Stop taking them places. Stop catering to them. Stop doing anything for them. Lock your food up. If they damage something (like trying to get food you locked up) you can call the police and have them charged. Even if they’re on the deed. After so many times they will likely get sick of it and leave or will decide to buy you out of the house.
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call a attorney n see what legaly you can do its obivious they cant buy youout so you need to find another way or you move out n let them pay for it n if they cant on there ss then let bank have it back n be done
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Put the house up for sale. Get back what you put in plus half and wish them luck in their future.
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Depends on how bad you want done with them. Stop paying the utilities and mortgage and taxes put a forsale sign in the yard tell them your done , your credit will be bad for a few years just rent your family a home and take it as a lesson learned life is to short to be miserable believe me tomorrow isn’t promised
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You need to sell the house or buy them out.
You need to contact a lawyer to find out your state laws then go from there.
Also stop catering to them, I mean you are enabling their behavior, and letting them know its cool.
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You’ll have to contact a attorney or lawyer. And they need APS .
You’re going to have to buy them out of the mortgage at 50 percent.
Take them to court to get them off the deed. Have proof of everything and the judge will side with you
You need legal help asap.
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Knock your sister out bruh:woman_facepalming:t4:
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I know this ain’t helpful, but maybe for someone else to avoid making the same bad decision, why on earth would you put people’s names on a deed for a home you purchased?
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Get legal advise please
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Get a lawyer see what you can do take pics of their room and have a paper trail of everything you have paid you need proof for court and your lawyer
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Have them buy you out… or stop paying the mortgage and get a foreclosure notice… then tell them that you can’t afford to pay so y’all have to sell.
Since they won’t pay either, they’ll be forced to agree.
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If they aren’t managing daily life tasks on their own like bathing, changing clothes or preparing food perhaps they can be put on a list for assisted living somewhere. It’s sounds like that’s what they need.
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Sale the house. Bad part is u will have to split the money since you put them on the deed. I would of never did that. You could of offered them a place to stay without putting them on the deed.
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Kick em in the cooter!
Perhaps you can prove you solely pay the mortgage. Legally evict them. Gain peace.
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Legal advice. Sale. Pay them out.
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Speak with a lawyer. Sell the house. Tell them to fuck straight off.
Holy cow! I would sell the house if I could!
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I would let it foreclose. You’re gonna get screwed no matter what you do.
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They’re on the deed. Good luck getting rid of them. Unless you prove they are “ruining the integrity” of the house. Meaning keeping it a pigsty. You don’t have a legal leg to stand on.
I am not a legal expert however I would say that foreclosure is the only option because in order for you to sell the house they would have to agree and since they have it made I doubt they would. Sorry this is happening to you.
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If they aren’t willing to get off the deed nicely sell the house and make sure you have the papers to back your the only one that’s paid that mortgage.
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I would definitely talk to a lawyer if u can prove you the only one paying they can give u some advice
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Right from when you found out the 2 weeks situation, you shouldn’t have trusted them enough to continue sharing a roof.
You should never even have added their names in a deed they didn’t contribute to the purchase
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Let it go into foreclosure. Then when the bank goes to sell it, buy it back and don’t put them on it.
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You might not be able to kick them out, but stop doing things for them. Don’t take them places, cook, take care of their pets etc. Find things to keep you busy outside the house to stay away as much as possible until you can find a way to get them out. Get a lawyer and see what your legal options are.
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If I were you, I’d take the hit to my credit and let the house go to foreclosure. They’re obviously not going to go anywhere. You can either stay and deal with the way things are, or you can try to get your name off the deed, stop paying the bills, take your money and go get your own place. I understand wanting to be close to your sister that you didn’t know that you had, but if I read this correctly, you literally gave up your entire life, moved in with someone, then took that someone and their spouse and all bought a house together… when in reality, you didn’t know those people at all. Just because someone is family, that doesn’t mean you know them. I’m sorry that this happened to you, but you need to look out for yourself.
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Take your name off the deed and get a new place for you and your husband. It sucks but I don’t see them being willing to remove themselves. You can’t even sell the house without them owing it and I doubt they will agree because it will make them homeless. I know it’s not right or fare but I think taking a loss is your only way out of this situation.
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You need a very smart real estate lawyer ASAP. I’m afraid you’re screwed here. Honestly your mental health is more important than money or any house, you may just have to walk away from this. At least until you can get help from a legal standpoint
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Why did you put them on the ded, I missed that.
