Wait until you’re all together then interrogate lol
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Girl!!! Sit back and play your cards right!!! You’re NOT crazy!!
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Be courageous. Ask him if he is seeing your friend. Actually I would get them both together and ask them at the same time. Their guilt will show. Especially if they get extremely defensive. Or they might own up to it. Then just leave. You won’t be wondering what if. You’ll have closure.
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Don’t ignore the signs.
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She’s screwing him. Call them out and move forward because they’re disgusting.
Sorry but when u smell a rat theres usually one about this time theres two. I gad a friend like that once and found out the hard way she wasnt my friend just like this person is not yours. They tried to talk their way ouy of it too but then a dmitted the truth. I would do what i did …say to your f r iend your man has admitted giving it to her. Then say toyouur man that your friend has admiited it and watch them make excuses then tell both goodbye…sorry this has happenned to you as i know how it feels to be deceived by two ppl u love…but u will be better off…good luck
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Nah mate…that’s off 
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That shii don’t add up
Follow your Gut instinct if it don’t feel right it’s NOT! I would be highly suspicious right now especially if She sounded hesitant on tell you. From now on I would absorb everything on how they react in from of you together. The way they talk look for flirting eye contact ect .
does it look cheap - and if so i wouldn’t worry about it - its just a necklace- after u have seen it what did u think of it - if your gut feel says something else than maybe u should leave but on other hand if your anniversary is coming up and he happens to give u the same necklace as the other girl that when i would say please leave now! or i will! in other words take your pic
I agree with Toddidean Roberts…
Also could you Please come back and fill us in on how it goes??
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Follow your gut… especially with things like this I think… you are not crazy…
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Gut feeling always right
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I’d wait until you’re all together and casually bring it up. Just randomly say something like, I really like your necklace, where did you get it again? Just make sure when you say it, that you’re positioned in a way that you can see their expressions and body language. I’d also say something like, for some reason it looks so familiar to me. Like I’ve seen it before somewhere else. Then watch how they interact with each other the rest of the time. If she’s single, I’d also say something like, I know the perfect guy for you. Just make up a story about someone you work with or something. See how they react to that as well. If they’re messing around, than she probably won’t express interest, and he’ll probably make some sort of remark about it.
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I didn’t even have to read it all and I can tell you this….listen to your gut! I wish you the best❤️
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It sounds exactly like what you think it is. If I were you, I would sit back and take notes on behavior and any lies you uncover. That way when you confront them, you’ll have all the ammo you need and they won’t be able to just dismiss it so easily. I’m sorry, I know it hurts. But at least you found out now before you married him or something. Get a plan together and set up a nice trap so that you can have the last laugh while they’re looking dumb as hell.
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Did you compliment her on the necklace your boy friend gave her?
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If you live together get your $$ and stuff you want separate quick while he’s at work. Get po box and change all your mail. Yep he’s cheating I’m sure. It’s always your so called best friend
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Cut them both loose they ain’t💩
She may have stolen it from your house 
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Get rid of him they r both lier
If you ask, and he lies, you still will be questioning it. Best to get them in same location and pick up on the clues they will give out. Take your time be calm patient and act normal. If/when you see things that indicate a relationship, trust your gut.
Save yourself all the drama and lies and leave.
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Ask to borrow her phone and see if she even has the tinder app.
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I’d be checked n his phone. Lol.
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They are doing that behind your back call them both out and leave both their dusty asses behind
seems like you should stop having girl friends and seek someone that really happy to meet you…cut your losses and keep your ship afloat…Captain…you have the power
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Tell him you love your friend’s necklace & you want just like it!
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You already know. No boyfriend, no friend.
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Trust your instinct.
Could ask for a double date with them. I’d be checking if he is on tinder. Join yourself and go scrolling.
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Maybe she left it there or it fell off her neck. Maybe he picked it up not recognizing it as yours and asked her about it thinking she knew where you got it. Then he returned it to her… or maybe they are dirty rotten cheaters 
you won’t know until u ask them!
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I’d ask him about the necklace. See what his reply is and go from there.
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I wouldn’t question or think of them again. Walk away from that toxicity.
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Regardless of the friend, you still found the necklace in his pocket. Tell him you thought it was for you and waited to be surprised which never came, so whats with the necklace? Just note his response and go from there.
