He should at least see if you want something
pregnant or not it’s rude. I was raised to not eat in front of others. Something I still do to this day and my kids do as well.
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Leave him. He will do this in other ways, in bigger situations. It’s a reflection of who he is. Run away and don’t look back, only gets worse from here
Start eating some of his food. If he don’t ask then I guess he wants to share.
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Selfish of him even if you weren’t pregnant
Very very rude, you have every right to be upset 
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Just wondering but have you mentioned you wanted food to? I’ve come to the conclusion that men don’t always just know things that we as women already know as a common sense they need to be told. Never assume anything because I bet he has no clue you want food to. But still rude to not ask
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Very rude and selfish. If your significant other doesn’t call and ask if you want or need anything they are self centred. Even my teenage kids ask me when they are out.
No you ain’t trippen, he has the obligation to call and ask if y’all would like anything!! He sounds selfish af
I’d be upset. My husband will usually call & ask if i want anything. It’s inconsiderate not to ask, let alone eat it in front of everyone.
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Umm I’d definitely be upset.
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No you are not wrong at all i find it very incinerated when someone brings home food an doesn’t bring any for anyone else it’s rude say something i would
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Thats incredibly inconsiderate and you should tell him
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I would completely lose my 
Id be having a serious talk with him about that. That is beyond low…
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He works nights…so that would mean he is coming home in the early morning …around breakfast …now do you have anything prepared for him?
I ask that cause i worked nights for a spell and i came home dead tired ,hungry sometimes there was food sometimes i just bought a burger …
No kid should be eating a burger at 7 in the morning .
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Nah hes rude. Chew on him next time. He will get it. Literally show him how hungry. Walk over and take a bite out of him.
Tell him. You aren’t extra. That’s just plain rude of him.
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For all you ladies who are saying that’s rude …i guess you never worked nights. . nights to me is coming home at 5,67 am dead tired …
So you are home why isnt a plate there waiting for him?
You are 36 weeks pregnant , so you are home ,you fed your child so you made something or did you?
He is out working providing a home and you can’t be bothered to feed him? Yet you complain when he feeds himself ,. Some fast food garbage to fill the void …
Then have the gaul to call him selfish!! Wow …
Kraft dinner is $1 a box …bunch of lazy chicks
No he should ask if there is anything you want. That’s just mean honestly…start asking for bites of his food.
I would’ve threw a whole shit fit fr. That Is NOT cool at all!
Very very rude you should tell him why do you only by food for you and not for your son and me
I’ve worked night shift for yrs and you’re on a completely different schedule than the rest of the world. He just wants to go home eat, take a shower and go to sleep. He probably thinks you have a routine and doesn’t want to interrupt it. If it bothers you say something.
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That is so very inconsiderate…he shouldnt be told to think of you…it literally takes 10 seconds to text, hey I’m at ___want anything??? Especially knowing your pregnant.
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Super rude… you never bring food unless there’s enough for everyone.
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You are fine lady. I was soo irrationally upset when I was pregnant and my husband had subway w/o me one time…
He was out of town on the flip side of this, when I asked him to bring me an orange jullice from DQ, he did.
So if you ask him and he doesn’t. Yes that’s messed up. But, if you are just upset when he is eating food he wants. Normal pregnancy hormones.
It depends.if you’ve already eaten and he grabs food on the way home from work I wouldn’t think anything of it but if he doesn’t even check in with you guys and comes home and eats in front of you guys pregnant or not I’d be upset 
maybe he doesn’t realize he’s being rude.try telling him how you feel if you haven’t already
He is wrong on so many levels. You wrong for not saying anything to him
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Obviously he’s inconsiderate. If this has been going on for quite awhile now then what more proof do you want or need.
I say do own home thing and when it’s time to eat then prepare just enough for you and your son before he gets home. Don’t be hungry when it’s time for him to get up one and eat. But don’t leave any leftovers either.
My view is that there’s not really much going on in this relationship that seems to be positive.
If you’re all Gaga over him then good luck.