Save up. Buy another house and let that one go.
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Take. It. To court. See. What a. Judge would do
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This story doesn’t even make sense and I definitely feel like parts are being left out
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You going to need a reallygood lawyer. I’m so sorry.
Adult protective services
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Take them off the deed
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Take yours & your husbands name off of the deed & move. I know that it’s a money loss, but that way it won’t affect your credit & you can have your peace of mind back. Good luck sweetie. I’m sorry your going through this
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Need to get a lawyer
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YOU need to stop paying for anything
YOU need to stop catering to them completely
See about how to remove yourself from the deed and let them deal with impending foreclosure or condemnation
Save your money to move out ASAP
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Sell the property ASAP. Yes you have that right
You can’t change the deed,…they are legal owners …but you can File bankruptcy and walk da hell away …or…keep dealing with it. 
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They would get very hungry waiting for me to buy food and cook for them.
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Sorry YOU ARE SCREWED! Bad lesson learned. Good luck!
Leave mortgage. When the default and can’t pay. Claim house by default…I THINK?
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Me reading the first paragraph: 
GWORRRRrrrlllaaaaaah:weary:
OH NO MAAM!
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Why on earth would you put them on the deed? Why do you pay all the bills and cater to them? It’s like you were asking for trouble.
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have them sign a paper that they pay half and you and your husband pay half if they dont pay you will stop paying for anything
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This makes no sense to me I’m confused why you put them on the deed to begin with ??
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What are they doing in the bedroom 24/7 sounds like a drug problem. Why didn’t you go and check how they live before leaving your house.
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Have them buy your half and get out
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What a mess…no, what a train wreck you’re in 
they now have rights to the house and you’d have to buy them out to move. You can’t kick them out unfortunately 
good luck
Why would you put them on the deed? They could’ve lived with you and not been on the deed.
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I think you’re screwed. I’d stop making payments & let the mortgage company take it back.
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Why are you catering to these people???
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In the mean time stop preparing meals do yours only including anything else you do for them
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Yikes. The red flag should’ve been when their prior home was condemned.
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Take of this what you wish
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You didn’t know these people from Adam, yet you put them on the deed? How old ARE you?? I feel like there is more to this soap opera
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Talk to an attorney. You basically gave them a house that you’re paying for for free, because it sounds like their name isn’t on the mortgage, just the title. But I would definitely be talking to a real estate attorney.
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You move. Explain to the Leon holder the situation. Have them kick her out and request contact before a foreclosure. That way when they’re kicked out, you can move back in
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They could be complete scammers and you fell for it. I know that sounds crazy but there might be something there.
I’d be doing some serious family tree picking.
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Buy a small generator and electric shut off and let the refrigerator run off of it
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Legal eviction notice.
Should’ve never put anyone else’s name on it! Now they legally own half…
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Just stop paying for it. Y’all move out and find somewhere to live and force them to pay everything or get kicked out.
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Why the heck put it sis on the mortgage geez big mistake unfortunately
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Stash some money and make due until you have enough to move them bail on that property. You will put time and money into a lawyer and with them on the deed there is not much you can do.once you are in your new ace stop paying on the other. You will take a hit on your credit but it is better than being miserable. The bank can deal with them and the eviction.
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Aren’t you too nice and very stupid…
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Do what you can to remove you and your tribe off and get the hell out or put it up for sale give them some and cut ties. Horrible situation. If you and your husband are paying for everything stop paying their part. Make meals only for you and yours. Keep your stuff locked up etc. Pay your parts only and maybe switch some bills into her name ? Only have cable etc in your room only? Sound like yous sister took advantage of you big time and isn’t a good person. Im sorry this happened to you.
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You need a lawyer. You’ll probably have to force the sale of the house and they’ll take half of the profit. But it’s seriously a bad idea to ever buy a personal house with others.
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How. Friggin. Dumb. To put the sister on the deed.
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Grow some balls and kick them out. Cancel water and electrity. Won’t take long
Get them to buy you out??? If possible
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I feel like this group has become a place to just make up the most outlandish stories people can come up with and then watch the comments pour in. Getting old.
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Sake them up and let them know your thinking about putting the house on the market because you cant afford it any more because there not helping to pay the bills.play a little bluff on them to see what they say about it
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Stop paying for ANYTHING, save up and move. Leave THEM the place and issues with it if at all possible. (Talk with a lawyer!!)
