I would tell her and I hope someone would tell me
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Slippery slope - I wouldn’t
Stay out of it as hard as that may be
You don’t. Mind your business especially if you aren’t close friends with this woman.
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Tell her. I’m talking from experience. She needs to know. If possible, dont mention your name.
Leave it alone. Not your problem.
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I wouldn’t. Then she will think you are the person he cheated with. Then you get the chewing out. Never ends well. Could lose job or start a bunch of mess. Best to leave it alone. She will find out on her own eventually
MIND YOUR BUSINESS!!! I know you want to be help but trust me it won’t…
Tell her to her face , truth hurts but honestly is the best policy
You mind your own business, I believe.
I have 4 strangers come to me and tell me my ex was cheating. I didn’t believe them (because they had no prof and they were strangers) he was cheating by the way.
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Tell her…going through it…I would want to know sooner. The cheater destroyed his home already. Once…an accident…honest and remorseful…but twice will be three and four times…not right
I’ve always wondered the same thing 
great question.
I’d want to know. Some females will forgive but not me… if I found out my man was cheating or has cheated…: 
done. That’s all
I agree. It’s not your place.
Tell her husband whom you do know what he should do regarding his despicable behavior
If you don’t know her than mind your business.
Definitely stay out of it…
Make sure u have proff and video
I agree she should know but she’s not going to believe you. She’s going to be mad at you for “lying”. If she’s the vindictive type she’s going to go after you.
Better to mond your own
Its clear to me from some of these comments that some of these women have never been cheated on 
What if theyre polygamy allows it tho
I would want to know…
Not your business 
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Why is that ur business??
Tell her. If you have proof, show her. Us ladies have to stick together
You can tell her. Don’t mean she will believe you.
She might not believe u or she probably already no he’s a cheater in just dont care about him doing him.
Look, there is no easy way to say this, but I would not be a good friend if I did not tell you. Your husband is a pos and he is cheating with and tell him who and how to find her.
Its amazing how many women blindly love these men. Some of y’all be getting cheated on and know it and still do nothing. I would want to know and if you’re not the person he’s cheating with I don’t understand why she would be mad at you. I would be glad someone stopped me from making a mistake.
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Wow all these women saying to basically keep your mouth shut. Imagine ladies if this happened to your daughter, wouldnt you respect the woman that’s told her. Some men are dogs! Go and tell her she has a right to know!!
I would like to know if I was being cheated on but I would also want proof. You work with him so if he finds out you were the one who told his wife then who knows what he would do
Do you know if they have an open relationship? If you aren’t close enough to know, then it’s none of your business. For all you know, he has her blessing.
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Leave it alone. That’s not your friend. The husband is your coworker…and you minding their business comes off like some form of harassment.
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Any time ive told a woman her man is cheating the woman turned psycho on me instead of getting mad at him. If its family or a really close friend I’d tell them though
I would want to know, tell her however you can.
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I would message her. I would want to know!
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You don’t! Mind your business
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This thread has the maturity level of 6th graders
You don’t. Its none of your concern. Keep your mouth shut.
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Tell her! Hell I found out. My bf at the time who we just had a baby not even 1 month old. She msg me asking for his s.s # ?! I was like um why? she was like for c.s im about to have his baby. I said what are you talking about im his gf of over a yr and we just had a baby in late oct! She said yeah im due Dec… Sure enough it end up being his… I wish I knew sooner I would of kicked his ass to the curved. This explain why we were almost attacked by these 2 guys coming out of one of my drs appt one day … It was her brothers.
I mind my own business.
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Send an anonymous tyyped letter
Mind ya own biz ness!
You mind your business.
Damn, I would want to know
As much as I would want to tell someone I wouldn’t. And I didn’t. One I did not see the mans penis entering the “other woman” with my own eyes. And unless I saw it first hand I wouldn’t say a thing. Two, people are stupid and some make up rumors about others because they dislike them. What if it’s a rumor? Third, your own job…you could be out of a job because of your involvement. And lastly no one knows what goes on in any relationship, only the people involved do. I believe your heart is most definitely in the right place, but leave it alone, because it can be turned on you in a second. Maybe he will even say you made a pass at him and he could say he rejected you that’s why your saying this. Most women know. We may not want to admit it, but there’s usually some kind of red flag. She will find out. And when she does what if she forgives him? Then as they say you’re up shits creek without a paddle. Stay employed by staying out of it.
Mind your own business
I’m going to tell you a secret… you listening(reading) MIND YO MUH-FUCKIN BIDNESS SIS
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The hell it’s not ur business. I want to know and so does she, and pussy footing with it’s none of ur business is what’s wrong w the world as it is, just say. As gentle and straight forward knowing she may not react well, but forgive her, cuz her world just fell apart, but tell the TRUTH
I mind my own damn business 
Nobody knows what the situation is at home. Maybe they are swingers and she don’t care if he has something on the side maybe she does to and you don’t know the situation because you don’t know her. People need to mind their business. Go to work make your money and go home. If you get yourself involved you don’t know what that man is capable of and if you tell his wife he is cheating you never know what that man could come back and do to you. Safest thing to do is mind your own business. If they aren’t feeding, financing or fuc#@&! you then you shouldn’t be worried about what they got going on!
You mind your business.
I was in a relationship with a man who told me he was very much single. I found out that he was very, very married. It was told to his wife and she got really defensive… Told me to be the bigger person and grow up. That I was nothing but a whore. At least she was told… at least my conscience is clear… It tore me up so bad… I been in her shoes too many times…I know how it feels… It just…done something to me… I have a hard time forgiving myself… Even today…
Message her and tell her what’s up. Fuck that “it’s not your business” shit.
