U try spanking her? Probanly not bc that scars children now adays
Steve Harveyās definition of ADD - Ass that Donāt have Discipline.
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Get a therapist. Facebook isnāt the place to ask for help like this.
Maybe get a referral to a paediatrician. Sounds like some underlying issues. All the best 
Lol Ben Moller our lives soon
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Take out the chancla 
Give her a good flogging
Evidently you aināt beat her ass yet!
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You should look into getting her a 1 on 1 Registered Behavior Technician. You can google behavior intervention services for board certified behavior analysts and clinics in your area.
Rebecca Benton Thoughts?
Bite her back. See what happens.
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Smack her arse send it to the room
Doctor referral for specialist appointment
U are the one who needs to be in school
Madiha Hassan read comments
GET Professional help ASAP
Does she talk? Sounds like sheās
Nero divergent Autism ADHD
Looks different in girls than boys.
If she canāt talk yet. She also canāt tell you whatās wrong or what hurts. Biting could mean her mouth hurts.
It also could mean. Maybe kids or someone is being mean to her and if sheās nonverbal then she canāt speak out. Just lash out. Thereās always an underline reason to behaviors.
Shes obviously having a hard time with something. 
time to investigate some possible triggers
She needs counseling
Send her to me for a month.
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Read the The Explosive Child (by Dr. Ross W. Greene) Unofficial Discussion Group Figure out her triggers
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Free therapy on face book
Take her to a psychiatrist
Rebecca Scalone Cullina
Have you tried participation trophies?
I hope you figure something out without letting the doctors feed her with government drugs. Redilin is meth under a mask etc etc
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Talk to her pediatrician
Spank her ass every time she does it.
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Have you called for an exorcism
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Definately get her assessed right away! My daughter is 5 and has behavioural issues amoung other things. After 2 years were still exploring autism, adhd, odd. Sheās also got a speech delay so communication is hard for her. Thereās so many doors open once you know what is going on. Also donāt ever let anyone else beat you down about your child. People seem to think that they know you and think you are the problem when youāre not.
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Have you tried incense and gentle massage?
Seriously! Reading these responses itās plain to see why we have half our kids in therapy and the other half heading to prison. YOU NEED TO STEP UP AND BE PARENTS FIRST! FRIENDS SECOND!
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Seek Behavioral specialist. Google āABC chartā and give that a try.
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Definitely praising positive behavior. If siblings are in the same class she may be competing for attention. Try to spend some one on one time with her. Even just reading a book at night. Just sounds like attention seeking to me but Iām definitely not a professional.
I would recommend therapy to help her learn better ways to process and show emotions.
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Try reiki and body talk
Get help with learning self regulation
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Talk to her. Ask her how she feels. Help her to use words rather than acting out. Make it clear her actions are wrong but resolve to invest a lot of time- do things with her, involve her in day to day things. Shopping, cooking, little things she can do to feel valued and included. Reassure her that you love her. Work with a child psychologist to help her now whilst she is young.
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Therapy and donāt be afraid to swat her on the rear . Your the parent in control not her
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When my kids threw a tantrum when they were small I threw a bigger and louder tantrum back. Even in the supermarket 
she would quickly get herself up off the floor
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This is beyond a normal 4 year old. Consult a doctor
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Therapist. They are his sends and your best hope for her my just-five year old has started!
Did the day care ask you to get her evaluated by Specialist. There are places that deal with emotional issues in children. take her to her PCP to get a referral. Good luck and Iām sorry about the situation.
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If u gotta ask Facebook itās too late
Could be frustration from pain, my exs little girl had celiac disease and this is how she got her point across.
Could be a behavioral disorder, deff get a hold of a doctor / psychiatrist to rule it out.
Cut out dye heavy foods completely, especially red dyes - could be adhd / autism etcā¦
Woaaaaa!!! Sheās definetly wayyyyyyy out of control! She has a lot of anger built up somewhere! Ide take everything she likes to play with away from her! When she obeys get a chart and stars, give her a toy back each time along with a star.
Why donāt people parent anymore 
Youāre the one letting her behave that way, teach her there are consequences for her bad behaviour. Youāre in charge not your child 
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Wowā¦ Sounds like she shouldāve already been kicked out, theyāre nice people
good cracked backside.
Talk to her, she can express verbally whatās going on, she can feel and knows sheās doing wrong set up a behavior charts with colors and rewards like stickers, let her talk and express her feelings something maybe bothering her at day care or treating her bad, her negative behavior can be call out for help,
Wow she is bad at the world, she letting out her anger on other people I would have a counciler talk to her something is definitely bothering her
She is mad at the world hope u get it in control 
Spankins are frowned upon but necessary. Turn that tushy red. Sounds like sheās gone her whole life without real discipline.
