They r ready if u actually patented and prepared them its your fault if they r not ready u failed
College or trade school?
Ask her point blank, or put it on the table…are you drinking and using drugs? This is not allowed here ( since she is under age) . Once she pays " rent" it will be hell to kick her out!! Cant do it. Make a list of rules that MUST be followed. Tell her she needs to contribute to your family by paying $$ for food. Do not call it RENT. But, make it clear that she needs to give you LOTS OF MONEY. Tell her it includes internet, cable, laundry,food, cleaning, home comforts,etc. And all your errands that she expects from a mom.
Pack a suit case with her clothes in, put on the case, There are your belongs in there, if you dont act better in this house towards every one You Are Out On The Steets, works a treat. If she is prepared to change make sure you get a good rent from her no exuses for not paying up.
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Quit pampering your kids, they wanna act up tell em to move out, mexicans basically get thrown out at 18yrs of age an they survive
She needs to get a second job if one won’t support her!
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I let my daughter live at home until she finished college n started a good job. This helped her alot…
You need to sit down and talk to her… She can do live in as a caregiver to earn money and a place to live, she can join one of the Army… Help her find a room for rent and help her find a job like amazon that pays every week. She has to learn to be a blessing not a headache … A peace of mind is priceless… Ask her why is she fighting… Show her love and hug. She needs to be a peace maker not trouble maker… Something is bothering her, find out what it is… Go on a 3 day water fast and pray Psalm 91 for protection and Psalm 5:12 for favor…
Hm 19 and ur thinking of sending her out to this cruel world…
am a mother of a teenager and i hear ur frustrations…its time for u to have mother-daughter relstioship or respect or conversation…try to gain her trust…somethingis going on with her…and ur not aware…our children need us but we dont take time to listen or give them audience cos we are busy
…teen yrs are the worst…u may want her to get out and she lands with a wrong group…drugs …sex and so on…this may haunt u for the rest of ur life…sit down with all ur kids or one by one…have a serious conversation with all of them…siblings fight…why??? Find out but pseeeeeeee dont send her out…mine is 20 ( i dont wznt her to leave yet…am worried for her)…yessss i had issues with her…but guess wat i did…I WENT DOWN ON MY KNEES AND LIFTED HER TO THE LORD.A mothers prayer never fails…best of luck …its hard raising teens…they are our kids…we love them dearly though they turn into little monsters but they turn around…
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Give her an eviction notice
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Makin her pay rent for a bit will help get her ready to pay Bill’s on her own
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Don’t kick her out start teaching her how to be responsible
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Further education go off to college but sit and talk to her. Is WHAT’S bothering her dont judge listen. With love.
A little more responsibility and some rent may help her make a decision
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You really want her out?? Time to call a recruiter… Army, Navy, Air Force, or Marines… 
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Wow! I can’t even imagine this mentality towards my kids! Regardless of age she will always be your child. SMH
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You are the parent. Set the rules and enjoy them while you can
Pay her rent for one month buy her some food for 1 month pay with light bill for one month gas bill for one month phone bill for one month and tell her good luck and don’t forget the luggage
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Send her to the store. While she is gone change the locks.
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Give her a date to vacate and stand by it.
Your conversation should be with her!
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I would love it if my daughter stayed
Home.
Do like my mom did and find her a great appartment…
Charge her room and board.
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A suggestion, my mother did this for me, and it was an amazing help when I left.
I paid rent based off of what my paycheck was that week, say-10% of total take home, I also paid 1/4-1/2 of my Auto insurance, and then I also did my laundry and cleaned the whole house 2-3 times a week. I also if I could paid for my portion of the grocery bill (I worked as a cashier at a local grocery store, so I was able to get the weekly ads before and plan our trips. I did this when I started working at 16, and I still was not fully stable to move out.
I did end up pregnant at 22, but did pay my way at the house and pay them for the babysitting (around their schedules, I worked after they got home and they were not allowed to help me on the weekends- yes, we all agreed to this).
I still paid out of my paycheck- it left me enough for being a mom, and paying what my baby needed, with enough for gas to get to and from work.
When I did get married, and we had to move (I was 23), my mother gave us a “wedding gift”, 3 envelopes full of cash. It was almost every penny I paid to them from the time I started paying for myself. It was amazing and heartwarming to know, my mother and father actually kept it for me, and just paid what I was supposed to. She even had the receipts for our transactions.
Don’t just toss her out, but maybe this will help.
I am now 37, with the same hubby I married @23. We have 4 beautiful kids (yes we include my oldest) and will do this for each of them. I will draw the line at living at home until they are 25. Then they best get out!
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Good luck. 
it’s so dam hard for an adult esp NOW. I feel your pain tho
To young to be moving out!
Easy! Tell her she has 30 days to get out.
