dont go anywhere…call the police, ASAP… get a report… then a EOP… he will.have to leave…
Please get out of there, there is help available out there…
Can you reach out to any family until you can get on your feet? telling people who care may help you
A shelter is better than being abused
Leave him and find a good person… not worth your time, air or love… is his name Steve btw??? 
Go to a woman’s shelter they will help Get your kids and yourself out of this
Get out it’s not about you it’s the kids run for your life ask God to help and wait for his answers amen
Contact your local women’s center. They will help you to leave.
Leave, Leave, Leave. You and your children DESERVE BETTER.
Get out … do it for your kids
RUN!! IT’LL be better in the long run. There’s help out there
Leave now if you trust God he will make a way
You already know what you need to do before it’s to late for your kids
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Call a woman’s shelter in your area. They can help.
So very sad for you and the children
Leave. There are agencies that will help financially
Please find a way to get out. Abuse only escalates over time.
Get away now it never gets better just worse!
Go! There are other options. Be brave.
No such thing as “semi abusive”. Get out!
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Make a plan and contact a dv shelter.
Get out if not for you do it for you kids !
Things won’t change or get any better. Been there done that
You need to leave, there are places you can get help
Check with local churches call a hot line for advice
Honey it wont stop! Prayers!
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It’s better to be alone then unhappy…
U need 2 stand up put big girl pants on an freakin leave
Go to a shelter for women and children
Do not get out for yourself. Get out for your kids.
That’s not love… Plain and simple divorce his sss
Read these stories there true facts don’t waste your time deciding go now.
Your first mistake was lieing to cover for him to other’s
Get out! He already is ruining your son
If you don’t leave you must it !! Get out and never see him again. How can you just THINK ABOUT???
get to a shelter now!!! It will only get worst
Run as fast as you can.
U already know what to do especially since your son is picking up his abusive habits. Save your money and gtfo!! U are letting your kids know that his abuse is ok
U and them need some therapy asap
LEAVE!!! Call family, friends, or shelter.
A lot of people here are saying to pick up and leave. That was the worst mistake of my life. I had a restraining order and he found me and broke in my house and strangled me. Document the damage to the house, and discreetly record when he’s having an outburst. Then get the restraining order. File for divorce and sue for alimony and get an order for child support. Also, it’s not a bad idea to purchase cameras and weapons to protect yourself.
Get out mind your kids
Thats abuse, not semi abuse. It always sounds like a good idea to stay together for the kids but it really is not. It may be scary, overwhelming, and discouraging to start over but you will be okay. It traumatizes them even if they dont realize it. If thats not the type of enviroment or relationship that you would be okay with them having as an adult then you need to realize its normalizing it. You need to leave for your safety and theirs. It only gets worse, it will get worse and he may start putting hands on them eventually. You all should get therapy to deal with the trauma thats already occured
Leave go to a shelter. I would work more hours.
Get out. By whatever means you have too.
Diane Peppler Resource Center and Shelter. 1-906-635-0566. They will direct you to one close to you
Get out of there before tolate
Get out. No good will come of this
Get out of there. There are so many places out there to get help. Your kids deserve to grow up in a loving home and not in fear. Praying you get the help to get out
Run before it’s too late.
Get help. Get out. Phone a church, a womans shelter
Run dont walk,there are alot of programs to help you out there.As long as your children are witnessing this type of behavior they will carry it on.Prayers,Hugs,and Hope that you reach out to these different places.
Call a women’s shelter and ask for support to get out.
Leave…help is out there !!!
Run and keep running
Welllll… the longer you stay… the harder it will be to keep your kids…
Leave!!! He will not change.
Take that car and get FAR away from him. Hopefully to somewhere with some resources, map it out if you can. File charges to help keep him away, at least for awhile until you can figure out your next move. Be smart. But DONT stay. Take pictures too
What a mess wish I could twitch my nose and forward the resources you need
I know it sounds bad, but apply for subsidized housing, food stamps, etc. And apply at a college or trade school. I was a single mom for a long time and get your ducks in a row so when you are ready to leave you can. Do something for yourself mama. If the kids start seeing you happy, they will be happy too. Hugs and lots of prayers sending your way. 
you got this.
Run. Go to a shelter. Get out.
Past time to leave, that man is not going to change. You are just hurting your kids and believe me it will continue to affect them as they grow. From experience in my own childhood, I was angry at my mother for putting us threw the abuse. Where there’s a will there’s always a way.
There is no thing as “semi abusive”. From what you describe, he is FULL ON abusive. I know you feel trapped, but you need to get out of this toxic connection ASAP. Call a hotline, find a legal aid service, whatever you need to do to get out. Help is out there
You don’t need no one to tell you what to do.Look into heart your children’s well being comes first an
For most, and there’s help out there
You need to leave now ,this boy is going to hurt someone seriously when hes older if not given help and your daughters will fall into abusive relationships just like yours ,do you not have a parent or sister who could house you ,even just 1 bedroom until you get counciling for you all and untill you came save a bit weekly to support yourself and see a lawyer maybe you can have him removed.
My advice is to seek out assistance from your local women’s shelter as soon as possible. They can direct you on how to escape safely.
Stayed too long already. Get the hell out
Baby…work on dumpping his ass…
What in the hell are you waiting for Leave.
Getting a PFA sounds like a good idea in your case right now. You won’t be forced to leave the house, he will be. Do what is best for you and your children.