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My grandson was like that he was diagnosed with whatās called panda a autoimmune disorder cause from step
Talk to her. With that much angerā¦ there could be something going on with her and she may just not know how to deal with/ process it. Get her checked up at the doctors too and make sure she isnāt in any type of pain either!
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She needs therapy, sounds like oddā¦oppositional defiant disorder
Honestly it could be a million different things.
I would start with medically clearing her first
Make sure there is no underlying health concern then if everything comes back fine then start trying different things to redirect this behavior. Every child is there own person sometimes what works for one does not work for the otherā¦ sit down and talk to her . That works wonders with my 4 year old . Sometimes she just feels like no one is listening to her because they are so little they sometimes feel like they canāt get there point across which is frustrating !
My son was getting suspended from school daily in kindergarten we got him in support Inc. Day treatment program and it has totally changed him they teach them coping skills and u also learn along the way now heās in school and the principal says heās done a 180 and is the perfect student
Exercise as punishment! Itāll burn off any anger, burn off excess energy, and build endorphins. Works for all of my kids. I also made my kids bite lemons or peppers to help stop the biting.
Look for a resource in the area for behavioral support/therapeutic support. The earlier you get support the better the support is. I hear about children displaying behaviors at 3 and 6 and parents write it off because there small and can manage but when they get bigger it gets worse
Does she have consequences for her actions?
Yāall preaching about hitting your kids get real quiet when momma posts about her husband hitting heršš»
Google TRS. Other parents give great reviews
Do it back to her . What ever she doing to others have them do it back to her and let her know how it feels . It hurts and you donāt like it done to you so stop it and after sheās calm down have a talk with her telling her thatās not allowed and their are going to be consequences when you do those things to others and see what the issue is why sheās doing all these things talk with her if thatās not working then she just throwing a fit and being a butt and needs it done back to her
Well sounds like there was never any punishment when these behaviors BEGAN. They donāt just happen over night. And she should be kicked out of daycare until she learns to behave. No adult or child should have to go through that from a child. Might want to get the child checked out. Could be a mental/medical reason for such behavior.
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Is there not anyone referring her for check to make sure she doesnāt have any disabilities or behavioural disorders? I work in a nursery and there is plenty of places and authorities that can help
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Some may like this statement and some may not. It is my opinion and my opinion only. Decades ago, medical professionals did not have the resources nor the medication to diagnose children with these disorders. Discipline was the route of action taken, it seemed to be very effective. For instance my BFās son who resided in my house for extended period of times was diagnosed with ADHD at an early age. He was given medication, not by our choice. We ran a very strict house with three teenage boys residing with me. Bad grades and bad behavior are not acceptable. He would have bad behavior at his moms house. He knew he could not do those behaviors at my house because there would be consequences. His behavior slowly became better. He was taken off the medication. It was our responsibility as parents to discipline children, not make excuses, medicate and be their best friends. Social media, video games, electronics have taken the place of parenting and until people realize this, it will continue. It takes time and effort to raise children.
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One thing you could try is taking preservatives, colours and additives out of her diet. Even an overload of certain fruits can trigger reactions. Try to get hold of Sue Dengateās bood Fed up. It helped me. PS if it works remember the reactions will get less as they grow up. Body ratio to food.
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I would set up appointment w/ Pediatrician first- to rule out any medical issues. If none, they can refer for social/ emotional help
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Child psychologist. She sounds like she needs some therapy and some help. Trust me itāll help her. And possibly prevent the behavior from getting worse and escalating when she gets older.
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Parents are so afraid to discipline their children these days! No child has ever died from a spanking or some sort of discipline! That is what is wrong with kids these days! Parents want to be āFriendsā with their kids today & not āParents!ā They talk back to the parents! Have not been taught respect! Itās sad! Very sad!
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Some behaviors are simply not acceptable. My behavior expectations were high for my children; especially in public. One time my daughter was bothering her brother in church when she was 3. I took her to the van. After a minute, she wanted to go back inside. I kept her in the van with me for the rest of the service and during coffee hour. I told her that her behavior had been unacceptable and I would not allow her to misbehave in church. My daughter is 25 now; she says she remembers this. We went to church every Sunday. My daughter enjoyed being in choir, the bell choir, singing solo, helping with Bible school, attending church camp every year (she was a camp counselor for 2 summers during college). I let my children know that I expected certain behaviors; and they would miss out on things if they didnāt behave.
Perhaps with your daughter; you could keep her at home a few days with you. Donāt let her watch TV, or have fun during the time she would be in daycare. Tell her she has to have acceptable behavior at daycare; and that is what you expect. Let her know that she is missing out on playing with friends, and doing fun things at daycare; then limit your interactions with her for the day. Remind her a few times during the day that she needs to spend the day thinking about how to be good at school. If she misbehaves when she returns to daycare; be ready to take the next day to be at home with her. Repeat, even if you have to use personal days. Follow through with expectations for certain behaviors everywhere. It takes a lot of patience and consistency on your part. Good luck.