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If you lived in a beautiful house before what happened to that money?
Get a lawyer, force the sale of the house and move.
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Sell the house and since their name is on the mortgage as well split the money only if there’s an issue if you want or fight it but I don’t know how since you put them on your mortgage.
You need to learn not to be a pushover and have people take advantage of you. I kicked my sister inlaw out of the house with her kids and lazy partner. The house we brought was the family house so thought they could be lazy and leave the mess for me and my kids to clean up after lazy people. I kicked my husband’s Uncle out because he lived in the garage and wrecked inside of it. Never rent to family ever especially if it was the family home.
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I would ask them to sign there deed back into my name n if they refuse and u have the evidence ur paying everything i would go to a lawyer and take them to court
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So stop doing everything for them. Do only your laundry. Buy a separate refrigerator and keep it locked when you cook meals only cook for you and your husband. They will either start taking care of things or starve. If they cook and don’t clean up put dirty dishes in a bag and hand it to them. They can only walk all over you if you let them
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Betty Betty. You know me and my mama love you but I have no words. Some people bad some people good, too bad the bad can’t be like for good. But everything changes a little and it should good ain’t forever and bad ain’t for good!
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Turn the table on them , YOU be so nasty to them and make THEM so miserable, they can’t wait to get out !
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Tell them the house needs to be sold and go your separate ways. No different than getting divorced. Get a lawyer go to court to force their hand.
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why in the world did you put them on the deed if you and your husband bought the house. They could have just moved in with you . Do you have a basement that you could fix up for them to live in as their own apartment ? That way they would have their own space and you would have yours. Stop doing everything for them , let them learn to stand on their own two feet. I hope things get better for you . The more you do for some people the more they want .
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Tough situation…. Whose names are on the loan? Is the mortgage in your name only? Or are they on it too? Get an apartment and move out. Then file for bankruptcy. If they want to stay in that house, they can buy you out. If not, and they can’t make payments the bank will foreclose and they’ll have to move too. Tenants in common (owning a house together when not married) is never a good idea. Your credit will take a dump, but in 7 years - fresh start.
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One option is to move out. let the bank foreclose. and start over… Before you do that, you could tell them that is your plan and offer to buy their share if they leave
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You got a real problem lady. Good luck.
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You need your head examined!! You put yourself in a real bad situation!! Send your sister and her “man” to your nieces to live or have the niece live in your house with them so she realizes how horrible it is! You can’t kick them out but you don’t have to feed them, take care of their animals or pay their bills!! Stop paying the rent you can declare bankruptcy and walk away!
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Take your name off the Deed and move💯 Let them deal with it. Find you somewhere you can live with a Peace of mind. Once you can do that there will be a weight lifted off your shoulders. Don’t even think about letting them move in, I probably wouldn’t tell her where I moved too. I guarantee you they won’t be able to handle the responsibilities by themselves. Life is way too short now to live the way you’re living.
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What were you thinking when you put your long lost sister, and her man’s name on the deed? Are you for real? You were obviously not thinking and trying to be kind!!
This is a real nightmare and they are damn ungrateful as hell. Since they sound like two imbeciles, it shouldn’t be difficult to get them to transfer the property to you. They probably will sign anything without asking questions, and once they do, sell the house and get away from them as far as possible and never look back. I think you need to see an attorney. Let this nightmare be a learning experience. All the best, and stop being too nice!!! Good luck and God bless you.
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Take a step towards yourself, you have the strength to deal with this. Sometimes walking away is the best thing to do. True it won’t be easy but in the long run you will be more than just ok. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. Remove yourself emotionally from them you owe it to yourself and not them. Won’t be easy but you have to think long term. Lawyer up and handle your business. Love yourself and everything will fall into place where and when is should. I wish I had understood this for myself alot sooner than I did. 
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They are free loading. You have let them. Do nothing for them. The live there rent free thats enough. Let them go yo appointments by themselves. Gret strong thats your only choice. Why put them on the deed you know was a big mistake. A lawyer is needed to help you now. Good luck you are a kind person.
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Are you her payee rep? You sound like the healthcare proxy with going to medical appointments. Call social security get a social worker involved. They will help with finding placement for her and her man.
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see a lawyer and maybe sell and get yourself into a better place financially, emotionally and spiritually for your own benefit. Some people don’t deserve help and it’s not your responsibility to look after them. Hope you don’t lose too much money, sorry that it has gone bad for you
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