The fact that he tried to blame your kid??? Kick out that POS lowlife
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Yes don’t keep him up he needs a job an don’t let your kid show that kind of things to your young kid kick him out asap
Kick his azz out & tell him to…
He should’ve been kicked out long time ago!
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Yes, because a 3 year old has the ability to not only type like an adult, but spell like one to. Kick his ass out, how stupid does he think you are to believe a 3 year old sent it.
If he has any kind of mail delivered in his name, most state require an eviction! Your 3yo knows nothing of asking for skank pics, I’m sure.
Kick his @ss to the curb. He has no legal rights and looks to be a complete pos.
That’s a man child. Send him back to his mama!
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Boy byeeeeee 
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Honestly…I do believe you answered your own question! Use your head for more than a hat rack!
No job is bad enough but allowing your 3 year old on his phone 
knowing he has that crap on it…then to blame the child!!! OUT HE GOES….
No man…or woman is worth putting up with that.
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You certainly do have the right and you certainly should kick him out.ASAP!
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Hell yes kick his lazy lieing ass out
Yes you have the right but you may have to get an eviction on him to get him out
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You will have to go through the eviction process, unless you can convince him to leave on his own.
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Not only kicked out but dumped as well.
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Throw the whole “man” away
He doesn’t pay bills, rent or have his name on the lease ? Yep. Pack his bags and change the locks
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So dont/wont work and a cheater and a liar!..
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Kick him out. Get the police help you remove him if he refuses to leave. Change the locks and get a surveillance camera incase he decides to try and break in or come back and harass you.
He isn’t going to leave willingly when you have been his gravy train!
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he needs to go for sure
Yes have to evict him tho which takes 30 days
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YAS kick his ass out
Tell him
HIT THE ROAD JACK!
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Let her pay his way now… bye boy.
He sounds like a LOSER ANYWAYS. NO JOB? YOU PAY ALL THE BILLS? HES ASKING FOR NUDES FROM WOMEN? KICK HIS ASS ON OUT GIRL. JEEZE
You answered your own question here… get his ass out
How far away is your curb???
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Can’t kick him out if I have a person staying with you for 3 days that is long enough to Establish residency to have said boyfriend kicked out it would have to go through the court and he would have to be evicted
Hell fucking yesss!!!
Yes. Kick him out … obviously he’s a bad influence to your 3 year old… Teaching him how to send those messages to random ladies!
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You have every right!! If he refuses though you will have to go through eviction unless you have a landlord that says he doesn’t have a right to be there/ not on the contract etc…start with asking him to leave, good luck 
It’s the fact that he’s lying to you and lying on your child. And the lie is horrible. No way he would play in my face like that, you know you’re not being unreasonable
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Why is he not working? And why are you doing it all??? F that BS… and he’s clearly lying about your son sending a message to some chick… like really ?? Can your son at 3 read and write and spell and type 
come on… he’s an idiot
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Make sure that you know the squatter laws for your area. If he can prove he’s been there, he may well have rights to residence per the state laes
You did right. Blaming a 3 year old is ridiculous.
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Kick his a$$ out. Bye bye
I think you pretty much answered your own questions. Trust your gut. The moment the red flags start flying in the air, it’s time to move on without a second thought.
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Legally you have to evict him through the courts if he receives mail at the address
I hope by the time you’ve read these replies, he’s already been booted lol
In most states you will have to legally evict him
Who told you, your being unreasonable? Him… bahahaha laugh in his face and tell him, well that’s me than. Bye Felicia
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yes, give him notice
If he receives mail at your address, he technically has tenant rights depending on the state, but hopefully he just leaves
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Ofocurse. Bottom line, if you can’t trust partner, then he has to go
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Lmfaoooo he really tried to blame your child? Yo that man is worth less than dirt for that!!! Boot him!!!
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Bye bye call the police first.
Let me guess…he’s the one telling you you’re being unreasonable? 
no you’re not. In fact you’re doing the right thing. He is wrong. Not you. You’ve got a strong backbone. Kick his butt to the curb and don’t listen to his excuses.
I wouldn’t even hesitate- the sooner the better !
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I think it is your 3 year old you need to ask to leave
JOKING GUYS😂 Of course, how disgusting and then even worse to blame the kid! Wow
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Since he isn’t working and probably isn’t paying rent you can ask him to leave. You can (and should) change the locks. You do not want to throw away his possessions including cloths. Box them up, if you don’t want to look at them but don’t toss them out.
I’m sorry this is happening. If I may add: please work out custody before he leaves and require supervised custody by someone you have met and approved. You’ll have to decide if you trust his mom or other family members to be the supervising adult. He may want to have a new GF be the supervising adult so practice how you are going to discuss the way you tell him about supervised custody. You’ll also have to either drop off your son or make sure your ex-BF understands supervised means supervised at all times, including when he picks up and drops off your son.
I wish you all the best.
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You’re not being unreasonable
Kick his sorry Ass out and if you pay his phone bill have it turned off.
red flags honey!! Kick his ass out! Why drag your poor boy into his dirt, shame on him!
