That’s really weird to me.
I would start cooking for only u and your son and go out of your way to order food and not for him since yall in a roomate relationship
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You shouldn’t be eating that trash. Why don’t you just tell him to bring yall something too?
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That is rude but you should tell him he should think of you and your family
People aren’t mind readers…tell him you’d appreciate it if he brought y’all some food as well.
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IMO, it is indeed selfish and rude. But, as a former shrink asked me about a similar situation I was having with my now ex, “did you ask him”? Didn’t feel I needed to (seemed obvious to me) but tried her suggestion. It worked. Didn’t make him any less rude or selfish, though. And he admitted he didn’t need to change. So, I divorced him!
Its definitely selfish. I wouldn’t cook him anything or buy him anything either. Even if he doesnt buy for you…what about his son. Rude asf idc.
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That rude , he doesn’t think if his pregnant wife , hm .
if you are hungey, make something to eat.
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Depends on the night shift he works. He legit probably thinks you have already eaten and fed your child if there is food in the house. 2nd shift is normally 10 or 11 pm finish time around here. Do y’all stay up waiting on him to get home or are all of you on the night schedule? Could he possibly think u will be asleep when he gets home so he isn’t intentionally trying to rude? Chances are he is tired and hungry so grabs the easiest thing and comes home. My husband still works 3rd and did during all my pregnancies. He would grab stuff all the time before work or after it if he was hungry. Just bc he didn’t feel like making something at home. If I wanted something I would tell him before he left to grab me something on the way in when he stopped. It’s really that simple. Just tell him u want him to, then if he doesn’t you know how he is straight up.
Men are oblivious and dumb. Spell it out for him
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Rude as hell.Who would do that?It has nothing to do with mind reading.It’s called looking out for your family
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Your right…very selfish of him.
That is very selfish of him to not consider you and your child, I’d be highly upset pregnant or not
Definitely rude. Some people need to be taught to think of others. Take advantage of those teachable moments.
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I think that some people here are petty and vengeful. Tell him babe let me know before you pick stuff up cause I’m hungry too… then if he doesn’t do it THEN don’t cook him anything anymore or arrange for food. Lol at least give him a chance before all the pettiness.
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My husband always calls on his way to see if I need or want anything 
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Start cooking for only you and your baby bet money he’ll start calling asking what y’all want to eat. Don’t play with my food especially while I’m pregnant with your child fool
You’re not wrong hes damn rude if he can’t bring you or your guys son food he needs to eat the food before his rude ass gets home if you get a chance to get out go get just you & your son food
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A rude selfish jerk! You need to confront him & tell him he is being rude.
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What’s your financial situation?Fast food for three is expensive. Maybe he figures you’re all fed and he’s hungry but can’t budget to feed 3 every night on top of groceries for the house 
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My battered ex friend’s husband is like that. He is okey letting them watch while he eats eventhough he knows they have not eaten yet.
#psychotichusband
Its definitely not right. My husband may God rest his soul use to do that to me and I never understood how he could be so selfish in that manner. You need to say something to him. Saying something didn’t help me but ur husband may be different.
pregnant or not that is rude af…never bring food home or anywhere and not consider the people in that home especially your own wife n child! I don’t even do that rude shit at a friend’s house! I will offer! and if I’m broke then my ass is stuffing my face before I get off my car!
rude af
Have you told him you want some food?
I’d walk over there and snatch that burger out of his hand and growl at him as you ate it…
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He is rude and selfish!!
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I know some men have to be told, but he has a pregnant wife and a son waiting at home. Hello, common sense, at least call you and ask you before he gets home.
I think now you should bring it up. Or give him money the night before and say "Would you mind picking up ____ for us?
This is a deal breaker for me.
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Well let me just say this any man who can sit and eat in front of his family and them with out is not right sad thing is iv seen people like this who can get a women pregnet and just dont care for them and its not right u need to do whats right for the child and yourself
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My abuse and battered wife ex friend’s husband is like that. He can eat a whole meal in front of them eventhough he knows they are starving because they have not eaten the whole day. It is not just selfish… it is a sign 9f being pyschotic. you dont want your son to be like him.
Very inconsiderate of him, lawd sounds like a really selfish cow. I can’t even think how could your husband even think this is appropriate to do. I would be that bi that gets up before he comes home and make the most delicious breakfast and don’t include him, just so i can tell him about himself if he even tries to say something 
How down right disrespectful . That is abuse Neglect.
Did you try telling him how you feel rather than the internet?
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Pregnant or not, that is plain RUDE
Go get food for just you and the kid over and over until he says something about it. When he does say something and he will, say “Oh, I’m sorry. Is that rude? I was just reciprocating your actions and inconcideration.”
