What you will allow will continue. 
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That’s just thoughtless and rude.
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Oh I would have been a smartass the very 1st time he came in without me some food. Lol.
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A pig 
, no matter wot he should still bring home sumtin ye like even if it’s not eaten it’s the thought that counts
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That’s ignorant , definitely bring it up with him tell him at least get your kid something
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Have you asked him to bring you something?
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I’m not even preggo and my hubby WOULD NEVER not txt or call and ask if I wanted something!!!
That is extremely rude! Especially to bring home and eat in front of you… 
Kinda rude of him. Do you ever make food for him when he comes home?
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I mean, do you ever cook? Offer to bring him food to work when you do so it’s hot and fresh? If he’s having to stop for fast food I’m guessing it’s because you didn’t cook…right? How is that fair to him? You’re at home all night. You can literally go get you and your son something at any time. Or idk, make something since you’re at home. You’re pregnant, not helpless girlfriend.
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All these people saying you should tell him to bring food… how about he can call you and ask you if you guys want anything??
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doesn’t he offer u any of the food or your son?
Communicate to him that maybe he could ask you if y’all wanted something as well. If he still won’t then you got a loser on your hands.
Wow … so inconsiderate and selfish. Have you brought this up to him?
I would say its rude to not even ask cuz maybe you want an ice cream or something desserty or snacky especially being prego. I would just mention it to him that it would be nice to be asked or meet him there for dessert.
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Why don’t you say something or send him your order every night lol of hes like “what??” I would be like “that’s my order so you don’t forget my food too egg” lol 
no need to get upset that’s the hormones lol
Why’s is he having to pick up food after work? Maybe he is sick of coming home to no dinner ready…
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Shit father of my child barely speaks to me… I would have a heart attack if he brought food!
Have you mentioned it to him? He may not even think of it until you do.
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That’s rude. My husband always brings home for everyone. He’ll text me if anyone is hungry.
I’d need more info to comment
Yeah, that’s rude in my book.
He is tired and hungry and thinking of his own needs. But on the other hand he is thinking you made yourself dinner. Consider this a mixed blessing and continue to take care of yourself.
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So say something to him! Ask him next time he picks up fast food could he please pick up some for you and your son. Easy peasy
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No you’re not wrong. He’s an inconsiderate a$$hole. My son’s dad did the exact same thing when we were together. It’s not because he’s stupid. It’s because he doesn’t care about you or your son.
Thats disrespectful of him. I mean my man will call if he’s on his way here stopping somewhere and see if my son and I want anything and hes not my sons dad. My sons dad and I will pick up dinner if we are going to get out child from one another and get food for the other all the time. Its just what you do.
i’d be offended af tbh
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He’s rude and selfish. I would make him go back out and get us food. Or I would never cook for him again.
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Go to the fuckin’ Fridge and make your lazy ass a Sandwich and quit whining about it! 
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You need to tell him, he probably hasn’t even realized it would bother you. Speak up!
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It’s rude. Have you asked him why he does this?
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That’s insanely rude. If he’s not gonna buy y’all some he absolutely shouldn’t be eating it in front of you two.
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If you’ve discussed it with him, yes.
If not, no not really. Men are seriously wired so differently. It probably hasn’t crossed his mind.
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Question…what did you and your child eat? Did you cook? I always cooked for my family and had a meal ready when my husband came home from work. I worked a raised 2 kids…had a full time job and went to college later in life…it just what you do…I’m not saying what he does is right but maybe you aren’t doing right either…my opinion only…
No hun, his being an ass
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Huge red flag, and he didn’t start acting like this overnight… When someone shows you their true colors stop trying to paint a different picture
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Rude. He probably doesn’t even see his selfish behaviors hurt you. SPEAK UP.
