I genuinely hope you have been calling the police or documenting by photos and videos what’s been going on. Unfortunately, depending on where you live, it could go badly in the courts.
Also, remember two words, lime and swamp. 
First off verbal abuse is far worse.words leave a lasting impact. On a person.i can’t remember the hits but words oooch. So get counseling .for you and kids.start saving. For d.v and first last deposit damage. Reach out to family and friends.they probably been waiting for you to see. And run
A place for abused women, they’ll protect you from him and they help with so many things like conselling for you and the kids, help you maybe get a better job so you can support you and the kids. And I’m sure to get a divorce to start getting child support started
Red flags all over the place when it first started, contact your local Woman’s Shelter and try to get an attorney. Don’t believe anything he tells you when he finds out your leaving. God Be with Ya, and Best of Luck
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Omg, hell over high-water, you need to leave. After you leave, if you do a Go Fund Me for a vehicle and funds to get an apartment, there are lots of people who’ll chip in, including me. This is terrible
I myself as a child grew up in an environment where my mom was abused badly. As a child there was nothing I could do. The eldest of seven assigned to watch over the safety of my siblings yet unable to protect my mom. At age 13 Divorce was inevitable and we along with mom moved to Maui. Now mom was safe, but the responsibility was remained.
I was with a guy who would choke me. He was violent towards me and other people and almost broke my youngest sons arm at age 4.If you don’t get your kids out of there soon you may produce a killer among those children from following in footsteps of dad. I always feared that this man would one day not let go of choking me and kill me. My grown son, now 30, witnessed much at a young age. I too now have holes in my walls through out my house and now he has been to jail for domestic. My kids dad actually stabbed a man all the way through with a butcher knife. I got the hell away from him.
You have no choice but to plan your escape and get a protection order. There is help out there. Seek it. You are condemning yourself and your children until someone dies. Get out!
He hasn’t hit the children…yet. I can tell you that verbal abuse leaves marks that NEVER leave. My father was never verbally abusive to me, but what I heard him say to my mother scarred me, even after 68 years. PLEASE leave before it’s too late.
There is no such thing as semi-abusive, he is abusive. Are there no shelters for abused women in your county, in your state, another state, anywhere? Of course there are! Put down your pity pot and take care of your children’s lives. Most shelters for abused women and children will have attorney advocates to help you with the divorce, they’ve have advocates for everything, free of charge! And you know you can file a criminal complaint against him for beating you don’t you? Domestic violence is against the law in this country!
As a man reading this I have to agree GET OUT NOW, call you local police Dept they know places you can go to
You’ll thank yourself later…if you get out now!! To give your kids a better go in this crazy world…you have to leave!! Grab the help thats offered with both hands!! Your babies will thank you for it too!
After 50 +`years he started verbal years before, then slowly a hit hear or there. Then finally the strangulation and blows to the head. He didn’t expect the 911 call. But I did. Get the HELL out with your kids.
Just leave a car is least your worries when you gotta be alive for the kids. If you don’t he may kill you and kids will be left to get hurt physically by him so the best to leave and take the kids and leave the car. You can get a job or something and or you will get help to afford a car later down the road
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Take the leap. You have to for your sake and the sake of your children. They have resources available to sahm. Low income housing, income subsidy etc. They have homes for women fleeing abusive relationships that you can stay at til you’re on your feet and access to all the resources you’re going to need. Take the leap
Stop covering up for him who is he ? so someone can kick the crap out of him
Take him to court, they will give you the car and make him make the payments and child support and possibly spousal support. Get out of there, you staying is damaging your kids for life and perpetuating abuse.
Kick him out…
Go to the police… Show them the state of the house, explain it to them… Get a restraining order and their assistance… Pack his things and change the locks…
Leave that pig he will never change believe me get out as soon as you can
There’s a woman’s shelter option through Cps I called Cps on myself they gave me money to move
LEAVE, there is women shelter’s. U have stayed to long already if ur children and showing abusive behaviour.
Please leave. You’re right. Ur kids don’t need yo see this. Stop the abuse there. Leave it behind. You can do it… You can get help thru your state for bus fares and such. A shelter for now… It’s not forever. Just a stepping stone…
Can somebody help her arrange things so she can leave?
Are you able to get benefits?
