No tell the true! He will hurt somebody else ! The trie will liberate you
I am a survivor of abuse from male relatives in my family. I have been to counseling. I told my husband about my past. He knows about family members that I will not let my children around without one of us around. To protect yourself and daughter, please donāt write or send Pictures of your family. I would tell your family that he not the sweet uncle everyone thinks he is. Who knows he could have done stuff to other family members that they are ashamed of us as well. You will feel better and start the healing process. I understand where the trust issue comes into play.
It was me I believe is my cat because kid downlights cause I have fuck it on my own and mostly I believe my kid so maybe your mom blue YouTube if she love you
As a rape survivor I can tell you itās going to be very hard to ājust get over itā without family support. I was 17 and just started college in Boston. A man asked for the time so I walked over to him and he grabbed my arm and had a knife at my back. He raped me in the stairwell of an abandoned project, sliced me up a little down there, hit me a few times and left me on the roof. In February. In Boston. I walked out and up the street and realized I was at Boston medical center where my bff father was a surgeon. I called her first. She called her dad and he came down. I didnāt want to tell my parents because I thought they would think it was my fault. Finally I had Carine call my mom. Her, my dad, my nana, and a ton of Boston police and state police. 8 have uncles in both. Whole point is I was up in my parents bedroom watching TV and fell asleep. Normally my mom would wake me so her and my dad could go to sleep. For over a week my dad slept in the couch right by the front door and my mom wanted me to sleep with her. She needed me near her. She needed me to know that my family would do anything they could. My dad offered to put bars on my windows if Iād feel safer. I didnāt want that. I am not the person I was all those years ago. He took a lot more than my money. I have severe PTSD to the point Iāve had ECT treatment and Iām not ashamed to admit that. This got long but trauma can turn you into a completely different personā¦
I dont know how close u are to ure dad but i would tell him second tell ure husband first then have ure dad and husband there to tell ure mom for moral support sorry u have to go thru this u need to get it off ure chest
Hold a family intervention. Go on line and see if you can engage a therapist who will help you host one. You simply invite everyone over for dinner without revealing whatās going to unfold. Then you reveal the ugly secret. Itās like lancing a boil. Itās painful and traumatic, but no healing can occur until you bite the bullet and do it. That goes for the whole family, not just you. Further trauma may be revealed. He may have abused other family members, and/or been secretly abused himself.
You need to talk to someone about this! Donāt keep it bottled up!
You need counselling support from domestic abuse services
You MUST talk it OVER to your MUM to be FREE.You MUST.Its YOUR LIFE,not your MUMS.Dont draft any NOTEs or Post any Photos to him. DONT!
You should think about what you would do if it wouldnāt affect anyone else and then do that.
You need to go for some sort of counseling. It helped me tremendously. I risked telling my parents and I was not believed. I wasnāt even wearing bras yet, and this dirty old man wanted to tell me I was getting to have a nice figure. Creep. I realized it wasnāt my fault. It took twenty years, but my Dad finally saw something the old geezer did when he stopped in to see him and I was there. He believed me. I still didnāt care if they believed me or not. I knew the truth. I found once I went for counseling, it helped me to talk about it at times to others who had been in the same sort of situation I had been. You would be amazed how many have been abused as we have. It set me free. The more I let it out, the better I felt. Get help. Give your Mom a chance to know the truth. She deserves to know. If she doesnāt accept it, that goes with her. I think she will believe you.
No baby u tell your mom. Itās the only way to start getting you better. Why was her brother living with yāall?
Itās time to come clean and tell everybody what happened
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What do you do? Stop living in horror ā¦ TELL your mom!
You need counseling ādonāt shrug it off. You must deal with it with a counselor.
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Writs to him. And in passing mention that he may write and not visit you or your daughter. Your husband can take him out for coffee lunch or dinner but not over to your house to see you or your daughter. Suffer for righteousness sake
If the original poster could message me, I want to tell you a story.
This is something very familiar and I want to share my story with you.
Hey this is on him not you! You did nothing wrong. If they donāt believe you itās in them! Hope you find the courage and peace! Also talk to a professional
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I would definitely see a therapist. You need healing from this trauma. YOU, should be your first concern. Iām so very sorry you were violated by that man. Please get help. God bless you 
They need to know the truth. He hurt you.
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You have to tell her. If itās hurting you now, she needs to know so you can feel safe.
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Find a counselor, tell him or her everything and let them help u figure out what to do.
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GO SEE A THERAPIST. After trauma therapy, you will know what to do. But please do not write or send pics of you and family before working through your trauma.
My best advice is therapy for at least 2 yrs.prayers for healing and strength 
You need to talk to A GOOD THERAPIST and they will help you to be able to talk to your family, you may never forget but it will ease your pain.
Do not be manipulated into communicating with this sickoā¦protect your own sanity and break ties.
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Have your mom read this post.
Proudly tell her, you will never write him, let alone send any pics.
Your not alone, it WAS not your fault, time to heal and your truth be told.
Iād say, mom (whomever) I have bad memories/experiences that happened to me hereās my story show your post.
Prayers, healing and strength.
Tell them.donāt let him keep hurting you and making your life miserable.God will take care of him come judgment day.
Well Honey the Lord would be happy if you could find it in your broken heart ,and for give him,as hard as it must be you wouldhonour our Lord,sorry bad things happened to you.
