Do I have a right to be upset that my husband never brings me food?

Speak up and tell him, send him a text while he’s at work and ask him to bring you something too!

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No, I’d totally be annoyed too. Definitely let him know how you feel. He literally might just be oblivious.
I’m extra and my man knows I’m crazy over food, he brings it even if I told him that I don’t need anything. He knows from experience that I’m lying. Lol :laughing:

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Just say something about it to him.

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Definitely talk to him about it. Tell him how it makes you feel. Relationships take communication.

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Just walk over and take a bite of his food when he gives you the eye you look back and the. Say well you didn’t ask me if I was hungry lol

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I’d just go over and be like… this looks amazing and start eating it with him. And I’m petty so I’d probably eat it out of his hands lol

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That’s rude Af of him not even for your child.

Holy Buckets… You put up with a lot. Love means thinking more about the other person than yourself

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Drop him off at his mother’s and tell her you’ll take him back after she’s done raising him… For example, manners and consideration.

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I’d be pissed too! Don’t get him anything when you go get food just you and your son!!

He is very rude and self centered.

Super rude. Ask him to bring something for you all. Or just order door dash or whatever

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Wow how inconsiderate!!!

Turn abouts fair play

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I personally find that rude , my husband always asks

It’s rudeee!! He shouldn’t be doing that. I would say something. I’m also someone who believes if I’m ordering, im offering that option to others in my household as well. I don’t like to eat in front of others if they aren’t eating too lol

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Pregnant or not… that’s rude.

It’s disrespectful. If he doesn’t want to think of his family then why have a family.

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It doesn’t matter. He should OFFER her some food. ESPECIALLY that she’s PREGNANT!!! Plain rude !

Order his favorite meal delivery and don’t get him anything don’t eat til hes around!

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I’d be upset, that’s inconsiderate.

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Is he partially mentally retarded?…knowing your 36 weeks pregnant and just comes home and eats in front of you…that’s why I say that. That’s flat out ignorant so if he doesn’t have anything mentally wrong with him, he is just plain stupid.

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I’m sorry what GROWN man sits down and eats food in front of his family without even considering them at all? Like that’s crazy to me lol I would be upset too honestly :sweat_smile:

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It depends on how late he gets home. If it’s late at night like 9pm or 10pm the I’m sure his thought is you and your son had dinner already and your son should be in bed.

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That’s rude and incredibly inconsiderate. You should definitely say something.

How inconsiderate of him

Ask him for to get you stuff. Easiest solution I can think of. He probably doesn’t even realise it upsets you

Pregnant or not it is just rude

Rude! I HATE :speaking_head: HATe when people bring food to my house to eat In front of my kids and me. Eat that shit in your car you greedy fat f***

I’d just say something. I mean eating it in front of y’all is rude but if you make it clear you’re upset by that i’m sure he’ll start bringing you something :woman_shrugging:t3:

Nah, that would be an issue in my house, but especially not thinking of our kid. Yes you can go get your food but why should you have too if your husband stops? You’re better than me because I’d ruin every meal he tried to eat in front of me. That said eating as a family is HUGE to me.

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That would bother me also. For starters is just plain ill mannered to eat in front of others, especially children.

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Nope divorce his ass. Jk I felt this being 39 weeks pregnant. Mine KNOWS better.

He is inconsiderate…

Well when my man had a long work day I usually feed myself so he doesnt have to worry about it but when he has day off he knows to make sure feed all of us

What a self centered douche.

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Wow!!! My husband also works third and always brings me breakfast when he stops. Your husband seems very inconsiderate and you have every right to be pissed off

Def talk to him and if it continues then leave. That’s just plain rude.

No you are not being extra. That is wrong. Even if you weren’t pregnant. My SO better at least call and see if we want anything if he orders food for himself.

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He would be out the fukin door lol. He can crawl back up his momma vagina :smile:.

Are you eating during the day! Does he think you’ve already eaten?

Greetings: Needs his ass kicked.

It’s kind of both. I totally get it, I’m due at the end of August. Just talk to him and let him know that you’d like the offer. Depending on what time he usually gets home, he might not even be thinking you’re up or wanting it.

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You need to say dont come home unless you bring food for us as well.that might work.

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My momma always said if you don’t have enough for everyone you don’t get any either. It’s incredibly inconsiderate of him to do that. I work nights and if I stop for food I always ask my husband if he wants something and if anyone else wants anything. But if I stop and need a minute by myself-I eat in my car or at the restaurant.

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Why would a person do this. If I’m grabbing something I call and ask if her and the boys want anything. It’s either or they’ve already eaten.

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My man is constantly asking me if I’m hungry :joy: he’ll get up sometimes around 11:30pm-1:00am and make “snacks” as he calls them& then ask me “You want something to eat?” Like no my supper was more than enough but thank you for offering it to me!

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I wouldn’t make a big argument over it. Just politely ask him if he can check to see if you want anything when he stops. He may just not think about it.

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That’s rude af! He’s a very inconsiderate man. I’m not even pregnant and this would piss me off.