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Yeaaaaa, that would upset tf outta me! Time to make yourself the best damn dinner everrrr (for 2, you and your son) and when he gets upset just tell him you thought he was picking up something for himself later 
#impetty
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Girl if he doesn’t keep food in the house then yes it’s a problem otherwise let him eat in peace that may be the only meal he has eaten all that day… #ubetterbecookingforyourselthatbabyandyallson tf
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Hunger is a trigger for us … especially pregnant… what’s not big to them is a big thing to us. Maybe talk and say listen I need food haha xxxx
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I would be offended I never stop and get food without calling and asking my boyfriend if he want something and I always get my daughter something
tell him the next time he stops to get himself something he can either bring his son and you something or he can sit there and eat it. Stuff like this makes me mad. I am not afraid to speak up and say something
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You clearly married a selfish inconsiderate little boy
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I’d tell him how you feel . But yes very rude and selfish not to Atleast ask . And come home and eat in front of you that’s even worse . That’s freaking selfish . I’m sorry if you have a family your supposed to think of them not just yourself.
He is being rude! My ex husband did that. Even told me and kids what we couldn’t eat and what was his. Not to touch it.
Next time he walked in the house with food. As you take it out of his hands thank him for being so thoughtful. Ask him how he knew you were so hunger and he knew just what to get you.
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So not okay I’m 36weeks pregnant too if my man come home with takeaways and nothing for me I’d literally be heartbroken😂
I’d hit it out of his hand and be like ops sorry not sorry ass haha
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should not be a problem if there is ulber eats or or dominos delivery
I can see how this whole relationship is going to go just by this question.
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I Whant to know what time he is coming home from work ( night shift ) before I could comment
That’s rude. I always call home and ask if anyone would like something.
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He is selfish and rude.
That Is Horrible!!! My STBX Husband Brings Me Food, Ask Me What I Want, And At Times Will Even Cook For Me…
I’d say that’s selfish
The real question is why he got to stop to get something to eat when he got a women at home???
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Have you ever asked? Just thinking if he’s done it once and nothing was said it’s probably just easy, I do think it’s selfish of him not to offer but if he doesn’t know there’s an issue then to him there isn’t one, talk to him about it, it will make you feel better xx
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Is there any chance that he is assuming you and your son have eaten before he gets home from work? He may be thinking he’s doing you a favor by picking himself up something to eat so you don’t have to cook and take care of the kids while pregnant just try communicating with him
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You Are Not Being Selfish At All! 
From my point of view if he gets off late I would have assumed y’all ate already have cleaned up an stuff so I would grab me food instead of dirtying up the kitchen again to cook twice but if you cook after he gets home an what not then yes I would say it’s rude kinda a double edge sword an a lot more information would be needed to actually know if it’s because he is selfish we can sit an speculate all day an the opinions of others shouldn’t matter either way you can’t now go be mad at him because us strangers think it’s wrong he does something we nothing more about then your side an there wasn’t much information there except to make him look bad just my opinion on it though but as I stated I’m one of these strangers giving my advice on something very little information was given on
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Uh he’s rude and inconsiderate periodt.
Hes buying himself breakfast after working a night shift, you would buy groceries to make breakfast for you and your son I don’t see what the problem is here
Rude ! Next time make food for you and yer kid and not him when he’s expecting dinner
You have to communicate with your spouse before coming to places like facebook, because 90% of these people calling him selfish immature and inconsiderate are the same ones who should be telling you to communicate with your partner instead of dissing on your relationship
Rude. I was raise in a home that if you were bringing food you better call and see if anyone wants anything or just bring some. But realize not everyone was raise that way. So explain it to him and he most likely will understand.
You shouldn’t even have to say anything to him. Where’s the respect
My partner finishes work at 2-4am (works in a spoons) and he’ll ALWAYS atleast message me asking if I want anything even if knows I’m asleep!
I’d fully just grab it out his hand and thank him for bringing you food if I were you. He’s rude and unthoughtful.
Selfish and rude! I would tell him to eat it outside! He sure wouldn’t eat it in front of me. I am not pregnant and he would be told the heck off!