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Not overreacting. It’s very selfish. Wow
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Maybe he figured you guys are still sleeping or that you been home all night you should of ate or cooked him some food. That’s how I think as a women and works 3rd shift if you were that hungry you’d have called or texted and told him what you wanted to eat.
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That is rude and selfish. He should at least call and ask if you want something or eat it before he gets home.
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Cook for just you and your son and see how he feels?
Is this his child? If so it’s his job to put food on table, if it’s not he’s just inconsiderate!
I pray things get better with a new baby!
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Totally unexceptical
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Oh please come on that.is awful no way would I allow him to do that, your his wife and your child. I would say to him next time he does it well what r we chopped liver ?? You go and get something for yourself and you can’t even think about your family. He is very selfish,good grief especially your growing child and your pregnant also.tell him out how dare him good luck
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Have you said anything?
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Nope, steal his food and go lock the door. He had time to wait in the drive thru. He can’t wait a little bit longer with his inconsiderate self.
Bye 
! That’s horrible, I’m so sorry. Pregnant or not, this is not right.
My husband was like that but he was like a sorry dog
Ask him to get you both some next time.
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Have a you asked him directly? Men are not naturally good at reading things unsaid and “vibes” like women are.
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Hes a thoughtless boob
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Pretty rude but have you told him that
He’s selfish. And mean. If I were you I wouldn’t be buying anything for him and I’d eat in front of him. Also. I’d have a Hugh piece of my mind to give him. And tell him how you feel.
Ya hes rude… especially cuz ur prego… tell him
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Was he this way before your pregnancy sis?
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I’m not trying to excuse this in any way bc either way, it’s a terrible selfish and maybe childish thing to do but maybe he’s upset that ur home all day and aren’t cooking for the family. That’s his way of telling you.
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Maybe you should discuss this with him, how does he know that this bothers you if you don’t tell him? He can’t fix it if he doesn’t know there’s something wrong…
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IMO…that’s a straight asshole thing to do…
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Inconsiderate at best; rude at worst. What’s his response when you say something? If it bothers you but you’ve never said/asked anything, how would he know?
Do you go out and grab food without him? I know when I worked nights I grabbed food came home and ate and my kids and my fiancee were either sleeping or gone for the day
No thats shitty. My husband brings me food even if we are fighting lol …
Unacceptable 
I would let him know how you feel!
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If you haven’t said anything then maybe you need to. He sounds like a selfish prick to me
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He works overnights and you’re getting pissy he stop and brings home fast food?
Do you cook for him in the morning then? Pregnant or not, if you’re that pissed, then cook for him and your son and maybe he won’t have to stop and grab fast food.
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Rude, thoughtless and selfish. Very selfish to not even ask if you’d like something. I’m sorry. I wouldn’t put up with that and would most certainly let it be known.
You have every right to be upset.
Who asked these questions? I swear everyday they are worse. Is this real life?
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Uhmm. Hell no. That is rude as fuck. I cant stand eating in front of people and they not be eating too. It’s so rude.
Just tell him you find it rude. Or find a softer way to say it if that’s better for your situation.
Communication? Try it! It will help. He’s working, he’s tired and hungry. Your home where you can make things to eat. You don’t think that’s what he is thinking? Try communication, it goes a long way.
As usual, a lead in without enough information, designed to create conflict between people who are prone to make assumptions. 
Think about it!
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All I can say is I worked full time stayed in my laborious job till the day I delivered my baby and came home and cooked for all of us ! I see a big difference from when I had children to people now ! And did it all over again same thing with my second child !
Always made sure my children ate and cooked healthy meals for us all
These are the dudes you chicks beg to have babies with…Smfh…you’ve got 18 years of this shit ahead of you. That weak dick wasn’t worth it and never will be
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Girl you have every right to be upset. I hate that shit. Boyfriend use to do that shit and I had to say something to him a couple times then get nasty the last time for him to realize that he was actually wrong. And it wasn’t just fast food. He would get up and feed his self and daughter and All the other kids had to sit there and wait til I got back or get done whatever I was doing. I just had enough and told him. I don’t just make the others food and forget about yours. I make sure they all have food. If I order or stop on my way home i ask everyone if they want something.
My husband would give to me and kids first…
No he’s rude he should always think of you and your son! He sounds really selfish!
