Is there anyone watching??? Asking for a friend
Confront the bully yourself 
I’ll probably be a mama bear. 
Lol beat the snot out of the bully! Jk
Go to the school and have a meeting
You’d be expected to let the principal know
Nip it in the bud. Beat up the bully. Okay, Im joking. Kinda.
Homeschool your child
Virtual learning 
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If they hit u first hit them back shhhhht
Look up the parents on Facebook and hit them up.
Have them log off Zoom.
I even went after a teacher, don’t mess with my kid
Hes lucky, I didn’t cut his ficking heart out and shove it up his ass
Punch the punk bully
She’s a purple belt now.
I tell my kids all the usual rules about bullying but the most important thing I try to teach them is to defend themselves if it happens to them. If they get hit, hit the bully back harder. Sorry not sorry.
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Well, our school has a zero tolerance policy…the problem with that is getting them to actually follow through. So, I taught my son that he may not start a fight but, he can certainly finish one. Because 1) I will always have my kids’ back and 2) sometimes bullying doesn’t stop until you stand up for yourself – which is exactly what happened with the 3 bullies my son had.
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My son gets bullied a lot for being Chubby and so I constantly tell him there is nothing wrong with his body. I make sure to give him compliments when he least expects it and I can always see his 11 year old face brighten every time. I also have deep conversations with him about why some people feel the need to bully. I tell him that it comes from a place of their own bad thoughts about themselves. That they try to make someone else look bad in-front of others so they don’t notice things about themselves that they think are not as good. Or that they might get treated poorly at home and take it out on kids at school because they are hurting inside. I tell him that bullying doesn’t come from happy people, it comes from people with deep sadness and insecurities. And I tell him words are just words at the end of the day, no matter how hurtful. They only have lasting power if you give it to them. Even though it hurts him sometimes he’s learned to not let it hurt him for long. And he’s a lot more confident than he used to be. Having a lot of conversations with him to help him understand that bullying isn’t about him or his fault has helped him a lot. And he feels bad for them and forgives them. One day he told me that he rather be bullied than someone else who might be hurt more from it. And I cried so hard. I hate that I have to teach/show him ways to handle being bullied but I rather him feel stronger on the inside because bullies don’t always stop after school. People get bullied online or at work places all the time. I wish parents would make sure their kids didn’t bully others more often but it’s not always the case and like I tell my son, you can’t control what someone else says or does but you can control how you feel about it and handle it. The only way I can understand what he’s going through is because I got bullied in school. It’s not easy to know it’s happening to my child and I wish he’d never have to meet a mean person ever. But it’s my job to protect him and the best way to do that is to give him emotional tools to help him deal with mean people/kids that doesn’t lead to violence or anger or bigger problems. I’m not sure if what I’m doing would work for everyone but it’s helped him a ton and my beautiful boy is still out going and always kind and definitely strong emotionally. Plus he has a huge support system with me at his side.
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Well I was always bullied in elementary school. My biological dad never pay attention so I suffer a lot. When my uncle got custody of me, I came home after being jumped at school in 4th grade on my 2nd week at my new school. I came home a mess and he walked me back to school telling me I was gonna point at who it was and I was gonna fight back with all I got or he was gonna beat me up. Thanks God all of them had left already, I was so scared. Then he started teaching mi how to throw punches with a pillow and put me to practice with my 2 cousins “his 2 sons”. I learned and I used that the next time, never again after that fight. I felt confident, I was always shy and I stayed being shy but when it came to stand up for myself I became a fierce. I teach my kids to use wise words to stop others from bullying but always had told them if anyone became physical they had my permission to fight back with no consequences. Even the psychologist told me that schools do nothing to stop bullies. That the best way is for our children to step up and fight back if necessary.
