Ask him not the public
Then Confront her
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Whats gonna if it her number lol
Girl I would have answered that sooo fast. Get the number call baby and have a chat. Definitely leave him. Heâs obviously cheating and not very smart⊠Be thankful you arenât married!!
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Lmfao this reminds me of one my psycho exs thought i was cheating on her because of that same shit my friends name is baby and also had guy friends who thought it would be funny to put gf1 gf2 in phone but ya know yâall women always assume the worst how about you ask him rather than being a psycho and posting up on Facebook
If you seen it then thatâs when you should of asked. His reaction would tell you everything!
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Heâs not the sharpest crayon in the box smh . But if you didnât answer⊠either are you
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Ask him who the f%#k baby is?! Then smack the crap out of him when he bullshits and throw his ass out!!
My fiance has pet names for some of the people in his phone, but with that being said, I know who they are. If I were you, I would take it and ask him who it is and ask to see the messages. No reason any woman other than you should have a pet name like that in his phone.
This totally sucks and Iâm heart broke for youâ:neutral_face:I definitely would write her number down and call her. Ask if She is aware that Your Fiance is very much a Fiance and that She needs to step back! Then I would confront your Fiance immediately! You know what you should do without any of Us telling you. I am So Very Sorryâ:pray:
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Call the number, confront him⊠figure out how you want your future to be. Itâs better to be alone then have your kids watch you fall about in depression. Children need a happy mom not a unhappy home.
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Just confront him tell him u saw it and want answers or u will get them urself
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Makes a change from âpizza hutâ.
Keep quiet and collect evidence before confronting him, most people find it hard to fess up and be wrong⊠save the number that came up and put yourself in a stable neutral place mentally. You need to be there, for your baby and unborn. Donât give him the opportunity of more info and him being able to just hide things better. I guess I mean, donât show your âwhole handâ before you get your ducks in a row first. If you call her before speaking to him sheâll probably tell him and heâll have time to come up with a bs story and delete stuff. 
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Iâd b calling that number n having a chat
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Hereâs my thoughts. She may not know about you (If there is in fact another woman). Iâd talk to him. If he lies leave him. Heâd be really stupid so save another womanâs number as baby in his phone. And I mean stupid. Maybe he wants put and thought it would be an easy out. 
but remember itâs not another woman you need to confront. Itâs not her fault. Itâs his.
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Most of the time when you think he is cheating , He Is
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What? He has her under baby?
Well⊠what you shouldâve done is stick up for YOU & YOUR CHILDREN.
The only way to teach your children to love theirselves is to love YOURSELF.
And this ainât it sis, I wouldâve answered the damn phone, and if it turned out to be another woman I wouldâve kicked him in the balls and packed our shit. 
Above all else, take care of YOU and your babies. A man can be replaced. If he isnât meeting expectations and he gives you reason to believe heâs cheating, then bring it up with him. Donât accept anything he says without valid proof bc right now his word holds no value if he canât back it up. If heâs a mess, then trash him. You got you and yours.
Heâs on the wind up⊠SURELY? Imagine itâs a pal just bammin the fiancĂ©e up see what her reaction is 
Call her and tell her who you are⊠She may think heâs single⊠Atleast you both get to know the truth
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I really donât think heâs cheating cause if he was he wouldnât have the name baby on his phone itâs to noticeable he would be hiding her cheating
I think youâd have to be a special kind of stupid to name your affair partner baby in your contact list. Confront him about it.
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This happened to me with an ex. I got her number called her (wasnt rude to her) let her know i was engaged to him and had been forba few years. She had no idea! She helped me bust him out because at the end of the day he was cheating us both.
Take picture, phone recordings of her answering the phone and get all the proof. Then leave his ass and get child support!
You need to gather good factual evidence before accusing him first . Then bring it up and get out in the open . Why ? Bc communication and honesty is an A must any any relationship. Then decide if you want to forgive him and move on to step 2 and make things work . If itâs going to be one of those relationships were you have no trust at all end the relationship, never marry unless you have all your ducks in a roll 
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If you donât want to confront him without more evidence. I would ask him one day to use his phone to call someone (whoever, someone he wouldnât question) tell him for some reason itâs not going through on your phone. While âcallingâ someone, call baby instead or just see if you can find anything And even if no one answers turn the phone around and show him the contact n just say âwho is this?!â. I would confront him immediately but I know some people can be scared to or feel like they need evidence with them. Act like you know more than you do. If they think you know everything, sometimes theyâre more likely to break and tell you the truth.
