Sit back, assess, watch closely, follow your gut.
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Idk it sounds like something is going on with them. I guess I’d ask him about the necklace you saw and see what he says though be prepared for him to lie to you about it.
Get rid of both of them! Your gut isn’t wrong!
Girl …I’m sorry …
You deserve so much better .
Check the cell phone records and see if his phone is calling hers.
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Follow your gut, you know that they are together
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Act as if one already told you about the other…you arent wrong…go with your gut…they are trifling…playing you for dumb…in my opinion
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Sorry my dear but time to release him and move on. YOU ARE WORTH MORE!
They’re the ones who should be feeling shitty, not you! They’re doing you so dirty! I mean there’s a tiny chance that there is an innocent explanation (for example your bf knows the tinder guy and picked the necklace up for him), so I’d definitely ask
Your gut put the thoughts in your head follow it. Break them before they break you 
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You didn’t think to ask her what her tinder dates name was? With a response like that, I would have DUG DEEP.
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Ummmmmmmmm… you found tha necklace fr areas on areas on would call her out. Also, some friends are friends just to get your man.
Just sit them both down and ask them.
It’s easy.
Hey, that necklace she has on looks alot like the one I found in the jacket pocket.
What happened to that necklace and why does she have one like it?
Are y’all seeing each other?
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Conversation first even if the outcome is what you expect and it’s not good. Don’t not hold it on it will make you crazy. He obviously doesn’t know you found it in his pocket. If she ever was your friend she would not risk you seeing it if you never told her you found it? If she did know and still wore it she’s very stupid or just lower than dirt
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I would get rid of them both to be honest. If your gut is telling you something isn’t right listen to it.
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Ask him where the necklace you saw in his pocket is, if he can’t tell you where it is now he obviously gave it to her
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End everything now before these two ruin your life further
You already know the answer you were just hoping we all will tell you something different. Girl you already know what he’s doing and you can’t trust her either. If you confront him he’s only gonna flip out or get way better at hiding things that he already was. He will not change. Anyone who can come home to you and look you in the face every day while seeing your best friend does not respect you please understand that
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Time to do some digging! I mean, you already have your answer but clearly you need more!
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I have literally been in the same position but it involved a baby. After my confronting him my ex blamed me.
If the trust is already lost and there are issues. Face them with rationality. Have a conversation not a screaming match. If it’s true that they are together you are better off without them.
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Are we talking a real necklace in a nice box and everything? Or some basic a$& cheap shit everyone has? If it had a box/label, search his account for the purchase!
Omg you need to ask x
Move on sweetheart he is not worth your tears. There is someone out there that will cherish you for you, life is to short to live the way you’ve been living.
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First find out if there are duplicate necklaces. Then do a lot of thinking if you want to live in doubt the rest of your life
Talk to him
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So You know deep down your answer, they might try to make you think you are crazy. I would confront them at the same time. Both together and tell them you found that necklace, but he never gave it to you and now she has the exact same necklace so what’s up. If he can’t immediately pull out an identical necklace then you know he gave it to her. Their faces will tell all. Sorry girl, you deserve better.
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Red flag bin d 2of them.now 
Sounds very suspect 
I would definitely follow your gut. I had something very similar happen and the ring was not for me. My ex husband used to buy me and his girlfriend the same gifts all the time. Rings, Valentine’s cards, outfits. I’m so glad I’m divorced
You are being held hostage by both. Think carefully why he is staying with you, and her as a friend. The coincidence of your friend wearing the same necklace you found , is one in a million. He’s cheating. Would it be hard on him financially to be on his own? They both will deny it, so my advice, leave him or kick him out, don’t cry either, they both are not worth it.
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not a coincidence so …
You should have taken a picture of that necklace
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Tell him you found the necklace. If he doesn’t produce this necklace, in front of you, (meaning no time to just go buy one himself) then you’ve got your answer.
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Tell him you saw the necklace in his pocket and ask where it is now. Go from there. Did he get you anything for your birthday?
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Drop both of them on their asses!
Catch one and act like you already know…question the necklace coming as a gift…it being seen or yours…one will not be able to cover or lie!! I’d go after gf… As k for name n pic of guy gave it…then be like well are you sure you didn’t steal it or my guy gave it to you??? Then get to your man questions before she can tell him…or better yet set up camera and have them alone together!