Trust people when they show you their truth 
Good luck
You have the right to do whatever you want and if someone is lying to you I would do the same
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I just can’t get over the fact that he blamed your 3 y/o for that. He can’t even be man enough to admit that he was the one responsible. Boot him.
you can kick him out- good luck to him
Wouldn’t be staying with me to start with without a job,to many jobs out there to not be working,anyone can do fast food til something else comes up.
Why are men so stupid. To really blame a 3 year old 
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Depends on what state you are in.
In CT, if he has received mail at that address for more than 30 days you would have to file to have him formally evicted and if you changed the locks or prevented him access prior to having him evicted, you could actually be arrested.
You need to find out the laws regarding this in your state.
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He tried to blame a 3 year old 
girl kick him the fuck out what a waist of time he is sounds like you got your shit together u don’t need him or want someone like him put all his shit out change the locks get a bottle of wine and enjoy your weekend!
Change the locks and kick him out
Unreasonable? No. Just no. He blamed a toddler. However, you dont wanna give him a reason to sue you. Im assuming he gets mail there? 30-60 day written notice depending on your state.
Then just make it reeeeaaallllyyyy uncomfortable so he’ll leave sooner.
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Legally, if he receives mail there,you can’t. You have to evict him
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Yes you do but legally he has 30 days to leave if he has been there longer then 30days or gas anything in his name or a bill being sent there. If he doesnt have any of these you can kick him out right away and use the cops to help so there is no trouble.
Babe, it’s your house, whether he did anything or not of course you have the right to kick him out 
If hes not on the lease, the police will remove him if he doesnt leave
Kick him all the way out.
sounds like a deadbeat to me and you would be better off without him
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If only these legs had BOOTS on them! Kick him out!
I would kick him to the curb then change the locks.
Seriously- yes- get him out yesterday!
Nope you have to go the legal.route…legally, dont matter who pays and make sure you go about it step.by step, if you miss one step the court will make you start over.
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You can kick him out, with police assistance if necessary. He is not a “tenant” as he doesn’t pay rent, etc.
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No doubt he should go. However even though all bills etc in your name has he received any mail at all. If so he has established residence n you will have to evict him. Maybe you will gt lucky n he will just leave.
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Fuck him… Tell him to get out!!
To the curb…but legally if he won’t leave on his own you might have to evicte him…even though it’s your place in your name ect…if you have allowed him to live there get his mail there…its his residence too…I learned this the hard way!!
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Go with your instincts please. You don’t deserve to have a part partner. I learned that the hard way.
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wait til he is gone… set him up with p.o. box somewhere and then change the locks. Bye Bye…
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Boy bye 
in all seriousness this is the beginning of many lies and never accepting blame… please don’t do this to yourself let him go before you get way too invested
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Yup. Throw him out like the trash he is…right to the curb
Yes you can if his name is not on your lease.
I think you already answered your own question
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As long as there is nothing in his name coming to your house. Change the locks. Box up his possessions and leave on porch. I would do this while hes not there. If there is any trouble call the cops. If hes been there for a while you may have to file eviction.
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Uhhhhh do you even need advice?! Jesus.
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If he isn’t listed on the lease as an applicant you’re fine. Even if he is listed as an occupant. But you do have to ask the super or landlord to remove his occupancy
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I just have to ask why you are even having to think about this? Do what you want, what’s best for your child and you.
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Yes you have the right to kick him out
Depending on how long he has lived there you can’t just kick him out on his ass empty handed. Look up the laws for your state.
Girl, kick him to the curb! 
“but I love him……” ain’t no man that loves you gonna do this to you. Kick him out fix your crown and do you!
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Girl if you don’t kick him out, I’ll kick him out for you. There ain’t no way he blamed that on a 3 year old.
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Ummm it’s a no brainer for you🙄KICK…HIM…OUT!!! You don’t need that kinda shit around your kids period!!! You can do waaaaay better!!! Kick him out and change the locks… kick him the fuck out before you’re too much into him, and whatever bulshit he tells you, giiiiirrrllllll just KICK…HIM…OUT!!!
He already said it was the kid! Have a talk with your son about asking women for nudes lol
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Like now what a loser
Yes give him 30 day notice in writing.
You just asking for permission sister. Don’t do that. You already know what to do. Tell that manchild goodbye.
Absolutely. I’d put his shit on the curb.
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Depends on the state. In nc unless they assaulted you and you press charges with a restraining order then anyone you invite to spend even one night on your home OR let bring one piece of property into your home can claim residency there and you cannot make them leave without an eviction and even then they can be given 90 days by the court and drag it out multiple times making the process a year
Absolutely. And for him to try to blame your three year old shows how pathetic he is
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Yes! Don’t hesitate!
If you have to ask, you already know the answer. 1. He doesn’t work so you’re providing for him. 2. He’s irresponsible with his child. What if she had sent a disgusting photo and your son had seen it? 3. He’s a liar. 
Ain’t no man/woman worth that. You already know your answer.