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Ask her to show you the guys tinder profile
You get the two of them together and calmly address the necklace situation itself. Then go from there. You’re more able to assess the situation with them in the same room. Either way, if he didn’t give it to you then it was obviously intended for someone else be it your friend or not.
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He gave it to her 
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Always listen to your gut!!!
As much as sometimes you don’t want to believe it or shug it off , it’s always right…
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Your instincts are spot on !He’s a cheater and she’s NOT your friend !Im sorry this happened but you deserve better 
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Okayyy so even if he didn’t give her that necklace girrrl, where is the necklace now! It’s seems way to off to me get them together search for signs if you see nothing call him out on the necklace… Ask were it went and why your bestmates wearing it. 
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The fact I’ll never know this outcome gives me anxiety 
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Just ask him straight out
Run from both and don’t go back. My ex hid that he was talking to my best friend behind my back for years from the moment i fell pregnant and now there as close as ever. People like that really disgust me hey. They have no good intention towards you.
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Dawn Glawson omg this is so sad
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If that is the case you need to dump BOTH of them for good
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I would tell him you saw the necklace in his pocket & see what he has to say “”" Cheating I would say 
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It’s kind of like a “love actually” moment, so sad 
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Leave now, trust your gut!!
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I had a friend from high school we use to hang out a lot until one morning I watched her drop my ex husband off at 3am , We are no longer friends .
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hun wake and smell the coffee they r together and dont want u to know dump him ask him and her together see the response and u kn9ow
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You know the truth. I would just calmly approach you BF and ask about the necklace and when he lies, stay calm, tell him its over and move on.
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Both cheaters!! Get a new friend and boyfriend!! Neither is worth the emotional agony they’ve both caused!!
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What you do is you get them both in the same room like a normal day as if you know nothing. Then say hey so and so show my boyfriend the necklace you got from that tinder date guy…
Then after she shows it just say I can’t believe how much it resembles the necklace I found in your pocket a few months ago honey, isn’t uncanny? Then watch for the reaction. Don’t get mad or upset. If it becomes very obvious they are lying and doing stuff behind your back, just calmly walk up to her, shake her hand and say thanks for taking the trash off my hands then move on with your life without either of them in it.
I’d just text him and say I know about the necklace… And leave it at that
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Confront her and then sleep with his best mate
Karma
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There is no such thing as coincidence
You’re stronger than me. I’d of went off as soon as I saw it. I’d say something but they’ll deny it… so… watch them. Observe
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Just be open and sit them both down and tell them you’re on to them.
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To the curb with both of them.
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Tell your friend you saw the exacts same necklace in your bf pockets when you saw it. see what the look on her face is that will give you an answer. I had the same thing but with a ring I got excited thinking hw was going to propose when he was really giving to the chick he was engaged to before me it turned out the over the 4 yrs we were together they were still together even though she was married to someone else
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You will feel so much better
Go with you gut girl. If it looks like a 
n walks like a it’s a duck.
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Confront her then sleep with his dad or hers 
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3Id ask in front of them both.
Come out of left field with it
Next time take a picture for quality control purposes lolol
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Listen to your gut. If you present it calmly…don’t give either of them an excuse to call you crazy…just put it like you did here…keep your guard up, again don’t let them get a big reaction. Just say,please,I need to know.no threatening…be so cool.
What you do give them ,if this is true,is the door. That’s the most loving thing you can do for yourself.
I 'm rooting for you…you have a lot of people behind you here!
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If it looks like a duck, and it quacks like a duck… it’s definitely a duck…
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No 1 rule: No cheating!
No excuse! See you later bye 
Act like you don’t know. Invite her over and just see if they act weird… maybe even point at the necklace again and say it’s pretty. And you really like it, and say to your boyfriend ? “Don’t you think “
I really hope it’s just a random coincidence…Xx
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Your gut knows the truth. Listen.
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You know what’s the best method I’ve used to get the truth out? Not saying it’s the best lol but I act like I already know. “I already figured it all out…” Say the small details you do know and watch them unfold the rest for you 
haha like “I know about the necklace” and just watch them struggle to give half truth half lie and guess what, most likely half the truth has new information for you to add onto the rest of the interrogation 
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My “best friend” was a snake to me… don’t ever think just because they have that title, means they won’t cross boundaries because god damn those bitches still will
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I would have to confront. I can’t let something like that just sit…
Ask them both while together “Do you guys have something to tell me?” Best spit it out now before shit goes down.
