You just met the man , keep going to school get on some birth control
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So smart and yet so dumb 
why do people want to be so stupid and bring an innocent baby into this world because āIāve never felt this way beforeāā¦ A BABY IS NOT THE ANSWER!
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You are an idiot.
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Itās obviously your life but you did ask for advice so Iād say go on birth control for now, wait a year and some, then see where both of you are then. You havenāt known each other for that long at all, enjoy your time together.
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2 months is too short of a time to get to know each other. 6 months is when small slips of showing their true self. It takes at least 1 in a half years to figure out if you are are willing to live with the small amount of their true self that you know about. You havenāt seen if he has red flags yet.
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Finish school. Get your degree. Donāt let your LIFE LONG DREAM get jeopardized by a 2 MONTH RELATIONSHIP. Think worth your brain not your feelings.
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Listen to the logical side!!! FR!!!
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Youāre willing to possibly lose your dream in the medical field & saddle yourself with a kid to a guy youāve known 2 mths? Ummā¦ noā¦ education, career with stability then start a family
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Do everything you want for yourself before kids if youāre able
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Sounds like heās trying to trap you. Your a source of income for this man. A career opportunity.
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Donāt do it. Set yourself up first. If he can deal with normal life/work stresses with you, then think about it.
What do you know about this man in 2 months that makes you want to deal with him a lifetime? Where tf are your parents? They didnāt teach you anything
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Let that oxytocin/honeymoon phase from a new relationship wear off before making these types of decisions 
Youāve known him for 2 months. That is not enough time to have known someone to have a baby with. Stay in school, get on birth control, & become a doctor. So much better to have a secure future.
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You both sound like you have a lot of growing up to do. For goodness sakes, finish school and get yourself sorted financially. If heās still sticking it out when youāre done, then get married and have a family.
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Why arenāt you on birth control? Plan B is kind of for an oops or two, it isnāt brith control. You have only been together a measly two months and he is trying to get you pregnant? There is some serious 
here.
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Get birth control and do not trust him with condoms!!! 2 months in and he is trying to get you pregnant without talking to you about it, huge red flag!!!
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Itās way to early to think about having a baby. Be realistic and become a MD first. Birth control is a must.
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Finish school. If he loves you, he can wait.
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I think having a baby with someone you have known for 2 months and while you are a premed student is a bad idea. Finish school first. Give this relationship time. Two months in and yāall argue already?
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Girl. I was with a guy like this. We were together 3 years. I got pregnant 2 months in.
I moved to a new city when I was 6 months along for him. That was the first time he put hands on me. I was choked. Repeatedly. Thrown into the cold on concrete. Twice. ā¦ that was just the first time. I come from a place of no judgment here, but watch who tf you sit here and have a child with. I wouldnāt trade my baby girl for nothing. But man, the shit I went through just to have herā¦ it was a lot. If he loves you and means it, then baby can wait til after school. Get your dream and get established. Learn the man youāre with, First.
Go get yourself some form of birth control in the mean time. Itās not worth being trapped.
If you have to ask, then you know the answer
I think someone who is driven enough could, without a doubt, accomplish medical school with a baby. But I know that even as a full time employee at a job that I donāt have to really take home with me, I feel like I miss out on a lot and itās hard. A lot harder than most people really realize. Iād say if you get pregnant accidentally, you should be proud to show your child how driven you are to still accomplish your dream. But also, Iād say that if you can wait, wait. And take every precaution you can to allow yourself that time. Youāll be really grateful in the long run that you donāt have to be as absent in your babies life. You only get to watch them grow once.
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I stopped reading at we been together 2 months and we do fight sometimes. First your already fighting 2 months in second you donāt know shit about him after 2 months. But go ahead and have that baby. Odds are you be single before you push the butt nugget out girl you stupid
Meeting and trying to get pregnant in 2 months is a big red flag, also men that are good men do not brag about or have to talk about what great men they want to be. They show it with their actions.