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You are an adult with one child and another on the way. Ask him who baby is, have him call the number and verify he isnt lying. Remain calm. If he gets mad and defensive you have your answer.
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I mean heâs probably cheating, but I do work with someone and her name is literally âBabyâ. Lol. Sweet lady.
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I would just say to your partner that his phone rang twice while he was out the room and it popped up with the name âbabyâ and see what his reaction is? Maybe itâs a nick name for one of his friends?
Next time answer it. If she asks for him ask if you can take a message for your husband
Talk to your man like an adult, maybe?
Some men are just flat out twat waffles! Emphasis on the twat 
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You should not be on your 2nd baby unmarried. If he didnât marry you with the first why you think he will on the 2nd. Sure heâs cheating
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Use his phone to call âbabyâ. Ask her how she knows him and if she knows about you.
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Call the number and see who it is
I would just ask 
. My husbandâs friends do silly shit all the time and put cute nicknames for their number in his phone.
Call back and say âhi, I found this phone at the store and wanted to give it to the owner. Who are you?â
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Ask him who the fuck is baby? And phone her yourself. Done deal
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Well you could confront him
Thatâs sad girl sorry. Glad I have a non cheater geeze
I would like to think if he was cheating hed be smarter than that and maybe âbabyâ is the big baby at work that calls in or complains a lot or maybe even a family member who he thinks is a big baby. But probably notâŠId just tell him hey baby called you
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Answer the phone I didđ§ than leave xx
Best of luck!
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You gotta woman up and ask him yourself! If heâs a liar and a cheater w no respect, his body language will say it all. Never ignore red flags or gut feelings just bc you feel invested. Protect you and your kids from hurt and disappointment.
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Just ask him who is baby why are they calling and why is that there contact name
Girl, why have a second child with a man that didnt marry you for the first . Cart before the horse. Just know you may end up a single motherâŠHe isnât married , feels no strings attached⊠better be making plans for you and the kidsâŠIâm sorry but someone should talk straight to you, not sugar coatâŠin future dont make babies with someone thatâs not married to you, even then better get to know them a couple yearsâŠIM SORRY. Hope he will pay for this baby to be born and pay child support for both. If your working he should pay your Billâs also till you can get well after the birthâŠ
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Be smart⊠getthe number and call to see who it is (might be a guy m8) if it isnt dont tell him u know ⊠just get him in the mood ⊠tie him up ⊠blindfold ⊠deep Heaton your hands ⊠finger up the bum and a ton on his willy and balls ⊠then tell him ⊠ring o fire ⊠Johnny cash lol
Unless you were calling or your 9 month old has a phone you already know.
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Iâd be getting that phone and calling that number. Make up a story if you have to, to find out who the heck it is. Good luck 
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I would ask! My phone has added someone that has called to my sisterâs number before. Iâm assuming I might have done it with out knowing, so you never know. But âbabyâ unless that is my number, Iâd be all over figuring out who it was!
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Come right out and ask him because not knowing is more painful than knowing!
Call it back and ask whatâs up.
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What a dumbass to cheat on a pregnant fiancĂ© but what an even bigger dumbass to put her as âbabyâ in his phone 
. Girl just confront himâŠ.but get your proof first. Call the number.
You should have answered it
Get the number and put it into google and see is it linked to a Facebook or social media account.
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Answer the phone yourself! I feel like a lot of men will come up with a sketchy excuse to try & hide it - which just puts you in more turmoil just wanting answers.
Or call back the number! See who answers and go from there. Good luck girl
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Donât let it go , go straight to him n ask him who is baby thats calling him n deal with it tonight not tomorrow donât keep sitting there being their fool
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You can check the phone records if your on the billâŠ
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Hes not even trying to hide that shit saved as baby what a bitch . Definitely ask him now
dependsâŠif my partner got a call from âbabyâ iâd assume it was a guy friend of his that he always jokingly flirts with. is his sense of humor like that? do you have reason not to trust him?
this would be something i could easily ask my partner about cause we have communication, if you donât have that itâs a problem in and of itself hun.