Listen to above make her sign contract
Make her pay rent.abd if not tell she has to quit fighting ormove out
Since you asked it started when you allowed her as a child to be disrespectful now she has no respect for herself or others in her family that’s probably why she has a crappie job get ready your other kids are watching & learning her behavior get a second job so you can be out of the house your problems seems to be sticking around for awhile
Just say you got so on so time to find you a job and a place to rent. Plain and simple tough love!
Start charging for rent, utilities and food, get ready to live on her own
Charge her room and board
The military offers free room and board and she may learn something
Give them chores especially when the fighting starts.
Evict her they go up fast or change behavior in YOUR house
give he a 30 day notice to vacate. Tough love.
Military or college pick one!
Therapy! For both/all of you
Charge her rent…she will be gone
Stop supporting her, make her start paying up! Let her know it is YOUR house, not hers, I had a very hard time getting my son out of the house, He kept moving back home until he was 30 years old. Thank God he finally found the right one and settled down. I allowed it because of my Grandchildren. They got to live with me while he was there, if not for them, I would have kicked his lazy butt out!
Open the door help her out
Mom of the year right there!
If she has a job make her pay rent
I’ve never heard of anything so mean.
If you kick her out with no plan and no warning on how she is going to live, it can open you up for legal liability.
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Make her pay rent, she’s working.
Lol tell her she can’t!
Pack her stuff put it in yard change locks
Talk to God. He is the only way.
Change the locks leave a note go away for a week
Garage her rent, utilities, food, and maid services.
Ever heard of a “come to Jesus” meeting? STRAIGHTEN UP OR MOVE ON!! NOT HAVING IT!!!
Find room mates for her to share rent the only way she will grow up is experience. I move out at 16.
Really …not fair 19 and out
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There is alway the
Army
Change the locks on all doors.
At 18 not mature enough to move out.
Just like a bird… kick em out when they’re grown 🤷. I was 18 and out, I worked on a farm so I was prepared to work.
where is she going…
You pasted this on Facebook! See a counselor.
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Bag up her stuff and sit it on the front porch and change the locks
Change the door lock
Give her money or buy her somewhere to call home…simple
Open all the doors …
I was still living st home with my parents at 32.
Their house, their rules. No problem.
But I stayed home, until I had a job, that payed me, so I could pay rent, bills, gas and car expenses and feed my face.
Until then, I gave my parents money when I could afford it,
I bought food, let them use my car, did yard work, helped dad with home maintence, did the dishes, laundry, helped take care of them when they were sick, made dinner… etc, etc…
My siblings “constantly”
started arguments with me and told my parents,
I started the fights.
Why did they fight with me? Because they wanted to get me pissed off enough or my parents mad at me enough, to put me out.
Again… why ?
So, they could get the bigger bed room, or mooch off the parents, with out me pointing the finger at them. Go figure.
So, the arguments between the kids, might not all be her fault. Listen to both sides and accept 50% of both sides… like my late mother used to say… “Takes 2 to tango and start a fight.”
And unfortunately, in this point in time, you need 3 or 4 part time jobs, to make a living on your own.
A lot of stores are closing and there are a lot of people still on unemployment.
Before you kick her out…
Sit down with all the kids and tell them they all have to start acting like adults and get along.
And the 18 yr old… tell her, you expect her to help out around the house, do chores and errands, when she’s not working, until she has a job to support herself.
Good luck to both of you.
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Change the locks!!! Lol.
You can evict her just go to the courthouse
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Be a parent. Let her stay.
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Army navy air force marines uscg.
Put her stuff outside and change the locks
She has no real resources to go out in the world with. Talk to her about getting a skill, so she can better help herself. Eighteen is still very young, she’s not yet an adult. She needs guidance & support. It’s a scary world out there.
I’ll say this: If you just kick her out into the streets without figuring out why she’s so angry, you’ll be ruining your relationship with her forever. Out of sight is NOT out of mind. I see many people in this thread suggesting vindictive things like taking 60% of her paycheck, cutting her off from food and internet, etc. Let me tell you this: If you isolate her like that, you can forget about ever maintaining a relationship with her again. Worse yet, when the younger kids get older and find out what you did, they’ll hate you too and you’ll deserve it. Explore other options before you just decide to kick her out as the solution. How many of you on here wanting her to he kicked out were fully prepared to live on your own when you were 18/19? Don’t go down that road, you’ll only make things worse.
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Well as a mom of 12 I’ve raised my kids after they graduate it’s either the military or school. They get 1 year to decide after graduation. So far my first 3 are military and out by 18. I refuse to have my 20 something year old kid living at home doing nothing with a endless job. By 16 I teach them how to pay bills to live on their own. I miss them horribly but they have their own homes and careers by 19 and are very happy 
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Communication is the key! In today’s world it’s nearly impossible for the kids to survive on their own and as parents we must teach them! Tell her how you feel and listen to her and how she feels… With a little communication you would be surprised how much you can learn and adjust! Good luck to you both!