Maybe hes over tired and just forgets cause he is in the mode of get home to you guys as soon as. Yes he should have offered but sometimes men can be forgetful without intention. Maybe just text him and ask him if hes going there can he grab you such and such. Not buying you food shouldnt be a reason you argue, theres far worse situations happening in thw world rn, life is to short to get pissed over some food.
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Have you said anything to him? I mean he should ask you but if he doesn’t know it’s a problem he can’t fix it. 
good luck with getting the om noms.
I promise you I would snatch that shit and put it straight in the trash.
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Nope thats rude as hell n id throw his food in the trash he will learn to bring home food for all or he’s not eating either
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I worked nights like till 10\11pm I would get home n wanna crash I would get food on my way home my ex who was waiting to depart from mi casa would ask me why didn’t u get me food… My answer was it’s after 11pm if u haven’t ate by now we’re u really that hungry or was it cause u seen me with food??? Lol
That is so rude to you and your son. He should be ashamed of his self when you make dinner get you and your son a plate. He can get his own from now on
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Seems to be a mean selfish prat…
How does he know if you want somthing unless u say it, ffs, and he dont ask, how did your communication get so bad
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If you did the same thing what would he do?
Definitely rude as fuck! I’d go mad 
ESPECIALLY IF I WAS PREGNANT OMG he’d be out the door going to get me some!
Oh my god I would so divorce him!! When I was heavily pregnant with my first, my partner (at the time) thought it was acceptable to go out for food without me…so I threw my iPhone out of the bedroom window. Let me tell you know, he NEVER went for food without me after that😂He also didn’t even dare have a go at me for smashing my phone because he knew he was in the wrong😂
No your not being over emotional…pregnant or not… that’s just straight up rude.iggnorant.selfish and he deserves a big fuck you. Seriously.
So what you do is if you cook dinner don’t cook any for him until he realises that it upsets him and he says something then bring it up. Either that or the next time he walks in with food slap him upside his head😒
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This is not Okay!!!
Did you communicate this to your husband in a calm manner that you might as well like some micky ds once in a while?
Talk to your partner b4 just hopping on the internet
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Disrespectful inconsiderate
Yes that’s ignorant. I was raised that you NEVER eat Infront of anyone while they don’t have food. What a selfish pos. And your pregnant??? That is 50 times worse. He should be ashamed of himself. If ur really hungry I would tell him u want food before he comes home since he is too dumb to consider you.
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Have you ever asked if you can have a bit he may not think, I know my husband somwtimws brings stuff home if he’s coming home late I say we’ve eaten grab yourself somwthing, and thinking about it he used to being himself home kebab on a weds as its payday and never asked but id already fed us all as he was super late but if I asked he’d share so if you have asked and he won’t share thats tight lol x
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Wow.a lot in this!!!no communication, selfish,no excuse.if you cook n look after him he should ask you do you want anything when he’s out weather it’s food or something in shop on d way home.i would love to know what he’s generally like at home.this may sound small but is a red flag on how he’s thinking. I would discuss it n how you feel n cook for just you n your kids n leave him iron n make his own food n see does he get d message.he prob will say he works hard as defence but work is only a piece of life.it doesn’t cover support. Kindness.n communication xxx
Have u actually asked
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Guys don’t think about stuff like this… just be open and honest that it is bothering you and that you would like him to bring you and the kiddo something to eat as well…
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Do I have a right to be upset that my husband never brings me food?
Sounds like a douche, who does that to anyone
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That’s selfish and kinda rude.
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No that’s rude and very inconsiderate
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The offer would be nice
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I would be livid pregnant or not
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He’s definitely an asshole
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Damn he is so rude! I agree and selfish!
You are right, its rude. Talk to him about it.
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Sounds like a right selfish prick! Bin him!
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Next time you make a meal don’t make any for him.,
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I would just mention as he leaves when u stop tonight pick us up something too pls…
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Damn he could atleast not eat it in front of yall…
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He should still offer but If he works night maybe he just assumes you ate already and doesn’t think anything of it🤷🏻♀️ I would just talk to him about it so knows for the next time
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It’s very selfish and rude. He could at least ask if you or your son would like something.
