Not worth it if he cares so little for you that he won’t bathe.
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I think the best way to deal with this is to submit a fan question to nameless network. Definitely don’t confront him face to face like an adult human being, that would be awkward.
Start walking now, remember we a put together already assembled, with the ability to take showers without the fear he is going to rust.
Really? No…you seriously can’t be contemplating a relationship with a man who runs the water and PRETENDS to shower!!
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I would just have a talk and say hey look showering is important and it’s good to have good hygiene
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Run!! Girl, RUN!! It’s not going to get any better, trust me, I know this for a fact!!!
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So you’re having sex with someone who doesn’t shower? 
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What even attracted you to such a mess?
You need a new boyfriend.
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Get a kiddie pool and a bar of soap.
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No wash? No blow Job! Simple 
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I would have ran away a long time ago. Bad hygiene is a deal breaker
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I hope you’re not giving him any, or else he’s giving you his dirty germs 
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I would just straight up ask if he can shower but that’s just my bluntness
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Sometimes lack of hygiene is a result of depression… hopefully not the case here though
Have a shower with him and you wash him 
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Is this a true story? Wtf
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Offer to take one with him…who knows…hmmm
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I’m sorry but that’s disgusting. I’d be running in the other direction.
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Tell him to shower or you’ll get him with the water hose and soap
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I don’t think it’s gonna work out
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He closed the door and pretended to shower? 
Ok !!.. Going to say something that EVERYONE IS PROBABLY THINKING!! And I am not trying to be RUDE!..or mean.“My question is…how is your hygiene…? …
Because there has to be an underlying reason for him to be OK” with not " keeping him self Clean"… I only ask the question because the THOUGHT OF BEING INTIMATE …is NO " just no !! … and you said you Love him … Try taking a shower together… start a NEW" TRADITION…CALLED…we clean now baby… js…
out …
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My mentally ill client refuses to shower…
maybe have him see a psychiatrist 
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First of all…… why are u settling on someone that freaking nasty? Girl!!! Set your bar higher and get rid of the trash!!! Believe in yourself!!
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Self care = self love. If he can’t love himself well he wont love anyone else well either.
If he doesn’t shower and y’all do the do Oh lord that’s super disgusting not only disgusting but dangerous cus you can get some crustyitis disease 
That’s a messy one. Is he short of money or just no self respect.
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Wait till he sleeps and just dump shampoo, soap and water on him then start scrubbing him.
Sounds like she’s dating a vagrant or homeless person 
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Sounds like you need better taste in men…
Don’t give him no 
til he wash that stanky booty and start actin right. Sink or swim baby!
Pour shampoo and soap on him during the rainstorm🤣
If hes not washing and clean, I hope you are not having sex yet
If he has to be told like a little boy to shower, you need to walk away.
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Ayy i work with a couple guys like this. They dont change
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Say let’s take a shower together I can’t take a unclean person get out
Ofter to Have a shower with him so you can wash is back and bits.
If you Love him - be honest with him, as hard as it will be! If you aren’t in love with him - Bounce!
Break up now Uhhhhg First thing I got Noticed my boyfriend is How Sweet smell he is he’s very clean An Englishman very clean !!!
If this is real. I would leave! These are very clear giant 
!!! Run!!!
Run as fast and far away as possible. He is a grown man and knows better. YOU CAN’T FIX HIM. YOU’LL JUST COME OUT OF THIS WITH DISAPPOINTMENT
Invest in a pressure washer!!
That’s a deal breaker for me.
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This has to be a joke. This is the nastiest thing ever. #ringwormchronicles
why would you be with him! That is not ok! #manchild gross!
I have zero advice. I would have to let him know I wouldn’t be able to be attracted to someone that doesn’t bathe🤷♀️
I hope she’s not getting “down and dirty” with him
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If you have to beg a man to bathe… he ain’t the man for you
Take a shower with him and scrub his bits.
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If you gotta train him throw the whole man in that garbage babyyyyy. He ain’t got no ambition for nuthin in life. Believe me
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No shower,no hanky panky.
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Tell him you love him and are concerned. He’s probably depressed and probably nothing to do with you♡
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Offer to shower with him to spice things up
You don’t. He’s grown. Case closed!
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Get him with the hose:laughing:
Prompt him to get in shower with you 
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You let him climb on you… smh. I hope he brushes his teeth
It will only get worse. And bad hygiene is a deal breaker
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6 months and smells a little musty…
I think you need a new man in your life
God this is such a deal breaker for me it isnt even funny……how. Do. You. Live. With. That 
If u can’t stand it now, better not stand it in the future.
Maybe she could invite him to shower together… maybe then he will enjoy it and get used to taking shower
Tell him frankly, and ask him to take a bath/shower together…
Shower together and give something new that will excite him more, lolz!
Just tell him to wash being dirty when you don’t have to be is nuts.
If it irritates you, dump him . If you want to keep seeing him , get use to it .
He count of been abuse as a young boy with water .
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Sounds lazy, if he can “fake” having a shower he’s just grotty.
Move on lady.
Give him to someone else. That’s what I’d do… And I definitely wouldn’t call him my man!! Ijs
Think you’ve got a problem . . . Gomshower or bath with him. . For a start . .
How come some of you people on here have to be a smart ass , you’re not helping her .am sure you all are not perfect
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I don’t know, it could be depression, but sometimes if you’re severely depressed, you kind of stray away from people. So I don’t know if I can say it’s that? Could be he’s just lazy and the funk doesn’t bother him? 
If his towels and washcloths are stiff and not used, I wonder how often he changes his sheets? There’s a lot of What Ifs, but 6 months into the relationship, you just need to step up and ask what’s the deal? Communication is key.
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Not gonna lie those are some low standards 
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Sounds like my brother!
So gross nice or not that is a big issue !!
Oh wow. Well if he doesn’t want to change he won’t. He is a grown man…
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A axcedently hose him .
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Tell him he stinks . 6 months in , you can say it
It’s called standards!
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Uh…what’s your problem that you can’t tell him?
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Sounds like he needs to see a doctor.
You need to shower with/him together… and shower him as what you want…
If you can’t tell him now it will NEVER get better.
I’m sure you can do much better than sweaty balls Brandon boo 
Bro I’m more concerned with the fact you been intimate (I assume) with this man for half a year. Jesus Christ.
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Move on he’s a grub and not going to change
dump him now as this is passive agressive behavior and real hard to change or reason with.
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Run, run, run as fast as you can.
With his funky ass. Boy got that fromunda cheese.
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Get rid of him and wash him first before you send him out to meet someone else.
Not sure how you have put up with it for 6 months 
I’m sure he dosent brush his teeth either. Or wash his hands after he poops 
he’s a walking germ and I’d run quick!!
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How the hell do you have sex or do oral with him lol
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Just show him all the comments here that should do it.
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Mental health check, have an open conversation with him about his mental health.
Trade up.
No respect for himself
No respect for you.
You don’t. Run the other way
Tell him his soap etc is too strong, go and get others, or leave him.
You take a shower with him …
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