Email the principal at school with the chain of events in order. Check their handbook for their bullying policy. Request a meeting at school with the child/children and their parents and yours with a police officer as well as principal and vice principal. The police officer should be able to scare the child enough. If it continues request legal action. I went thru all this with my oldest in middle school. It was so bad she was getting texts and messages no lie here’s an example “ I hate you, everyone hates you. You should kill yourself” it came down to one kid getting arrested in high school and harassment orders being issued. I took my daughter out of school twice to get mental health because she was severely depressed. The worst part was these were kids who she thought were her friends at one point. I also, used to message these little shitbags back. Telling them to have a parent call me the following day by 5 pm if not I would be forwarding these messages to the school and they could find out that way.
Make sure your kid is actually being bullied and isn’t the bullied who got his. This little boy thought he could pick on my nephew cause he was short and the only black kid. My nephew socked that little fucker and his mom called the school about her son being “ bullied” my nephew said “ I been ignoring and ignoring but I had enough “ so, it’s not always a case of your kid being picked on.
When my daughter was younger this one little boy use to steal her glasses all the time and I finally told her to tell that little fucker he touches her glasses one more time I’m coming to the school ! She did and he left her alone !
Go bully the little shits parents for raising that kind of person!
When my son was bullied I went straight to the VP… we pressed charges on one of the kids and anybody that was talking smack after got suspended. I told them I will come here every day if I need to.
My son was bullyed at school in 5th grade. I ask him if I could ask teachers to stop it but he wanted to take care of it on his own. If he was like me. When I talked to the teachers about neing bullyed either I was blamed and not nelieved or the way the teacher handled it made it worse. We talked about what he should do and devided he should figure a way to embaress the bully in front of the group of co-bullys foowing him around. I said that 2 possible outcomes and maybe my son could get 8n trouble for doing it himself but he wanted to take care of it. I called his teacher and told her what was going on and ask if she and the recess monitors couls watch my son and the bullys who were 6th vraders who snuck to the 5th grade recess area to bully the younger kids but my son wanted to stop the bully himself. I called him one night to see a rerun of an old Jack Benny TV show when he would look the guest up and down not saying anything in teapince to a commeny the guest had made and finally after looking at the guest, rubbing his chin and taking a while to answer said somethi.g “off the wall” that made the audience and the guest break up in laughter but the suspense before he spoke was the best part. I told my son he maybe could do that and say somethi g what would either make the bully leave him alone or decide to be friends but it had to be something true, to the point and not mean. A few days later he told me whT happened. We had returned from living out of state and my son had a jacket with hand knit sleeve cuffs and Naulghide oval patched on his sleevs so it would be warm thst winter. That bully had an insulated flamnel shirt and a new feather insulzted vest. That he was very proud of zo je bullyed my son for wearing an old repaired jacket. My son said that the day he told the bully off, he came to tease him again because of his old patched kacket and my son stood thinking like Jack Benny did 9n his show until the bully said, " S#$# say something, say something" so my don looked at him and said, “You’re right, I have an old repaired javket becUse my mom cannot get me a mew one. But at keasy she can afford to het me a jqcket with sleevs in it.” The bully stopped in his tracks and told his hanger on grpup, “Lets get put of here, now.” The bullying stopped. I called the teacher and she said zhe heard all of the interaction between my son and the bully and thought the problem was solved.
My son was bullyed later 9n the school bus T a different school. We had an out. He registeted next semester for attending from sevond period to 6th instead of first period clSs to the 5th peripd so he had to take the coty but with the schooled issued bus pass. The last of the semester he had to attend from first perion I gor him a city buss pass so he could take the bus both ways. Those kids only bullyed on the school bus.
