So do you open your trap and say anything? “Hey honey, next time you grab food on your way home, will you please get something for me and our son?”
Men do not read minds. Tell them what you want. Don’t whine about it and not say anything to him.
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That is quite inconsiderate. I get he’s been at work and that but at the end of the day, most others still work and manage to offer if their partner/spouse/children would like anything from the shop or the takeaway whatever. It’s just basic manners no matter whether you’ve been at home all day or done a full 12hr shift at work…
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Your husband is Rude simply Rude .
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Tell him to, men can’t read minds
But everyone does ,everything different what works for one might not work for another couple, I think you should talk to him about it and let him know that when you cook you will let him know he has a plate at home and when he’s getting take out he will let you know so you can let him know if you guys want something,communication is the key 
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He is a rude Jerk sorry 
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He might not realize it. You need to housebreak him and train him. He won’t even realize why you’re mad if he’s not in tune with your feelings. He’ll think your cranky because you’re pregnant.
You can teach an old dog new tricks. Talk to him and let him know. Be decisive about what you want. If he’s getting pizza, tell him what you want. They hate guessing or being delayed.
Make sure your son knows what he wants too (mine always wanted chicken nuggets and fries, no matter if we got fast food, went to a pizzeria or a fancy restaurant. Lol!)
Good luck!
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He works nights so he is bringing home breakfast l had breakfast ready for my husband so he could go straight to bed
She said her Husband’s works nights. So he’s probably thinking his family ate already since he WORKS NIGHTS. I.can see if she said he works a 9-5. and comes in the house empty handed.
Your husband is only as good as you teach him to be… should’ve said something to him the first time he did it…
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What a douche… my fiance would never do that. He is being selfish
He’s a jerk. Period. If he does that, he’s probably a jerk about alot of things.
No,you’re not being extra.
If you are hungry why not just cook breakfast and tell him he wont need takeout as you will have breakfast ready for him getting home.
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You poor pregnant thing, I do not miss those days 
And no, you’re not being extra. I’d be mad as hell
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My husband of 30 plus years will do the same and bring it up is always an argument…so now after so many many yrs. I’ll get up go get myself something or fix myself something and if he gets an attitude I just say what he always said, " you didn’t tell me you wanted anything " and if that doesn’t work I just say you get what you give! …but I also work and don’t need him financially
I would let him know
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Maybe I’m old school but if you are up and all why wouldn’t you make him food so he doesn’t have to eat fast food all the time ? I would make him food when you can and when he gets fast he needs to remember your order too. Lol
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Oh he’ll no! That is rude and passive aggressive. I’m not pregnant and I’m already mad.
Guess he wasn’t raised well. If there’s one thing I learned growing up, if one person eats we all eat.
If there isn’t enough for everyone, then no one gets any.
You’re husband is a douchebag
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You should have to tell a grown… Man nothing! She’s pregnant and has a child. He should call home and ask them if they would like something or just bring enough home Period!
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That’s so rude.Tell him your hungry too.jeez
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Have you mentioned this to him and expressed your feelings on the matter? If not, then perhaps you should start there and see if it changes. Communicate. If you have and he still doesn’t offer then I could understand why you would be upset.
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Wtf…narcissistic asshat.
No you have absolute right to be beyond passed off.
Unfrigginbelievable.
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If he works night shift , what time is he getting home ? I agree with other comments of him genuinely not knowing , just say something. If you’ve never mentioned it to him then he doesn’t know . And if he’s getting home late ,why would he think that you or your son would be hungry …
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Food was my trigger when I was pregnant I swear I even chucked a few plates because my food was touching 
looking back now I laugh but honestly it was as if I was possessed 
mention it too him sometimes men need a little help in the right direction xx
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That’s sooooo rude!
You’re not being extra at all.
If my fiancé is coming home from nights or afternoon shift and gets himself food, he will always always always call or text and ask if we want anything. Even if I say no, he buys me a burger and our son some fries. Literally never fails. If he doesn’t have enough money that week for all of us, he won’t get anything at all because he feels guilty. Lol
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Probably oblivious, you’ll have to tell him what you want.
Are you just sitting there pouting to yourself or have you actually said something? After working all night he probably doesn’t think about it just that he’s tired and hungry.
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Are you mentioning to him that you would like him to include you and your son in some takeout???