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This is a mental health need and sounds like a possible diagnosis that I work with on the daily.
Get her to a professional for evaluation.
As a special education teacher, I would have her evaluated by a psychologist. Then enroll her in a ABA Therapy. A behaviorist analyst can do an analysis and see what is triggering the behavior then she can receive therapy for the behavior. Definitely need to figure out why the behavior is occurring. Then come up with a plan. I would also contact your school district, because at 3 students can start receiving services. The state you live in may also have resources to help.
How about going to your pediatrician to discuss this behavior. There could be a physical or brain issue. Try eliminating certain foods from her diet . Less sugar, dyes, artificial ingredients. Maybe she needs more rest. So much to discuss. All the best mom
Have you asked her "what she wants and what can you do to help her "
Sometimes all they want is to know that someone is listening and cares what they are saying without judgement
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Sounds like professional help is needed. Ask your pediatrician what her/she suggests.
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Ask your doctor for a referral to a play therapist they specialise in children and can find out what is going on with your child. Best of luck x
Perhaps the staff at the daycare could refer her to professionals who can figure out whatās going on? Sounds like wee girl is unable to express herself in the usual manner. I wonder for a start how her oral language is?
My thoughts is she could have food allergies. I knew of a kid like that once and oranges (citrus) was the culprit! It could be something else like gluten. My neighbor girl was not violent but she was antisocial & rude til she was taken off gluten! She did a complete turn around from who she was into a wonderful lovable gal!!
Well, it may be the parent who needs counseling on how to handle those situations. I went and it helped me tremendously.
I was going to suggest the same as others - perhaps it is time for an evaluation. Normally I would say let her grow out of it but she will be starting regular school soon so youāve got to address these issues now. Best of luck to you, itās never easy!!
First she needs to see her pediatrician. They will refer you to the right specialist to take some tests. Rule out anything first.
Then (if everything is ruled out) Iād say communicate with her that violence will not get her what she wants and follow through. Donāt give her what she wants when she has a tantrum, provide consequences immediately when she hits/kicks/bites.
It also seems like she may be aggressive due to frustration. What is she trying to gain, if not attention?
Also, corporal punishment will not work, especially with a aggressive child. That will only teach her to be more aggressive.
listen no harm intended but maybe U should of been on that ass with NO SYMPATHY after she turn 1 so it wouldnt get as bad as it is now I have 7kids my youngest is 3 n cause he is his dad first child he sometimes get a little out of control but when I say something to him WITH NO HESITATION HE STOP WHAT HE DOING N DO exactly what I say, getting medication isnāt always the best. u just need to b more firm n dont back down n give alittle smack on the ass put her in her room with the door lock til she calm down. she at that age 2 understand
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I agree with the person who said ODD oppositional defiance disorder. My son was diagnosed with this at four. They put him on so many drugs and it ruined his childhood 
he was a zombie in school and eventually developed paranoia. When he was a teen I pulled him out of school took him off all medicine and we started medicating with CBD/THC since then he has graduated high school,held down a job for three years and now lives on his own! Next up at 23 we are going to start working on driving. Please donāt just let the professionals give him any drugs. Do ur research they had my son on anti psychotics, adhd meds, one time he was on a mental health drug for food disorders they claimed it helped control his outbursts non of those worked. I know many people are anti marijuana but in my case it saved my sons life. In one year medicating with marijuana products he achieved so much and is continuing to do so. So be careful please. Iāve done a lot of research since Iām an early childhood degreed educator so if u ever need to talk or have questions let me know. One thing that did work when he was little was having a safe place in classroom and home to go and calm down. An area in the room with a few of his things and maybe a snack or drink. We also used a 1-5 system so when he was mad and didnāt want to talk he could show me what number he was so I knew how much calming we were up against. Iāve got lots of resources so Private message me anytime if u would like to
try to get to the root of the problem Children donāt always know how to express them selves
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Iāve been in early childhood for almost five years and Iāve seen something similar, not to this far of an extent but similar. We had a girl at one of our locations who was extremely defiant, hit teachers, threw things basically did whatever she could to be disruptive including hitting and verbally abusing her mom. She too was on the brink of being kick out but my boss decided to try one more thing and move her to a different location and see if other teaching strategies could work. We received the girl and omg she was so different! We still had her throw the occasional fit and get in trouble but it was more on track with things kiddos her age would do and not NEARLY as bad as what she was previously doing. Sometimes, for whatever reason, kids and teachers just dont click. Who knows why, but it might be worth a shot to see if sheās just sending out a cry for help because sheās unhappy with something in her environment.
