Why does someone push you away when you are pulling them to you so anxiously? Because you can’t burn the candle on both ends. You need balance and to let the other person want you, you have to give them a chance. Your husband might be in a state of depression. He might be in there relaxing. Some men think of the bathroom as a place to escape. I hear ya, we need it too but we have to come to a realization that giving a little goes a long way in a relationship. Especially when applying pressure to emotions. What happens when you apply pressure to things? They explode. Don’t let it bother you find a time when he comes out to escape. Everyone needs space. Everyone needs understanding. Even you. You need time to yourself away from dealing with waiting on him to come out of the bathroom. Find a positive way to cope. Don’t let your temper get the best of you. Or make up your mind and get it over with. No matter the man, he gonna be taking a long time shitting regardless.
You can shut down wifi before he gets home . Hidden camera in bathroom . You have apps on your phone to see what his up to. It does not take anyone three hours to use the bathroom. Make something in food the give him need be in for about 45 min
Age? Intestines having problems. Cancer he doesn’t know about. Needs more fiber. Drink more water. Could be legit
Mine is in there for an hour!! Always has been for the 30 years we have been married . My boys all spend 30-45 minutes in there too
He’s probably looking at porn, taking a break from home life, maybe just needs his own time and feels like that s the only place he can get it. Think of it this way, he could be leaving the house and disappearing instead. I say give him a break and let him do his thing in private as long as he keeps it at home.
Let the man be, really…he is in the bathroom, not running town with other women. Posibly he stays in there to get away from controling spouse.
He’s in there doing something he shouldn’t…no one takes that long to poop. Not even me and I have IBS-C (TMI I know). I know the joke about guys taking up residence in there but something isn’t right about this. Please don’t go off like gang busters and automatically assume (based on my OPINION) he is being shady though. Ask him…see what he says and how he says it. This is just my take on things with the info given. Talk to him 
My soon to be ex did that for "privacy "… but he was watching porn(which I have no problems with), texting, facebooking, oh yeah doing drugs…
3 hours is a long time he is hiding something
I’m sorry but it doesn’t take that long for ANYONE to poop. And, I would definitely be upset with him taking a computer in there. If you know he looks at porn, then you probably have your answer. Especially, since he so defensive about it. I would be looking at that history on his computer for sure.
I noticed my (now ex) husband started spending lots of time in the bathroom around the time he started having an affair… he was texting/sexting and talking on the phone with his mistress
Really…he is lying…and sitting in the pooper that long will eventually give one some,bad roids…he is playing games…simple,as,that…and trying to escape being available for anything
Does he take his cell phone with him ? Also , check for smell, I know it’s gross but sometimes marriage is difficult and you need to suck it up and wear or mask and tissue in your nose . It may or may not work (lol) . Check his toilet paper usage . Hide your toilet paper and you use it only. I know that many times women need to use a little more but Jesus made us that way. Ideal and Perfect 
If you have only one bathroom, like we do…it can be really tough on the other family members.
YUP! There is no way. He’s either trying to get away with not helping out or spending time with you. Or he’s watching porn and master…ing!
Either hes watching porn and getting off watching it or hes using drugs. It’s not that difficult to figure out. JS
Since it’s taking him that long to poop so he says schedule him for a colonoscopy ASAP and see what his response is…
Had a friend’s husband who did this ALL THE TIME. Come to find out he was watching porn amount other things.
He is doing something he isn’t suppose to on that computer. No one takes that long to go to the bathroom
Porn addict? Get some accountability app like ‘accountable to u’ for phone? If he loves you, he won’t mind…app also scans texting for inappropriate things.
Yeah me or my husband both think that is normal. Something isn’t right.
Let me guess…you have 2-3 kids and he’s just using it as an excuse to avoid being a parent.
I don’t think so it’s not good for you to sit on the toilet that long do you think he’s looking at pornography or something else like that that’s not normal
He is not just sitting there waiting to poop he is doing something else for sure
My cheated on me with a dating site. He took longer times in bathroom when it started.
Same time every day sounds like Skyping or watching videos. Check the history if concerned
Men use the bathroom as their getaway sometimes but if you don’t trust him just like talk to him when he is in a good mood I wouldn’t invade is privacy
Yeah been there don’t that, I’m sorry but he is up to something and it’s not good.
3 hours? headphones and laptop? He is NOT pooping.
It is a library for my husband…he takes his cell phone with him…and magazines…
Check his computer. He’s up to no good. Why in the bathroom ? So uncomfortable.
Look at the history on your computer. It will tell you what sites he has been on.
My husband likes to simmer. He is always in there a while and then he usually take a shower after he’s done
Just call him out! Most men would tell you if they had a health issue. He is not.
Sounds like. He might be doing something that he doesn’t want you to know. Hope you have more than one bathroom. If not. He would be going some place else. I was told to always follow you gut feeling. Start snooping. I am to nosiey. Not to find out. A friend of mine found out her husband was cheating on her and she told him it’s her or me. If you choose her then tell her to get A good job Cause I am taking everything.
If he is like my late husband he was on dating sites when he would do that…get a hidden camera in that bathroom!!!
Tell your husband the bathroom is not a work station. Maybe he just wants to hide what hes doing on the computer. Have you asked??
He is watching pornography. I went through this with my ex. I’m very sorry it’s happening to you. It’s a horrible feeling. So painful 
Is this for real? Whether he is on porn or not he is doing something wrong. Period.
