Typical man averaged lady. Unfaithfulness
Why TF were they alone in a room together forget the kissing I’d be asking harder questions. Also it’s been FIVE years, but even if he couldn’t tell which I think is bs, SHE could and that’s messed up. Yeah she pushed away but only when you walked in. Who knows how long they were lip locked… THEY KNEW YOU WERE ASLEEP!
I would have a serious conversation. If he can’t tell the difference then either he needs to go because it’ll happen again OR he can’t be around the sister and that’s no way to go because of family functions and parties. Sorry girl but you have 2 issues and one is harder to deal with because y’all are sisters/twins
Did your twin suddenly think he was her bf? 
she knew what she was doing! I am so sick of people blaming their caught outs on alcohol 
get out before they hurt you more! Not cool 
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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. I walked in on my boyfriend kissing my twin sister: Advice?
I’ve learned to trust my gut but that I also can be wrong 
I’m no help
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She should have went on the defensive when he tried to land on her landing pad! (Lean in for a kiss) .Nope they both did a boo boo! Can him sister find you a man of God🥀
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As hard as it may be to hear it, your sister could have done it on purpose and he really was fooled thinking it was you
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He knew it wont you, done it once , will do it again
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I’d be blaming the sister lol she knows it ain’t her man but he doesn’t know if it’s his girl
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The universe is giving you a way out, take it. You really can’t travel back in time to really know.
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Your sister knew she wasn’t you even drunk
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He wants both of you. His dream
Nope…good bye to him and keep an eye on her when you find another guy…
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As soon as she saw you, she pushed away…don’t let her lie to you because she feels guilty….
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she could have stopped it,she’s guilty
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You will not be able to you trust him. Your sister will be around if you can still trust her.
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Just continue with it my sister. You are identical after all.
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I’m also an identical twin and let me assure you that wasn’t an accident. You don’t mistake things like that.
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I’m so sorry they both hurt you. I’m skeptical by nature, but this wasnt an accident in my opinion. The only thing they did by accident was they got caught…
I am sorry again.
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They were both in the bathroom together I mean wtf do you think that means 
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Nope he can go. I am not a twin, but know quite a few identical twins. I can tell them apart even when they are wearing the same clothes. I would also keep an eye on your sister.
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Your sister should be ashamed. If you’re asking this question, take a step back.
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Obviously he knew it wasn’t you…you had already gone to bed. Listen to your gut!!
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Nope run and don’t look back. You may be twins but come on he knew. And I think you know it to you always go with your gut instinct. And I would also be mad at your sister it takes 2. Good luck
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After 5 years…really. He knows better. He knows all the little quirks that make you and only you. They’re both guilty.
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I think the sister is guilty
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You were meant to see take heed of the warning. The timing was no coincidence
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He knew what he was doing and so did she
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Forget the kissing part for a second… why were they both in the bathroom together? She should have sent him away the moment he walked in there when she was there. And when you fell asleep where were they? How did they get from there to the bathroom? There are too many questions. And I’m sorry but you don’t mix up who you are with, especially after 5 yrs. If that was the first time that happened, she should have slapped the ever living f*#@ out of him. Or he should have shoved her across the room for crossing that boundary. They have been sneaking around on you and are just trying to protect each other. Kick him to the curb. Follow your gut and keep a close eye on your sister from now on. Sounds like she has some growing up to do, still living in high school playing games.
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They were BOTH in the bathroom and you are srsly asking? Girl…if you dont 86 both of those bums… family is who you make it. Blood is NOT thicker than water.
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Sister should not have been alone in a bathroom with him. Period. She knew she isn’t you. Whether or not he knew, she did. Not saying he is innocent.
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He dates you for 5 years & doesn’t know it’s not you?
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If you look just like your twin. It could been a mistake.
If you hadn’t off seen them you wouldn’t have known ,’ would they have told you ? I think you no the answer
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Nah,
Goodbye to him and I would not trust her anymore.
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You can tell a twin apart after 5 yrs!!
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Do not fall for that bullshit!! They knew exactly what they were doing.
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Did your boyfriend not know that you were sleeping? Or did you go MIA? I call bullshit
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Maybe he didn’t know, I dont know about that. But your identical twin sister knew…. So drop him and leave her alone. imo
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My dad was an identical twin. I could tell them apart.
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They both knew. After 5 years together, he knows when it’s not you he’s kissing. They both are equally guilty. “Being drunk” isn’t an excuse. It’s sad to see people brush it off as an “accident” just to keep a man. It’s no accident, after five years of dating, it can’t be.
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If ya don’t have a boyfriend why da fuck is she kissing her sisters boyfriend ahhhhhh
Drop both of their asses! I would have put both of their asses out! He knew it wasnt you. Your sister knew he was yours. Let them have each other.
You don’t spend 5 years with somebody and can’t tell them apart.
Did she forget she wasn’t you too? 
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If he can’t tell you two apart by now then he’s a dang idiot. They knew what they were doing, he wanted a taste of sister and he got it. Weather he’s sorry or not, what happened was wrong. They knew exactly what they were doing. I wouldn’t be letting this go honestly, they have both deceived you. Your sister could have stopped him.
Ur sis is nasty why would she go in the bathroom with him lol
Nope. They are both guilty.
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Beat tf outta boffum 
I have a twin and they can tell if it’s not you
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Everyone always tries to justify their wrong actions. They knew what they were doing.
