Girl. Yk what’s right. And he’s cheating and she’s liking it.
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Hmmm… I’d wait a tad bit longer and then if he doesn’t give it to you then you may have your answer. I’d then confront him and tell him so, I found a necklace in your pants and I’ve been waiting for you to give it to me. And several days/weeks ago my BFF came out of our house wearing the same exact one. Is there something that you’d like to tell me?
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I agree with Ashley Farrell. That ain’t your man and that ain’t your friend. Move on.
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Collect your proof, block her on everything, delete her number, pack your bags (or his if he’s the one living at your place), change the locks and quietly leave. If they ask what’s wrong, just say you know and leave it at that
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Just get rid of both of them. I had my best friend turn on me this way once upon a time with my first bf of 4 years, and it literally destroyed me for too long.
Don’t let this destroy you.
Let it empower you
Fuck both of them, act like you don’t give a fuck and never did they his this from you because they were afraid of your reaction, just don’t give them any. Go to the club by yourself treat yourself right for a bit and be on your own while you heal. Go on a date or two, maybe try to go to a place you’ve never been, HEAL YOUR HEART. And start over. This is life giving you a second chance.
Follow your gut go with the most obvious
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Always listen to your gut… You already know the answer.
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Where did the necklace go from his pocket ???
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You’re not crazy! That is too much of a coincidence! Don’t confront without more evidence, or they will just deny it, and might become more sneaky. Start checking detailed phone bill for her number and his phone for deleted texts. Confront after more evidence.
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Ask your boyfriend about the necklace. I would’ve asked about it the moment I seen it in his pocket
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I would watch and listen. You already know you just need proof now.
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Red flags going off along with buzzers dingers ringers. RUN THE OTHER WAY. DONT WALK. RUN find yourself a new best friend. If he had given it to her in front of you as a gift $or both of you, it’d be 1 thing. But they’re both hiding it from you. I guarantee there is something going on. You don’t deserve that. A real man wouldn’t make you question and a real friend would never screw around with your boyfriend. I’m sorry but they think your stupid. I’d take others advice set up nanny cams. Then when you confront them they can’t pull the “you’re crazy you’re being paranoid” they’ll lie their faces off because they’re both grimy af. Time to go
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Set up a nanny cam and observe. Once you have your evidence then you can’t look crazy when you confront them. Don’t stay with him or this will be your future 
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You answered your own question. Bin them both
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IF you DO NOT see IT, YOU, my friend are in DENIAL!
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The next time she over and has the necklace on and your bf is there look at him and say that looks like the necklace I found in your pocket. Then say btw what did you do with that necklace. So you’re not accusing your asking.
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See, when you asked her where she got it, THAT IS WHEN I would have replied to her lame explanation with “Funny, I found the exact same necklace in his pocket a few months ago. Are you SURE there isn’t something you want to tell me?”
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Take the blindfold off. She’s not your friend.
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Walk away from both.
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Ask her to hang out when he says he’s going out. She says she’s busy then you know. But honestly you already know.
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They are messing around
I would lie about it and tell him that the friend already told you he gave her the necklace and see how he reacts. Looks like you already know the truth you just need confirmation.
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I think you KNOW and just don’t want to admit. Pack up and cut ties baby!
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I mean I’m petty and I would probably invite both of them over (if he doesn’t live with you) for like a game night or something. Then in the middle of the game be like “I just love that necklace, tell me again where you got it?” To boyfriend “isn’t it such a pretty necklace? I’d love one like it. I found the exact one in your pocket X amount of time ago and thought it was for me, but I never got it. Who did you give the necklace to? I would just love to have one of my own” and if they are guilty, I’ll take pleasure in watching them both squirm. If your boyfriend or best friend has to “suddenly leave” you’ll know the answer.
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2 +2 will never add up to any other number than 4!
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Ummm obviously she doesn’t tell you EVERYTHING
Sometimes the universe gives you a helping hand , take it x
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Never ask via text either .m always face to face
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Get rid of both , your worth more than their lies x
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Ask her to invite the tinder guy on double date w y’all. Ask him where he got the necklace for her cause you love it! 
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He’s cheating. Everyone who thinks their man aunt cheating… he is.
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Communication is key! Talk to them both at the same time!
Put a hidden camera in his car
So where did the damn necklace go if he didn’t give it to you then he gave it to someone else and now she has it so come out of your denial and kick his ass to the curb
Confront them both together and watch them tell on themselves
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Follow youe intuition.
You already know the truth invite them both over & confront them.
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Save your sanity, safety and self. Leave both dear.
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You already know the truth invite them both over & confront them.