You witness it at the school? You park your car and take both kids to the office or call the office and have the principle come deal with it. My son was bullied, hung by the neck of his shirt on the bathroom stall by older boys (he was in kindergarten) then left alone, luckily a classmate seen it starts and went to get their teacher. She went and got him even though she wasn’t allowed in the bathroom. My daughter was bullied on the bus. I told the bus driver and she thought she fixed the situation. Until the older girl bounced both my kids heads off the seat in front of them and the window. My son had an indent from the screw on the window and a headache, my daughter also had a headache and bump on her head. I seen it while the bus was turning around, stopped her and told the driver if anyone laid a finger on my child again id be on that bus in a heartbeat. So far nothing has happened again. My daughter got her hair cut chin length in kindergarten and 2 girls made fun of her then told her she should go home and kill herself because she’s not pretty and noone likes her. I called her teacher & talked to both of the girls moms within minutes of her telling me. You are their protector, you do what you have to to keep them aafe
Document EVERYTHING. your child’s verbal experience to you, your experience reporting it, the outcome. As much as it takes.
For your child, what is enough?
My kids know to hit back if assaulted.
They know some sick burns if someone talks trash. And they know to tell me everything bc I will be in the principal’s office everyday if needed.
Push that little fucker!!!
Jk!!
I would try to record it follow the kid to parents confront parent or file a report with your evidence.
If your kid is over the age of 6 teach your kid to beat some ass
Not trying to condone violence BUT it worked for me twice…i went up to the little shit and told him/her “i know i cant touch you but trust me and am gonna beat the fuck out of you mom”…needless to say THE BULLYING stopped…we all no kids love thier mamas
I told my daughter to fight bk the moment she did she got wrong she was billed every day to the point she was coming home cry went in mentioned it to them told her to tell them which she did nothing lad spat on her so phoned the school next day I asked did they have a word with this boy and nothing the only thing that came out the teachers mouth was we had a word with my child not a damm thing about him and then the was another incident where 2 girls one was generally just trying to help but had wet soapy hand and put them in my daughter hair but the other one actually on purpose put wet toilet roll paper in her hair I was so fucking livid both me and my partner went to the school my partner talk to teacher who said they let the kids give themselfs the own punishment so he went nuts told them if this continues then he was going to offstead I think its called the highest you can go for a school she soon change her attitude after that and so far she hasnt came out of school being bullied
Oh I’m not the one to ask. I saw the little shit smack my daughter on the back of the head. I chased him down the road in my truck. He tried to lose me by running into the woods. I have 4 wheel drive. He did not expect that. Eventually the principal called the police on me. Police didn’t witness any of it but gave me a “talking to”. Needless to say, no one messed with either of my children again for the rest of the school year.
Physically bullying I tell them they wont be in trouble… shit talking bullying i remind them that when go made people he made assholes and the are strategically placed so we meet one a day. .we cant change others behavior but we can choose our reactions
Yank that kid up and tell him to get their mama so I can beat her ass
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I would beat the fucking piss out of that kid then there parent, I attacked my daughter’s principal, because my daughter got punch in the face by another kid, and he said to me it’s a case of she said she said, my daugther had a black eye, so I hot my hands around his fucking throat
I’m just saying, I’ll beat the piss out of momma while, my husband beats the shit out their dad… and my kids beat the piss out of the bully my kid won’t ever be a victim, if you’re gonna let your kid be a POS, then I’m gonna show you one! #notevenplaying
Well schools here in pa don’t like me 
I tell my kids if they hit you more than 3xs fuck them up dont take that shit. Why do i say this? Because when I do go to the school about it nothing gets done. My 11 year old last year tried killing himself because he got bullied so bad.
My 14 yr old got bullied from kindergarten to 5th grade. I wrote a note on how they weren’t handling it. And if it didn’t stop I was gunna have them arrested and charged and dhhs would be down their throats too. I told my son last yr if the kids are bullying u stand up for yourself. He did threatened to beat the shit of him and he slammed one kid in the locker.
Beat the other kids ass 
I saw it being done not to my kid but to a child with disability it was in my son high school so I decided to start bullying the kid back I went off on that little fuck head. To see how much he likes it being done to him.