HL
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Well that’s kinda obvious that your ex man and ex best friend are together
With all the necklaces that could be gifted in the world, there is definitely no coincidence here. Get rid of them both, and bow out gracefully. Know your worth.
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Yeah no. That’s grimey AF. Kick them both to the curb.
Does he have any friends? Lol but on a serious note big hugs 
because that type of thing will have you not trusting anyone for a long time! It has everything to do with them as people and nothing about your worth ok? 
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He’s cheating with your so called, NOT your friend. Dump them both. You will feel better with the dead weight gone
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It’s no coincidence stay with him or leave him It’s up to you but he gave your girlfriend that necklace and you don’t give gifts to your girlfriend’s best friend behind her back he may change but for now he is untrustworthy and so is your best friend and if you are with your soul mate you won’t have to work on your relationship trust me
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Save yourself time, energy, and breath. Just go now.
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I would definitely have them together when I asked about the necklace… I agree with everything Laura Deeds-Hale said … That’s how would also go about it !
The suspense would drive me CRAZY ! I would have to know for sure right now… She isn’t no friend to mess with your BF ditch them both !
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Tell him that your best friend told you about the necklace and about them. “And see what he will react”. You can catch a fish by their mouth. If he over reacted. It’s fact 
been there.
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There are no coincidences, you already know.
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I would tell him so I found this necklace in your pocket thought you’d give it to me for our anniversary but instead my best friend came over wearing the same one. Then I’d say I talked to her and she told me everything and ask him what he has to say
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You need a new friend and kIck the boyfriend to the curb.
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If u feel it in ur gut it’s probably true!!
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Confront him. They are messing around behind your back.
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I sooooo want an update
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Say BYE BITCHES… Kick their slimy nasty asses to the curb!!! They’re obviously not being true to you.
I’d check her phone somehow .
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Why not ask you think!
I would ask him about the necklace to see what he says first. But that sounds shady af and no your not crazy for putting two and two together. In fact, I am humbled by you for asking about this. I don’t want to insinuate anything, but what if your best friend has been on 3 dates with your boyfriend? I would also ask your best friend why she hadn’t told you about these 3 dates if she tells you everything. Try to get details, and then try to see where your boyfriend was during these dates. Question their actions and asses the situation more.
Please keep us updated 
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Just ask him straight up about the necklace. Closes mouths don’t get fed. Maybe it’s a coincidence and he still has it, give benefit of the doubt.
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Turning on post notifications for an update 
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Man my first bf did this ish.
Leave and don’t look back.
It’ll hurt you more mentally than anything if you drive yourself to find out “why he did this”
They don’t think they just want to eff.
He laughed and told me he just wanted 2 women at once.
She ain’t a friend and he ain’t your man. Much better guys out there anyways.
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I agree with the comment, set up a camera where they most likely would be alone together and see what happens.
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Do you find her attractive?
Because…you know?
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I can’t give any helpful advice on this cause following my advice you’d be in jail…somebody would be catching these hands…
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Personally I would do some investigating before I said anything. Once they know you know they’re going to lock it down trying to hide it. I’d want some evidence so they can’t lie their way out of it. If you can get into his phone or phone records that would most likely tell you everything. Start watching. If you just confront they’re probably both going to lie. You already know the truth though so I’d start working on an exit strategy from both their lives. So sorry you’re going through this.
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If you got doubt and you’re looking for answers on this forum just get out. This group is just gonna tell you to leave him anyway but if you truly don’t trust him you’re wasting his and your time
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Why are you even with him. Walk away. Wait…Run
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1st
If the necklace u found is gone
U already know
2nd WAKE UP
THEY MESSING AROUND BEHIND YOUR BACK
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Girl he gave her the necklace 100 percent that is not a coincidence
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Isn’t even worth being brought up. Ditch them both!
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Wake up,!! Ditch them both
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My husband had been seeing my “ best friend “ behind my back for 7 months all while smiling in my face and even texting right in front of me that was a 15 year friendship she was my first real best friend. And me & him had been together almost 12 years. She is not your friend baby and that boy isn’t your man! Please leave cause if not it will happen again and again and again! They don’t change they just change victims. She will get done the exact same way! It’s gonna hurt but I promise there is better out there for you! My inbox is open 
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There is no coincidences especially like this. ALWAYS trust your gut.
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Sis - wake tf up. Confront both their a$$es. She’s not your friend and he’s not your man.