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Can the man!
Can the friend!
It happens all the time my good friend who had two kids with a dude and her GOOD friend lol helped babysit the kids and husband
Later the GOOD friend had two kids with him too!
More than likely not a coincidence
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Wtf. That’s terrible. They are horrible. Confront your man & act like bestie already told you. Then pack your stuff & never look back. No one deserves that.
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Maybe he bought it for you, got skint and sold it to her.
But I’d say to him you found one in his pocket, see what he says
Just leave. It’s obvious
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Woahhhh I would’ve definitely confronted both of them right then and there. If you didn’t get the necklace then who did….?? Obviously her !
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Here for the update! Hope you work it out hun x
What if she stole it from ur house 
idk or it could be coincidence?? But I would’ve asked him already in front of her
Say nothing, just disappear, from both their lives…NOW! Follow your gut!!
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Posting it on here ,they know you know…
Get them together and confront them.
Sadly, he’s not yours and she’s not your friend. 
Or she asked him to pick it up for her
Is the necklace a common necklace? Like it’s a cheaper item and there are multiple at the store? Depending on the amount of trust I have someone I MIGHT buy that excuse because many times I have seen the same necklace I’m wearing on someone else. ie: one I bought from Walmart or Claire’s. BUT if it’s a pricier one there won’t be copies and THEN I would just leave because they are obviously together behind your back.
Girl you need to confront them, and if you need a new friend let me know, I can tell you stories I’ve dealt with in my past relationships 
you deserve better hun. Hope things go well.
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Where is the necklas u found in his pocket ? They made more than one u know ? The most important part of this is what happened to the necklas u found in his pocket ???.
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The truth is clear. If you found the necklace and he never gave it to you, it clearly went to someone that wasn’t you, meaning he’s likely cheating on you, regardless of whether or not it is with her. The odds of your best friend coincidentally getting the exact same one, especially from a tinder date you never heard about, on a third date, are way too small. I just highly, highly doubt that’s the case. Invite her and the tinder guy over to your place for the four of you to hang out and then when she brings some random guy over, ask him where he got it because you love it and it’s so pretty. Watch her face and your boyfriend’s, as the clueless guy scrambles for a response and then tell your boyfriend you found one just like it in his pocket that you thought was a gift for you, but you never got it. Don’t do it in a public place, to save embarrassment for yourself when you confront the two of them about it. Your home is the safest place. Trust your gut. You know the truth already. You deserve so much better than both of them. I’m so sorry.
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This isn’t junior high, you don’t typically get a necklace on a 3rd date. You already know what’s up.
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Just ask him about it … you can tell if he’s lying
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If he lives with you, pack his stuff and put them out, then when he acts all brand new and shocked tell him he is busted and to never return, but before he arrives call her to come urgently to your house, that way she will be there acting “supportive” and you can tell her to help him pick up his crap so she can take it to her place, and bust her too. Report his phone as stolen, report his card as stolen, change the locks, change the password to all your accounts and all streaming services, change even the password to the wifi. Heck I would even tow his car 
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I think you know what’s going on so co front it and deal with it and move on why waste anymore time neither one of them care about you.
My mama always said, “there are no coincidences” I found 99% of the time she was correct. Deep down you know. Follow your gut hun.
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Listen to your intuition. Trust yourself. This is your lesson
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How have you not gone off at them both yet ?
Ask him in front of her.
“Babe, look at this necklace she has, it’s so pretty. I’m thinking of getting one……do you like it?”
See their reactions.
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Use your head girl, he gave it to her. Confront them both at the same time. Sorry
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If she is your best friend ask her.
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You sound like you’ve been gaslighted to hell and back if you’re questioning what you saw with your own eyes
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He had a necklace that he never gave you. And she’s wearing the same exact one.
Seriously.
I wouldn’t even question. I’d be OUT. Fuck both of them. Red flags blowing hard here.
From someone who was cheated on with someone very close won’t say who but blood related… trust your gut. And get out. Let trash have trash!
Invite her over confront them and kick him the fuck out and tell her to help him pack his shit and kindly never talk to you again what I would do. Trust your gut.
Naaaa everything SHUTS DOWN and Operation GET to the Bottom of This Sh it is underway Period! Ain’t NO coincidences like that in life this is a sign God is showing you that two ppl must GO in your life you might love them they don’t love you though they hate you actually to do something so low down and despicable you KNOW what’s up
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You know what u should do… wait for ur partner to go work… ring ur best friend and say u have just had a chat with ur partner and he confessed about giving her the necklace and told u what’s been going on with them…. She will probably admit it that way u catch them out lol!! Xx
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My best friend that I thought would never do something to me like this, did! They will try to make it your fault somehow.