Please seek professional help, this is too much for you to have to bear on your own. Talking to someone outside the family I believe will help you immensley.
You need to do what is right for you and your healing. Not what anyone else says to do. You will do what you need to do with the love and support from your husband sending love to of love and healing Kia Kaha
Fine a family therapy and go with your mom might take a few sessions good luck
Please go and get some counseling, it will help you deal with the flashbacks and your feelings.
Ok from experience tell your parents together then get therapy and ask your mom to do a few sessions with you.
U have already received some amazing advice. As a survivor of sexual abuse I send you love and strength 
Tell the truth - truth always works the best
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See a therapist, let them help you. Prayers
Tell everyone in your family about it & it will lighten your load of this awful thing that happened to you. Blessingsšš¼
NO u have been the victim too long. Need to
Tell as it is troubling u after all these years.
U r proud go farther with this problem.
Best of luck-yes u can!
Go and see a councillor ā¦they will be of great help to you and nobody needs to know about this .
Good luck
Get counseling immediately ā¦do not send him a thing. Itās time to talk to your morher with supportā¦
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Get professional help. You need to talk to someone to help you deal with what happenedā¦
You need to talk to them. They are living a lie about him. Iām sure his life In Prison is for a good reason . He is not a good person .
Talk to a professional but your mom needs to know too
Tell your mom why you cannot write to him. If she doesnāt believe you, so be it. Live your life in happiness. Youāve earned it. God bless you.
Time to talk to someone now. Your husband then mom, Prayers
Tell her! She not a mind reader. Time for you to get peace. Tell her(them) tell everyone
Make yourself comfortable. Tell them or not be true to you
The best thing you can do is sit down with your mom and speak the truthā¦
Please go talk to a professional. They will help you work thru this.
Hmmmmm so you told a whole world of strangers on social media!!! I hoped that helped
Counseling will help. Itās all on your time. You donāt have to write him.
Tell her. I bet she wonāt be surprised
Talk to your minister or someone in mental profession. Donāt KEEP it in it will destroy you. I know
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Get some professional help, counseling.
I would tell my Mom whether it hurts her or not.
Absolutely not !! The truth is the truth hey can accept it or not ! They can contact him if they want !
You DO not owe them or him anything !!
The truth will set u free or just learn to accept it I know how you feel I been there
Please get professional help. Time to talk to mother
Therapy is needed to help you. And it does helpā¦donāt hesitateā¦good luck.
Have them read this itās a perfect explanation or better still read it to them!
U need to heal. Tell her the truth. So u can move on
He may have or will do it to othersā¦please tell to prevent that
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Please you need to share it. You made the first step by posting this now let God lead you to share it with your family.
You need to tell, tell, tell & get counseling.
Your truth is yours to share! I got much better after i shared!
Tell her , you did no wrong and he might of did it to others . Do it for you
Show this to an adult who loves you! Now!!!
Tell them, they to know how and what he is.
Get a therapist and get alone and family counseling
Youāre hurting them by not telling them.
Do not keep this to yourself. Get the monkey off of your back.
The truth will set you free
tell your mother, she understand you, and the most of all keep praying .pls read the bible psalm 55:22ā¦
Iām pretty sure your mom loves u more.
No, explain to the others!
Tell your mom. She should know! She loves you.
It must be told in order for u to have peace with your self
No question , you and they need to know x
No. Tell them Let them deal with it. Heās not in prison for nothing
at least tell a counselor
Tell them or at least someone please.
I went through something similar with when I was younger. I was so scared to tell my mom. I didnāt think she would believe me and I thought it would start huge fights. I finally told her and felt so much better. She was totally supportive. Give your parents some credit, they might surprise you.
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Be prepared to be called a liar
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Donāt write him donāt send him any pictures. STAY SAFE
Tell your uncle that you are going to tell your mom then tell your parents and your husband then walk away
Tell. Your job is not to spare their feelings but to share your feelings.
Facebook is not the place for these tragedies,Iām sorry but itās not
Tell them the truth because you did nothing wrong.
See a counselor before you do anything.
Keep away from him if he gets out keep your children away from him
First I would get professional help.
No. You donāt have to send him anything. I would go talk to a therapist for your sake.
You will not have peace if you donāt let someone know.
Tell your mom what happened it will somewhat give you a little peace. This way your mom wonāt send him pics of your family behind your back & I bet your mom will feel the heartache & guilt that she will keep this info to herself. If she wishes to tell others of her brotherās abuse then let her.
donāt write to him and No pictures!
TELL THEM NOW AND THAN get help from a professional 
Get it off your chest speak to a therapist and go from there regarding how to break it to your family. This is stressing you out & stress kills. Good luck. God bless
You need to do what is best for YOU.
My advice is to decline sending pictures or having contact. Explain that you do not feel comfortable sharing pictures of your children to a prison.
You wouldnāt share them on social media without privacy settings right?
This way you donāt have to release information to people who wouldnāt accept the truth that you have known about their beloved convict and also sometimes what they donāt know canāt hurt you.
You have been through enough.
Thereās no need to relive the pain and guilt of the soiling of your innocence just to pacify a family or anyone especially a known pedophile.
Stay clear and stay true to yourself.
I do however suggest that you seek counseling for the trauma you experienced. Whether or not you realize it there are detrimental affects caused by abuse especially at such a young age. You need to heal, please allow yourself to.