And how much arguments are you getting into in the 1st 2 months? because that is the honeymoon stage, if youāre already arguing you need to take a big step back and really look for them red flags.
Sit him down and say OK this is what we want, so thatās the plan, but getting pregnant right now is not a great way to start.
Get on both control, and work on your medical career, let him work on being a good man And then plan kids when it is more feasible.
when you talk to him, watch him closley, really look and listen to what he says, because if he cannot communicate and compromise in a civil manner Then you need to rethink this relationship.
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Donāt rush into pregnancy , take your time . Remember to put yourself first meaning start your schooling and see weāre your relationship goes , itās always best to really get to know someone and no there flaws and it takes time . Just embrace the love yāall have for another, too many people rush into things and then it ends badly .
Itās only been 2 monthsš¤¦
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Focus on school 
you are too young you donāt really know this guy that wellā¦ you can have a baby after Med school
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Geez oh mighty, get on birth control.
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Go get an iud and finish school. If he does what he says , have a baby after. I have a bad feeling heās trying to trap you tho
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No, not if you want to go to and finish medical school. Slow down, and prioritize your goals.
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Thatās dumb! You all have only been together 2 months get on some type of birth control !!
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2 mons and you want a baby?
Ummā¦ Not the best idea.
Look, Iām not saying donāt have kids or go to med schoolā¦ From experience, itās harder to do with children.
Focus on your goal and wait a little bit. Provided youāre healthy, having children over 30 isnāt the end of the world.
How are you even in med schoolā¦you donāt seem very smart to me
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I fell pregnant 2 months into my relationship, we did split 2 and a half years later however it was for a short time & we recently got back together last yearā¦ we have 2 beautiful boys & whilst I never had any - dreams - to be a specific something in my life, mine was always to become a mother & it was the greatest thing iāve ever done.
If your partner doesnāt work much & heās serious iām sure you can still attend med school whilst he cares for baby while youāre studying. 
this is definitely something that needs to be sat down and spoken openly about between you two.
express your concerns & he can express his, figure out ways how you can parent whilst doing this etc.
Good luck!
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Get the diploma first. Then kids
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Are you actually 27? Are you actually in the medical field and not protecting yourself sexually? I donāt believe any of this except you just want a free ride and have a baby daddy on your arm.
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Go to school. Travel. Find yourself. Have something thatās yours that no man or person can take away because you earned it. You can fall in love have babies etc but itās too soon. You donāt really know each other and guess what anyone can bang it out and get good at it and say whatever they want to say. Protect yourself. You are smarter and better that. What are his dreams, goals etc an what does he want to do besides impregnate and control/dominate your life. You guys need to pump the brakes. This sounds like a messed up control tactic thatās creepy and wrong. Go to school
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Itās only been 2 months. Good God no.
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Follow your dreams first, if heās still around then you know what he says is true
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How about engagement and marriage to start with
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Itās been two months! You donāt really know this guy. Focus on school. Kids can come later.
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Not very smart for someone wanting to be a Doctor.
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Iām sorry but you guys are in ālustā right now. Also if yāall having arguments already 2 months then that should be a red flag right there. He just wants to get you pregnant for youāre stuck with him. I hope youāve been smart enough to look up his name to make sure thereās no criminal records of any sort too. Finish school then decide after you graduate. Like I said earlier yāall in the lust stage
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Your dreams are more important that some guy you barely knowā¦ dont do something you will regret the rest of your life for a guy you might not even be with in a year
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If he openly admitted to trying to get you pregnant without your consent you need to run Iām sure he seems nice now but I have been in your shoes and after I got pregnant and we got married it was an abusive relationship and it was bad. I would just leave now
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None of this is good. Nope.
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Yes you are. Think with your head. Slow down. Be careful. Most relationships are like this in the beginning. Hopefully it does last but what if it doesnāt? Do you want to be a single parent or do you want to slow down, take your time, and bring a baby in when you have some history with him and things are more solid? What would you tell your sister, best friend, or daughter to do? Take the advice that you would give.
