If things are going good, why would you have to ask? Something is wrong. You should investigate.
Has a friend stayed over?
Where exactly did you find these items ??? And usually when they act that way like donāt talk me ā¦ more then likely they are guilty
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Girl leave you deserve better then that trash
Donāt let him manipulate you like that you know damn well what happen
Wthā¦
Nah -Ah!
Where did those clothes come from PERIOD!!! Wtf???
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He is gaslighting youā¦
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Iām wondering if he did cheat was she wearing no socks or pants when she left seems pretty random
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Sis, go through his phone while heās asleep. Youāre too grown to play that game, if heās cheating ( and thatās a deal breaker to you) have him pack his shit.
The fact that he chose to gaslight you, is a 
. Iād maybe look into who has stayed over in the past or ask around your family/friends! You have every right to ask. It made you uncomfortable to find these items, so you brought it to the attention of your life partner.
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I mean where else would they have came from.
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I can guarantee if he found mens shorts, boxers and socks, he would fucking flip his shit so ya youāre good
Do you share a laundry room with someone? If not, and you donāt have a teen or college aged child. Where would they realistically come from??? Heās lying
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I take it you donāt have a son
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He is gaslighting you and to get so defensive said it all.If your gut instinct is telling you something is not right trust it.Once a cheater always a cheater.
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I feel like isnāt serious ā¦. But if it is, girl cmon. Get the hell out of there. But then again, what did she wear home ?! Regardless. Run away
I wanna know how size 7 is tiny panties
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Yum yea he is cheating. You are not over reacting at all I would have asked too
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Nah. Iād change the locks until he came clean. Even his boy used yalls house, just spill it.
Put a menās underwear thatās not his size and tell him you donāt know anything about them
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Leave him he cheated
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Put up a hidden camera. He clearly has no issue bringing her there.
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ā¦ where else would they have come fromā¦ come on, use your headā:woman_facepalming:t2:
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Maybe heās wearing THEM
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No boundaries is walmart brand underwear, so if hes cheating, itās with some trash that buys her underwear from walmart.
Did you or he have a sister over for some reason? If not, those clothes did not just appear in your house.
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Is he a cross dresser. Could they be his ?
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Honey if you donāt have any grown daughters and you donāt fit those clothes you need to look at the big picture Iām sure youāre a bright girl
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Do you guys have sex regularly ? If not thatās probably why the relationship is going good because he is getting sex somewhere else 
Guys will deny it til they die even with proof right in their face. If they arenāt yours and they arenāt his, then theyāre somebodyās that was naked in your house. Donāt let him lie to you. Itās been good times bc heās been having āa good timeā.
You already know the answer
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Wowā¦ what a prick! Heās definitely cheating, clothing doesnāt just āappearāā¦ unless he is dressing up when you arenāt around, Iād call that a definite cheater.
How is this even a questionā¦tell him to pack his shit
So this person is naked somewhere?
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Check under the bed!
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Well if you have no teenage girls in your home then itās obvious. Sorry hunnyā¦that sucks
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What did the chic leave your house naked ? What size is your husband
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Kick his ass to the curb
Run girl. Donāt let him disrespect you
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That would not have went that way at all if true
Sounds like you have a man/child.
They Never Grow Up. You need a Real Man. Take back your power, you got this.
Do you have children? Could one of your kids friends leave them.
If not, you know the answer.
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Heās got a side chick thatās been in your house. She wanted you to know about her thatās why she left her stuff there. I thought a guy I was dating had a girlfriend but had no proof so I threw my socks under his bed and car and I put some tampons in his car with a hair tie. He did have a girlfriend.
Throw him and the stuff away and forget about it
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Keep an eye on him, without saying anything. These things have a way of coming out
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Listen i had an ex sleep with a woman in the houseā¦while I was asleep in the house!! I woke up and saw her handbag on the table and they were in a different room.
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Not that it matters, but Iām just curiousā¦ā¦WHERE did you find the assortment of clothing? In the bed? Under the bed? Couch cushions? His laundry??
He doesnāt want you speaking to him? Honey, donāt give him the satisfaction of getting something he wants!! Talk to him. All day. All night. Donātt ask him things. TELL him things. Donāt expect a response. But thatās not important. Apparently his words are lies anyway.
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thatās a hell no gotta go
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Yeah. No. Leave his nasty ass.
Heās cheating babe. Leave him
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Maybe hes wearing them
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Do u have kids with friends ?The shit didnāt just magically appear 
I would put a video camera on the door or in house without him knowing or come home early one day u will catch him or ask randomly to see his phone
Hunny you need to throw him out
Any chance hes a cross dresser? My x had a much better wardrobe then mine. Lol
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The proof is all there hunā¦run
Maybe his wearing them. I still havenāt come to terms with it. But my partner wears female knickers and stuff.
I was the one that ignored those things. Even found condoms when things where going great so I thought. Then came the prepaid extra cell and blah blah blah. Not sure what she left in if she left her shorts but I bet it was something of his. Throw him out with her stinking ass underwear! Lol.
Nah, I would of caused a fucking scene lmaooo you didnāt over react at all! You had every right to question him
Girl same thing happened to me. I went on a trip to my families house, out of town, for Thanksgiving. He couldnāt come because of work. Came home and found a size XS hoodie turned inside out and XS panties. I just gave birth and definitely wasnāt wearing lace let alone XS clothes. He denied denied denied. But realistically yes there was someone there while I was away. Things like that donāt magically appear. Trust your instincts.