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One, I’m so sorry. Two, she’s ain’t your bestfriend, I’d bet $ she’s fucking your man behind your back. Your gut never lies babe.
Forget that. The fact that you even have an inkling in your gut that it could be what you think it is is a no and a huge sign that you need to back out of this. 
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Yep. He playing you girl. First hubby tried that with my bestie and me. Both told me i was crazy for thinking that… Until she turned up preggers. Not your friend. Not your hubby anymore. Better is out there waiting on you to put out the trash. Leave
Them both and dont tell either why.
Don’t mention it…. Get the proof. Put a camera in your house…follow them…take pictures. Get solid proof. Then call her over crying saying you need her help. Then face to face tell her he admitted everything and you want her to tell you why she betrayed you and the only way you can move on is if she tells you why she went to your man. She’ll admit it. Then when he gets home you can see the look on his face and her face when you tell him that she told you everything 
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Barbara. U said it all kick that idiot to the curb
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Is the necklace really expensive looking? You should ask your best friend, oh so he gave you a necklace, things must be getting pretty serious between you two and you haven’t even told me about it? I need details like hello!?
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Show him the door. Don’t be a sucker
Highly unlikely it’s a coincidence!! It would literally be a one in a million coincidence! That’s definitely the necklace from his pocket and they are definitely shady af! Get your proof confront them and run!
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My best friend was with my ex for by years behind my back. He is was also friends ex with her husband. Jfyi
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If you saw a necklace in his pocket and he never gave it to you as a present, then he gave it to someone else. Even if it wasn’t given to your friend he gave it to some other woman
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Next time she’s over ask him about the necklace you found in his pocket. Say, “. I thought you would have given it to me by now, and now that she has the same one we could be twins! Can I have it now?” And we need it on video!! Lol!
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Stop being possesive… Dude just needs a side chick!
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We need an update!!!
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Lose that guy! It’s easier said than done I know…ditch the friend too!
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You can confront them but chances are, they’ll lie anyways… TRUST your gut, always… When my ex-husband cheated, the women he cheated with, sent me pictures of her WEARING my wedding ring, that was placed in my daughters hands when we got “family” photos when she was stillborn… They both denied it, till one day around 3am, he showed up at my parents house, to give me my ring back…
No matter how much they deny it, WHEN YOU KNOW, YOU KNOW! I’m so sorry you’re going through this🥺
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Next time you’re all together, wear the necklace and see their reaction.
Oh hell no!! Girl like lots of people already said he’s not just your man, and she sure as shit ain’t your friend! Absolutely I would confront him first, then go from there. I would definitely think something was up. Trust your gut. And girl you can do better and you definitely deserve better. Good luck!
I would throw a party but like just a fun get together but really call it a break up party in front of all your friends confront them on display lol
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Is there Ana update yet?
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Talk to your husband first, separately. And tell him your friend confessed after you approached her about it and see what he says.
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Know your worth and move on
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Hell no, don’t sit back. Get them together and ask the question. You don’t want vd or him if he’s seeing your friend
Does this page ever have updates?
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This is the most reacted to post I’ve ever seen this page get lol. Mamas Uncut you should request an update from this girl on behalf of all of us. Was it the same necklace?!?!
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Tbh I’d get them both in the same room, explain what’s up and ask him to show you your necklace if it is just a coincidence. Point blank. Their reactions will tell you the rest.
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If it walks like a duck and talks like a duck… It’s a duck.
Trust your gut feeling.
It’s normally the closest to you, who betray you.
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Get rid of him and her. You don’t need that in your life.
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If he didn’t give her the one you found where is it ? I would wait until you’re all together and say “ wow , babe didn’t you get me the same necklace? I saw it in your pocket you must have forgotten to give it to me… go get it so we can be twins !”
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its not insecure its called she was not her best friend from the get go or she would of told her about what went on between them an did not fear of getting her tail beat or getting her old man in trouble dang that he shouldnt been doing stuff behind your back either marry or not called cheating .I wouldnt want someone sloppy second thats messed up he was happy he never done what he did an was going to prolong it long as he or she didnt get caught an now that you question its all out now,What webs we weave when they can deceive ! I think he is not worth having an him either you deserve better than that !
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Tracy Carter this one 
the absolute nerve of these men 
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She is not your friend and he is not your man. Save yourself the trouble and walk away from both.
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