We’ll if you don’t trust him enough to believe it’s a niece, you prob don’t need to be with him & you need to find out first!
If it is a niece there is no reason to be jealous unless he’s an incestuous person, in which you should keep his kids and other girls away lol
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If that’s his niece then I’m a monkey’s uncle.
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&&& question
Why does no one on this damn post think hotels have more than one bed or a whole ass room in the suite is my question. Y’all must’ve stayed at cheap hotels 
“Niece” 
not only that but he sounds like a d*ck… shutting you out when kids are sick or baby is crying? He helped make those babies, he can help console those cranky and sick babies as well. You’re better off without him. 
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Narcissism at its finest. He’s cheating and best thing for you and your kids would be to leave or kick him out as soon as you can. You deserve so much better 
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Haters only get angry
at the TRUTH you speak because it Contradicts the lie they’re trying to get you not to realize is Truth they’re living‼️
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To many fish in the sea to worry about a minno in the pound. He is definately a minno. Make sure thats really his neice.
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Are you certain she is really his niece?
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Wow. I’d get as far away from that situation as possible, as soon as possible.
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Uh… yeah that’s weird. Either she’s not his niece and he’s cheating or it is his niece and he’s still lookin at her as eye candy perhaps. Or maybe he just is loving being “young” again and partying… which is inappropriate at the very least with u having a young child at home. Sorry but this is just WEIRD.
He just met his “niece” for the 1st time and she’s in her 20’s and they’re sharing a room, going out to bars and he wants to have her work with him!? 
No that’s more than a loving uncle type of relationship. There’s something wrong with the situation and his actions. In addition, your feelings are valid and should be considered. Christian men don’t act that way. Accept the facts and your gut feelings. Don’t stay with a man who doesn’t want to be with you. Prayers for you!
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Go after a whale… one that will love you and your kids. Because it obvious he don’t
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Niece my bum 
don’t be a mug
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If it’s his niece, why aren’t they hanging with all of you? To get to know her he needs to go to the bars with her when he is home? Now she needs to work and live in the same hotel room together? WTF NOOOOOOOOOO he spitting some major BS to you, something isn’t right 
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I think everyone is saying girl that’s not his blood niece .probably a side chick .he will probably end up leaving you for. If he is gone be Thankful for it .you have your kids. Now go live your best life with your kids .
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Sounds like u need jerry springer
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We need more answers!! How do we 100% know this is ACTUALLY his niece!?
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I saw a movie just like this, but the girl claimed to be his daughter when they were actually having an affair.
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A random niece he never knew about prior to now? Hmmm
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Girl I would be willing to bet cold hard cash that ain’t his niece. And even if she is, that whole dynamic don’t seem right at all.
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Nah, kick him out. Disgusting behaviour
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You really really really should start therapy, as soon as possible, for the sake of yourself and your kids
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He’s cheating love, that’s why you’re made to feel crazy. He’s gaslighting you
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That’s not his niece… and if it is, that’s way more f’d up than it not being.
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Not his niece! That’s his side piece of fanny! Wake up and change the locks and sue him for divorce. Make him pay for cheating and leaving you with 3 kids!
It’s not appropriate for him to spend that much time with another woman he barely knows. If he knows it bothers you and gets angry? Big red flag
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Are you positive it’s his niece
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Wait sharing hotels rooms… 
Definitely his “niece”
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It sounds like he wants the marriage on HIS terms only. You would feel a bit stir crazy being stuck at home with both children living a single parent life but being a married woman for the latter part of this last pregnancy and the 4 months you’ve had your youngest. Breaking the door down via your hip was pretty desperate. It was a very unhealthy relationship and you may be better off alone. Seek some counselling for yourself too.
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Sounds like it’s out of the Bible to me
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His niece… I’m sorry but I wouldn’t share no hotel rooms with no uncle of mine.
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He doesn’t think much of your feelings. No other woman should be in his life like that. Were in the Bible does it say that. 
God bless you. Don’t leave your house it’s your house too and you have children to think about.
