No you dnt need a child now n you don’t know if he will stay with you
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Really dumb wtf and plan on being single mom
Stop everything and use birth control! No babies with guys you hardly know. That’s a disaster. Finish school, get established and if you still love this guy, then talk about marriage and children.
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Two months Not long enough Wait.
A few months?? I’m sorry but do yourself a favor and do not let yourself purposely get pregnant. The relationship is just too new and if for ANY reason it doesn’t work out the child is the one that will be hurt the most. My sister had a man like that and thought it’d be forever and he convinced her to have a baby and now my niece suffers at his hands everyday while my sister continually fights him for full custody
Finish school and then consider having a baby. Yikes
Get married before you get pregnant.
Y’all just met. You arnt using protection so your both obviously trying to get pregnant. If you were concerned about being pregnant and how it will effect school then you wouldnt be having sex unprotected.
Babies and medical school do not go hand in hand. Even relationships take a hit because its endless studying. Once you actually pass school and find a hospital to take you… Which could be anywhere in the country, you will have 24 hour shifts, being on call. If you want to be a.mom and a.doctor you need to do the doctor stuff first.
I met my spouse in February. I was pregnant (on purpose) in April. We’ve been together 5 years… My parents were.married after 3 months and have been together 25 years. Sometimes when you know you know) as long as hes not painting all the red flags…
My son wanted to be doctor I talked him out of it. Now he is preparing for nursing school, and finishing up his cna certification… If he still wants to be a.doctor later he can. There are a lot of crappy doctors. And having hands on nursing/CNA experience is invaluable.
Take control of your life and proceed from there.
when your done with med school
Do a background check on this guy … that’ll probably answer your questions.
Absolutely do not have a child right now. You need to focus on career. In the long-term future you will need a job. You not been with this guy long enough to Truely know him. Maybe you need to wait a little long to make sure you both want the same things. It sounds like to me that you’re unsure still about your relationship and how it can work with education and careers. You are both to young to be thinking about kids right now when your not financially not ready
Get to your goal first. You do not need the responsibility of a baby now.
I think this is a stupid question. You need to grow up.
Plz wait on the baby. Look down the road at what u could do for a child with r without the man if you become a doc. He may be sincere rite now but things can and usually do don’t put urself down n the position of having to figure it out. U have goals strive to bring them to life
If I have learned anything this last year and a half is do what your heart wants. If you want a baby with him and you seem to love him a lot then have the baby. Premed school will still be an option especially now with so many classes on line. Enjoy this time, life gets away from you and you look back at a bunch of regrets.
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A child is a big responsibility
Please be careful. It,s really to soon in your relationship. I would continue in school, and wait for babies
Get rid of him if he does not respect your wishes. He is already controlling you. A child will tie you down and he knows that. SaY by by before its too late.
Be realistic, get protection, go to medical school and see if you’re guy stick’s with you through that, if he’s still there, med school takes 10 year’s in some cases, see if you marry or get engaged during your study time but after 2 month’s it’s honeymoon stage, for a person who’s got the brain’s to go to med school, if you qualified and a patient came to you with same the problem what would you say to them…
What would be your personal thoughts…
Be realistic with yourself…
Or cross your legs and say no…
Get some protection…
Slap him. Sounds like a controll freak!
No learn how to be alone!! Focus on your self and not one a man and what they want… if you have that baby with this new person you just met trust me you will wish you had listened…
Slow waaaaayyyy down. Having a baby is a HUGE deal and you said you already took the Plan B pill twice.
Give it time. There is no rush.
Being together every single minute of every day is a worry …
It’s called “love bombing”
A healthy relationship allows for self time and alone time and work time or family time…’
Two months is a blink of an eye.
Just do your own thing each day then come together in the evening and see what eventuates.
It’s not an easy road in being a single parent in reality.
Carry out your dreams and then have children after you achieve your goals.
You may become resentful if you don’t especially if it’s been like you said your life long dream.
Get your degree first before getting pregnant.
Yikes, she’s gonna be a Doctor? 
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Plan b? You say you’ve taken this before. I presume terminated your pregnancy. Well that’s sad. Go on the pill or take other birth control precautions. 2 months? You hardly know him or his sexual history. You sound very irresponsible
If you want a kid your career is not as important to you.
No dont get pregnant go to school and get a degree first so at least you know you can provide a good life for yourself and your child . then consider but do not let a man get you pregnant ESP so soon that is a red flag any man that rushes you like that is more than likely abusive and controlling.
Get on birth control NOW
Is this even a real question???
If you have to ask, the answer is no.
People don’t get married first anymore?