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Sorry but your sister sure as hell knew who he was n where did they think you’d gone total bullshit ya man a dirty rat n ya sisters a little tramp get rid of both of em 
Tell him to beat it
No can!! He knew what he was doing!! I would leave him for sure
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They knew what they were doing and now they’re playing you like your stupid.
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I love how people here are dead set on yes they did do it on purpose. How would you know? The only two that know for sure are her sister and her boyfriend.
Syrj Anderson thoughts. I know what I think
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHA come onnnn this HAS to be fake 
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Time to put the trash on the curb. If they’re gonna pull stunts like this, they can shack up elsewhere n pay you alimony.
You gotta be kidding
I call bullish!t he knows the difference after 5 years
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At least for a while
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T h is too shall pass…move on don’t dwell on it
She is gross for letting him kiss her 
She knew it was him.
Meelaz Davis bruh lmaooo
Naaahhh fuck that id slap him. Been 2getha 5 years and all of a sudden done this??
Uh no… Don’t fall for that BS. 
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Your sister is trash.
Go with your gut feeling.
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Why were they in the bathroom 
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I’m just gonna say this…they both knew what they were doing🤷
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Kick him to the kerb
Your sister knew even if he was not sure. He should have known the difference. I wouldn’t trust either one of them
Honestly it is what u thought it was. They know what they were doin , just imagine how long it’s been going on . You caught them for a reason, don’t let them fool you …
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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. I walked in on my boyfriend kissing my twin sister: Advice?
I wouldn’t trust them…
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Even if he didn’t know the sister did 
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A bf of 5 years should know which twin he is dating
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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. I walked in on my boyfriend kissing my twin sister: Advice?
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Look, if you walked in and they were makin out… yeah they only stopped because you walked in.
If he kissed her and she was appalled she would have pushed him off instantly… but you had to walk in on them for them to stop… nuh uh
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He may not have known INITIALLY, but she definitely knew from jump.
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I am an identical twin. Even if he “thought “ she were you. She knows who she is! AND she certainly knew who he was. They should be ashamed!
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Im a twin. Simple as this, they know the difference between two sisters and after that long being with someone, you know them. Also she had already gone to bed. They’re in a bathroom together and they’re not wearing identical clothing. (Because thats not generally what adult twins do with spouses and sister in home). Both are seriously grossly to fault and im really sorry your having to deal with this. Both truly need to be out of your life. Im really sorry this is happening to you
Even if he was drunk and thought she was you, your sister definitely knows she’s not you and she knows who your boyfriend is. I say screw 'em both.
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Always trust your intuition hun if it feels wrong it is wrong
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Even if he didn’t know who was who, your boyfriend isn’t a dang twin, your dang sister should have gotten the snot smacked out of her. Shame on her
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If he’s kissing your sister. Keeping it in the family. Run as fast as you can. She knew who he was. Drinking is no excuse. I caught my niece with my husband and i kicked them out. I was so done.
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If y’all was together for 5 years he would know the differences between you and your twin. Identical twins aren’t the same person their are things about them that are different that you pick up being around them. He’s lying
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It could have been a mistake on his part, but she should have told him that she was not you, and she didn’t,so therefore she wanted your boyfriend. That’s just my opinion. She should have stopped him, but she didn’t
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Sounds like he’s trying to set the ground work for his fetish to be realized to me…
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I’m a twin as well. Even though he may not have known the difference, your sister certainly did. Boyfriend must go and re-examine your relationship with your sister.
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It wasn’t an accident leave him asap and feel free to cut ties with sister… A real sister wouldn’t do this twin or not.
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I am so sorry this happened to you!! Don’t sell yourself short! You deserve so much better from your man and especially your sister. Both are lying to your face. I can guarantee this wasn’t their first time either; It just was just their first time getting caught. Kick him to the curb and spend as much needed time away from your sister as you need to heal. Remember you did nothing wrong. You deserve to be treated with respect and love by both and they failed big time in those departments!!
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I realize you’re identical and you were wearing similar clothes that day…but is your hair, nails, makeup and every other aspect exactly the same? Sounds like they were doing what they wanted to do. Both of them are wrong.
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I doubt your boyfriend thought it was you, drunk or not… He knew you went to bed and out of respect he should’ve came to bed with you instead of staying up with your sister in the first place, so the fact that he didn’t shows the level of disrespect he has for you… As for your sister, blood is thicker than water and she should’ve told him to go with you because she is ready for bed too but in my opinion this was their plan… This is just my opinion on this situation… If I were you I’d get rid of both of them though… Good luck…
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If he was as drunk as you say,he wouldn’t have been moving quick enough to actually get to her mouth before she knew what was going to happen and she would of stopped him. Sorry but I think they both knew what they were doing. You can bet your life they were at least flirting with each other before the kiss 
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I am more suspicious of the sister the boyfriend When you’re drinking honest mistakes could be made however on the sisters part I wonder if she is a type that always has wanted what you have that she might not have pretended that being you so that she could have a boyfriend
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If your questioning it then you know the answer because the trust in not there. No matter what you are unique in your own way no matter the identical stuff/ label
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The sister knew and it could be a possibility that there is something there and they decided to act up on it. Like everyone said he could have mixed up but your sister knew
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Nope … lies … and don’t bring your next boyfriend around your sister when ya’ll are drinking either … she wants what you have.
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Aww…nope…BS story. Don’t trust either of them
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