He should call or ask you what you guys want
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Omg wtf that is definitely rude and mean at the same time
Oh yes ma’am i would be pissed and I’m not even pregnant! Maybe he needs to see and feel how that is!! You should do it to him once! Bet he asks after that
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Dudes being a HUGE ass. Even when my other half goes to the store,he asks if I want anything ( I am 31 weeks pregnant) even when we were 1900 miles apart, he would uber eats me food if I was in a long shift at work, or if I didn’t eat. He needs to he smacked into reality
Have you ever said anything to him? If you have and he’s continuing to do that then he is so ignorant. If you haven’t, we’ll many men are clueless and he may just not realize
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it’s rude! I expect food for me/my children and my pets too! otherwise I would make him share!
It’s him not you. I’d definitely tell him how you feel. Unfortunately there are a lot of selfish, self centered people in the world. A lot more than there was years ago. That’s the problem. Can’t be afraid to tell someone when something they do upsets you. It does become a problem when you tell them how you feel and the behavior continues afterwards He simply may not realize he’s being rude or inconsiderate 
and the only way to resolve it is to communicate
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at least with my child!
Start cooking just enough for you and your son and when he asks where’s his say that’s how I feel when you stop for food on your way home and don’t bother to ask if we would like anything 
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Nope not in front of my kids. If you gonna sit and eat me and the kids gonna eat too. I would grab that food and put it in the trash and tell him next time he’s rude he can leave period.
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Cook sometimes and let him pick up food for all of you other time. If you don’t want to cook at 6am cook the night before
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My husband cooks only for himself and not myself or the kids. I’m like “hey, the kids are probably hungry too???” Upsets me to no end and I am not pregnant lol
I feel like there is more to this story here…but regardless it’s rude of him to not even offer or ask if you’d like something… im not pregnant and would be mad at my husband…but I would also communicate this to him…
Maybe you get up super early and make a good breakfast for when he gets home and the next day he brings something home for you guys.
Meet in the middle somewhere…
You can also make breakfast sandwiches fairly cheap and freeze them then microwave so it’s easy for everyone.
Night Shift Nurse here… So I get the working through my breaks and unable to get a snack, or much of anything till I’m off the clock, and off hospital property! I’m starving when I leave the hospital many mornings, and have picked food up out of sheer desperation to eat finally! Maybe you should mention you would like something next time he stops, or if you are a stay at home mom instead of sitting there lurking at his take out why are you not cooking him Breakfast? Why don’t you have it ready for him after he works so hard for his family all night long? Why does he have to pick something up at all, feed your man! Just a different perspective, from another night shift worker needing breakfast bright and early too!
If you haven’t told him you’d like him to bring you back something how is he meant to know. He’s not a mindreader he’s a guy who’s been at work all day and is hungry. You should tell him not just expect him to know he probably thinks that while you and your son are at home that you’ve made dinner for the both of you.
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He is being selfish. I can understand once in awhile just buying for himself. But to do it alot, and then have the nerve to sit there in front of both u and ur son and eat it, well that is just pure selfishness. And ur pregnant on top of that. U think the guy would want to nourish his family. Unless ur leaving something critical out of ur story, I’m with u. I work some nights and I bring home fast food for my family and myself. It’s called love and common courtesy. Perhaps he could offer to buy fast food sometimes and u could offer to make him something to eat sometimes. And every once in awhile, he could offer to make something quick and easy for u all to eat. Perhaps talk with him about how it bothers u and why. If he won’t change, perhaps make supper for u and ur son, and tell him he can’t have any, snd then eat it in front of him. Then ask him how he feels. I hope he isn’t a jerk to u about it. U don’t need that kind of stress especially when ur pregnant. I wish u luck.
So rude and inconsiderate, wow!
That is very rude! And SELF CENTERED!
His ass would be on the curb.he’s one of those husbands that figure he works and only he deserves to eat what he buys the piece of crap 
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For anyone to eat in front of someone without offering in my opinion is rude, add that your pregnant that is a double dose of rude. I would say he is a little on the selfish side.
Fuck that flick his nuts for being rude as fuck
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He should atleast call to ask you especially that your pregnant, but I have a question for you do you cook dinner for him and set a plate for him for when he gets home if he’s not home to eat ,after working all day
Yea that’s rude address it say oh rude CLD have asked if we wanted anything, once you have mentioned it and if he continues to never bother asking he’s just selfish
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No it’s damn rude of him to do that to his pregnant wife and son. You and the boy should be his first priority and making sure to at least ask if you would want something is part of that.
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Hes being a complete selfish idiot and theres no way on this earth hes not aware of what hes doing unless hes off his face. Think you need to pack a suitcase n leave it in front of his face while he eats his food
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My husband works all day and I’m a stay at home mom ,so I feel it’s my job to have a plate of food for him when he gets home ,when he eats out we usually go out as a family to eat or have date night just me and him
Have you asked him “hey next time you come
Home could you pick us up some food too?” He probably doesn’t even know it bothers you.
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