Sit them down together and watch them squirm when you say you know.
Listen to your gut. Just sit back and watch for other things before asking or confronting. Don’t address it when you’re worked up and have been going through all the “what ifs”…. In all honesty I personally wouldn’t give myself a moment to think about it and would end up with a huge fight. Don’t be like me 
You know what’s the truth & what isn’t. Don’t doubt yourself EVER!
A woman’s intuition NEVER lies!! You came here to ask what you already know. You just need clarification and none of us here can personally give that to you but your boyfriend has all the answers you need. I would not confront him in front of her, I would call his bluff. I would tell him I know about the necklace, I know everything, now would you like to give me your side of the story or should I just believe her side?!! I would explain the finding of the necklace and your friend came over with it on and you asked her where she got it and she got all nervous and blurted out everything. Make sure to put your phones away that way he can’t message her while you guys are talking. And this is why I do NOT have so called “Friends”
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Thank goodness it’s your boyfriend and not your husband, just saved yourself lots of legal troubles.
If they have snap chat turn his maps on and then the next time he schedule unusually for work or is out without you just go to your Snapchat and check the map. Or On his phone go to your contact and share location indefinitely (if you and him have an iPhone)
Turn his location on in his settings on his phone and then you’ll be able to see his exact location.
You’ll have to turn your location on your phone too to be able to view it.
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Ask him or her. Don’t take no crap.life is to short
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If there is anything I’ve learned it’s to trust your gut. I’d rather be wrong and move on then be right and find out another way.
Just confront them.
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id trust your gut so meny necklaces out theri ur boyfriend got a necklace and out of thousands of diffrent necklace your friend got the same one …
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Dude you gotta see what’s up ask him about the necklace you saw in his pocket and see what he says and then tell her he confessed and se what she says. A little bit of reverse psychology. And then we need an update! Because it’s not even my situation and my gut is telling me this ain’t right. And quit inviting her to your home right away.
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Listen to your gut ,it’s usually right.
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Update us after because this is some shit
You just need to ask !
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Look, ultimately, you get a feeling in the pit of your stomach. That’s your gut. That b ain’t never wrong.
You feel it only in your chest, tension and tightness? That’s more anxiety.
Trust the way your body feels. Wrote down everything you are feeling and do tlet anyone gaslight you into disregarding these feelings
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Your instincts is telling you something then listen to it, betrayals are hard as it is, especially to the people you love the most, it just goes to show that someone is much better for you out there. Better to deal with them now than prolonged the hurt 
they bring. You can do this:pray:t2:
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Open those eyes wide my girl because they are cheating on you! Always trust your instincts! Your boyfriend will likely try to turn this back on you by telling you that you are being paranoid! You are not and these 2 are lying to you and playing you for a fool! Sorry you are beimg hurt but don’t waste another minute on these losers!
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Sit down with both of them and ask him what ever happen to the necklace you found in his pocket a while back. Watch their reactions and go with your gut.
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Come on now!!! You know the answer!
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Ask your friend. Be like ‘I swear I’ve seen that before, I know I have! I found one that looks like exactly like that in BF’s pocket a few months back.
Her reaction should be very telling.
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I say you keep quiet and spy on this situation
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Hunni
She ain’t your friend let alone your best friend
If it was me
I would pack his stuff into garbage bags
Put a note in one of the bags
Drop them off at her place
And tell her to wash his clothes and I will send over my sloppy seconds
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It’s not a coincidence sweetie! Get them in the same room and call them both out about it. Don’t waste anymore time with him if you have your doubts.
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I have some rather bad advice, don’t follow it. Send your best friend flowers or trinkets from a Mystery Admirer as you probably know her address and IF your boyfriend did give her that exact necklace you found in his pocket, he’ll soon get really jealous and “dump her”.
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You’re boyfriend won’t tell the truth about the necklace if you ask. Confront them together.
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My guess is bae on tinder is your bae 
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Make your own tinder profile and see if you find him on there. That chick isnt your friend and your bf is the one that gave her the necklace.
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You must be blind 
or just Dooley go kbak with his best mate
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He’s cheating 
now call a female family member to do a good ol fashioned stake out and get your proof but play cool until you catch him
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