He’s established residency. You’ll have to evict him. The laws are different in every state. Contact your local county court clerk. They will have all the info you need on how to evict him. … Keep in mind if you are married without a prenup he has a right to half of everything regardless of who’s name it is in if he takes you to court for a divorce & demands his share you will have to pay half the value of your home to him in most cases.
Honey just get out. It isn’t going to get any better. Save yourself and you’re babies. You are ., you can do this. There’s a part of you that knows this. Good luck my sweet
It’s legally your house but they did pay their share… What would happen if a man said that about his wife? I get your not happy but that’s not right. Legally where I live if you seperate but have not got anywhere to live you cannot forced our of your house (not many people know that).
Get a lawyer and talk to the police about what you can do.
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If you are not happy with your marriage why are you staying you deserve better
Pride! That’s how you get him out. Tell him it’s officially over and you’re done. Then start dating- or pretend to. Get dolled up and go out, stay out late, have late night conversations- even if it’s with family or friends. But make it seem like it’s someone else. Or let it be someone else. He’ll get so upset about you being with someone that he’ll leave so he doesn’t have to witness it. Mind you, he might follow you around trying to catch you, so be careful. I did it and my ex husband of 16 years left within a month 
I love when women say, he doesn’t help with anything or I pay all the bills, he just pays the mortgage and car insurance 
omg! Those are biggest bills! Did you think maybe you wanted him to be something he wasn’t? Like, he wasn’t cut out to be a step father, does he need to know what the name of the schools are? As long as he knows where they are…
Move out and let the courts settle the house. He will nevere leave, he has it to good!
Significant Other is not Husband, they’re not married, they don’t need divorce or to split anything up. If I was in your shoes, I’d get a lawyer to write an official letter to leave - eviction. The cash he pays is a huge red flag, you can possibly state that is his rent money to live there, now he needs to move out but I’d not mention anything about the cash unless u deposit the money into the bank regularly or give him receipts.
1st of all…you shouldn’t be asking for 'legal advice ’ on social media from a bunch of strangers that don’t know your whole situation or even what state you live in. Each state has their own Landlord tenant laws and so many on here are giving you illegal advice thatvyou could end up in big trouble or be on the losing end of everything. The only advice that is correct is, 'hire an attorney ’ so you can do it the right/legal way! If you can’t afford one, there are ‘free’ ones, just Google. Call them all…leave your name, talk to someone and get case #. This way, your ‘husband’ can’t use them because that would be a ‘conflict’ of interest. You need to file first. Good luck to you.
Call and book an appointment to see a lawyer. As every persons circumstances are different.
Have him removed from your house legally he’s not going to step up and your doing it on your own anyway
If you own the house you can get a legal eviction notice. Then he HAS to move.
Change the locks when he’s at work and get a restraining order for him kitty to come around.
Have him escorted off the property.
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Be mean if you have to. You are in this for you and you’re kids. Honey if you need me, I’m here. not physically buy emotionally. I’ve been in a similar situation.
You said you broke up last year, how did you get him out that time?
Maybe you could try that again?
You are in a tough spot, I am sorry😪
He’s got rights… you should leave and move to Vegas. Forget about all them kids. Why did you have so many any ways?
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Pack his stuff and move him out. You own the house. I was in a similar situation but he owned the house so I kept enough in the house for me to clam claim it. We are still trying to figure it out.
Why did you go and have more kids??? No red flags??? I was with someone for 10 years and did not have kids with him because of little red Flags. I did not buy a house either. When I reached the breaking point, I picked up my stuff and left him in the apartment. Now you are tied to him for life because of the kids. For me, having kids would be the last thing would do if I was in an unstable situation.
Are these posts real? If so kick him to the curb, my children always would come first! Is it me being a bitch or what?
Pack up his stuff, put it out on the curb, change the locks and he will get the message.