I acted a darn fool on the bus, at the school and I about went to these kids house and acted a darn fool when my daughter was being bullied when she lost her hair due to cancer. And my son was bullied his entire 2nd grade year and was coming home with marks and bruises on him lets just say I cussed the dad and principal out at the school cause the dad was like my son wouldn’t do that so I showed him all the pics of what his child done. I put my son in karate and when the boy grabbed his arm and jerked him my son told him twice to let go and he wouldn’t so my son knocked the shit out of him the boy never touched him again. This little boy the little brother to the girl who bullied my daughter he shoved my little boys head against the window on the bus and then put him in a choke hold and when my littke boy fought back and started punching him to defend himself the driver only seen my son fight back. So he was gone write him up and when he got to the bus stop to let them off he told me he saw my son fighting I was going to punish my son till he told me what happened and I fussed out the bus driver and I would have said something to the kids but they get off the bus before mine do. If I actually witnessed day child being bullied let’s just say we will have the parents there really quickly because I’m fussing out a child
This kid kept harassing my daughter and wouldn’t leave her alone, so he heard me say give me the phone… he then proceeded to tell her go get your bitch ass mom! Well this bitch ass mom got right in the car with her and showed up at his door… his face was priceless when I knocked and he saw me
Beat their ass:woman_shrugging:t4:
let them call their mom I’ll beat her ass too:nerd_face:
My son’s TEACHER was the bully!
I made an appointment with her and the principal… I didn’t go to jail, but my Husbeast had to hold me back from clocking the bitch.
She was fired the next day.
Well… If i witness it i am not above hurting a little kids feelings then ill fight the mom of the little asshole if she has somthin to say
my son was bullied…he was told he would have his throat slit,he would be stabbed in the head,that his family would be killed,made fun of cause of his ticks and was hit and spit at…we called the school got no help…we called super intendent …no help…we called police…they talked to the family but did nothing…at the end of the year the bully spit at my son and punched him while on the bus…my son jumped the seat finally having enough punching the bully in his nose bloodying him and the principal said it was retaliation…i told her to save my seat i would see her next year and i was leaving to buy my kid a happy meal from mcdonalds…normally i wouldnt praise my kid for fighting but he reached for help and got nothing…so he helped himself…but normally the chain of command is as it is listed in my comment…i wish you better luck than i had and dont let them feed you the bullshit of making them be friends thru supervision…doesnt work!!!
Through the school first. Then the superintendent. A threat of police or a lawsuit does the trick sometimes. Be insistent. If all else fails… and I’m not saying I have or haven’t done this… confront the child yourself get really close to their face and threaten to beat the shit out of his/her mom/dad if they so much as ever look at your child the wrong way again. Expect a meeting with the principal.
Talk to the school and the parents of the bullies. If that fails call the police. If that doesn’t work get your kid out of that school or fight with the parents. Teach your kid to fight back. Teach them to be tough. None of that soft shit.
To begin with I explain to my children where bullying comes from it comes from childrens that are not happy that have a broken home etc. That they are lucky children that have what they need thanks to God and ous as parents how much we love them, and make sure communication is there …Second I explain to them to respect always to never make fun of anyone or participate in such third but not least I tell them to tell an adult in school or to whipped their ass that if someone ask you tell them you told the staffs. But when they are bullied at the moment to reply to those kids with sarcasm follow through with a fuck off thats whats up yeah sure whatever man and to laugh and walk away I try for them to walk away and tell them to watch out for trouble makers to be a leader not a followers 
My mom signed us up for Karate…teaches self-respect, discipline & how to defend yourself when you need to. I mean, yeh, go to school & throw an intelligent fit & DOCUMENT EVERYTHING LIKE A NEUROTIC. But. I wouldnt put a lot of faith in the school system. I try to give my kid as much “power” as possible. I told my son if someone picks on him to call them every swear word in the dictionary (he has Autism & no one takes those kids seriously), he shocked the he’ll out of his aid when he called a kid who hit him in the head w a basketball a fker…I really thought I’d get a phone call over that, but no, I didn’t find out for a month & it just slipped out of the aids mouth one day & I was MAD. So in front of the aid I told him next time, tell that kid that your mother is ganna beat the hell out of his father for raising an asshole. I’m thinking maybe that’ll cause more of a stir, but see? School shrugs things off…idiots!
