Maybe she knows. People hide things well. Sleight be seeing others to while he’s out of town. They may have agreed with it
I say the.same as Kathryn May
I wish more ladies had each other’s backs.
She’s your friend…your loyalty should be with her! Go tell her 
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Depending on what they were doing. Was it intimate? Was there any reason to think it was more than business or friends? If he was doing the exact things with a man would you feel compelled to say something? Last I knew there was nothing wrong with a male and female eating together. If it was more cozy I would say something along the lines of I saw your hubby at a restaurant I was at. He was with a female. Maybe it was innocent and she already knows. Or she knows and can talk to him about it. I wouldn’t immediately jump to the conclusion it was an affair.
My ex was having lunch with his sister and a coworker called to let me know he was at a restaurant with a female. I already knew and was meeting them after I got off.
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It right be wrong but pictures are great to back it up.
If you do it, have proof ready.
I always think about it like- if this was your husband, would you want to know what was going on?
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Take videos and tell her . Sorry not sorry
How close a friend are you? If your roles were reversed, would you want to be told?
Damn I would tell her
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Was he doing something wrong? Is the other woman just a friend he was hanging out with? Or was it obviously a romantic situation?
I was driving my exhusbands truck once (while we were married). Running errands around town. A few of his friends saw me and reported to him that I had another man with me, tried to get him all riled up because OBVIOUSLY I was cheating on him.
It was my cousin who was also only 15!! He was just hanging out with me for the day.
So I would be sure of what you saw before making a big deal of it.
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I wouldn’t jump to conclusions unless what you witnessed was romantic. If it’s work-related, I’m sure his wife is aware of that.
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She will just get mad at you.Pray about it.God will take care of it.’ Be sure your sins will find you out.’
I would go to his cheating ass and tell him, Either you tell her or I will! I would want my friends to tell me if my husband is up to no good!
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There’s a high chance you’ll end up losing a friend and won’t be welcome there anymore.
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I would have proof first just in case she doesn’t believe you but I would 100 percent tell my friend
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if y’all are good friends, and the rolls were reversed would you want her to tell you about your husband? or would you want to not know?
i know i sure as hell would want to know.
and she may get mad, but it won’t be directly at you. that’s a lot of emotions to juggle at once. i say tell her. if she ever found out on her own, and found out that you knew and never told her sooner, then she would probably also be mad about that. cheating is never right. and she 10000% deserves to know.
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Ain’t much of a friend if you don’t tell her plus wouldn’t you want to know.
All forms of cheating are wrong and if so many people would just speak up for their friends, family, loved ones the world would be better.
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Definitely tell !!! If you have proof that would be helpful! And give us a update please !
All this BS 
Would you want to know?! Tell her
1st question, would u want her to tell you if the role were reversed?
This post is really vague, but if it looks like it could’ve been something more romantic, you might just bring it up in conversation with your friend. Like someone above said, just give some sort of blasé comment about how you saw her husband and his “sister” and didn’t mean to be rude but wanted to pass along a hello to him. 
At that point, you don’t sound like a catty woman passing along gossip, and if it raises her antenna, then you’ve mentioned it without getting yourself in hot water with the friend or her “man.” If it’s nothing, or if it is actually something but she ends up making excuses for him, she might wave it away with some sort of excuse or justification. Either way, you are good.
Stay out if others problems and their business. Don’t be a busy body
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Not enough info. Was he with a coworker doing his job, or was he doin something he clearly should not be doing. And you will need full proof, o she will.believe husband.over you and your friend ship will be over.
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I’d give him the opportunity to tell her himself, if not… I would say something.
If it were me, I’d hope my friend would tell me! Otherwise, what kind of friend would that be!?
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Pass on the facts, it could be innocent , could be a colleague of his , just give her the information you know, dont assume anything but let her know exactly what you saw.
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Have any physical proof? Go for it. If not? Why even bother? Just going to cause unnecessary problems since she likely won’t even believe you.
With another woman? He’s allowed friends or co workers , i mean unless you seen him snogging her face off then yeah tell her x
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Your best bet is stay out of it she will hate you in the end
Friendship is about honesty good or bad. Tell her!
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I would tell her. Wouldnt you wanna know?
Tell her but try to get pics to back it up
I’d confront him…Tell him either he tells her or you will…
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Would u want her to tell u…
You saw them doing what? Walking together? Working together? Having a meal together? Having sex together?
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Just because you see a man and woman together does not mean they are being romantic… Like others have said they could be work colleagues or they could just be friends or for all you know she could be his relative you don’t know so mind your own business
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One question. Would you want her to tell you if the table was turned? That is your answer
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If you tell her and she forgives him, and she probably will, she will hate you.
You have to be prepared to be the bad guy
Seeing your friend with another woman does not mean there’s anything romantic going on. Dig for concrete proof before deciding to tell your friend.
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Yes!!! If you are her friend, yes!
Well you can put it two ways you could be married to him wouldn’t you like to know, could be you think about that
Omg just bloody tell her
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If she’s such a good friend you would know what to do. You wouldn’t need advice from strangers off fb.
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Simply just talk to her about it, if she’s aware of this other female then there’s no concerns. If there’s nothing going on then there’s no reason why her husband should hide this other woman from his wife.
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Oh yeah, if she’s your friend ya gotta tell her! You’d want her to do the same if the situation were reversed!
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Ask him outright yourself
Girl, U call her ass up on FaceTime and go introduce yourself and ur friend to them! That’s what I’d want! I think a lot of women are in such denial that sometimes it takes seeing it to believe it!
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It wouldn’t had been a thought… I would had made the phone call immediately to her. I know I would want to know!