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Yeah my husband did that 1 time when I was pregnant….well I was very pregnant and found the fortune cookie on the counter. he ate at my favorite Chinese restaurant without me and thought I wouldn’t find out! I worked days, he was military on night watch. I had an hormonal pregnancy moment over the fortune cookie and he never did it again I was yelling and bawling at the same time. After that day he brought me food home every morning before work and then would get up at 2am when I was obviously wanting a Big Mac and sprite:heart: men are just kind of stupid and don’t think about hey they might like something too:joy:
COMMUNICATION!!! He isn’t a mind reader speak up 
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Maybe call or shoot him a msg to bring you and you son something too before he leaves and start driving . I normally will send a text if I want something . But if you do and he still doesn’t bring you back something then that’s just plain mean , especially when your pregnant .
Ito simple just tell him to buy for the u and ur son also
It is rude. Especially for him to eat takeout in front of a child. He should at least think about that
Even if you’re not pregnant it’s rude as fuck
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WTF so Selfish of him
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Very inconsiderate of him
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And hes tired too u should have some sympathy over him he just ate trash food from the fast food u dont even cookies him dinner
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Why having another child with a man that doesn’t care about you or your offspring? He’ll never care and you’re making your situation worse by giving him children
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Nope… I personally would be like “are you serious right now?” It’s common courtesy…
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That’s rude as hell! He could ask what y’all want at the very least. At the same time, I get that he works nights, but are you cooking dinner and leaving him a plate that just has to be warmed up? I cook dinner, but sometimes I want a taco at 2 am too! Sometimes we just want something different. So, yes, not bringing or even asking if you and y’all’s son want something IS rude, but does he have the option of a hot meal to come home to? My husband has worked all different shifts. I’m no stranger to getting up and heating him up something I had earlier or just waiting til he’s almost off work and THEN making dinner. (I know that doesn’t work for everyone but even the smallest efforts go a long way.)
Definitely rude husband
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I would be asking him, his answer will tell you what you need to know.
If he gets defensive? He’s an ass.
If he apologises? He didn’t think to get you anything or may have thought you had eaten before he got home.
If he apologises and does it again? He’s an ass.
One question, do you share finances or keep seperate bank accounts?
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He’s rude. Trade him in ASAP!!
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Totally rude and inconsiderate!! Don’t cook for him anymore !!!
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My father always told me ”if you’re gonna bring something home, you better make sure theirs enough for everybody, or don’t bring nothing at all.”
I think his rude but I also think your emotions are over reacting and maybe just tell him to bring you food next time instead of moaning about it on here, it really is that simple! Are you even married if you don’t ask where yours is when he comes home without food for you 
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Very ignorant and selfish of him
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It’s rude, he should’ve at least asked.
When I’m at work all day and come home late I am under the assumption everyone else has eaten. Occasionally I’ll stop and grab something to eat because I’m exhausted and don’t want to come home to cook. On days my partner tells me he didn’t have a chance to eat yet of course I call and ask if he wants something. It’s about communication. Tell him. If you have food at home you can’t expect him to want to parent you. Speak up.
Almost everybody has a cell phone now. Text him in his last hour of work and remind him to bring you something from wherever he stops. Then if he doesn’t, you two need to have a talk.
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Go out and buy food for your son and yourself and dont even allow him to smell it. Or ask him if he ever thought about you and your child when he is not at home.
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Thats rude as F.Nxt time he does it say something shit gimmie your number you dnt wanna be the bad guy i will dam🤦
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He should call and ask if you want some too? You’re right to be mad. ://
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How about telling him to pick you guys up something…hes probably not a mind reader
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That’s down right effin rude
It is rude. Talk to him about it.
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You’re right ,he’s rude
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She could get in the kitchen and cook him some breakfast so he don’t have to buy it on the way home, if she is sitting at home waiting then why not cook something?, But sure he should ask if she wants anything when he gets food, but she could also ask if he wants anything.
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You already know the answer to this. Why are you allowing this man to treat you this way. But most of all why are you allowing him to treat your son this way
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