Bloody rude. Be nice to just ring you and ask.
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I was a 3rd worker for 6 years, I always brought breakfast home to my husband and kids in the mornings if I stopped for food thats just common sense lol. Its okay to be upset with food especially when your pregnant 
i cried over cheeseburger dip when I was 8 months pregnant that I was too sick to eat during dinner so I was ready for left overs because I dreamt about it and come to find out my inconsiderate husband ate it all in the middle of the night:rofl: i was bawling.
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No you’re not I’d be pissed and I’m no longer pregnant granted I am 6 wks pp but even if I was not I’d still be upset like that’s not cool at all imo
Have You Said anything To Him about it? Yeah He Should at Least ask You, Buf He also Can’t Read Your Mind. Just Bring it up To Him, i’m Sure He’ll Understand.
i Loved The “I’m Just Hungry, okay!” 
Lol
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All im thinking is if he work nights, surely he’s coming home early morning 
Why would you or your son want fast food anyway?
And knowone wants to reheat fast food
Or maybe I’m confused but if he works nights why would he be coming home for tea 
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Take it off him and give ur son half
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Why is he in a routine of getting meals before coming home? You stated that you are hungry. Why aren’t you making something for all of you. He knows that he isn’t going to get a meal when he gets home. Sounds like communication issues on both your part.
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Rude and disrespectful
How rude!.. seriously tho tell him to bring you some food too, this mumma wants food.
He just got off and didnt think about it. Just tell him u want something next time he stops.
Wow and hes gonna eat tasty treats in front of not only his child but pregnant lady. I’d leave him if hes like that I doubt theres much else too impressive about him if he doesnt know how to be considerate.
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How rude that’s what you call TIGHT
He should call and ask if you want anything. Just talk to him and tell him that you would like him to bring home food for all of you
How fcken rude if mine did that I’d throw it in his face 
Say to him wheres mine then
He’s a selfish Douche canoe
Maybe he assumes you ate already or cooked something. Just tell him to ask you next time. Also maybe you should be making dinner for everyone if you are a stay at home mom…
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Maybe text him:
“hey babe! Can you grab me something to eat on your way home?! The babies and I are starved!”
Men aren’t mind readers. He just worked all night and is just thinking about food and sleep.
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It is inconsiderate, but at the same time, let him know you want something? Being at home, you’d have food at your disposal, so of you were hungry, he’d figure you’d make yourself something. To me, that’s just common sense.
Is he autistic? If so he wont unless u specifically ask him. They dont pick up on social clues too well thats y i ask.
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Have you asked him to? It would be nice if he offered without askinghim…but… whatcha gonna do… some people are unthoughful
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Maybe he assumed that you ate by time he gets home .so he gets himself something to eat so not to bother you
How about right before he gets off text or call him to bring you both something to eat . Easy as that
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He could just be completely oblivious to the fact that he should at least ask. Let him know if he gets food to see if you want anything. Or before he leaves for work let him know you want food when he’s off.
That’s rude. I work nights & if I stop for food, I always grab something for my son & my boyfriend. Even if they don’t want it.
There are so many things about this… pregnancy, fast food, young son and late at night- do these things go together? Maybe she has gestational diabetes and shouldn’t eat crap. Second, is she not cooking? Third, are they not communicating? Fourth, what does “nights” mean and what does he do?.. 11pm is different than 2am or 7am. If he’s an Uber driver, that is different than a nurse or someone who works shift work. It’s difficult to give an opinion when there is limited info.
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You can’t go grab fast food for yourself during the day or whatever?
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Why would you want fast food for you and your son at your breakfast time? Do you not do dinner for your husband after his night shift? Can be made when you and your son have dinner and reheated?? Maybe then he wouldn’t be getting fast food 
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Oh no that’s not ok. One thing if he’s eating it when your not around but to eat it in front of you??!! Hell no! Especially while your pregnant! My husband would have gotten the full pregnancy hormone screaming if he ever did that to me but he knew better lol. Defs say something as it’s down right rude!
AHAHAHAHAHA I feel like this is definitely a hormone issue
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Wow ya that’s not ok my partner wouldn’t dare lol
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It’s rude, he wouldn’t like that if you did it to him
He probably assumes you already ate. Make it known that you want some food too woman lol.
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Yea it is inconsiderate of him BUT…he works nights and I am assuming he brings breakfast home if both you and your son are awake when he gets home so why don’t you start making breakfast for all of you and have breakfast as a family?
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Why don’t you just….idk…talk to him about it? 
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Mad rude-I rarely stop for fast food but when I do I purchase enough for everyone. I dont call home and take everyone’s orders, but I just pick items I know my family likes.
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Do I have a right to be upset that my husband never brings me food?
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My partner is the same way. He never thinks to do things like this, even though I always think of him. It is rude but some men are truly oblivious. He clearly needs you to tell him in very simple English what you want him to do. Some guys really are that clueless even if they are smart. Good Luck!
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Well my husband is an only child and he frequently surprises me with how comfortable and natural he is at putting himself first.
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Your hubby isn’t thinking you might want something too.