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What did you see that you want to tell her? It may be that he was out with a coworker and she might know about the situation!
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Fuck that- id be taking pics and record them and confront him and tell my friend
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Make sure you saw what you think you saw, it could be a friend, relative or coworker. However if he is having a relationship with another women, I would want to know and would be very hurt if a friend knew and did t tell me.
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Depends could be nothing could be something. I’d get more details then go from there. Tell her if there’s something 2 tell,if there isn’t don’t be that person that made something of nothing. On that same note though I’d want 2 know if something was going on and my friend knew but didn’t say anything if there was something 2 tell.
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Is she or friend or not? Tell her. Maybe she knew about it but maybe not. Maybe it’s nothing but maybe not.
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Put yourself in your friend’s shoes…would you want her to tell you?
I would want to know.
Is this even a question?
I would’ve taken pictures, called her on FaceTime… made a video etc. I’m telling my friend 100% even if by some chance my friend got mad at me at least I can say I didn’t let her down on my end.
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I would tell my friend.
If you really have to question this then you are not her friend…
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Casually bring it up. No insinuating
Make sure u have proof to. Back it up otherwise she gonna get mad at u
Fucken tell her some friend you are
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Maybe bring it up casually. Like oh I was at Home Depot and I saw your husband and he was with the blond girl that was kind of short and I Was trying to figure out who she was do you know her?
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Depends on what you saw…just because he was with another woman doesn’t mean it wasn’t innocent.
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I would first confirm the husband to see if there was a reasonable explanation for it. If the husband was breaking his marriage vowels, tell the husband to fess up to his wife or you will
Ummm if you consider yourself a “friend” this wouldn’t even be a question…
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What know what Meranda Balizet-Clark ?
I would tell him you know give him the opportunity to come clean if he doesn’t then I would tell her but I’m she would rather hear it from him
I’d want to know! BUT I told a “best friend” once about her piece of crap boyfriend and got sucker punched after she believed him and not me 
#LifeLesson
How do you know that wasn’t work related
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Get a picture of them before you say anything or it’s his word against yours
Good time to mind your own bussness
So he’s not allowed to have friends?? Find out if he was actually messing around before ruining a marriage.
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tell her:100: you’d want to know wouldn’t u? I get the worry of the whole “shoot the messenger” part but still u gotta speak up!!
Tell her. Even if she wasn’t a friend. Tell her exactly what you saw, not that he was having an affair. From there, it’s out of your hands.
I’ve been there. I’ve been the one cheated on & I’ll tell you what, one of the hardest parts after finding out he cheated was how many people knew about it & DIDN’T tell me. I swore from then on that I’d never be that person to someone else.
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Not one of us know the friend better than you. Trust your first instinct and go with it.
i would want my friend to tell me something like that. In my eyes, it would be a betrayal not to.
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I’d want to know! Would you want to know?
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If you’re a true friend you’ll tell her. She might hate you for it, because some women are like that. But I’d want to know.
Say NOTHING she will blame the messenger if you do. She probably has a feeling anyway. You just KNOW innately when it’s going on.
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I’d tell her… it doesn’t mean you’re saying he’s cheating you’re just letting her know what you saw then she should be able to talk to him about it like a mature adult. I feel like anyone saying mind your own business can’t have a civil adult conversation about something. It doesn’t need to start an argument you’re just letting your friend know something you noticed
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I would casually say oh I seen his name out with what I assume to be a co worker and describe the person he was with and let the wife / your friend take it from there
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I would find out if it truly is an affair or is that women family, friend, co-worker. I know it can be hars to jump to conclusions but you don’t want to cause issues in a marriage that aren’t there. It could also ruin your friendship.
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Mind your business like your mom told you…that’s my opinion…
Tell your friend!!! If your friend say your husband with another woman would you want to know?
I would get the husband and wife together and be randomly talking and be like oh yes I saw you whatever day and wanted to say hello but since you was with that woman thought better of it could mess up a business deal or whatever then you are so innocent and he is busted or has good excuse who knows but you at least your in clear
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I would’ve went up to the husband and said hi and see if he started stuttering trying to introduce the woman to you… lol
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If you’re really a friend, you should tell her. Just be sure.
Tell her, I’d be more mad at my friend for keeping that kind of secret.
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Nothing but trouble brewing
Nose out. They won’t believe you anyways.
Or record SOLID PROOF…
I would tell her and if she’s upset with you for it then so be it. You did the right thing when it’s off your conscience. But you have to know that if you do tell her you need to allow her time to process and get her mind right again you might not be able to be part of the solution cuz she might see you as part of the problem as well females be like that. Brace yourself if you need to and hug her if she needs you.
If its an affair he Will go back to the same place, im not saying spy on him, but if you see him again record it if hes with another woman, if its an affair he will see her again, and around that same time of day to, so record away, ,then once you have that, then you can casually bring it up with your friend, like hey how’s his job going,.
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Definitely tell your friend!
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I would confront the husband, remind him what he had at home. And for him to do the right thing
Tell her, just be sure she isn’t connected to his work.
Tell your friend but if you don’t have proof be prepared for her not to believe you and no longer to be your friend but regardless it’s the right thing to do because if you care about somebody in any way shape or form you wouldn’t want somebody to be going behind their back like that.
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Tell her. If she finds out you knew and didnt say anything, she will feel betrayed by you. Dhea gonna need you for support when you tell her!! So honesty is always the best way to go.
Depends on how close. My best friend of over 20 years who is like family, I’d tell her. My close friend of 7 years. I’d tell her. A friend I’ve known for a few years I see here and there. Don’t talk to a lot. ehhh. Stay out of it.
Gather evidence then tell
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