School only address bullies of the kids who the school think they can control… unfortunately most of the bullies are either bullied worse at home … eg: Nelson from Simpson’s or feel privileged as they have come from homes where they feel entitled and have parents that don’t really give a shit!! Address it loudly with your child in front of the bullies not even making eye contact with the bully as what a tough life the other person has… allow ur kid to feel they are privileged to have better well behaved and caring parents than the “other “ person. Shame the little turds!! … I have also seen a parent who’s kid was bullying mine and the parents put a really swift end to “peer pressure “.
Homeschool…
.save your baby,because the school will not
Beat the other kids mama up lol 
JK 
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U beat their little asses jk
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Fight back, because a bully depends on your child being complacent. Tell your child there may be repruccision at school but no punishment at home. Been there done that and that and my kid was the one to stop the little shit. Oh and the little shit’s parents called my husband and I to bully us, you see where the child got it from. My husband told the father you must be real proud of your son who not only bullied but then was taken out my 90lb daughter. There was administrative protocol and the bully was removed from the school.
Teaching them to stand up for themselves is an important tool they need. Kids can be so cruel. My son was the one who would be there for the ones being bullied and become friends with them. Then one day that same boy turned on my son and became one of the bullies. He was a bully and joined the rest of the bullies and my son was the one who was targeted. It was a big life lesson for my son and he was very hurt by this. He became cautious of everything he ate and starved himself at times. We had to intervene with doctors because he lost 25lbs and emotionally bruised from being bullied. Stand up for your children and dont back down.
We are raising our son to stand up for himself and others. Bullying NEEDS to end and more often than not schools do shit all about bullies until it’s already gone too far or is too late. We are teaching our son that it is okay to kick a bullies ass even if it means suspension. Once these bullies start having their noses caved in they will start making better choices in the future I’m sure. Part of the problem is that most of the time they are getting away with it which is why it escalates… so anyways, our son will know to give a warning that they better stop and if they don’t… then he won’t be in trouble for doing the right thing and standing up for himself or others.
I only hope that teachers staff police and anybody listens cause our kids suffer
Schools hardly ever do crap about bullying no matter what they try to portray. Now this isn’t something im proud of, but I have advice from both sides. When I was a kid I was mean sometimes in school, a bully. I can tell you, one of the kids had had enough one day and punched me right in the nose like I deserved. I never bothered him again. So when my children started school I told them they were NEVER to be mean to anyone! And if a kid picked on them, punch them in the face and they’ll stop. Bullies go for kids that seem weak and dont stick up for themselves. Tell your kids to knock em square in the mouth and itll most likely stop. 
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Talked to my son’s school years ago. Told me they couldn’t do anything that happen in parking lot. So I told them ok there was going to be a fight the next day as l was telling my son to fight back. And he was probably going to get his but kicked. Don’t call me and tell me you are going to give him detention or days off as I recorded their answer and and was going to school board and speak your mind in the paper. Never had a problem after that. Support your kids when people do them wrong. But also don’t let your kids be the bully
Confront the little bastards. But be careful how you say it, cause it could just end up making it worse.
Once I had three girls hitting, pushing me down and kicking me. I went and told my teacher after recess and was forced to wear a red tail on the back of my pants and was called a tattle tail for the rest of the day.
Raise hell! Talk to the administrator and give them the chance to solve the problem. If it continues call the news outlets and out the bullies name out there. They will be dealt with by the public, and so will the administrator.
Talk to the parents maybe arrange a good time to sit down with both kids to talk out the issue and maybe kids and parent could work together to resolve the issue.