Try calling him and ask him before he gets off work that you feel like having a Hamburger. Maybe just maybe he will start calling you to ask, if you need something from a fast food. Dont hurt to try
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That’s very inconsiderate especially with you being pregnant. But even if you weren’t he still should text you to see if you want anything. My Hubby works late too and we always check in with each other to figure out dinner, either I have something made for him or he picks stuff up on the way home.
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Well you can sit and stew or you can tell him why your miffed. Is he miffed bc you don’t have his dinner ready when he gets home? Either way you need a heart to heart chat.
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Say so!! Tell him to bring you dinner or to text and ask if you want anything. And say so each time he does it! How inconsiderate of him. Make yourselves a lovely dinner and you and your son eat it in front of him and be sure there are no leftovers!
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If my husband dared to get take out not offer myself or our children anything and tried to sit in front of us and eat it, it probably be his last meal lol 
thats rude af!
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Have that convo with him. I cannot ever go home or to anyone’s house with food for myself and nothing for anyone else. If I don’t have enough I’ll eat it before going inside. It’s his wife and kid, he could atleast call and ask. Definitely speak to him about it and if he continues, take it from there.
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That is rude. Order doordash and have you and your son breakfast delivered a few times. Maybe he’ll catch on. Sending positive thoughts for you and your babies.
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That’s rude, insensitive, and selfish. I’m sure there are more words that would describe his lack of thinking about you and your son. Does he expect to eat what you cook?
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I wonder if she’s said anything to him about it. Communication is key, and if he doesn’t know it bothers her, he won’t think anything about it. If she’s said something to him, and told him it upsets her, and he’s still doing it, that’s another situation. At that point, it is inconsiderate and rude. But just because he doesn’t think to buy them food, doesn’t mean he’s trying to be inconsiderate.
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Rude…he may assume you all have already eaten since you mention he works a later shift …but it is still rude that he doesn’t offer
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He probably assumes that since you’re home you’ve already fixed a meal for yourself and child and while your at it make him a plate after all extra savings with baby on the way.
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Say something!! Say hey next time call to see if we want something.This is a little thing.
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Oh hell no. my husband would be going back to get me something. We text each other if we are stopping to get something to see what the other wants.
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I think maybe because I worked the night shift for 27 years, I don’t think he’s being rude at all. He’s tired and hungry and doesn’t feel like cooking himself something before he goes to bed. He’s not a freaking mind reader. Ask him if he would pick up food for yourself and the kids too. Although that could get expensive.
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Selfish much? I work day in day out first thing I do when I come home make sure wife n kids eat FIRST! I could be starving n hangry but my priorities are to ensure my family is good FIRST!
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The rule here is if you bring in outside food you bring for all its very unfair not to. But i had to talk to my man about it before he understood it sometimes i think they are blinded by their own needs and dont think of others
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WOW, for real? My husband would NEVER do that, in fact he surprises me all the time with goodies, I would be pissed😡
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Definitely not thoughtful. But say something and if he does it again…
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It could be the hormones but it’s also not right. I’d be mad asf if my man came home with food & didn’t even offer to get me or my kids anything. It doesn’t hurt to be considerate, maybe trying bringing it up to him.
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You have every right to feel upset. It’s very inconsiderate on his part.
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I say if this is the only thing he doesn’t do, leave the man alone. He works nights which is never an easy schedule. Men can’t read our minds, if you want something say something. Also I actually think it is considerate that he buys food on the way home instead of expecting you to have food ready when he gets home.
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He’s totally being rude! My hubby works nights and brings breakfast for him and our son every morning. I don’t eat breakfast or he’d bring me something too 
You should talk to him about it. He may not even realize what he’s doing.
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Well, maybe he figures y’all have already eaten. Do u ever have a meal ready for him when he gets home? Fast food all the time isn’t good for anyone, especially the boy. So maybe you should think about him.
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What time does he get home? My husband worked the night shift and did not get home until after 12 midnight. The children were always in bed and had been fed earlier in the evening and I had also eaten earlier. I never had a problem as I did not have to prepare him food and could go to bed early if I wanted. If I did want some food I always told him to bring me something and he did. All I had to do was ask.
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No its rude as Hell! He know damn well he is coming home to a house with other people. Give him that same energy when you cook food.
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I wouldn’t even eat in front of a guest. That’s just ugly behavior lol
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Try making a great dinner for you and your son and eat it right in front of your husband or you could be a little more mature and discuss the issue. Good luck.
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Text him a half hour before he leaves work and say if your getting food on your way home it better be enough for all of us
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Rude just take it from him and give some to your son then sit down and start eating then ask him didn’t you get yourself something?
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good luck. you married him. if his behavior was okay with you before you became pregnant, then it’s on you now. he’s apparently not sensitive to you and your family’s needs. he probably never was…
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Rude. Thoughtless. Unkind. I would be angry, but I hope you can just say, “that looks good. I think I’ll eat half…or maybe next time you can bring some for me and—-, as well. That will be GREAT!”
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You eat at home with your son,good home made meal…he gets off work and picks up his meal on the way home. Where is his dinner, yeah the one you cook for yourself and your son. God bless.