Keep your mouth shut.
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See highly messy situation my end but I’m the one sleeping with my ex I don’t care his wife knows nor does he as he is having a vasectomy behind her back so she can never have kids with him and she’s not even aware he’s intending on dumping her in the next few weeks and coming back to me and his kids but I’m being honest I hate the bitch and neither of us have hidden it
Mind ur business. Trust me.
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Girl you need to mind your damn business
She might already know
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Tell her. She deserves to know!
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Secret letter addressed to her.
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Personally I would want to know, I can do my own ground work for details
The amount of ppl saying don’t tell is beyond gross af!! What if it was your husband. Bet you’d wanna know 
… I’d definitely would wanna know. Tell her… she needs to know…
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I would tell her she has a right to know some said break up her home he did that when he cheated but you said 2 for past 2 years why haven’t you already told her
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Would you want to know? I would. But you don’t know how people would react. Be prepared to have some hard proof to go along with serious accusations
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Mail her a letter. But nice to see an honest woman!!! More of us need to stick up for one another!!!
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If I was getting cheated on and someone knew and didn’t tell me, I’m punching someone in the throat. Sorry 
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Tell him to add the fuck up and what’s up.
You gotta be careful how you do this. From experience, she doesn’t know you and he’s going to make it sound like you’re crazy.
I had to tell a close friend this one time.
Gosh I would want to know! None of y’all would want to know??
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You better have proof to back up that claim. Is all I know. I’d want some hard evidence before even taking it seriously. So, if you don’t, don’t say shit!!
For all she know’s your just trying to cause drama, and like you said she doesn’t know you from a hole in the wall.
And if reaching out via Facebook (private messaging) is the only option you got then so be it:duck:
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I assumed my ex was messing around on me. He had all the excuses in the world! Of course none of them were cheating and he tried to turn it around on me. Once that didn’t work, he expected me to let her move in our home with her 2 kids. Nope that ain’t happening. I stood my ground and ended up getting a call from HER husband that they were sleeping together! That was 6 years into our relationship and 2 years into marriage. We ended up working it out and we’re married for 21 years before we divorced!
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Tell her anyway you can. I wish some one told me sooner.
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If you’re going to tell her, you better come with proof. Have pictures, videos, texts and if you have other witnesses to back you up, that would help.
If you don’t have proof, its going to be too easy for him to deny, her to make excuses, and for both of them to blame you for being a liar, crazy, a shit starter or any combination of the 3.
Come with absolute, undeniable proof, of it will be a disaster and you will be blamed.
Tell her. Anyone would want to know that their partner has been cheating on them. No one deserves that heartache, but also no one deserves for it to be on going with someone knowing the truth and never speaking a word about it. I’d want to know. My best suggestion on telling her would be a fb message, tell her you work with her husband and have seen the cheating, twice and felt she should know of his deceitfulness. She may be angry or not believe you, but all you can do is tell her what you know and let her take it from there.
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Tell her so she can get tested for STDs.
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Well the facts years have went by makes me wanna says don’t say anything at all
Just don’t smh trying to ruin a woman’s life today WHY??
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Tell me, I’ll tell her.
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Be sure to have proof. Because without the proof she might not believe you because he will manipulate her into thinking your just crazy and lieing!
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Sadly it’s been my experience that females are stupidly naive about this and telling them doesn’t do any good. I’ve tried to protect a few females hearts, got attacked each time. Won’t make that mistake again. Willful ignorance is as close to insanity as it gets.
They can be swingers for all you know maybe keep your nose on your face …
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Just know, there is a really good chance she us going to “kill the messenger”
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Has my hubby would say not my problem
But tell her with proof in hand
Any proof
I will never tell anyone about a deceitful spouse. I will tell the cheater that I will inform the spouse about the cheating.
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Mind your own business!!! Ppl like you are known to be homewreckers…If she really felt her husband is/was cheating I’m sure she would take care of herself!!!
They are obviously happy in their relationship bc if not I’m sure he or she would have left a long time ago…
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I feel you should stay out of it maybe she does know
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Mind your business she probably already knows. They could be working on it already.About to ruin everyone’s life in that house. Or are you the side piece and want to tell her??
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Do it anonymously…Let her figure it out on her own…
MYOB. He’ll get sloppy and tell on himself. Snitches get stitches.
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If this is something you feel you to do, HAVE PROOF BEFORE you tell her. She more than likely will not believe you unless you show her definite proof. Alot of women don’t like hearing that their spouse is cheating on them, and will lash out.
My thing is if you were wanting to tell the wife of the husband why didn’t you tell he lr before? Hope you aren’t the one the husband is boinking.
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I’d want to know but if another woman comes to me with claims that my husband is cheating, I expect her to give me names of all involved. Dates, events, etc. Don’t just tell me he’s cheating, give me information I can work with and find the rest out with. I would tell her but if you don’t, these things usually come out one way or another anyway.
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Stay out of ppl marriage
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If I was the wife, I’d want to know.
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Don’t. It’s not your business
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Don’t think it’s ur place 2 tell her. Maybe she already knows.
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All I can say is I’m glad I’m not friends with just about 3/4s of you all this stay out of it mind your business blah blah blah you definitely ain’t women’s women that’s for sure. I’d want to know as the wife and I wouldn’t be able to live with those kinds of secrets
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