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Why would clothes still be there unless they were plantedā¦ Surely she didnāt leave naked
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So several years ago I was at one of my bf friends house. The buddyās wife was at work (she worked nights) My bf his buddy were playing video game and we stayed over late. Well I took off my bra (was wearing a hoodie) and took a nap on the couch. Well when we got ready to leave I just woke up and left forgetting by bra there. His wife found it a few days later and lost it. We explained the whole situation and everything was fine. Just saying donāt always think the worst
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Haha so that is not a no.
I would make sure thereās no other possible explanation before accusing like that. There can be other reasons those are there. Do you or him have any family that drops by or stays over? Maybe a relative dropped by one day. Donāt always react. Always think first. Investigate thoroughly. If thereās no other possibilities and you know these arenāt your clothing items then thereās only one possible conclusion.
Do u sue a laundry mat or do laundry some place other then ur home? Do u have kids that ave friends over? Have u had company? I wouldnāt assume he was cheating unless thereās no other possibility they could be some one elses
Either your husband is cheating or heās trying to be a woman, or a cross dresser
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So junior sizing for the clothesā¦No Boundaries is a Walmart brand. Could
He be cheating sure could there be another explanation yes
Kick him to the curbā¦ Hes turning his shit around to you. He doesnāt deserve you.
Get a hidden cam off amazon setup in room you found the stuff.
Heeeeck noo you didnāt over react!!
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At least you asked. You could of just accused him. Flew off the handle and set his stuff on fire on the front lawn. So he may want to be thankful you asked first. Bc many people wouldnāt of.
And now he wonāt talk to you? Seems childish to me.
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Something is definitely wrong!! Dont settle for it!
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He doesnāt want you to talk to him so it gives him time to think up an excuse
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Um you found underwear in your house thats not yours. . Your husband is dum, and she left it there for you to find 
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It could be something else but now that he wonāt talk to you when you came to him to ask instead of accuse him, is sketchy. Sounds like it could be an excuse to leave youā¦ to make it easier for his conscience, he blamed you for even asking that question. Thatās my thoughts and opinion.
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Soā¦you find womenās clothing in your house and youāre asking if you should of just thrown it away and forgot about it? SERIOUSLY? All while he completely evaded the question and tried to gas light you? Girl, you need therapy. Gotta find out why you enjoy being a door mat. You donāt deserve this one bit.
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Do you work? If so I would be checking up either by coming home or having a friend drive by and see if he is there and another car or something. But sure sounds fishy if he wonāt talk about all the clothing left behind. And I agree she wanted you to find out. Who leaves that many articles behind? She leave naked?
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Just leave. Save yourself the energy.
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You sure itās not his?
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Ok so this is bizzare but just think of this reallyā¦ if a girl came took off her clothes slept with your husband and didnāt put the clothes back on wt heck that girl leave in??? I would be asking the neighbours if theyāve seen any naked ladies running around the neighbourhood recently xx
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The shorts and panties are 2 different sizes could there be 2 different women? 
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My question is were there multiple people over cuz how this girl gonna fit a size 7 underpants but a size 15 shorts. No way.
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His definitely cheating
Dump his assā¦ mmmhm, this fool lying & trying to flip it!
Weird. I would buy a camera and set it up to see whatās going on. They sell ones that look like USB plugs. Also if he uses iPhone track him with the find my phone app. Take his phone when he in the shower and look through it. Good luck!
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Oh sweetieā¦ how else would have these clothes gotten into your house? Do you have children? Does he have children? Have you had anyone spend the night recently? Where did you find the clothes? Socks, undies and shorts donāt just show up randomly for no reason. Donāt let him treat you like this. Heās cheated. And he comments towards you afterwards make him sound guilty. The fact that he was able to make YOU feel like you did something wrong in this situation, is painful. If you need more proof, Snoop through his shit, his phone, track him with gps, get a camera for the house. Something.
This is gaslighting and deflection.
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You would have been an idiot to just forget about it!! Heās obviously cheating
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Heās cheating. Heās gaslighting you. Playing victim.
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Horn is yours he playing you for stupid mam if the woman left it there he knows about it i would pack my bag because either he wearing them or it belong to an alien
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My busy working husband also wont talk to me if i ask this kind of thingsā¦ in his brain if i able to cut into 2ā¦only work-house-kids-and his video gameā¦ ā¦asking this, really piss him offā¦ so i will ask anyone else in the house tooā¦not only himā¦if this ever happen
Heās gaslighting you and playing the victim donāt fall for itā¦ its only going to get worse
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Id say heās cheating, most men when confronted with the truth use the not speaking method.
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Maāamā¦ how else would those items get there?
And why would someone silent treatment you for being concerned about cheating??
Donāt let this man fool you.
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Leave his lying cheating ass. Know your worth girlā¤ļø
Iām sorry, but he sounds like every man that cheated on meā¦
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There is no way in hell I wouldnāt ask about it! You have every right!
What size is your husband? Could he be questioning his own sexuality and experimenting with womenās clothing? Just a thought.
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Chuck in the bin
I mean him lol
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Heck no! Itās your right to ask why thereās someone elseās clothes in your house. Donāt be fooled, he obviously has time to cheatā¦the proof is in your possession.
Your a plus size girl wearing 18/20 shorts size but size 8 in panties? Something isnāt adding up.
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Wow gas lighting at its best. Youāre really blaming yourself when he clearly has something going onā¦.
No do not drop the issue and get to the bottom of this. Save yourself the agony and clear the air. Either they are another womanās or heās dressing like a woman as a fetish.
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