And do you have any idea how hard school would be with a baby?
2 months? Noooo go to school! If he’s the one he’ll support you. Don’t rush
No PG, plenty of time for that later. You need to study and if he is the right one he will make sure you get your studies done. Dads easily get 50 percent of custody if things don’t turn out and you will be paying him child support and alimony because you will be making allot of money. My daughter made the same mistake. You really don’t know a person for at least a year and than they show there true colors, hopefully it’s great and he really is what you want. Don’t jump into a relationship with making a child unless your really sure. It’s not fair to the child or you. Marriages dissolve within 8 years. My daughters soon to be x is out for what ever he can get, he is just a lazy low life bum. When kids are involved you don’t just get to walk away.
I wait go school get your degree if it’s met to be he’ll wait
Tell him that you think you might be pregnant, and see if he stays with you
You have plenty of time to be a mom. You’ll need a decent job if this doesn’t work out. Quit being stupid and PROTECT yourself so you don’t get pregnant now. Wait until you are married and have decided whether or not Med school is for you. If he cares for you he wouldn’t do anything to stop you from achieving your goal.
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There should be a conversation between you two, mutually about getting pregnant. Not him telling you he’s trying to get you pregnant & not to take plan b. And, he onestly sounds a little bit like he is lovebombing you 🤷🏼♀
Get your medical degree. If he truly loves and cares for you, he will wait.
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Yes, you are being dumb. Whatever your plans are for your future self, you are old enough to responsibly use protection sexually while deciding. Follow through with your desires in life. Go to medical school. If your man Loves you, he will be there. Not sure why he thinks it’d be a great time to have a baby. He sounds controlling.
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Yes you are being dumb. This is a very clingy young man. Only immature people put the cart before the horse on purpose. Theres a reason you get to know someone long before you are ready to marry them. Hes already showing bad judgement. A child deserves 2 stable parents who already are financially able to have children. Get your degree.
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You are being dumb as dirt. Use birth control and get your Bachelor’s degree behind you and get into medical school. Raising a child is hard, demanding and expensive. You hardly know this man, and you aren’t even a medical student. If he is the one, he will wait. You are staying yourself up to be just another baby mama he used to know.
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Omg, stop having unprotected sex with him!!! Even if you didn’t every single second of the last 2 months together you still know very little about him. There is nothing worse than ending things with a child in tow. Don’t do it to yourself and especially not your future child.
Omg! Stop being stupid. Get on good Birth control and go to medical school. He might be a great guy and you might end up with him forever but getting knocked up 2 months in is HUGE red flags. I seriously want to shake some sense into you!
The third sentence should give you your answer. If you just “like” him why don’t you wait until you love him. Your child will thank you someday!!
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Yes, you are being dumb. Very dumb. Start sing protection and Finish Med school.
Wait awhile. Enjoy your time with him a little longer. Then decide. And no matter what transpires stay the course on becoming a doctor. Doctors do have children. It can be done. But wait and feel more sure.
No no no no. A baby is NOT a puppy. And med school is an all-consuming commitment. Have you considered all the years of academic studies you must complete before you are a “Doctor”? Med school is not part time.
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Yes you’re being extremely dumb. Get your education , job, married, then baby. If he loves you he will wait. He sounds dumb too
Two months get real. That’s nothing. You better look out for your future. A baby is forever. You could get pregnant and then split up what then come on use your head seriously two months if it’s the real thing then he will be there with you while you go through school and internship. Geez I’m serious two months and you really think you know him wow
What’s more important to you? A career, or building a family?
Don’t let anyone convince you one is more important than the other. It’s up to you, and what your priorities are. If you choose your career when the answer is family, you’ll regret chasing that title and not having children. If you choose family and the answer is your career, you’ll feel unfulfilled as a mother.
My son supported his girlfriend when she was in school. She had two kids with him , and he paid for her tuition while they were together. She decided to hurt my son and cheat on him and married the other guy. My son now pays child support. The baby’s momma is now working and have a little more schooling. Her husband deserted her and her kids and left her penniless. My son helped her out and got a phone because the other one got shut off. She has two more kids with two different guys. She got child support from three men. She is now back with her ex-husband, but she is working in the medical field. I’m just saying look out for number one because even though you get child support, you need to depend on yourself. Not everyone has a happy ending.
You’re sounding like you’re 16 not 27. Hold off on having a baby for now. Y’all are in a honeymoon phase. Wait and see how it goes.
No. Your first clue should have been “I like him a lot” Unless you both “Love each other” this is a bad bad start.