It’s not about reading minds you numpties, it’s about being considerate, doesn’t take much to make a phone call on the way there “hey babe, gonna stop into maccas on the way home, do you and our son want anything?” Ya know, I’m hungry but I ain’t about to come home and eat infront of you guys without offering to get you something too…RUDE!
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Do you & your son really want fast food for breakfast all the time? 
As a person who works nights the food I fancy after a night shift is not what my other half will have when he’s just got up. Communication is key!
Divorce him girl. You don’t need that kind of negativity.
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Start ordering food and eat infront of him …
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I worked nights for years. By 5am, you are nauseated and unable to keep. your eyes open. Your only goal is to finish what you are doing and get home to bed. I doubt your husband even thinks about getting food for you and your son. Try asking him to bring you a specific meal one morning. Take it from there.
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Thats inconsiderate. I also hate this and am not pregnant. Atleast ask right ? Your already there, why not ? Who doesnt like/want food too 
That’s just not Right.
Who Raise Him??
I’d be hungry too maybe just ask him? He probs doesn’t even realize tbf
Fuck me want some food ask him to get you some!!! Stop making him sound like a bad person coz at the end of his very long day he’s actually hungry. Jesus Christ
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Start doing it to him deliberately. He’ll get the message
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why don’t you say something then i think it’s totally rude the fuck.
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I would just talk to
Him he genuinely may have no idea! Especially after working night shift. My husband works night shifts and by the time he gets home he’s so exhausted I can barely talk to him. Not taking sides just encouraging communication❤️
I think the lack of consideration might be bothering you more than the actual food. If he’s going to eat it in front of you, he should be offering you something. That said, it’s possible that he isn’t being rude on purpose. A man can’t possibly understand how hungry pregnant women are. Maybe you could talk to him about it.
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Thats rude AF. He can at least call and ask if y’all want anything. It is considerate and caring thing to do.
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Do the same back to him.
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I think you have every right to feel the way you do. He should definitely bring you and your son something or at least call and ask if you wanted something.
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I would be pissed off. Even if I tell u before I didn’t want anything u better vall me while ur in the drive-thru to verify. And kids are always hungry for what u are eating. He’s an asshole
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my on/off bf/BD does this all the time and it pisses me off, yet when I get delivery or something I always ask him if he wants anything.
That’s really selfish, I go sit down next to him with an empty plate and stsrt tooling in think he might get teh hint or even better when he’s home and wants to order take out just order you and your son and say sorry didn’t think of you
Holy hell… That’s f***Ed up…
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Nah he’s rude I was raised you never eat in front of
Others without offering. Definitely speak to him and tell him how you feel if it doesn’t change then there may be bigger issues there
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Men can be oblivious, he probably doesn’t even know he’s making you feel this way. Say something. Communicate. 
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Next time you cook dinner, make yours and your child’s and sit down to eat. When he asks where his food is, tell him at McDonald’s
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I would tell him before he went to work that you and the child would like to have breakfast with him when he gets home and tell him what you would like. Sometimes boys are just dumb lol
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Rude and inconsiderate as fk.
Sounds like he’s soon-to-be your ex .and probs best
Absolutely dickhead!
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That’s just selfish, rude and inconsiderate imo
No you’re not being extra. That’s incredibly rude although he might not realize it. In his mind; he’s just picking up a quick meal on his way home from work. But it’s not like you and your son aren’t home to eat with him. If he can’t buy for everyone then he should eat whatever is in the house
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He is rude and selfish!!!
Maybe as he’s going to work you could say…“please bring us something home when you stop to get YOUR food!”
Starts making my side of the bed, washing my dishes and cleaning my clothes, cook my own food. You don’t wanna share? I can play that game too.
I would be highly upset. Bring it to his attention and let him know how you feel.
Wouldn’t be surprised if he just didn’t realize it. I agree with boys are dumb. Sounds like something my husband may do but not even think about. Maybe just ask him to bring you something. I worked nights for years. I ate food at weird times due to that schedule. I was told once that if my husband is being inconsiderate I should assume he isn’t really meaning to be inconsiderate or doesn’t realize it. Half the time that’s true.
Men can be oblivious asshats. Ask him to bring you something and then see what he does. Decide the next step from there…
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“Then ask him to get you some!!” Well I don’t think this pregnant lady only cares about the food, she might even afford herself & the kid. Obvs she kinda frustrated for being treated as she ain’t that important nor appreciated for being there. Guys she’s expecting another baby with the man she mentioned. Can you imagine her feelings tho? 