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My son moved out when he turned 18. I miss him. I wish he would’ve stayed. Honestly , he’s not and wasn’t ready. He knows my door is always open. My point, have a sit down, talk it out, keep her home a little longer. It sucks to see your child struggle. Just my thought. Good luck.
You Never know what life your going to live I have my daughter and 2, granddaughters we are raising she’s 37 yrs and only lived on her own 6 mths. Twice problems with drug’s I thank God we have our granddaughters They could of been taken away if we didn’t have them they are a Joy and blessing I thank God for them 
we never thought we would ever be raising kids again me and my husband thought we would get to travel.but didn’t happen I’m 63 he’s 65 yrs. Our granddaughters been with us since they were born they are 10,17 yrs and yes we had Many problems with our daughter in and out of jail and rehab. Still praying she will change she’s better but still slips sometimes but never ever will give up on her!! I thank God she’s still alive and with us!
My step daughter was kixked out by her mom back at the end of May she is 18 and lives with her Dad and I . She works everyday except Sundays she pays for her car insurance her own cell phone her own toiletries. She knows if she doesnt like what we have for dinner she can go out to get her own.I will tell her when she is home for lunch . She is respectful of our home and us.
Of you put her out now, chances are good that she will have to come back later bc she wasn’t mature enough to handle it. Give her space but change the “rules” if you have to. Peace in your family is a top priority. Been there, done that. Make sure she has the tools to be successful but let her know that ultimately the decision to do so is hers and hers alone. All actions have consequences. I wish you the best!
Get her to help pay for the things she uses, internet, small amount for rent, buys her own groceries. Get her to do her own laundry if she isn’t already. Plus help out around the house. She’ll be so busy working and doing everything they’ll be no time to fight with her siblings. Just try to be patient. Not everyone is ready to leave the nest so early. My oldest just moved out three months ago and she’s 28. No bad reflection on me, just some kids take longer to adjust. Good luck.
I paid $50.00 a week back in 1971. I worked full time and went to school. After my internship was completed I moved out. Even though I was prepared, it was still hard to do. I ended moving back home after a year because I was engaged and wanted to have a nice wedding! If she is not prepared she will fail. Set some goals and prepare her for the real world!! My parents e
There are 17 year olds that have buisnesses 18 year oldswho are putting themselves through school and working
Is she paying you rent? Do you pay for her expenses like phone or car? If so, I wrote out a payment schedule for my sons where each had to take over paying for his own expenses. On December 1, 2020 you will need to start paying for your own phone. On February 1, 2021 you will need to pay your own car insurance. On May 1 you will need to start paying me rent of $—- The object of this exercise is to have her become more responsible for her own life and expenses AND to move out on her own. She can get roommates to cut down on individual cost. You should let her know that as of a certain date (September 1, 2021?). she will have to move out on her own. Have it all in writing so that everything is clear to her and she will know what is expected of her Make it a contract with her. Have both of you sign it and each keep a copy. Save the rent she pays you so that she will have money for first month’s rent, last month and security deposit. Also make getting along with her siblings part of the deal. Good luck!
Live in babysitting helped move out at 16.
R u freakin high 18 on there own to many of u retarded parents let grown ass men and woman live at home . Second what grown person wants to live at parents retarded
Start charging her rent
Tiphanie Williams read the comments…
Stop beating around the bush. Tell her stop being a bitch or get out.
I’m sorry but there needs to be more information here. How old are the “younger” siblings. Is this an 18yr old fighting with 6 yr olds or 16 year olds. If you cant manage your children that’s on you, not her. There were MANY MANY MANY times I had to leave family holidays because my brother who was only 3yrs younger would pick fights. So is she picking fights or are her siblings and she’s just responding.
Have you TALKED to her about where the irritability comes from, because clearly she isnt comfortable enough with you to talk to you about it.
I grew up hearing “I cant wait till your 18 so you can move out” so I left at 18 completely unprepared.
Also telling your kid to either “behave or get out/join the military” tells me you’d rather your child suffer then actually be a parent. If you REALLY wanna fuck up your chances of ever having a good relationship with your child I really recommend you think it throu%h because she is NOT going to thank you [as much as some of these parents want you to think she will] for making her possible homeless and a target of abuse.
Start charging her room and board
Elaine Williams kinda like your situation
Do what my step dad did, pack her shit and put it on the porch. I got kicked out because I wasn’t letting them control me
Lmao wow what kind of parent are you
Charging her rent yet😏
Your a shit mum:joy:
Just by this post she probably been raised wrong already and mummy can’t deal with it so easiest option is to kick her out:rofl:
Fucken man up and be a parent Ffs. We still get slapped at the age of 25 if we’re out of line:joy:
Easy tell her to get out
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Ara Maine Marie Monday Merrie Monday
Disconnect the internet.
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Tell her she has to go
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