Just find his parents and let them know if their child bullies yours again,you will take care of it at the root of the issue. Them. His parents are probably bullies too
Honestly iv told my kids to talk to a teacher…and if the teacher fails to do what’s needed for them handle it however they need to. My son had a kid that kept kicking his building he built with blocks and spit on him and hit him with the blocks…he told the teacher…she asked the boy to stop and went back to her paper work and my son said he kept doing it…after 3 days of the teacher half doing her job to protect my son when he asks for help I told my son to try once more and if she didnt tend to the kid and the kid continued to spit on my him to knock the kid out…that being spit on or spitting on someone is rude…disrespectful and the kid should know better…I got a call from my sons teacher that he got in trouble for shoving the kid into a bookshelf and I told her what he had been going through…that he tried to get her help and she didnt want to handle it so he did and he wasnt going to be in trouble for defending himself esp if he had no adults help…so it’s your choice how you raise your kid…but mine were taught to try and handle it by communicating and reaching out to an adult…and if that doesnt work or get the job done…defend yourself no matter what…I taught mine to not be bullied or pushed around or disrespected and to also stand up if another child is being bullied…and to never be degraded or let someone degrade them…to defend themselves however necessary but to first handle it another way…if your teachers arent doing there job to ensure your child is safe or feels safe…then talk to your child about another way to defend themselves…physically if necessary. My child will not be bullied and not be punished in my eyes for standing up for themselves or another child being bullied
Witnessing it and being told about is different I have a loud ass mouth if i see anouther kid being a ass to my kid I say something to the kid and when the parent asks me what happenedI I tell them what happened when my kid comes home with marks on her ( this has happened everyday)i I talk to the teachers and principal first if that don’t work I find the parent and if nothing is done I start telling my kid to defend her self tell the teacher first then if nothing is done hit the kid back because I refuse to let my kid be someome else’s punching bag i don’t believe in in fighting in school I dont I don’t promote it but don’t let yourself be defenseless either
I have the teacher’s principal’s, and Bus driver’s personal numbers. They all know to watch out for my kids. We live in a small town where most of the teachers or bus drivers were ours too. We know them personally. We Also know most of the parents so we go straight to them a lot of the time. But sometimes the kid just has to handle it. I know this will probably not be a popular opinion but what I did is put my kid in taekwondo. I had his taekwondo instructor (also well known around the school and town) talk to him. He told him to never start a fight and do what you can to relieve the problem without violence like talking to the teacher or whatever. But he said if that doesnt work you have every right to defend yourself. It gave my son a lot of confidence knowing he knew how to handle the problem if it ever came down to it. We cant really fight their battles for them while they’re at school. Sometimes they just have to handle it.
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I had teachers, counselors, principal, vice principal, security, county police, school county police and it took almost the whole school year… I believe little dude got expelled. My child still has anxiety issues a good 5 years later. Pray to God and fight real well for your kid’s well being. The last Straw was that my kid was not only bullied by the kid, but also threatened by his mother. School made it seem like it was an accident… honestly don’t think it was!
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When it happened to our middle son… we did all the “appropriate” steps first 
his was on the bus with an older kid… talked to his driver, teacher, school counselor, principal n superintendent…when nothing changed told him to handle it his own way… yep got a call from school one day to pick him up that he gave the kid 3 years older a bloody nose…i walked in said well we tried your way u did nothing looked at our son n said now let’s go for ice cream 
the other kid never bullied him again
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My son was being bullied. I talk to the teacher,bus driver, principal and finally the superintendent. Nothing was done. I kept all evidence of trying to fix the problem. Even met with the mom and found out they lived 4 houses up the road. One day he was stabbed in the back by the same kid walking off the bus. I helped my son up took the kid by his back pack and the walk to his house told him if his momma couldn’t teach him not to be a bully I was gonna show him what happens to bullys. Then when she answered her door I whooped that girls ass. Her husband had to pull me off of her. Her son has yet to touch my kid or any other since then lol lessons learned.