Of you had dinner, maybe he didn’t do he thought you weren’t hungry. Just tell him or would be nice if he would bring you something once in a while.
Nope, we were raised to never eat in front of someone if you don’t have enough to share or if you’re not gonna offer to share and never sit in front of someone that’s eating if there isn’t enough for you or if they don’t offer
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You have every right to be upset, that’s seriously messed up and quite selfish of him. 
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Very rude. But have you said hey asshole how about bringing me and our son home food and not just yourself?
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Men are oblivious to things like that. Not an excuse though. If I’m gonna stop and get food for myself and no one else in the house I eat it before I go in the house and throw the evidence away. Lol. Maybe just mention that it would be nice if he’d bring you and the kids something home to eat when he stops for himself.
Hes a ride selfish Asshat
Not rude. He just knows you ain’t cooking. You ain’t offering to cook dinner after he worked all day. Why is always one sided. Call him n tell him to grab you something. Better yet call him and tell him. Dinners ready
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IT is never polite or proper to eat in front of other people NEVER. You bring enough for everyone or you bring NOTHING. I personally would take it away from him and throw it in the garbage .
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I’m not preggo n that would piss me off! He should offer
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Nah we’d have problems
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Just ask for food not rocket science cnt expect it can you are you going cook him a meal for when he gets home if not why not works both ways
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I would be very upset! You have every right to be! I don’t get a man not thinking about you and his son and then to eat in front of you? Very thoughtless and rude!
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Yeah, I’d be mad too. Pregnant or not.
My hubby has waited in long lines, gone to 2-3 different restaurants to pick up our favorites in one night, and of course always shares his fries with me when I say “I don’t think I want anything this time”.
Your hubby sounds like he is being a little selfish and I’d set him straight on it if were mine.
Just message him if u want TA
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Maybe you should ASK him to bring you food 
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Shit would absolutely go down in my house, pregnant or not, you don’t mysteriously forget to cook him dinner when you make it for you and your son right? Sorry he’s an ass and I would tell him that from now on if I was you
Have you ever told him that you & your son might like something to eat too? Unfortunately guys are kinda dumb sometimes and they need things spelled out for them. So maybe let him know how you feel and then he can check with you guys on his way home. Obviously it’s inconsiderate but again, guys just don’t think about stuff sometimes.
Why do we make excuses for the selfishness of men he selfish he don’t care to change. If he doing it while you pregnant and you’ll child then what else do you need to see!!
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He is very inconsiderate. Are you sure he wanted you guys to have a baby? Don’t expect any and I mean ANY help from him when the baby is born… he is a selfish POS. That’s just not normal behavior.
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Have you discussed it with him before blasting it online?
Please tell me you have tried asking him and communicating what you want to need before coming to Facebook.
rude! He should bring something for sure!
I’m more concerned with why he has to buy food after work. It’s evident, that he doesn’t take a lunch to work, cooked, prepared & packed by you 
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Tell him you have cravings and you can’t leave the house due to housework and child care, so you would appreciate it if he could bring you something to eat. If he still doesn’t get it, then have your doctor explain about pregnancy cravings to him. Sounds terribly selfish to me, bringing home food and eating it in front of you without even offering you a bite.
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Do I have a right to be upset that my husband never brings me food?
Have u ever asked him to
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Not that big of a deal. Go pick up some food for yourself.
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That’s rude. If he can’t take care of you and the child he already has with just getting more find, he’s not with it
Definitely say something. Some guys just have no clue lol.
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Ask for something ? Lol
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That’s messed up, my husband would never and if he did his food would either be mine or on his head.
To the others saying “ask him” if he was stopping otw home and eating out then yeah ask him, but if hes eating right in front of you and your kid nope nope nope that’s just selfish
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Do you ask him to bring or just assuming he should
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If you asked him maybe he would…
Even while pregnant men still aren’t mind readers
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Have you asked him?? He just worked an overnight shift and is likely hungry and tired. Maybe he just hasn’t considered it.
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He is SUPER RUDE!!!
I can’t even order food around coworkers I don’t really like without asking if they want something. That’s SO inconsiderate of him to not offer his own family
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