What in the as the world turns did i just read?!
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Yes, not using birth control and considering having a BABY with someone youāve known 2 months is dumb. Iām sorry, you said it not me. Iām confirming it tho.
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Is this seriously something that you needed Facebook to confirm for you?
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Wellā¦ Iāve always said you either have common sense or book smarts, but rarely both. After reading this Iām guessing you are doing fantastic academicallyā¦
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Girl I am telling you do not let that man get you pregnantā¦
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How about marriage first?
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Please get on some sort of birth control asap. This is lust thinking not clear thinking. Pre med on its own is difficult, med school even harder. Finish school first, establish a longer relationship with this man and then have a baby.
You may be book smart but otherwise, youāre kinda looney
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Donāt do it! I went through the same thing & not even a month after I found out I was pregnant he consulted with an attorneyā¦ he served me papers while living with me when my baby was 4 months old for 50/50 custody. She is now 18mths old & itās been a living hell every since. He sounds like a narcissist psychopath. Whatever you do ā¦. Do not get trapped into that. Your child will be the one that suffers ā¦ trust me !!! That has all over it. Heās not the one for you !! Thatās lust! Any real man would want you to pursue your goals 1st not get knocked up after 2 months.
You can private message me if you wantā¦ I am more than happy to talk to you!!
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Are you being dumb? Yes.
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I have been a single mom for 17 years and I can tell you itās exhausting and nearly impossible, my child is angry at me a lot just Cyrus itās the teen years but none of it has been easy. Please wait
If he wants to have a life with you then get married but wait to have kids.
I got engaged after 3 months. Married after 5 months. Had kids 6 years later. Been married 11 years.
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For goodness sake get on some birth control!! Was he tested for STDās before you all jumped in bed??? And 2 months?? You donāt know him. He shouldnāt be thinking about getting pregnant!! Continue with school and be the Dr you want. If heās still around THEN think about having a baby. Unless you really want to throw your dreams out the window??? Because a baby will change EVERYTHING!!!
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Sounds like you really know!!! You say all the right things and you know school could disappear if you have a child now but if you wait and youāre still together a doctor could afford a baby and spouse!!!
Yes, you are being dumb.
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I pray my daughter never finds a man like yours.
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Girl, go after your dreams first. IF he really wants to support you he will understand you want to finish school before starting a family and he will be more than fine with.
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You Can have anything you want. Just do it. Heās will to support you emotionally and wants to help you.
If a man is willing to change for the woman he loves , donāt lose him. I knew my husband 3 months and knew we would marry. 29yrs in August. No one can tell you whatās right or wrong when it comes to things if the heart. As soon as my husband took my hand when we met I thought I was going to die. My heart stopped and it scared me. Youāre a blessed woman. God will find a way. Just ask him. God bless yāall.
In 2 months you hardly know his favorite ice cream. You both need to be tested for STD"s. You need to get on birth control and get married. Later, after medical school, you can have babies. You have time. Have you noticed your boyfriendās sister hasnāt had a baby. Follow her lead.
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If itās something special then kids can wait he will understand
Thatās how they all act in the beginning. Everything is sunshine and rainbows and they promise you the world untilā¦ wham!! They completely change and exchange you for another girl.
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Not til your done studyng finishes
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Wait! U have time, donāt get tied down wait a year atleast u really do not know someone for a few years, get that degree u owe it to urself, a baby makes it almost impossible
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Take birth control without him knowingā¦ it will be hard even with him around to take care of a baby and be in school.
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Get in birth control. Follow you dreams. You can have a baby after yall been together awhile and really know each other
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Well if you keep having sex unprotected you wonāt have to daydream much longer
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Only 2 months? Nope.
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I donāt even know what to say ā¦ so many red flags and honestly you and him are being dumbā¦ wake up!!!
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Only a couple of months??? ā¦ Donāt do it!!! Go to school and reach your goals. You donāt know each other and itās all new and exciting. Get your head out of the clouds and into the books.