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I admit, my children were raised in a different time, but recently my 7 yr old grandson admitted to me he was being bullied. My heart sank. His parents are divorced…the father has tried to reach out to the school, while the mother thinks it is no big deal. My youngest son, who had some problems with this in middle school talked to my grandson about his experiences. One big thing he talked to him about was having his own self confidence and surrounding himself with good, positive friends. They just keep talking and we keep building his own self worth and how to ignore negative people…I hope this makes sense…sometimes talking to the parents help, sometimes it makes it worse…prayers for your child.
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I taught my son to REFUSE to be a victim and fight back. I warned the School many times because they failed to act, my son would be taking matters in his own hands. It worked for us.
With our son, he was bullied weekly… He finally hit his limit and fought back. Its the only way a bully understands. The bully was so embarrassed by getting his ass kicked that he claimed he “fell” during the investigation. My son never narked…
My oldest was bullied. We asked the school to intervene when it first started. We were told they were to young to label it as bullying. I was livid. It got physical and the boys attacked my daughter. I was told “boys will be boys” I went above the principal and straight to the school board. I shared the emails between the principal and myself. The parents were called (finally) and they actually surprised me, they punished their children and took full responsibility. The principal was reassigned to another school. Stand up and fight for your child, I should have gone to the board when the principal didn’t do anything the first time. Be your child’s advocate and don’t back down.
My Eldest daughter who has Autism & ADHD Who attends St Wilfrid’s high got bullied so bad after that they never again . But this has to be talked about you hear stories about kids committing suide and I believe the school should talk about it as a prevention #OurChildrenMatter/no bullying
I had it happen to my daughter and let me say I went to the school spoke to the principal and teacher made it clear that it had to be stopped and the child was punished and I asked my daughter if it had stop I learn that I have to be a lion and be my child voice and idc if I look crazy no one messes with my babies!
I was the kid that was constantly in fights with the bullies at my schools. I was probably in more fights than anyone else in my school tbh with ya. My son is 6 and I taught him the same thing my daddy told me in kindergarten. “Never start a fight, but finish it” I also told him, sometimes u get into a fight and get ur ass beat but that doesn’t mean u stop doing what’s right. Help the underdogs. Don’t be afraid to stand up against what’s wrong and I’ll have ur back always.
My child is the sweetest thing but he has my temper (seeing as both his parents are bipolar, good chance he is too) and he’s already stood up to the bullies in his grade. His best friend is a little girl that wears goggle glasses and some other kids were picking on her and man my little dude was not allowing that.
Every son or daughter should be taught the art of self defence!! They should have the tools to protect themselves when needed.!!!
My child was bullies. It started off just wee comments n i went to teacher but teacher was friends with bullies parents. I contacted the parent n she told me under no circumstance would her angel do that. Had to speak to head teacher she sorted it. Took almost a year .my child hated going to school. But loves it now. Dont let it go. Contact school b4 the bullies parents. Thats the mistake i made
Contact school arrange for meeting with school counselor. Take away internet phone temporary because kids use cyber bullying a lot. Teach him to fight back with words. Bullys always feel bad about themselves.
My oldest was bullied in fifth grade by a teacher’s nephew. I went to her about it and she acted like a snobby jerk. The illy was bigger and older than my son and would smack him in the forehead when they’d pass in the hall. I called the punk’s house after I confronted him and he had taken the phone off the hook (landline) so my husband went to their house and told the mom what was going on and that if he ever hit my son again I’d press charges with the police. He told her I was not playing. They boy never even looked at my son again.
I listened to my son come home in 9th grade at least three times a week saying this kid was pushing him into the lockers knocking his books out of his hands in the hallways between classes first I contacted the school of course nothing happened, then I told my son you started it and you will wish you didn’t but you come home one more time and say this kid’s been bullying you and you will be grounded take care of it 3 days later my son got suspended for fighting, I called the school and told them yes my son will be home for the 3 days. But he will not be punished for it because he finally stood up for himself. You know the kids never messed with my son again. By the end of the school year him and this young man were actually friends.
