I think you answered your own question. If he’s never choosing you, do you really have a relationship?
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When you ask this question
Wait he’s fathered three children in the four years and none are yours?
Why do you feel you are worth so little
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Leave. It’s never gonna be just you. I would have left after the 1st kid
Just walk away, they never change. They bring you down with them, just turn and walk away now. Save yourself more heartache 
So you let this man have not 1, not 2 but 3 kids with someone else while with you? His ass would have been gone with the first one!
galore listen to your gut it’s telling you to … whatever you do DONT GO BACK TO THE EX either
I left after 16 yrs. Believe me you’ll know when its time to call it quits
If he;s gonna use cheesy Fast and Furious lines on you maybe you should tell him “I live my life a quarter mile at a time” and then tell him his quarter mile is about up
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He has had 3 kids since y’all have been together??
Run and Run Fast!
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You find someone who values you the first time around instead of making you wait around. He’s in tha way!
Lol listen to your ex I think he’s telling you what you don’t wanna hear so your using it in your mind as sabotage
You already know the answer to your question. It’s time to leave it.
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Remember, your ex is an ex for a reason! Have you ever thought your ex doesn’t want you and at the same time he doesn’t want anyone else to have you either?
You already know the answer.he won’t change. You don’t believe you deserve to be treated like that? Just leave.find someone new who will treat you with the same respect you give.straighten your crown now.
Why you still talking to your ex?
Why should it change? You’ve allowed him to keep getting away with things.
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Should have left after the first kid in my opinion 
like girl he’s out here raw dogging women and you STILL think he gives a fuck about you? If he cared he never would have laid down with another women.
If you have to ask “is it time to end it?” Then I think deep down you already know it is… you deserve someone to put you first, have no others they entertain, and makes sure you don’t feel this way.
Cheat once on you and he always be doing it.The trust is gone.so leave him. I know I would have left.
If you’re asking this question, it’s time to leave.
When you have to ask questions like how do you know when it’s time? The time is now.
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Cheating is a red I would have left then…
But now your are asking yourself “is it time to end it”, that right there says enough ITS TIME TO MOVE ON PICK YOURSELF UP, SMILE AND SAY I DESERVE MORE IK MY WORTH & IM OUT…be wise about decisions cause staying after red are shown is not gd.
Your ex is right time to go
Why have you stayed for so long? No he won’t change because you enabled every wrong he’s done to you. You are his “ride or die” cause you’ve proven he can do anything he wants and get away with it. Why do you not love yourself enough to choose you? Why are you waiting for him to prove to you you’re worthy of much more when you need to do that for yourself?
Wait, why are you still talking to your ex first off? And second, your current BF has fathered 3 children with other women while I’m a relationship with you? Why TF would you even stick around? You are worth more than that! Kick the ex and current guy to the curb. They both are toxic garbage!
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You have more than enough proof Run fast live your life .
run before you end up with his kid and it will be a lot harder.
If you are asking if he’ll ever choose you, you already have your answer. Men like that very rarely change unfortunately. I had my share of exactly what you are going through.
You deserve much better, personally I’d quit now, you’ve already put in so much time without him changing are you really ready to put in more time to be potentially let down and heart broken ?
When you have to ask strangers on Facebook “when it’s time?”. You’re past due boo
Get out get out now!
Uhm… he’s cheated ATLEAST 3 times. Since he has had 3 babies while with you. He’s not letting that go anytime soon. And you’re still talking to your ex ? About your private relationship? Sounds like neither of you are doing each other any good
When the feelings are gone you’ll feel a huge weight off of your chest. You’ll feel true peace when it’s over
WOW… it’s really not that hard… if u not happy with him just leave… there’s no need for you to be whining everyday. Just pack up and hit the road and quit making him miserable
I’m so confused. Whose the ex ? Whose the bf ?
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Why you dodging all the like their not there… run 
It’s time to end it when you ask the question how do you know it’s time to end a relationship.
Your current boyfriend has cheated numerous times n has 3 kids that aren’t yours in these 4 years and he probably uses the excuses oh we were broken up when I got with her right?
Your ex seems to know more then he’s letting on about how he knows your current boyfriend is using you.
Girl, you know what to do. You just don’t want to admit it.
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Wait…he has had three kids during your relationship? Leave 3 kids ago….
He won’t change. Why are you still with him? You’ll always be just one of many.
He’s had 3 kids and you’re still with him? The amount of stupidity in this post 
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I’m confused, theres an ex and a guy youve been with for 4yrs? Either way the guy cheating isnt going to change. If you dont want a cheater, dump him and find someone else.
You’re kidding right? He’s had THREE kids with other women while he’s been with you, and you still have to ask what to do? Seriously? Do you need an intervention? You need an intervention. No. He’s never going to pick just you. You are not his ride or die. You’re his sure thing piece while he goes out and screws everything else. You don’t have a ring, and you aren’t a tree. You can move. So do it. And after 500 people here telling you to leave, if you don’t, that’s the life you’re choosing.
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I’m dying to know, what is it he wants from you??
Run now Don’t Look Back❣️You Deserve Better‼️
Leave!!! Don’t even tell him just do it!!!
why are you still there? hes showing you what he is, believe it… you allow this behavior, it will continue…
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You really have to ask? You know the answer…
Is this a joke? He has other kids from cheating and you’ve seen other messages and u stay???