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Prepare for your future ! Right now what kind of life could you give a child as apposed to what you could do as a Dr. Donāt throw away your future for someone you barely know it never works out.
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2monthaā¦wow. No no.nope
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Wait till you finish school. Youāll be glad you did.
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Youāre 27, not 18. So you can get pregnant and be fine, most likely. Honestly Iād wait for two more years because thereās a significant mental distance between 23-25-27- and 29. I know it sounds crazy, but the brain does a lot of growing in that time. Start working on your goals, and then if it happens, it happens. But I would wait, lol.
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Really ā¦ What does he do? does he make money? does he have a goal @ 25? Go get that degree and become a doctor !! Please dont throw your whole life away for a boy , 2 months in a relationship and he tries to get you pregnant without even discussing children with you , boy oh boy . Manipulation is a real thing and you are gullable!
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you should do your studies first. let the relationship grow and get past the honeymoon phase
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If you still feel this way after a year or more with him then thatās the time to plan out a future rather than risk everything for someone you donāt know. You arenāt missing out by waiting, I promise.
Donāt just leave it up to chance. If heās aiming to get you pregnant thatās a huge red flag so early.
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Youāre 1,000% being dumb. Come ONNNN! You have dreams, goals, aspirations, and you guys have been together all of 60 days. Put a cape on that red flag, because thatās a super nope smh.
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Omg wait wait wait!!
Frankly I donāt know if youāre smart enough for medical school if youāre willing to fall for this crapā¦get your degree and if heās still around then have a baby, thatās bass ackwards to have a baby and then attempt to go to medical school.
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Iām 29 with a 10-month old. There are still some nights I donāt sleep and she literally is a full-time job. Itās possible to go to college with a baby but damn near impossible for medical school. If you wanna be a Dr and a mom, get that degree first. If heās still around after that and you both still feel this way, THEN try for a baby.
If he isnāt encouraging you to better yourself, he isnāt the one. Educate yourself, what is meant for you will be yours!
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Chase that dream 
Then have a family
My opinion, you shouldnāt be asking other peoples opinion. You should go with whatever you feel is right. All these people saying wait, on the other hand you donāt want to be 40-50 yrs old still raising a kid. It is best to be with someone a while before a child but most of these peopleās grannies had 16 kids at the age of 20 and been married for 60 yrs. Just do whatever you feel is right. Some peopleās dream is not just a career but having a family and babies.
Hell no not after a cpl of months
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Plan B isnāt birth control. how about actually protecting yourself first.
and making a baby is a decision that needs to be discussed beforehand. him just trying without actually having the convo is a huge red flag
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Wow def dont itās way to soon you barley kmow the guy and why would u chuck ur dreams away for someone u hardly know arnt all relationships Rosie dosie at the beginning cracks could start showing in 6 months so please hold on do your studying get ur degree have it all sorted before getting pregnant its def the best way to go or you could end up single with a child and he also should hsve told u before cumming in you unprotected it really wonāt be easy studying iwth a new baby you donāt even know if your baby would sleep or not mine didnāt and its very hard and tireing wen they donāt sleep I think you have blinkers on here think sensibly before itās too late
Yuck. Cringe. Grow up.
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For some on wanting to be dr and in medicine Iād would think you would use protection to avoid stds especially only being together for a few months.
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Put the baby on hold and finish your school. Thereās always a chance it wonāt work outā¦ listen to the realistic voice in your head. Remember. This life is as easy or as hard as you make it. Chose the easy option everytime.
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You need to wait. Finish your school and keep continuing chasing your dreams. If he really loves you he will wait for you. Also you have only been together a few months think you need to protect yourself from STDs. Why hasnāt he had the conversation with you first about wanting a baby rather than after doing the deed 
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Youāre both young. If he insists you wonāt ever break up, then why canāt he wait for you to complete school and THEN talk about a baby. You have to reach your goals first, and not let him hold you back from them.
Is this real life? Girl. Noā¦