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Sounds rude but something else is going on. Did he by any chance suggest bringing home cooked meals to work and got a no? Baby on the way should be a reason to save. Did he bring anything in the past and it became your excuse why you shouldn’t cook. He is made to look like the bad one but honestly looks like something is missing in the story.
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So next time you cook, just cook for yourself!
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Damn girl complain to him!!! That’s rude and mean. Or take your self out and your son and go get something yummy for you guys and eat it in front of him! Thats what I would do.
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Have you asked him to bring some extra home?
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Be a grown ass woman who talks to her husband instead of asking people who you dont know and who dont know you or you husband on social media…
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He is disrespecting you and your son. If he was going to eat out and not include his family he shouldn’t bring it home. He’s not thinking about anyone but himself.
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Anyone consider the fact that he doesn’t have dinner ready when he comes home after work? I am assuming mom and child ate earlier. Something doesn’t make sense here.
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You being pregnant or not… That is very uncool of him and I’d be pissed too.
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It’s very Rude. Don’t fix him anything to eat before he goes to work. He won’t like that. But it is the same thing.
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If he was a real man he would look after you and your son
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My son in-law used to do that and now he is my ex son-in-law .
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Extremely rude and selfish. My husband would never. He usually calls me on the way home and ask if I want something or the kids and he won’t get anything.
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That is rude and inconsiderate - This can’t be the only thing he does like this. 36 weeks pregnant and he just enjoys doing for himself and ignoring his pregnant wife and child.That’s Dead Wrong !!!
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Is he frustrated that you don’t cook or have food ready for him & he has to stop & buy some? So he is going to eat it in front of you because he is hungry & there’s nothing to eat when he gets home??? Just trying to think why he would do this….if not, then yes he is being rude! He should text or call & ask if you two want something .
It is rude to eat in front of other people unless you have food for them!! It is called common courtesy!!
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No child /anyone pregnant or anyone should never not be included in food , I myself feel uncomfortable eating infront of anyone if they are not eating it’s rude/ignorant and disrespectful…sorry that I was raise to be respectful
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Lots of men don’t think ahead. I would ask him to bring me and our son something next time… Then if he doesn’t, make a poster reminding him to bring something and put it in his vehicle. A Large Poster. He might think he is doing you a favor by not expecting you to have something fixed for him when he comes home.
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You are not being overly sensitive. It is rude, inconsiderate, and selfish for your husband to stop, and bring home food, and not offer you or your son some. I suggest you have a heart to heart talk with him and express your concern. It would be nice occasionally, if he would bring you and your son food. A little kindness goes a long way. After all you expecting his child.
Your husband works night? I’m assuming he either gets off really late your son should be in bed and he probably don’t think cause he probably figures you ate. Maybe tell him next time can he call to see if you want something. Or maybe if he gets off early morning why don’t you make him breakfast and you can all eat together. Just talk to him
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My boyfriend says I do the same thing. I work nights and sometimes I just want a burger. But he is never awake when I get home. So no I don’t think about him cause he’s asleep and I know he doesn’t like a cold burger that he reheats. So I’m not purposely forgetting him. Maybe that’s your husband too. Although it sounds like you are always awake when he gets home so yeah it’s a little rude if you know your partner is going to be awake
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Well, depends what time he gets done work! If it’s after you and your son go to bed, wouldn’t you have already eaten? Maybe you should just have leftovers there for him to eat when he gets home…healthier, cheaper and you won’t feel bad that he’s eating take out in front of you🤨
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Some men are not aware of these behaviors make some noise and let him know I want you to be more considerate .
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I am guessing maybe he assumes you all already ate dinner and he was at work and missed it so he thinks its ok?!? Maybe…I need more details, and that’s giving him the benefit of the doubt. I work nights and almost always stop to get food and drink on my way home (45m drive) sometimes I ask my SO if he wants something and sometimes I don’t but I always eat my food before getting home. I couldn’t eat on front of someone without offering…
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Some men are giving and selfless. Some are self first. Others are purely oblivious - most of the time. Remind him a few times that you would like to be included once in a while. Exclude him the next time you have the chance. Life’s a compromise when you are married. And hopefully he has other fine qualities.
We were always taught not to eat in front of others. That is so rude to sit and eat in front of you and your son.
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He is rude and thoughtless and you can tell him this from me a Jersey girl.
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Its rude! I have one like that and I’m old! If he makes food, he makes it only for himself. His only concern is himself. Saying anything goes in 1 ear and out the other.
Hopefully yours might get it if you say something.
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It’s time for you to teach him how to treat you. Many times it is due to the way he has been raised. You are his helper in this marriage. Help him to become a better person. It is part of showing his love for you. He does not realize that. You can do this together my dear. All the best 
Ephesians 5:28,29
More than likely half of it is hormones but yes that is rude just say hey when you get fast food could you call or text and ask if we want anything
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Do you make him dinner and does he have food ready to eat there? My idea is that my kids and man are at home with EVERYTHING there to eat…I have this boxed lunch. Maybe you should say something to him
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