You don’t need a car public transportation is still a thing
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Leave him and take the children out of that environment
If you Don’t and someone catches wind you’ll lose your kids you’re the protective parent SPEAK UP
Throw the abusive bastard out!!
Ma’am if you don’t leave God forbid he kills all of you guys
Leave him. Things will only get worse
Leave! Run as fast. As human possible as far away as possible.
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Also get a civil protection order ASAP
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Listen to these ladies…You need to get out now! It’s tough but there is help.
If you leave Jesus will help you find a way.
I was in yhe same boat, prayer got me a new Carreer, came with a company car i could use anytime.
Get out of there grab your kids and run.
Get yourself and your kids OUT.
Did you ever call the police?
Move out … Apply for assistance to help you
Leave him, he’s not worth it.
Is there a women’s center in your area ? They help with housing, employment, legal issues, and budgeting. They also provide advice on single parenting and social services.
It ain’t easy, but it can be done!
If you can please pm me i have a few more ideas if you are interested
Need to wip some ass!!!
trust GOD .PRAY WIT LOVE AND FORGIVENESS .the solution
Get spill proof cups
Have family worship each night
Read bible Ask three questions from text. Pray
If he hits and hurts you call ambulance. Hit him in his wallet Tell him it hurts too much I need to see a dr Need emergency care
Leave before he kills u
No such thing as SEMI ABUSE. get out while you can.
Praying for you and your babies
Check with church pastor!h
Clean out the bank account and leave.
Please connect with a domestic violence advocate for support and for safety planning and exit strategies. Also look into legal advocacy-many dv programs have them. Feel free to read anything on my blog if you would like as well…it is just free info (I am a dv advocate) for individuals experiencing the aftermath of leaving an abusive person, particularly focused on when kids are involved. http://wix.to/iUB6CEA?ref=2_cl
Prayers for you,and praying for him!
Run. Don’t look back.
WTH ARE YOU WAITING FOR???!!!
Get yourself n the kids the hell away from him n this behavior!!!
Get the fuck out of there; give your son a chance to grow up a REAL man and your daughters a chance to see abuse is NOT NORMAL . YOU are also worth so much more than a punching bag. Wether that is physicall or verbal.
GET AWAY FROM THIS PIECE OF TRASH
Get out before it’s to late!
Get out while you still can.
Lady you need help bad
Safe Haven will help you get away
Get out while you still can.
Just a matter of time been there.
Send me a dm and let’s see what we can do.
Get the fuck out. Please
Just leave. You’ll be ok
Report him for Domestic Violence.
Get the hell out now!!
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Please get out! 
Baby there’s no such thing as semi abusive…HE IS ABUSIVE. I don’t know where you live but there are resources available to help with housing, food, transportation and other things. Call 211 and they should be able to direct you. I’m praying God covers and keeps you and your beautiful babies.
Time to say Goodbye.
God bless your heart. I will pray for you and family. My heart goes out to you.
He is fully abusive if he has ever hurt you. Get out now.
and yet you are still there? you know the answers. get out before someone dies.
Make a plan n leave him
Leave before he kill s u
You need someone to kick his “ASS”
well least u can take a punch
Get the hell out now
Leave him. Ive been through this.
Get rid of nim. Whatever it takes
Kimberly Pierce is a professional.
I think she could answer this with much more education than I could.
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Tell everyone tell the police tell the school tell your neighbors tell your family tell his family
Get out if you stay you will be dead
Get out before your kids are mentally damaged
Get out relationship or seek help for both your children and husband see help off coucil er
Kick him to the curb
And you haven’t left. What are you waiting on
Why are you still there???!
God will provide get out of there already there’s help out there
Leave……just take your kids and leave!! You can do it!
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Take pictures of the walls
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God will make a way pls leave before you are seriously hurt
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Kim Johnson-Mckay is absolutely right! Take her advice and just do it. N.B.will help you and your family!! But you need to take the first step!
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Girl!! You will survive! And he will pay the bills! Go meet with an attorney and they will tell you all about marital property and funds. Hurry before your kids are older! If you’re in CO send me a PM and I can help you!
tear your sons ass up for assaulting his sisters
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Please leave him or tell him to for your chiildrens sake call hot line they can help church family stay safe your life is important to your well being prays 
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Call Pace Women Justice
Contact your local YMCA
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Time to go. Especially if he treats the children that way . NO!