What are her triggers? Is she expressing frustration about a lack of understanding of not being able to communicate well? Or is it just rage and fury? Figuring that out will help you deal with her heart so she can learn to respond differently, not just behavior modification. A book, Shepherding A Childās Heart by Paul Tripp, can help distinguish the difference and make a long term difference. Ultimately she needs to know her actions are harming others and herself too. At that age their reasoning skills arenāt great. As a mother of 8 adult children and 6 grands Iām helping raise, my heart goes out to you. Itās not easy, so breathe, pray and respond well. Donāt react in anger for they model that too. And yes, some of those were biters when preschoolers that drew blood and have managed to learn self control and become decent humans. There is hope. Sending hugs.
What? I would never let my child behave like that at home. The parent(s) need to be in control, take charge and lay down some rules. You need to develop the mommaās LOOKš known to stop charging bulls in their tracks. If my kids were acting up and I gave them that LOOK they knew they had to settle down and fast. In case you ask NO they were not abused. They knew there would be consequences
Have you tried punishing the child. Not beating them or nothin but when I was a kid I got shit taken away up to just being a mattress on the floor. Gotta nip that shit in the bud
I do believe she may have an undiagnosed mental issue, this is not normal so get an evaluation soon.
Not to be mean but you have to get control. Call a child behaviorist. They can help you step by step i would think. Good luck.
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Watching cartoon films lot?
Try to make her watch fairy tales! Dress her like them ! Keep instilling in her mind she is fairy. Kind loving and beautiful! Donāt scold her whenever she is about to do something nasty tell her faeries donāt do this !!! They wonāt be friends with someone who does all this ! Keep surprise gifts of her choice near her at night and tell fairiesgave her as she too is fairie !
Like this grow desire in her to be kind fairie
My grandson had similar issues. Had him evaluated, he is autistic.
For a child to act out most times is due to the child not getting the attention they need at home when growing up. Iām not bashing or being negative but Of experiences Iāve had with my children and other children Iāve watched during after school programs and child cares Iāve worked for, Iāve learned about the childās needs. Itās not asking much but spending 15 mins aside with your child and responding to all and most their questions. Children need to know their being listened to, a sign of needs. Iāve learned that Parallel talking with children as young as 3 years old really helps the children feel secure with their parents. If youāre close and open with your children from the time they are able to voice their opinions and their emotions, as a parent we need to be able to respond to them. This builds a secure relationship that allows the children to respond with respect. Parallel talking also helps with taking turns, and kids understanding what a parent needs for them to be respected back. Youād be surprised how smart children are at such a young age. Sitting with your child at a spot they feel is more comfortable and reading a book or simply talking about each otherās day with responding, children feel respected and wanted as to not being heard or wanted. A lot of one on one time and parallel talking is needed for children to grow up understanding that they feel wanted and respected by simply responding to them. It donāt take much to give your children time. Some kids go to school and act out because their voices arenāt heard or responded to. I donāt really agree with medical because I never had the money or time as a single mother to get my children professionally screened. All I know is children need to be heard and given the time at home so they arenāt acting out else where to get attention. Also tantrums are completely controllable. Sometimes extra love and time is whatās needed for children to feel their needs are met. Letting your child know how it makes you feel as a parent when they act out, letting your child know that itās not right to act certain ways. Voicing your worries and needs to children as young as 3 years old really helps develop a special bond between you and your child. Let them know whoās in charge but also letting them know their loved and their needs are met but simply responding too oh your child.
Psychology doesnāt give me an answer to how to fix it.
I can venture toward a reason as to why they act this way.
Children only have a few built in behaviors. Explore, touch, taste, whereās mom? and so on.
Interactive behaviors with other people are learned from observation.
Thatās not to say theyāve seen people biting each other.
It could be as simple as a sibling or neighbor who visits now and then wo have a relationship in which one person is strongly dominant.
The child picks up the subconscious understanding ādominant is effective.ā
Then since they have no method of imposing dominance other than violence, they use that.
On the bright side, if theyāre not doing it for attention, sharp scolding should work to stop the behavior quickly.
If they persist, the attention they get for the behavior is part of what theyāre doing it for.
Child or adult, you donāt persist in an action that constantly results in negative outcomes.
Maybe use a punishment that includes isolation so they have no attention at all?
I do suggest you think long and hard before using drugs on them.
For one thing, you canāt target a single behavior with drugs, so parts of who that child is, is being washed away with them.
For another, that behavior existed for a reason, and if you arenāt finding the cause(s) they will find another means of expression, which could be much much worse.
Bite her back and maybe sheela get the ida what biting really is
Everyone looking at the child! Should start at the parenting 
Counselling will do nothing this is new term of today,s generation,use the old method to deal with such kids.
Sounds like oppositional defiance disorder.
Try diet first before sending for other sorts tests!