not a mind reader…if he is working nights chances are he is tired, not thinking, and just getting someth quick and fast before goin to sleep
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You have a right to be upset. Okay, you’re probably more upset than a non-pregnant wife would be, but still. That being said, he’s not a mind reader. Tell him what’s bothering you.
This is BS.
I’d lose my cool… its inconsiderate…
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That’s just plain rude. My Mom taught us that if you don’t have enough for everybody you don’t eat it in front of them.
If it’s that he’s not realised then mention it, if he knows then he’s rude & very inconsiderate.
It’s definitely your hormones. You could either prepare breakfast so that you can all eat together or open your mouth like an adult and tell him you’d like him to grab breakfast for the entire house in the morning. Here’s a novel idea: alternate doing both.
My mom taught me to never eat in front of anyone if you didn’t offer or bring them any! That’s just common courtesy… but your pregnant wife 
that’s just low. Now I’m mad 
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Honestly working night shifts are exhausting. I know this from experience when you get off work believe me the only thing on my mind is food and sleep. Half of the time when I get off work and buy my self food I forget to buy my son food Bc I’m exhausted. So it happens.
Tell him what you want. Then if he doesn’t bring you anything, you have your answer! He is selfish!
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How have you not said anything and he has got to Husband status…that is so rude. I would have let it go MAYBE 3 times…max then been like…THANKS! And taken his food and eaten it in front of him…coz I’m petty .
Sometimes u are not even hungry but the thought of him bringing food for himself and not my kids and I… Its morals just to be asked is a nice feeling.
Nah sis, that’s just rude……especially kids……
Some folks have no home training……
What a pig! I’d go mental if my hubby did that
I work nights and I stop in the mornings on my way home some times. I always bring my fiance’ something. Sounds like a jerk.
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Inconsiderate selfish jerk
Just sit at the table and eat from his food. He’ll get the idea
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No excuse!!! You bring for your family point blank !!! Tf
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My EX would bring home food and sit and eat it on the end of my bed when I was ill (not pregnant). Even tho I hadn’t eaten all day! He was very selfish, abusive, violent. Obviously all men aren’t like him, but this selfishness leads to a sense of entitlement.
For goodness sakes just ask him to bring you some food too sometimrs! Why are you making something so simple into a mountain??
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