Yes u should be upset
Maybe stop making food!
A man should know better when he have home, wife & kids
Maybe you could just let him know that sometimes you and your child want breakfast too? Maybe he’s been doing this for so long and just doesn’t think about it… if you’ve never said anything?
He’s a 
head…
as if he doesn’t bring u or ur/his son anything, pregnant or not that’s a y thing to do, 14 years down the line n my fella still asks me if me or our daughter would like anything, maybe he knows I’d whoop his butt if he didn’t but I’ve never not been asked, could be ur hormones as to why it’s bothering u so much however I do think it’s rude x
Nah that’s pure rudeness, how would he like it if u cooked for just yourself and your son and didn’t make him anything and then ate in front of him lool nooo
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Have you told him you want food at night ?
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Pregnant or not that would piss me off 
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Rude definitely. You don’t eat in front of hungry kids or hungry family without offering or bringing them something.
Have you told him you wanted for him to pick you up dinner too? If you don’t say anything, he may play dumb. Tell him to think of more than himself.
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It’s rude…he should kind of be thinking um pregnant wifey is probably hungry and the kiddo too, am I cooking real quick or grabbing dinner for everyone? Pregnant or not, just rude 
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He is rude and disrespectful
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Very rude just very rude in considerate and arrogant
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It’s rude… It’s mean and he is inconsiderate…
I mean… have you tried asking him to pick you something up? The man just got off work & is hungry. That isn’t a crime
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I wouldnt say he’s selfish but maybe just didn’t think you’d want anything since you’re at home. I would just tell him that sometimes his food smells so good and you’d like some next time he goes.
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Seriously… who tf doesn’t bring their woman food ?!?.. let alone their PREGNANT woman… nah he’s being selfish.
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I woulda mentally slapped that food outta his hands. That’s messed up.
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I’m so sorry you have to deal with that!!!
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Nope it’s rude I tell my husband off for doing things without asking me and my son
Sometimes guys don’t stop and think, say something if it bothers you that much.
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Most my exs And friends and family always asked .douche move …your not overreacting its rude he should be considerate to you. but tell him its rude and you want him to ask . some guys are dumb and dont even know their doing anything wrong .ive found that out you would think they would think of you but nope
I would say something about it. It just rude to eat in front of someone especially if you know that havent eaten dinner as well.
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I would be PISSED. Incredibly rude regardless of pregnancy. Always check and ask people at home if they need anything before I come home… Its even more rude because you are growing his baby and mommas need snacks!
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I would have said something the first time it happened. Perhaps you are too accommodating.
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Sometimes men can’t read womans mind you must tell him what you want. Like with my partner if I don’t tell him I want something when he goes home will not bother to bring any.
He doesn’t know what you want if you don’t tell him. No-one is a mind reader. Communicate.
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That’s down right mean
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Its fucking rude!!! I would door dash the shirt out of his debit card
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It’s rude - but ask him if he stops if he could check in and see if you want anything please- if he still doesn’t then I’d be upset - then that is plain rude
To be honest that’s so disrespectful, Rude, selfish, and a real ASSHOLE…
You don’t even do that to your friends, let alone to your wife and child…absolutely a Dog…
I would fuck him off in a heart beat…and raise the kids…you don’t want to be teaching your kids to be like that…if they keep seeing that…
More shock that he does it to his own fucking child…fuckhead…
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I have more questions. It says he works nights so is he getting home after dinner and thinks you already ate? Do you save dinner for him? Have you mentioned that it would be nice to get a call to ask if you want anything. Oh and yes you’re hangry!!
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I would be upset too that’s rude , you should say something
If you are not having a conversation with him about it…the issue can’t be resolved. He may think that you may have already eaten, especially since he is working the night shift.
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What a wanker. Please tell me you don’t feed it??
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Women before bringing children in the world, choose their fathers wisely
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I would be pissed as hell!!
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Communication goes a long way. Talk to him about it. Sheesh.
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