I am not married anymore, however my 26 yo grandson will just sit on the toilet and look at videos on his phone for an hour at least.
Your husband is either a porn addict & doing a very poor job of hiding it. You should really go into his Internet search history to see what he’s really up to. OR having an online affair. OR has something seriously wrong with his bowels & needs to see a gastroenterologist immediately! As an IBS sufferer I can relate to a degree although I’ve NEVER been on the loo for 3hrs straight & defs NOT with my laptop & headphones. Something is extremely wrong here & MUST be investigated.
The bathroom is their escape from it all and now add the phone with videos and you have a problem🤣
We men call that our home office, an you mean to tell me you cant walk in on him, I never lock the door in my house, cmon in anytime you like, doors open
Hide the computer and than see how long it takes for him to poop.
It’s his private time leave him alone unless you only have one bathroom ?
Hey maybe he is working in there. It could be the quietest place for the man to work. Lol
Tell him no more computer, then see how long it takes him. He is up to no good.
My dad used to take the newspaper and a pack of ciggs and an ashtray and be in there for hoursssssssss. Make him a man cave lol
Wasnt 3hrs but i do remember when my husband used to b in there for awhile
Had this happen in a previous relationship that’s when they were cheating… calling and texting other women… good luck
My ex would lock himself in the computer room for hours as well…(not the bathroom, but we had a dedicated computer room back then), turned out he had a serious porn addiction…ultimately led to the demise of our marriage…
When you want privacy, but don’t have a man cave…
He’s in the bathroom that long probably because he doesn’t enjoy being with you anymore
Every day? Doesn’t he have a job?
He’s either talking to a woman or looking at one, aka porn. Sad, but simple. Also could be doing drugs.
My 15 year son does this too. I thought it was only me
Maybe he is looking at Pinterest?
Wow most people don’t like when they go out with friends sounds like you guys need and extra bathroom
Any longer than 5 min. Is a cause of hemorrhoids… i feel sorry for him
Who in the hell has time for a three hour poop everyday? Does this man not have a job?
He’s on date site ? Talking to other woman on porn sites . He’s looking at nasty things . I’ve been there that’s why I know …lock your Computer on all those media …or turn off your internet or Wifi …throw your Computer in the trash undo the website…he’s not in there looking at cartoons …hello !!!
Not my husband but my grandsons take a long time in the bathroom so long I wonder what they do
He’s jerking off in there. Confront him about it if you don’t like it. Your married, if you can’t talk out one will walk it out.
After just about twenty minutes the nerve in the back of the leg gets pinched and will fall dead asleep. How can he even walk after that?
Fron experience I have learnt u ask for advice when u already have the answer
You should let him know that sitting on the toilet that long causes hemorrhoids a s see if the time goes down or not
Look on his computer while he’s out or asleep.
He’s def doing something he’s not supposed to .
Of course he is either watching porn or chatting on the internet, or both.
Hidden camera…he’s either lying or needs to see a Dr.
I dont want to start a problem.Break the lock on the bathroom door?
The 3 S’s a man does in the bathroom should only take 30-40 minutes at most
$#!÷
Shower
Shave
They sit and read an do crossword without being disturbed, sometimes they need there own time and that is the only place that they can
Hey how long does it take yall women to get “ready” to be seen in public
Hes most definately watching porn while hes in there. Probably not pooping at all.
Dodgy as … … mine takes 20mins I stress lol . I’d disconnect that Wi-Fi permanently
Ummm do you really need to ask this question… you already know the answer…
If you sat that long wouldn’t your feet fall asleep?
Is this a legitimate question? Come on now!
He’s play chess.
He’s beating the Bishop. Don’t believe me then check which hand is smoother. Usually the one with the hand lotion.
Maybe he likes his private time who cares if he looks at porn wouldnt bother me at all as long as theres 2 bathrooms
That is 100% an addiction to pornography. Confront him about it, tell him to seek help or leave. That’s not healthy for any relationship
Do you have another bathroom?
Is this a serious question??? Nobody takes 3 hours to use the bathroom. He’s either watching porn or talking to other women online. Don’t be naive. Nobody has time to stay with a man who is playing around in the bathroom.
Have him go to the Dr’s and get checked out. It is not normal. Men don’t like to talk about any health issues.
My feet went numb just reading this 
. Sweetie he’s up to no good. Time for counseling or an attorney.
So unless he has GI problem, there is no excuse for that. Maybe you should make him a Dr appointment for it. Go with him and put him on the spot about. Tell the doctor you think something is wrong since it takes him 3 hours to poo. He will either fess up to what he is really doing or he may get a tub down his throat to check his GI track
My stepdad takes a LONG time. He falls asleep though 
Oh no hes up to something on that computer…best check on him
Doesn’t matter what he is doing. Hes checked out of the marriage
He is cheating or watching porn most likely
If you trust him make appt. With doctor
Sounds like cheating to me, maybe on a dating site
The bathroom is my place! Im comfortable in there, IDKY. He’s just spending quality time with himself
Install a hidden camera…you will have your answer in no time!
He will regret three hours when he gets hemorrhoids from it!
I’d probably tell him to go see a Doctor.
Sounds like he has more on his mind than pooping.
Make him a doctors appointment for his constipation issues.
3 hours! He needs to see a doctor!
He’s doing something he knows will make you mad…playing video games; watching porn.
Idk but id be snooping