If I witnessed it, I would walk over to the bully and put the fear of God in to him/her. Don’t mess with my baby.
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When my kids were in school I had 3 steps on handling bullies
1.Go to the teacher give her a chance to stop it
2. Go to the head of the school.
3. When none of the first 2 doesn’t work you as a parent go to the other child’s parents and tell them what’s going on and if it doesn’t stop you tell the parents every time there child does anything to your child you will beat the mothers ass every time there child does an8to your child it worked for me
I’ve told both my kids to fight back. I will handle any back lash from the school . If I witnessed it , I have no problem addressing it right then and there.
I went to the school administration. When that didn’t work I called county school board who then came out to the school and retrained the staff on what to do. After that didn’t help completely in front of the principal I told my daughter that anyone touches you punch them out. Principal said I can’t say that and I said you all failed so now she will protect herself and if she gets in trouble for it the police will he called in. My daughter’s class was switched and the kid was suspended . it took a lot of calls. They would forget to tell the subs in the class and the sub would have the bully walk my k8d to the nurse when my kid was going their bc of the bully. The schools suck with communication. U tell every teacher and anyone who will listen. When I went over the principals head things got done. It’s been 5 yrs later and it never happened again.
I taught my kid to fight back. The teachers didn’t like it, in fact he even got kicked out of a summer camp for fighting, but he’s not a punching bag anymore
Call the police. Press charges. I have heard so many times from relatives friends and clients school administrators do nothing. Only results was when they pressed charges and called police.
Oh girl id contact the parents and if they don’t discipline the child then go through the school my 5 yr old was being bullied in the bathroom by 3 ten yr olds bcuz he had long hair and I raised heck I told our principle I said i need u to think like a dad not a principle and he did he gave them lots of punishment and they r never aloud to go to the rest room without a teacher ever again even in middle school when they get there plus many other things he did bcuz the kids parents wouldn’t do anything to the kids so I said I would say something and I’m not as nice when it comes to my babies as Mr Edwards so Mr Edwards is like no no ill do it and whatever he did worked they wouldn’t even look at my son from then on and they would suck up to him and stuff I told Hayden I said stay away from them even if they r being nice so if I was u I’d be nice about it at first then if nothing is done let momma bear come out girl
my daughter has a 3 stroke rule she asks them to stop nicely, tells a teach, another adult nothing happens she can kick butt
I saw my daughters bully at the pool one time. My plan was to have a nice conversation with her but every step I took closer to her I felt the rage flowing through my blood. By the time I got to her I cussed her out.
Worlds best mother… 
Had this problem for years and school never did anything…so now I homeschool even before this pandemic
Depends on the schools response.if the school does nothing then you should switch schools or homeschool cause sadly bullying can lead to death and parents are quick to blame the bully or school when they didn’t do anything either.
I was bullied in primary and secondary, I defended myself yet I was the one that got into trouble
Make a sign so your daughter can wear it on her back put the names of the ones who are bullying her so everyone can see it maybe they stop bullying your child .
Time to request a meeting with the team. 1st send them all topics to be discussed so theres no reason they couldnt come up with several solutions to this conflict. Should you not be satisfied…get a lawyer. This bullying will last a lifetime…
If I witnessed I would of said something to the child or had an older sibling handle it. But since ya didn’t I would talk to the child for one a lot of people are seeing homeschooling works better for some kids and you can join a homeschool group in your area so he can socialize. I would also talk to
The principal. My son has a bully once we talked to the principal several times, nothing was done, so the bully took my sons hat one day and my son broke his nose oops! Then they tried to put my son in iss. I told them no because we asked for their help
And they did nothing. Him and his bully later got along just fine and played sports together. Breaking someone’s nose humbles them apparently.