Insured? Burn it down.
Stl doing stuff for them.
I would then force a sale or they can buy you for your share of the house at fair market value
You canāt help stupid.
Quit doing things for them
If you are buying , how is their a lease? Also you can evict someone , get legal advise.
Time to sell
Or they need to buy you out of your portion of the house.
Quit making it so easy for them. And put the house on the market get a lawyer
Make them buy you out or you buy them out
There has to be a way ā¦. Always
Itās time to get a lawyer, take pictures of their room ā¦.
Sell the house. Theyāre not on the mortgageā¦
See a lawyer there must be z solution sell out even. This is nuts Andi bet drugs are involved
Gosh I would talk to a lawyer.
Get 2 bug foggersā¦open their door lob them inā¦prearrange a way to hold the door shut for 15 minutesā¦might get all the pest out
First of all why the hell did you put them on the deeds ? You could have just rented a room to them, secondly is there onset dementia going on with them ? Not washing, arguing etc
Respectfullyā¦.it was idiotic to put their name on the deedā¦your fault
Sell the home. Take your lose and never look back.
QUIT COOKING WITH CHEESEā¦
stop being a door mat
I would consultant and attorneyā¦ I just donāt understand why you would add people you barely knewš¤ if you sold the he they would have rights the money once itās sold. I swear people donāt have common senseā¦
Well that wasnāt a very smart move, was itā¦
Buy her out, not that hard.
Talk to solicitor see get solved
I agree you should seek legal help
Cant you get them off the deed, or do they have to agree or be bought out?
Quick Claim the deed then put them out.
I would be on board with the quit claim idea. Seen it done ā¦
Take this to court. Do you have proof that you are the one who paid for it? I would definitely take it to court if so.
No resolution. Theyāre part owners now when you put them on the deed.
Yiiiikes! Iād consult with a lawyer and see what your options are here.
I donāt think this is a real story.
Move keep your Sanity.!!
call realtor, house sale. Or get them to sign quick claim deed and kick them out.
Quit paying the bills and stock your money away and say you have to sell it bec no more money to spend on this place! Donāt clean or cook for them just keep your room tidy! Stop being the cash cow and the enabler!
STOP.PAYING!! STOP DOING ANYTHING FOR THEM!!! LET THE HOUSE GO INTO FORECLOSURE! Save your money and get out! File BANKRUPTCY!
Never deal with family
Eviction, eviction, eviction.
Definitely talk with a legal counsel . If they r on the deed they have help with the mortgage make sure u have proof. ,Ike cancelled checks so to prove your case .
You stuck yourself good.
First:
Find a stealthy stellar attorney willing to to help you.
Next: get a private P.O. Box address for all this correspondence to be sent to & keep it āPrivateā maybe even get a small secure heavy safe for this purpose
THIRD
āQuick-Deedā the house to them (give them full ownership) some states donāt require money exchange. Put house pymt $$$ in to new savings (for ur own place when you have enough saved). Tell them you can no longer do this alone & at the very least transfer utilities to them but continue to āhelpā them pay them for a bit.
Start with full for month or two. When the house, now in their name, starts to fall behind reducing to half on utilities.
At this point, hopefully, you have stepped back from doing sooo much for them. Maybe start talking about a new job, or new love, that would give you a good reason to move a long distance awayā¦without them (good reason for Quick-Deed).
I know this a terrible situation you are in. If I were you & managed to ā"get awayā",ā¦ I would forget I Have that sister. And get a new phone number!!
I will pray for you. Be Strong. This is YOUR LIFE!! Then get you a new Furbabyā:heavy_heart_exclamation:
***Love Many. Trust Few. Always Paddle Your Own Canoe ***
ā¦P.S. Put a password Lock on your phone. AND Give Attorney a fake name in your contacts as well.
ā¦P.P.S. Best of Luck. I thought of something else but I got a ph call & now Iāve forgotten
If they need assistance with bathing cleaning poking andbills perhaps county can get them in a home
But quite paying all bills
Move out and quit paying the bills, save some money first
Is that gal even related to you
Live and learnā¦sell and move on
Sounds like your unsafe. Get a PPO.
Call a lawyer because u can get them out
Waste if time writing this honestly. You know where you messed up. Take accountability for it.
KICK THEIR STUPID ASSā OUT ,NOW !!! If You Put These Cheisters. On Your Deed You Are Sicker Than They Are. You Must Use ANY MEANS NECESSARY to UNLOAD THEM !!!
Sell it and get you another house( a small one)
Give them the option to buy you out or just save and leave
Sounds like you made a huge mistake. Why would you put them on the deed when their house was condemned? That should have been a huge red flag.
Yeah you screwed yourself big time putting them on the deed Iād say poison their food
Quit paying the mortgage and move out
You sir are a dumbass. Sorry, but you never put anyone on your deed.
