Do you have a teenage son? If not them I’d be pissed and send him packing. But I like the comment about hiding it and observing your man’s behavior and doing an investigation
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Ask him if he has any clues as how you found a bra that doesn’t belong to you.
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Someone would have noticed the bra when putting the bed up
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He cheated. Why would be under your bed… YOUR bed… that you brought with you when you moved.
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Go ahead and lose it
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She purposely left it there for you to find
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Bring all your family into one room hold it up and ask him how it got under your bed
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Can we have a Part 2 plz !!!
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Girl u already know. If you are absolutely for sure its not yours or daughters or anyone in household and u didnt bring it there then he had to have. This is huge because not only would that obviously point to cheating but cheating in your house. I would fold it up snd put it on his nightstand or somewhere he will definitely see it and see if he says anything or what he does with it. But im sorry girl u already know.
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She wanted you to know 
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Think u know the answer so sorry 
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I found a sports bra once bigger than my own size in the laundry downstairs once. And I asked my husband like a normal person he didn’t know at first then he thought about it, asked his mom bc she took a shower down stairs in our bathroom and put her dirty clothes in the hamper downstairs !!!
Just ask your husband !
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Lose it. She left it on purpose
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I’d put it in the blankets and ask him to help make the bed and "find " It together
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Just ask your husband there could possibly be a perfectly reasonable answer good luck 
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Shouldn’t need help on this one girl . You already know .
Set him up . Say you’re going away for a couple of days . Set up a couple hidden cameras , leave with your bags come back a bit later super surprise attack
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Put it in his lunch box/bag with a note…lol
Hate to disappoint you!
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“Hey, I found this training bra under our bed. Weird. I haven’t seen a bra this little since I was 9.” 
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You already know…
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DONT SAY ANYTHING!!
GO ON AMAZON AND GET A HIDDEN CAMERA FOR $30 BUCKS AND GET YOUR HARD PROOF THEN
BUST. HIS. ASS. and have his shit already packed at the door!
Is your spouse by any chance transgender?
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Ask him then lose it
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do you have a daughter
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Hang it on the front doorknob outside,when he comes home, see if he brings it in…
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Or do u have a son old enough to be having sex in your bed with his gf?
I’d definitely be asking questions if it’s not yours or anyone else in your household!
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& your sure nobody gave it to u?! Might seem weird but I got friends/family etc that gives me there stuff ALL the time!!! & I seriously forget… I’ve wondered this VERY question a few times but what it came down to was I TRUST my husband & it was very likely one of my friends or mom etc gave me the item.
Hope u find some closure though love… Go with your gut… Gut never lies n ur head will play tricks on u! 
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Maybe he’s a cross dresser. Put it in his pillow case
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Any sons in the house? Possible GF of a child?
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Do you have a cat or dog …they live bringing stuff home and hiding it under the bed 
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I’d be asking my husband some questions
Straight up ask him who it belongs to
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He got it for himself because he wants to fill what it’s like to wear a bra so you busted him when he was trying to put it away so he kicked it under the bed and then he Forgot about it
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I really wish we got updates on some of these posts.
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No logical explanation
Secret cameras will give you the truth
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There is no logical answer!!!
Go off sis !!!
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I’m sorry girl you know he had a girl laid up in your bed and that girl left that bra on purpose. You don’t forget to put your bra back on tf
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I’d hold it up and say who’s in the hell is this that I found under our bed?!?!??!?!?!?
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Oh I would definitely be loosing my mind in this situation. Confront your man but try to stay calm about. Good luck
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Act a damn FOOL now!! Cause you didn’t need us for this. Cause you just answered yourself. Sorry.
Do you have a teenage son? Maybe ?
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Unless you have teenagers or young teens I can not think of a logical explanation
Uhhh…I’d say go ahead and lose it. She left it behind for a reason.
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But like what girl forgets to put her bra back on and leaves it completely?! That’s the confusing part to me…
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Girl, you already know the answer…
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We need an update on this please
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Put it on his side of the bed where he will notice it . Set your phone on record prop it up start making dinner. ask him to grab the laundry . Or something near the bra . Get his reaction .