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You ain’t his ride or die. You’re just convenient.
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You must be paying the bills.
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If ur asking then u already know
I would’ve left after the 1st kid… 3? Girl put yo glasses on! RUNNN!!
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Maybe you should talk more with your ex. He seems to be the only one with sense here.
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Ummm what? He has 3 kids, while cheating and you stayed. Read that again. What you tell your kids, friends or family? I would of left the first time he cheated!
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Wait, wait, wait. This dude had THREE kids with other women, during your relationship?? That’s how I read the post. And you’re still with him?? At this point, you’re only hurting yourself. The end was the first kid. Hell, before the first kid. Pack your things and leave. Leave your ex alone, too.
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Shit some of these posts are down right stupid man! Wakey wakey sunshine 
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Not sure why your wasting your time asking this you know the answer. Move on you will find someone who loves you to the moon and back
Run. If he wanted to change he would have already.
Take the blinders off honey , take all that love and put it into yourself , that’s so sad 
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You deserve better. Leave.
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I am sad that you think you have to accept this
He will not change,praying that you realize your worth. You deserve better and there is someone out there who will treat you better and love you like you love them.
I’m confused. What’s the question here. Four years he’s had three kids and you’re waiting for a neon sign that it’s time to walk away? Also you’re talking to your ex…… get some therapy.
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I honestly don’t even really understand this question. Why are you still talking to your ex for 4 years and why is he popping out 3 kids behind your back in those years? This should be a no brainer. It seems neither of you are capable of being completely loyal to eachother. Honestly, the 3 of you should all be single so you can individually figure your shit out because this situation is beyond a mess.
Three kids while y’all were together? He has never been yours .
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One baby wasn’t enough 
When you ask this question it’s time
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It’s not just his choice to decide if you are what he wants. What do you want? Personally I would leave.
If I understand this post correctly I don’t think anything anyone says is going to be enough to make you wake up! Learn your self worth!! No man is worth putting up with this 
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Wants his cake and eat it too. Smh
When u ask a question like this it’s time !
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When you question it and know it to be true. You leave. Learn to love yourself so you never put up with a waste like it again.
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- Settle down with the exclamation points.
- If you’re asking, you’re ready. You already know the answer.
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Time to go. It won’t change.
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He will never choose you. He sounds like Wayne the walker. Move on.
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So y’all been together for 4 years he’s got 3 kids??? This happened during the relationship? And you didn’t leave after the first kid because???
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I’m thinking if he has had 3 kids during the 4 years you have been together that I would be long gone.
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Get you a real man. Cuz baby that isn’t one! If he loved you he’d never cheat or treat you like that.
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Let’s just say I would be saying boy bye a long time ago 3 kids with someone else in the 4 years yall have been together yeah thats a huge red flag
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When you asked yourself that question.
Leave. He wont change. A man who loves you would never cheat and be out there looking for another woman to be with. And worse case scenario, with him sleeping around he might bring home an std/sti. Because he is going to keep doing it. Time to move on with your life and be happy.
Run!!! Do not become a baby mama!! Be your own ride or die…
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Get some empowerment for yourself and LEAVE his sorry ass. I’d be gone after baby #1.
He cheated and created 3 whole ass kids in the process? Wtf why are you still there?
Listen to the ex. He’s right that man is using you.
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Lol, he has kids with another woman. You know exactly what’s going on here and if you stay you are giving him permission to continue. If a guy seriously calls you “ride or die,” he’s probably a trash monster.
It’s past time, sweetheart.
You know it’s time hence why you’re here asking, you just needed a sure fire community answer
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For godsake are you serious why on earth would you stay with a man that got 3 other women pregnant in the 4 years that your with him…off course he isn’t going to change because you are letting him anyway with it all the time…either leave or just put up with him doing it like you have been doing because he’s NEVER goin to change…
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You choose you simply
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I would’ve left the first time he had a child on me but 3 oh no honey you deserve better he is a walking red flag
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He has had 3 babies by different women or even same doesn’t matter ethier way their been an affair to have 3 children _ if same women if different baby mum’s then he slagging it about n carnt keep it in his trousers … This is bad let all e without him gettin other(s) pregnant while been wit you … N he stil doing it na wit other women which u seen on fne NOOOO HE NOT CHANGING … Be your own ride & die … X
1 baby would of been anuff for me n been bye Neva mind 2/3 if not more x L.E.A.V.E. A S.A.P
I would leave. If you’re questioning it it’s better for the both of you. But you need to stop listening to your ex. Your ex doesn’t need to know anything that is going on in your life
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So were his 3 kids conceived and delivered during the 4 years u all have been together? If so, there’s ur answer on what to do
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My mind is blown. You already know these answers. He will NEVER change. You are allowing this to continue to happen to you. Why would you want to live like this? This isn’t healthy. This isn’t love. Get out and stay away from him.
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Hope you have your own job and your own income…otherwise you’re probably “stuck.”
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hahaha I cant even comment on this one
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Red flags. It’s time to move on and find someone you deserve and not this low life POS. Hugs
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Is he Doc Antle or something
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Leave, he won’t change
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