Sure have a kid and then try to study to be a doctor, not a demanding course at all…
Go with the medical profession first. You can always have a baby later.
Wake up. Do what you want first. Not trying to be mean but u already knew this answer. Stop being a moron. Ok that was mean, but people need to stop acting as though they don’t know right from wrong. Get a grip and a clue
That’s the most irresponsible thing I’ve read in months…How do you even know you’d qualify for med school? And more important, WHY ARE YOU HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX WITH SOME RANDO YOU’VE ONLY KNOWN TWO MONTHS???
Don’t get me wrong because I would never trade my son for the world or go back. But I got pregnant at 22, my son is now four and I am a single mom. It is extremely extremely hard to work, take care of a child and go to school. I wish you the best, but if things don’t work out your dreams may be put on the back burner or at least become extremely difficult. My dream is also to go to medical school and I am very slowly working on that goal, but I know that I could’ve achieved it a lot sooner had a focus on education first
No darlin’ :
You are not being dumb , you are being smart enough to see reality !
You are deeply infatuated with this young man , and the sex is a
real treat , just recall your own statement ; if it doesn’t work out , you become a single mother that’s trying to go to medical school !!
From my experience the fellow likes the sex , and will say anything to keep it going .
Be honest with yourself , do you really want to become a doctor , or try to build a foundation on thin promises of, oh yeah I’ll always be there for you , he has
nothing to lose ,
but in the end
you are throwing away your dream .
In the times you have to study and get to school each day, and while you’re interning , how do you know that he will not grow tired of staying home with the baby and seek companionship
elsewhere ??
Then how are you going to stay in school and pay a baby sitter ?
OH , people will promise you the moon , but you just wait until you need them !
Be smart young lady , divest yourself of this young man , and don’t get pregnant !!
DO NOT let this temporary situs
delude you , follow your dream .
I’ve learned from hard experience , what I’m giving you for free . GO FOR THE DREAM !!!
You’ll be thirty -
five when you graduate , that’s a good time to have a baby ; or
wait for two more years to get pregnant ,
when you are more established .
Go get your dream Doctor ,
trust me , you won’t regret it !!
No offense, but yes you are being dumb… Don’t do it babes!! Live your dream!! You’re SO CLOSE;!!
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Go to medical school. Trust me.
yeah, you are being dumb…what’s wrong with marrying him…what’s the big rush to have a baby anyway!!!
Goodness.
Invest in your education/career first.
Yes you’re dumb. There you answered your own Question
Oh ! You LIKE him. Oh, then what the hell are you waiting for ? You seem like a nice irresponsible girl. So go have a baby with this guy. After all, you LIKE him ! Then maybe your Career will either take a back seat, or you can just abort the baby, and go on with your Life, knowing u deprived a Life.
No! Too soon. Go to school first.
Hey luv,l think you already know what to do. Follow your heart and get educated.If he is for real,he will be there for you now and then. Good luck Ms future doctor 
Yes you are being dumb!
Dumb dumb and dumber.
I stopped at 2 mts ago. 
I hope you don’t live in Texas right now.
Finish your education first
Sorry…but what a dumb question.
Yes!! You’re being dumb.
Ur IQ doesn’t seems like someone dat wants to go to medical school. Love is not enough, put yourself first.
Is that what you really want?? Wat if he leaves you tomorrow, can u handle it all by yourself??
You want to put yourself in a difficult situation.
So many red flags!!!
People, this is a troll/scam! Do not go to this website, please.
Yes!!! Use protection!!!
I can see so many red flags i nearly faint.
Monopolizing your time
Mirroring brother in law
Aunt; triangulation and flying monkey.
Future faking, comfort crumbs.
The speed of wanting to have a baby, intentionally wanting to get you pregnant. and you are okay with this?
You doubting yourself already.
Oh my, he is ensnaring you.
Yes you are being dumb he may be up and up about how he feels for you. But I think he is Purposely trying to keep you from being a Doctor, you will regret not finishing your dream of becoming a Dr .
Educate yourself and get a job.
Go with your gut and follow your dreams.
This is a joke right…
Get your education first
You must be out of your mind.
The answer isNONONONO.
No sex until marriage
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I couldn’t even be bothered to finish reading it. Med school first.
No one can be this dumb😬
Get yr education first
Finish school, than baby
You have time to have a baby, follow your dream first
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You are beyond dumb and stupid
people reveal their true selves with time
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Finish your school first
Absolutely not. Use your head woman
No follow your dreams. You can have a baby later and have a great life all together
Don,t let him pull wole over you a lot men say are going to befathful but it will all chang on wim
Yes. You are being dumb.