That’s effn rude! :face_with_symbols_over_mouth: he should offer

Girl I’d be pissed lol

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Omg. No, that’s definitely not okay!!

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He is not thinking of you and son.

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No, it’s definitely rude and selfish. Shame on him!!’n

That is pretty selfish. You’re not wrong

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If he’s stopping its not hard to ask if yall want anything he probs just doesn’t care

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Rude and inconsiderate

My ex used to do this to me guess that’s why he’s my ex lol

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My ex husband used to buy himself and our 2 daughters food and not think of myself or my older 3 children. Would excitedly give our girls a treat right in front of them. Hence the ‘ex’ part! It’s so rude!!

Wow. Just wow. That would definitely bother me.

He could at least offer, I’d b mad too

So then eat if you’re hungry :roll_eyes:

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That’s rude. Pregnant or not That’s rude.

Look I’m sorry but I married an asshole and even he wouldn’t do this :rofl: he would just walk in and say I got y’all something bc he knows what me and our oldest daughter eat

Lmao apparently I’m the minority here but you’re at home with a kitchen, most kids would much rather have a home cooked meal than fast food. And he probably thinks, like most people,that you’re an adult,with a child at home and if you’re hungry,you’ll make you and your child a meal. But unless you talk to him instead of a Facebook page,you won’t fix the problem.

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I always took care of my wife when she was prego

I’d be mad, pregnant or not :joy:

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Tell that man to bring you some food!

Any real man would NEVER! Smh :woman_facepalming:t2:

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I know I’d be pissed and I’m not pregnant…so it’s definitely not you being emotional

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Yes you should be upset. Your husband sounds very self centered and selfish. What husband would be this way? He’s a very selfish butt

No, he’s an ass and you need to tell him.

I’d make him go back out :woman_shrugging:t4::joy:

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He is a straight up asshole who is very inconsiderate! He should be ashamed of himself. He wouldn’t be eating anything infront of me cause I would throw it outside.

I’d be pissed. Not saying anything isn’t healthy let him know if his ass isn’t bringing you and your son food to don’t come inside and eat in front for you. He can take his ass back out to the car to eat by himself…HELLA RUDE!!!

That’s really inconsiderate and rude of him, in my opinion. My husband is always thinking of me (I’m pregnant too!) and always brings home food for me and the kids if he grabs something on the way home. That’s what a spouse should do

Maybe he just thinks its late they already ate dinner, hes worked all day just unwinding. Men are simple minded and sometimes dont think so voice to him how you feel and tell him its pretty rude or just be petty and do it to him but 2 wrongs dont make it rignt

He is not only
rude he is a jerk

Yeah that would annoy the crap out of me.

I would piss me off too. Ur not being emotional and even if u r. He needs to take that in to consideration.

I’d be irritated while pregnant. Not like it’s a special trip, he’s already there! Lol

Unborn babies love junk food :joy:

My partner knows if he gets maccas we get it as well lol I lost my shit last pregnancy as he did it once thinking cause I was asleep I wouldn’t want it :joy: always wake me for food

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Should be an easy fix and just tell him. He may really just not even think about it OR is he bitter that there’s no dinner left out for him? Are you worried about weight gain so he’s trying to be good by not tempting you with food for you? Communication is key so everyone can be content as y’all wait for one of the most beautiful experiences on earth. :green_heart: Congrats!

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Such petty shit you all worry about.

Be adults and COMMUNICATE… ITS NOT ROCKET SCIENCE

That’s very fucking selfish!

Lol I’m not pregnant and I’d be pissed. I’d wait until he had it all laid out, ready to take that first bite of burger… walk by snatch it out of his hand and walk away eating it… but I may be petty​:rofl::rofl::rofl:

Like if he comes home after dinner time maybe he assumes y’all ate already? But regardless it would bother me too, I’d just nicely ask him to ask you before he stops because maybe you’d like some too?

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Have you talked to him about it? Sometimes a simple conversation can eliminate issues like this.

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That’s so wrong. My husband would never.

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That’s very inconsiderate and selfish on his part smh

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… Tell him you’re hungry lol

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Just talk to him and let him know… no need to argue just see if he starts bringing u food after u talk to him about it

Some men are stupid when it comes to the small things. Just mention it to him. I’d be mad too lol, my man always calls first to see if I want anything. I feel like it’s just the right thing to do.

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Hell yes be mad, i would kick his ass!

That is extremely rude, next time he is on his way home have a nice meal for you and your son, no extra cooked for him and be eating when he walks in with his fast food! See how he likes it. It’s so inconsiderate to not call or text and ask if you guys want something! Who does that ? Who just buys food for themselves and eats it in front of people?

I’d be irritated even if I wasn’t pregnant. It’s rude and inconsiderate

Sometimes my man will stop and grab a small pizza from a gas station or pizza puff. But he gets up at 4 in the morning and works untill 1-2 and doesnt eat at work. I dont get mad. Sometimes when he stops and gets fast food he always asks if i want.something

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Thats just a selfish asshole

I would take it and eat it in front of him… bringing food to eat in front of your pregnant wife. That’s an excellent way to lose fingers.

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I’d literally punch a MF over that.

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