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WEIRD all over the place. Even if she is in fact his niece that all seems super inappropriate.
Hotel rooms, going to the bar…… big NO to all of that
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This relationship sounds exhausting
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She’s definitely not his niece and everything about the situation is inappropriate.
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A niece he never knew he had? Sounds fishy to me and I wouldn’t be comfortable with it either
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That ain’t his niece…He full of Baloney (Judge Judy voice)
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Wait… is this even real?
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get rid he’s a weirdo
Well I got to read everybody’s comments
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How do you know that …that girl is his niece? Do you know his brothers or sisters?You need to talk to this girls mother and father.I think she’s a chick on the side.You have to do this checking up on your own,to find out the truth.And if she is his niece he still doesn’t need all this time with her and sleeping in same hotel room Niece or not…hell no
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Let me get this straight: he offers to take his adult niece to work with him, you get weirdly jealous. He takes you out and while you’re out you start complaining about him going out with his friends, then when two of your kids are sick and your infant is crying you break down the bedroom door after he locked you out? You need serious help.
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These comments did not disappoint 
and I’m glad I wasn’t the only one thinking WTF.
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“Young niece” uh huh riiiiight.
She’s his dude biscuit and your falling for it.
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So not his niece lol
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This probably just click bate but Niece ???..yeah right
I think you know your answers here but it’s a hard pill to swallow. If he’s willing to throw away his marriage because he wants to hang in private with a “niece” he magically knows now then that’s not someone you need to give more of your life to. And gaslighting you on top of that. Someone makes you feel so crazy you do something you normally would not, knock open the door, then he lists that as his top reason of how YOU messed up. That’s a toxic human.
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So who is the nieces father and mother?? Do you not speak to your husbands family??
All too strange. Really sounds like something out of a book
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I hope these comments help you see the depth of deceit and betrayal that your husband has instilled upon you. My gut tells me this person isn’t a niece and a side chick and you’re being told a lot of big fat lies and being played for a fool. I hate to say this but gather what’s left of your pride and your children and your belongings and get out of there. Absolutely disgusting what I have just read.
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THAT. IS. PROBABLY. NOT. his. niece!!! WAKE UP
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This is not his niece.
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You aren’t crazy. something sounds fishy.
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Niece or not…hes diddling that girl. So either he’s an ass…or he’s an inbreeding ass.
That’s weird. Probably not his niece
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I think I saw a lifetime movie about the meeting the young niece at 20 and had her live wh him and his wife and they were sleeping together and she indeed was not his niece 
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What in Jeremy Kyle is it ? 
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Sorry sweetie sounds like a fake niece and if it is a real niece it sounds super sketchy amd inappropriate…
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And for the love of God stop having kids with them why do women think kids can solve adult problems
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Don’t think that’s his niece 
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He sounds like a creep. Good riddance.
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Get out. Everything is a lie. He is a narcissist
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That doesn’t sound like his niece tbh, and if it is it low key sounds like he might be trying to groom her:/
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Wow this is beyond screwed up and that “niece” probably isn’t but it doesn’t sound like you’ll go because you’ve got your bible which is fine but you have kids to consider and no man needs to be allowed which is what youve basically done to treat a woman less than and that’s exactly what he’s doing and be prepared for the I worked for this not you I bought that not you I work not you because it’s gonna happen hope you have family to lean on or your church cuz you’ll need them he’s not changing
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Honey I don’t think that’s his niece. What proof is there? I feel like that’s his girlfriend that’s living with yall and it’s just an undercover situation. Babygirl you sound extremely naive and he’s taking full advantage of that
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Nope!!! Lawyer up! I’d definitely not be okay with the entire situation! You’re not crazy!
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Too many things “off” here. Kicks you out of the house, nope. Maybe his niece, maybe not. Time to start plotting your departure. F-that dude!
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Following for answers from the op
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Find a better man. End of story.
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Yukkk yuk yuk and good luck. Definitely not a healthy relationship with his “niece”…
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Ma’am, praying’s not going to help because that’s not his niece and he’s not your husband anymore. He’s a cheater who is gaslighting you in order to openly cheat. Your marriage is imploding. You need to protect yourself and your child, so consult a divorce attorney ASAP and take him to the cleaners.