If you own the home why don’t you put it up for sale? It’s absolutely a sellers market right now and it just may be the change you and your kids need ? Although technically you purchased the home you are legally married I assume? He is entitled to half …. But sometimes walking away for your own mental health is better then staying
You say the house is yours but who pays the mortgage, do you have the means to pay a mortgage on your own? If its your house put it up for sale, sell it and buy somewhere else a nd move out yourself. Don’t take him with you.
Court ordered eviction notice. If you feel he could get violent, have an officer present.
I have not read one comment that has anything to do with the children’s or their thoughts. They need some counseling I don’t know how old his children are in This relationship but she did mention 2 things a house and a business . Are the fathers of her children before this relationship helpis this relationship helping out their children do they have a relationship with them. For the sake of All his children they need some kind of counseling.
Should have never moved him in ???
I swear to God, this page is nothing but people asking questions for which they already know the answer.
I was going to say evict but I don’t even think you can due to the pAndemic. Get a lawyer!
Or… find a new place,take the furniture &kids and leave him there
Change locks…pack his stuff leave on porch or deck…hes not worth it…
Get Lawyer and kick is ass out he is just useing you’ve does not care it is all about him. I have been there believe me
Strange, house on your name and he pays for the mortgage? Hence you must have a marriage contract. Ho owes nothing, what about the bank accounts? Its confusing. Take a maid.
You have an adult child. It is convenience not love
Get a time machine and tell your younger self to acknowledge the red flags that were clearly in front of your face and not have more children with an asshole. Now you have two sets of kids who will be from a broken home. Tell your younger self to make better choices and not have anymore kids.
You have to “evict” him. The soonest you can have him out is 30 days, by law.
Depending on your state, you may be required to evict him.
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Even though the house is in yourvname for whatever reason, it is still a marital asset, you bought it together half is his
You stated that he gives you the money for mortgage but yet the house is in your name and now you want to screw him out of the house or at least his fair share of the house, what’s wrong with you?
Unfortunately just because the home was bought by you, it is marital property. Because it was purchased within the marriage.
My husband is a good dad works hard and pays all the bills. I also work but I do everything with the kids,clean the house everything AND I do not complain. Someone has to do and I do not mind doing it.
You need legal advice. Sounds like you figured out the heart part of it already. You are more than half way there.
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Why are you even still with him?
Change the door locks, the keypad code for the garage if it has one, make sure ALL windows & doors have new locks
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Imake sure you can afford your mortgage for awhile until you start getting child support, get him evicted.
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Sounds like you can live without him, kick him to the curb
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Obviously a lawyer is the way to go, but I just came here to say DAAAMMN GIRL!!! LOOK AT YOU GO!!! YOU ARE KILLIN IT! Good for you!!! Good job!
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File for divorce then get a peace bond on him to stay away.
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Pack his shit and change the locks!! The house is in your name, you owe him nothing!!
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Get a court order to evict him and change the locks.
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Start dating and tell him he’s watching the kids
Go see an attorney and file
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Get shot of him, it’s your house, start a new life for you and your kids. Don’t look back x
Speak with a family law attorney in your state.
You have to legally evict him through the court system
File for divorce and get an eviction started for him while you’re at the court house.
Id personally call the cops to escort him off n change the locks but im dramatic
It’s simple! EVICT HIM
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Go to court to get an eviction notice
You have to evict him
Go to the court house file an eviction. Also who ever said stay somewhere else do not move out of your own home.
Serve him eviction papers… make it legal. He will have 30 days
My question is why did you continue to have children to him ??? Dah
He is entitled to half of everything, remember that.
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U have to go get eviction notice
Give him an eviction notice
bring a new bf over??? be careful tho you know him better than i do.
Give him an expiration date to be out
Time to walk away! You have nothing to gain by staying. Go brave! 
This is convoluted. You need a lawyer
Take steps to have him removed, check about evictions for your area/city
Hes not going anywhere
U have to follow the eviction process
Call the cops. House is in your name.