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Make him call it back himself on speaker!
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Ask the watch his behaviour if he denies it
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Answer it! Or call it back! 
you deserve to know
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Confront that shit!!!
Ok?? Ask?? Or answer the phone yourself
U sure it didnât day say Bobby
Also did he answer in front of. You
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Answer the phone! Are guys that dumb where they cheat and put the chicks name under Baby? Hopefully itâs not what you think! Good luck!
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Venting on social medias sure to help, man up n ask the source⊠Rocket science
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I feel for you Mama, but for your own peace of mind and the sake of that baby your carrying, either straight up ask him and make him redial the number, or check it yourself, but it needs to be done asap because you donât need this stress!! Good luck and hugsâŠ
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Shiit⊠My ass would have answered the first time it rang if it said something like that! You better hand him his phone and tell him to unlock it & call that number back on speaker. And if its a girl pack & be gone.
Go on the phone bill and look at incoming calls at that time
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The name was baby what should I do?. Man that musta been tough grow in up with that name.
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Dump him for being stupid enough to list his mistress as ââbabyââ and not ââsteveââ or some other shit. câmon ladies.
answer that phone call ask dat Btch questions and confront his ass clearly wtf is baby it ainât you clearly
I highly doubt it unless heâs an idiot and put their name under âbabyâ âŠ
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Tell her he has aids and go get checked
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Maybe her really name is actually âBabyâ
In my country itâs a common name
Iâd just confront him by saying " whoâs baby?â⊠I see sheâs been calling your phoneâ
It would be insane to actually label his mistress babyâŠ
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Lol me and my hormonal pregnant ass would have answered the phone asking whatâs up! 
I donât actually think I would even need pregnancy hormones to answer the call 
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Shouldâve answered it
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Kick him in the balls and be done with him
Now if it said pizza hut âŠproblems
Baby may have to do with your being pregnant
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Leave. He will lie and say something stupid to try and keep you and if he can get you to stay then he knows that he can keep doing it because heâs now in control in his eyes 
once a cheater always a cheater
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Call it back and find out for yourself
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Sorry grow up stop asking for advice and use your brain . You are a strong woman with a strong mind use it. Be strong 
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Stay calm. Ask him, calmly. Youâll know if heâs lying. Make your decision. Control the situation. Donât be controlled by emotions, you have two children. There is help for smart women who want to get ahead. Make yourself proud.
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Answer it and find out who it is!
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Children donât benefit living in an environment like that. Think of them and and not yourself, be the best single parent you can be. Big mistake if you stay!
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I think being a fiancé for two years would be a clue .
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You are in the perfect place to kick him out and then tell him why. By that I mean, if he really isnât cheating, you can blame your reaction on the insecurities of pregnancy. If he is cheating, you are ahead of the game.
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Men never come clean. Even if you see them with the other women it is not what you think. If you forgive them be assured they will do it again
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Alot of People can give you advice weather you choose to follow it is up to you, you have to do what you yourself feel is right, after you weigh everything out .
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Ask him who baby is to start. Leaving his phone around for you to see who is calling him kinda shows he has nothing to hide.
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Yes donât put up with more Bâs not good for you or your babyâs I was there one time for 15 years he never change I more happy now then ever my kids too I did good racing my 3 kids so if he doesnât wanted to change let him go it will be hard at first but you have to learn to love your self ,God help you to take a good decision
I donât know why everyone is saying âask himâ. Oh right, yeah, like heâs gonna come clean. If you have two kids with a man and he hasnât made you his wife,
that speaks volumes. He doesnât see you as permanent. Donât put yourself through hell, just leave.
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Uhhhh sweetie, if youâre still a fiancĂ© after 2 yrs and yet youâre pregnant with kid #2âŠwell thereâs your sign! He obviously feels he can pretty much do whatever he wants in this relationship.
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If you have to ask advice you already know ! Your hoping someone suggests you try and forgive him and work it out for the kids sake. Donât! Heâs cheating now he,ll cheat later and keep doing it because he knows you wonât leave him! Show that jerk you are stronger than that and kick his ass out let baby deal with his cheating when he does it to her to and he will!
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Call the number and make sure. Then leave. Itâs scary I know but itâll be better for you and the kids in the long run. Also, being engaged for 2 years isnât a good sign.
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