Leave…take your kids and leave before something worse happens, this is bad enough. I was in one similar…took my kids and left. You can do it…
Get out if there touch your son better
My sister didn’t listen to ANYONE…6 feet under at age 29 …4 year old and 6 year old boys …RUN …To put up with that for a month should have told you to get out …Geez …
Get out now before he puts you in the hospital or kills you. This is an unhealthy situation for your entire family. There are shelters that will take you in. GET OUT!!!
Leave…now! Just LEAVE!!! Pack a suitcase & your kids & GET OUT before he kills you.
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Have you got a baseball bat?
God has a way of working things out
But don’t stay in abuse it’s only going to get worse
Good luck to you
Go girl it’s not worth it go before he kills you or hurts the kids
Run ,asap get yourself and kids to a shelter.thry have information for all your questions .and clothes if you need some .run now
Leave,leave, leave, Children should NEVER witness any kind of violence whatsoever. Need help , call me…
Hide these posts too! He will go nuts if he sees them. When you leave turn the location off on your phones or electronics
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Pack your bags and leave before that man kills you. He needs to go anger management and please dont raise your kids on such environment. Leave him.
No such thing as SEMI-ABUSIVE…make plans to leave
Get out now you are raiseing kids that will be abusers
Run for your life. Take your children out of that toxic house. You will make it. Their are people who will help you
Google women’s shelters. Look for a location safe for you and your kids
Go as far as you need to. I can only ly imagin hoe difficult it is going to be for you. My prayer for strength and wisdom are with you.
You may need to call a women’s shelter to see how to get out.Hugs
Get out as soon as you can. Your environment is not safe for you or the children. Get counseling for your son as well!
You need to Find a Domestic Violence Shelter
They will
Take you and the Children in
Help get you a Lawyer
You need to get yourself and your Children out of this before he kills you
There is Help 
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He could end up killing you. Get your children and run.
Leave him and go live with your parents if possible
The news in Colorado… is heavy on my heart. A Man killed his pregnant Wife and two toddler daughters. What hurts… is that everything I’ve read… no one “knew”. Her social media boasts pictures of a happy family - their friends and family “had no idea” there were problems. He is a “great guy… a great Husband and Father” - how could he have done this!?
It’s because he did it when no one was looking.
I’m not posting this for attention, I have LIVED this. When I left, everybody was so surprised. They asked why I wouldn’t stay any longer, you can’t just give up on a marriage.
Why did I leave? Because my daughters and my safety is worth it.
This is going to sting… not just a little. But a lot.
The man you love…
Does he call you a bitch? A cunt? A whore? That’s not love.
Did he hock a loogie and spit in your face on Mother’s Day? That’s not love
Has he called you a fatass after you just gave BIRTH to his child and told you “good luck leaving, nobody would ever want you… look at you” THATS NOT LOVE.
Has he shoved you so hard that you flew back, landed on the coffee table then reached for your cell phone and he took it along with all the house phones and hid them so you couldn’t call the cops on him while he sat there crying apologizing for what he had just done? HES NOT SORRY AND THATS NOT LOVE.
Has he punched holes in your wall? In your bedroom door? In your bathroom door because all you were trying to do is take a bath but he wasn’t done arguing yet? That’s not love.
Has he purposely slammed your hand in the door so hard that you ended up having to go get X-rays to see if it was fractured and you were almost too embarrassed to tell the ER doctors what really happened? That’s not love.
Has he locked you outside in the middle of a Michigan winter when all you were wearing is a T-shirt and laughed in your face before he shut the door and locked it? That’s not love.
Have you went to bed at night, locked your bedroom door and still refused to sleep with your back facing the door incase somehow he broke in and you wouldn’t have enough time to react? That’s not love.
Does he do this behind closed doors… when no one else is around? Does everyone he knows… friends and family… love him because they have no idea who he truly is when no one is looking?
He doesn’t love you.
If you have ever cried yourself to sleep. If you’ve ever prayed for God to change his heart. If you’ve ever prayed for strength to leave.
Leave.
Now.
Leave before you are the one on the news. Leave before your family is questioning what/how/why it happened. Because “they didn’t know”
He is strong… but you are stronger.
Do I believe people are capable of change? Yes… I pray they do.
There are GOOD men out there. Men who won’t even raise their voice, let alone their hand. Find him. You’ll then know love.
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Smack him up side the head and leave or get a lawyer and make him leave
Leave him now Before your kids become abusers
GET YOUR CHILDREN AND GO NOW!!!
You guys are not safe.
You all deserve to be safe.
Call emergency helplines for women. Your local police stations should have reference numbers.
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Leave now. It will only get worse. Somebody will end up hurt if you stay. There is help out there. You just need to make the decision to go. Please be safe. Take care of those kids
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Mama
Decided when you are ready to walk.
He will have to pay child support, maybe other support.
Value self first everything else will fall into place
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I could not even finish reading this post, it was so disturbing . There is so much help out there. Firstly call the womens abuse hotline for instruction 954-761-1133. you’ve got this. There is a beautiful life at the end of the rainbow
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Your children are going to remember this for the rest of their life. And they may grow up to be abusers to their spouses. There’s shelters you can go to they will help you get an apartment which place is it donate vehicles. There’s a lot you can do call your local church maybe they can direct you what you need to get out now get those children away from him
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Grab your kids and run, don’t look back. I know people will say “easier said than done”. I stayed in my marriage for almost 13 years, the night before I left I was nearly choked to death. Morning came he went to work, grabbed my kids, I packed a few things and left. And yes it was difficult with no money.
It’s time to leave; get out before something terrible happens. Get your kids in counseling. Find a job close to a bus stop. Support of your family or friends are very important. I hope you have someone willing to help you. Once out please don’t go back for any reason. Prayers are with you.