Get a lawyer. Some of the advice here is not what you should do
Get your tubes tied and get a divorce.
SO? You’re not married? You own the home?
Call the police and tell them you want him out. You own the property so they’ll get him out.
Good riddance to bad rubbish!
Then live on your own until your children are out of high school.
Concentrate on them and forget trying to blend another guy into the mix.
God bless. Make smart choices!!
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Just move on. Dump the fucket. He didn’t care.
Cut your losses… End the relationship now
If the house is under your name., give him written notice and if he doesn’t leave by then have him escorted off the property by the police
All the woman saying to get a restraining order…A restraining order for what? No violence was mentioned. No threats. No harm. Why is every woman’s go to to get a restraining order? That stays on the man’s record forever. It’s not fair to do that to him OR the court system for unnecessary reasonings… I’m not defending the man, I am however defending men everywhere that have to deal with BS like that for no good reason. Being a shitty dad isn’t a good enough reason to get a restraining order on any man. All that is sadly the woman’s right to one up the guy. A judge would laugh in the man’s face if it was the other way around.
Put a lean on his Business! & BIKE!
Sell the house out from under him, find a nice place for you and the kids and tell him he isn’t on the moving list
The more I see questions like this, the more I wonder why ppl even have children anymore, because the last 4-5 generations, are woefully inadequate, as far as taking the reigns.
…maybe just take the kids to your ma’s and host gang bangs until he leaves. He might get tired of seeing you get railed eventually.
Why don’t you move out instead… Even though it’s in your name the house is both of yours… You want out of the relationship, make it happen by leaving, put the house on the market… You want him to leave, he seems to not want to go, so why don’t you pack the kids up and move out?
Tell him he has 2 weeks in writing if he doesn’t listen - Change the locks and leave his stuff on the door.
Upon the signing of the judge on divorce court day he would legally have to move out. You may have to suffer through till D day.
You tried asking nicely, and that didn’t work.
Have the locks changed.
You evict him. Why are you asking random people on fb legal advice ?
you don’t want to ‘be mean’?!!! WTF?!! ok, well then you best find a win-win situation, because, you, my dear, are losing ~
Bring another man home
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Evict him. People are saying “common law” but most states don’t recognize common law marriages anymore. Give him a legal notice to evict.
First file for child support and get a custody lawyer. You can file for child support on line. Start that right away. Then get an eviction notice.
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Deadline and Altimatum.
Not abided.
When he is sleeping, take a baseball bat.
Break his legs or leg.
While he is at hospital change locks and put his stuff out.
Prepare ahead, get boxes etc.
He leaves for work. Change locks get an injunction on him. Serve at work with his suitcases
Yeeeears ago. Late 90’s. My EX husband went out with his friends. I waited till he left. I changed the locks on the doors and packed his bags and put them in the porch. He called the cops. Made a big scene. They asked to see our lease. I showed it to the officers. Lease was only in my name. They made him leave. I silently laughed. My ex husband claimed he needed to go inside and get some clothes. I pointed to his clothes in a bag. He ended up threatening me and making a scene. He was told by the police. Leave or be arrested. He left. Not happy but left. He made my life a living hell for several years after but I didn’t have to live with him anymore so it was awesome.
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Serve him with an eviction notice 🤷 Looks like going through the courts is only way to go since that’s his legal residence. Good luck.
Edit: Oops. Forgot you are married. Better get a lawyer and file for divorce.
I also agree with some of the other comments. Contact a family lawyer and then file an eviction notice. He’s not going to change and usually these situations just gets worse. Make a plan now and then be ready to move forward.
Man. You’re now in a common law marriage so you can’t just evict him. Depending on the state you’re both entitled to things. I’d get a divorce lawyer and see what they say.
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You need to give him an evictu\ion notice legally. my neighbor invited “friends” to move thier rv into her driveway and live out of it for 2 weeks. they enfed up beimng there 2 months and she still had to give them a notice of eviction to be legal