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If after 10 years together you cannot ask such a simple question; then you need to start asking not accusingly. You need to know! As someone else mentioned, you can tell by his facial expression - stumbling on his words etc. etc. if he is lying! Be prepared as to what to do after the fact!!!
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Oh no… I am so sorry
Their reading this and coming up with a story for you !
Oh no that’s definitely enough to go on.
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Girl invest first and see how they act around each other
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There is no coincidence here! She isn’t your best friend and he’s not your man but he did give her that necklace. Yank it off her neck and ask her straight up and demand the truth. Don’t sit back and tolerate anymore disrespect from either of them. They have played you for a fool for a long time and you don’t deserve it and they don’t deserve YOU!
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Confront them together.
Check again for it in his pocket if its not there i b haveing words straight up fullstop
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Confront them! My best friend of 20+ years slept with my fiance for over 9 months behind my back. Needless to say me and her are no longer friends. My fiance and I went to counseling and are stronger and happier than ever.
You found it for a reason and you seen her wearing it for a reason. The universe is trying to tell you something. I’d be turning into a detective because I love confronting people with evidence and proof so they can’t gaslight you.
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Yup they definitely seeing each other behind your back set em up though catch them on the move.
Get rid of both of them.
I would tell him in front of your best friend that you found that EXACT necklace in your BF pocket and see what they say or how they react. Sounds to me like they are having an affair.
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Question is…why is the necklace in his pocket in the first place?
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Omg this is awful. Watch them and pay attention. Document everything. I’m so sorry.
Here’s what I did. Different situation, same concept. I found a hair tie on “my and my fiancées” bathroom vanity. His house. Now he shares this house with his son and I know his son has gals over. It’s a six bedroom four bathroom home. Our bathroom is private. Last night I announced in front of everyone that I didn’t appreciate the feeling of violation I could have had by seeing this. I knew and still know it was one of his sons gals hair tie. I chewed on my fiancée in front of his son that this is unacceptable. This is our private space and should be kept that way. I don’t know these gals. All the guys apologized to me and tried to explain it. I simply said “I already know, but think about all the ways this could have gone”.
Don’t ask. Tell him you found the necklace and where you found it. Give him the opportunity to come clean. Could be your friend just bought it and left it at your place. (Doubt it) If lies start to fill the conversation. You need to cut your losses and move on. Don’t bother arguing. Spend that energy on yourself. Anyone who has something to hide, doesn’t deserve your truthfulness.
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I would play it cool and follow him and her. Take pictures. If you confront them without more proof they will deny it. I wish I had done that.
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Here’s an idea…if you find it again, take it and hide it somewhere, and see if he asks you if you found a necklace…if not, then you know
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Always trust what your instincts tell you now matter what. I have and its always been right.
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Confront them 100% thats way too coincidental
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Baaaaaaaby giiiiiiirl. You already know what’s going on, your intuition is telling you… The universe is telling you!! Listen to it mama because it will never steer you wrong. She is TRIFLING you hear me?! He is TRIFLING!! When I read stories like these I think back to being 17yrs old & breaking things off with whom I thought was my true love only to find out not even a month later my best friend was sleeping & living with him. Go tf off sis!!
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Throw both of them away!
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When your around both literally say hey where’d you say you got that from again because I seen it in his pocket not long ago and thought it was for me…girl them the opportunity to explain but look at the behavior.
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I think you already know the answer. They are definitely together behind your back. Maybe it was his way of you finding out, placing it in his pocket then her wearing it. But I would say wow things sound pretty serious with tinder guy, why don’t we all have dinner together ,would love to meet him. But honestly I would just walk away because you are being played by 2 people who should never play you and they are doing it together. It is completely disrespectful
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I would dump both boyfriend and best friend. Friends like that who needs enemies
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Has she met him in person with you ever?
Some “bestfriends” become jealous of a relationship your in and will go after it.
If so confront them both, dont listen to lies and walk away from both asap.
That is not your friend, and that is not your man. Girl there are both going behind your back. Play the reverse psychology card on your friend, if she tries to talk to you, act mad and say I know where you really got that necklace. I don’t know why you need to lie to me I already know the truth and I’ve been knowing, her dumb Ass will probably admit everything. And if she don’t just ignore her until she breaks down and tells you
Girl you already know what’s going on as hurtful as it is get rid of them both unfortunately in this world people do this type of hurtful shit all the time get rid of both of them asap it will hurt like hell but no on deserves that shit
If you send into this you already know drop yhem