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Leave it where he will see it… if it goes missing, he’s trying to hide it, if he leaves it where it’s at, he has no clue either! 
Otherwise…
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Lose it ! She left it for you to find !
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Unfortunately you already know the answer 
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. Proof is right there
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I feel like I need to know what happened 
update?
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Is he a cross dresser?
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I think someones been cheating and telling you lies and obviously she couldn’t find her bra to put on because it was under the bed ( unless she put it there con purpose so that you find out)
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Unless you have older kiddos or he dresses in drag on the weekends, you know why it is there. The real question is what happens now?
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Someone intentionally left it…
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She left it for a reason🤔
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Go on and lose it boo. Get a new mattress, new house and a new man.
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Lose it, definitely lose it. Unless you had a teenage daughter like I do, I’d flip!!!
Sadly girl you already know the answer. Sorry girl, I know how you feel. Caught mine cheating after 26yrs. Needless to say he is now my EX husband
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He’s cheating and she’s letting you know.
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You already know what’s up it didn’t get there by itself confront him
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Girl you already know. And I promise who ever left it, left it on purpose .
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I’m sorry honey but it obviously was left there for you to find. He probably didn’t even know it was there!
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I’m saving this post because I’m hoping for an update lmao but for reals I would just toss the whole bed and man
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Someone is sending you a clear message/warning. It was definitely left intentionally for you to find.
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Camera in your house or just ask him
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You already know the answer!
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You have some digging to do. Or just kick his azz to the curb.
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Lose it. You know someone else is there
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If you don’t have a teenage daughter then you know the answer. Let him have it 
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No younger daughters? Then you probably know the answer…
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We all need an update on this. Hoping it’s not what it seems for your sake.
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Does your partner like wearing bras maybe 
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I would leave it out on the floor where it’s just peeking out of the bed and see if your husband hides it. Then he is guilty
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Is he cross dressing?
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Lose it. You know what time it is
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Babies u already know ur just trying 2 convince urself of something different…1st he has no respect 4 u 2 cheat on u…then 2 do it in the bed u share ?? & 2 be so careless as 2 let that happen ?? Oh hell no pack his bags n kick his a÷÷ out
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Definitely what you’re thinking ! And I’m sure she left it on purpose . Who tf forgets their bra ? Fkkk him up
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You know the answer. Don’t gaslight yourself.
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I grant you permission to lose it girl.
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Sorry but I think you know the answer 
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Hang it on his rear view mirror with a very stern message!
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Following for answers
Go buy a matching set similar to the bra you found… plan an exotic night and use the one you found to tie him up with make him wear it blind fold him with it tease him with it….get it right at that point and then go to bed… leave it all laying and hanging around
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Put it under his side of the bed but sticking out enough to clearly see. What he does with it will tell you alot. He will either hide it or ask you whos this is.
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Is he wearing the matching panties? I would think it was his. Lol that’s just me.
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Omg PLEaSE UPDATE! 
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Maybe he’s cross dressing 
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Set up a camera, watch his phone. Idk how but there was a condom in my car lol and it wasn’t from me, all I can think is I cleaned a house with the vacuum and it was stuck to roller, idk and I did not do it and my bf found it, no explanation
I say lay it out some where he will see it and see how he reacts to seeing it. Like lay it at the edge of the bed on his side. Just right under the bed where u know he will see it.
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I’d leave it on his pillow at bedtime
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U know where it came from
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3 possibilities
- Is the the washer/dryer yours? Maybe was one stuck somewhere in machine?
- He’s had a female over, but why would she leave without her bra? Unless she’s making sure you find out, or was in a rush to leave. Get home cameras. If you have them check them.
- He bought one to wear himself.
Hope it’s 1 or 3. If it’s 2, by all means LOSE IT!!
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Put it back where it was leave it slightly sticking out. If it disappears then you have your answer…
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I bet it’s his just ask him that be his only way out of this
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Install hidden cameras without his knowledge
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What help could you need… You just ruled out the logical options so it is what it Is… If you’re still questioning this, the only help you need is psychological
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Any there any children or step children in the house? I watched a video where a step daughter didn’t like her step mom so she set her up by hiding panties under her dads pillow. Weird and crazy but true!
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