Get a place to stay temporarily and move out immediately- Do not pay a Bill one - if the power bill, cable, internet or anything else in your name cut it off - Immediately after you leave - see a lawyer about selling the house - find out your rights to buy them out or sell whichever is best deal !
Is this page for real ?
Stupid is as stupid does, and you proved it.
This is to unreal to be teue
Start praying about this everyday and I believe a way will be shown. We went through a similar situation with an inheritance. We signed papers over to a family member under false pretenses and we were out $25,000. I prayed about finding justice on a regular basis, and eventually, by some miracle, the papers returned to us to be signed again because there was an error in processing. We were given a second chance by the grace of God but it took 6 months of praying for a resolution to get there. A solution will find its way through your prayers. Best of luck!
Get them removed from deeds if possible
If you can afford to move release yourself from the mortgage if they want to stay they must buy you out if you are all on the contract or you sell your portion to them they must pay all the mortgage at least that is my opinion
Time to pull up stakes. Sell that house and move.
Sell and settle $$ Owed.
Start fresh in a new place.
Canāt you get out and have them pay for your part.
My situation is worse!
stop catering to them and buying something for them to eat and you eat out or else where they will get the hint maybe to do on their own
Hope this teaches u a lesson WOW !
Sell the house. If they canāt buy it out from you then itās on themā¦
Move out donāt pay any bills. When everything is cut off they will leave. Youāll never get ahead in life with people like that.they will continue to make you miserable and bring you down. Take the loss on the house for your peace
Sell the house or they have to buy you out.
Seek advice from the lawyer
Cut utilities
Donāt buy food
Call the cops if they are doing drugs. Gonto the bank and see about refinancing in your name.
Yes, If they are on the deed, and YOU want to sell. They can either buy you out, or they have to agree to the sale.
Thatās the way it works here
This is a good time to sell a house
sounds like they might be drug users too,you got a big problem on your hands, sorry I have no amswer!
Lawyer up and buy them out, otherwise they can stay there indefinitely
Who pays the water an electric stuff. If you turn it off
Go to court to change deed
Is the property big? Maybe you can convince them to build a small home or put an RV there
Stop paying the bills
Back to the lawyersā¦
Invite me over,Ill get rid of themā¦for a small fee of course!Satisfaction Guarenteed!!
People get stupider everyday but I think you should win the title.
I guess you need to do something to make them want to leave. You start being the bad tenant.
Long term nursing home
Let it burn! Problem solved, useless sister and her man will be gone in a snap of a finger. Sadly you will be without a home as well but your free loaders will be gone!
Iād get a lawyer but I think itād definitely help in your favor if you have proof that your the one paying the mortgage
Keep track of all the payments you have made towards the purchase of the home. Start recording everything even the conversations when you ask them when they plan to pay their part of the bills then get a lawyer to get them off the deed
Act like ur at university. Do your own cleaning. Do your own washing. Start saying no!!. Your being there slave. U have been too nice for to longā¦ let ur mates come over, who cares if they dnt talk to you! Who cares if ur mates tell other ppl they smell. They are old enough to look after them selfās. You pay the bills, you do what u want. Write on a piece of paper what things cost, then when they complain just say nothing and hand them the piece of paper and say complain wen u pay. Start looking at other places. Leave them laid about. So it looks like u are looking else where. Do what u can to try and trick them. Let them know that wen u leave they will pay the morage, just anything. Start saying no to them aswell. X
If they are on the deed but not contributing any money towards the mortgage canāt you take them to court for that? If they can provide proof of payment but you can that should help, no? Then they either have to pay you all the money they owe or leave.
Sounds like youāre screwed and stuck with them. Iāve had ppl stay with me and not once considered putting their name on anything. Family is the first to try and screw your over.
By mindset, you mean declining? Get them to retirement homes, get out from under your mortgage. Thereās always a way. Donāt worry about your niece. Do it before she appoints herself their guardian. Go live in peace. Good luck.
Your husband stayed with you after you did all that?
Stop buying groceries and doing things for them! Youāre enabling them. Talk to an attorney and remove yourself from that toxic situation. Letās see how long theyāll stay once theyāre hungry.
Stop doing for them and seek legal advice on what you should & can doā¦
I hate you did all that but be prepared for what your about to go thru
Kick your niece out of your other home trade her name on the deed of the house your sister is living in. You get off that deed, get away from your sister and get your original home back.
Omg I canāt believe you put your sister and her Man the deed
Sorry but ur husband should of taking care of the problem by taking stinky #1 (her man) out back and gave him a nice long bath with the hose then her. If they where in house sale it and dont give a dime
This is exactly why I live alone. Sell what you have and move on