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It is inappropriate. Put down your bible and put on your big girl pants. See a lawyer.
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Ya I’d run like the wind bullseye
That is not his new found niece…
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If that truely is his niece, he is into incest🤷🏻♀️
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That ain’t his niece lol
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Not his niece and if she is you have more problems than you thought. Locking me away from my sick kid would cause me to hurt someone quick
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If something that small is saying he is leaving, let that man go.
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I think you are right on following your instincts. You can do this. Love & Hugs
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I think there’s a movie about this. The guys “daughter” started staying with then and it turned out to be his gf
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Oh Wow I’d show him All these comments 
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If he had forewarning that you were going into a state of desperation and needing him, time out doing something other than taking care of the kids and attention then he is the problem. Especially if he’s picking taking his “Niece” out to bars
How bout he take you the niece and kids out somewhere family friendly
4 months is still a tender point after having a baby and depression etc is high to happen
He should have taken you into consideration
However, I want there so how you came across is a bit pushy and annoying but like I said you’re going through something and he didn’t listen
You both need to separate
Hopefully you both will have time to consider where to go from here
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Sweetheart, I stopped reading… partially because it was starting to be a ramble and not make much sense, but also because she is his niece. I understand that you’re a Christian woman and all, but if you’re worried about your husband having perverse thoughts/actions, not only towards his blood niece, but a 20 year old, and them being alone together and all that, you should probably seek some counseling for yourself and go on and step away from that whole mess.
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He thinks your dummy … Ain’t nothing screams cheating like a “family member” that comes out the wood work
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All jokes aside, nothing about this situation sounds right. I think u need to look into if this is really his biological niece or not. He may work long hours but he needs to be a husband & father whem hes off on the weekends. Not out partying & living it up while ur still “clocked in” at ur 24 7 365 job. Its absolutely not ok! U deserve an equal partner, & ur kids deserve a present dad!! Please update us!!!
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I have had similar experience but he sneaked around my back and did things we had previously discussed between us so I really do not know what the answer is… but perhaps he is not totally against couples counseling if he wants the relationship to move forward. ON the other hand I do not believe you did anything from telling him your feelings about the situation.
Neice my ass let him go thats his side piece and get you daughters checked if he’s locking you out of the room from them that’s crazy
I don’t think it’s his neice love. As hard as that might be for you to hear. If he gets so mad when you bring up how much time he spends with her then it’s probably a side chick and he is trying to gaslight you into believing it’s not like that. If it is his neice then he has a weird idea of spending family time. None of my uncles have ever attempted to go out to bars with me or tried to take me on business trips with them. Thats just weird.
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Are you sure it’s really his niece?
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You need to see if it’s really his niece. Sorry but doesn’t sound right at all. God is trying to show you.Thats why you feel it.
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That is Not Niece behavior Hun😏
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Wake up Honey. That’s probably his GF & he’s making you look like the crazy, psychotic looney when he’s having an affair and he’s obviously a narcissist. Don’t let the door hit ya in the hiney! Things could get really ugly. Wishing you luck, keep safe
His niece that he just met??? Nope. I do think you both need some serious help. This entire story is insane
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You’re just being the jealous thing you want to be. Quiet, you’re making noises thats gonna scare your husband off. Listen to yourself, you’re desperately jealous and its not healthy at all. You’re going to run him off with your sad and unecessary noises. Accuse him of incest on your way out, then. Just leave.
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Are you sure that’s his niece?
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Sooo is this really his “Niece” or?
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Hun that is not his niece…
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Your complaining about him and you haven’t left the house in 4 months, he’s probably bored and she sounds like better company, you’ve made sacrifices shut up woman and get a grip of yourself. You think he’s going to want to wait around for some boring woman who won’t leave the house.
I’m questioning whether that truly is his niece or that’s just his story.
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Is it really his niece or under cover girlfriend?
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