That’s sounds a bit off. Go with your gut. It always ," never means anything" till one day it does. The most disturbing part about this is that your sister allowed that to happen. I dont give a shit how drunk she was some things are off limits like sister’s boyfriends.
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That’s been going on and it’s probably going to continue! If you were missing and sleeping all that time do you honestly think they didn’t talk before they kissed and they knew you were asleep so they expected to get away with it
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Yeah i walked out on my sister and boyfriend when i was pregnant and they were actually doing it and we aint twins.
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Are you happy? Can you cope with anguish for the rest of your relationship if the answers yes the you believe them but if it’s no then hit the road and don’t look back.
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Well…she knows she’s not you…shady as hell on both parts…
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You been together for 5 years and he couldn’t tell you apart? My friend is dating an identical twin and she easily tells them apart and they haven’t been together for that long.
5 years- you know someone, not just their looks, their personality, THEIR NAME… Like come on…?
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Why did she kiss him back …she should have pushed him away and stated who she was??.. your sister knew what he was doing and so did she … not even in a joke
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If he has been with you for 5 years he knew she knew
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Your boyfriend may not have known that was your sister. But your sister knew that she was kissing your boyfriend. Wow that’s really crappy behavior from your sister.
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I knew twins growing up. I could tell them apart. Anyone who knows you well enough should. Especially when your not even wearing the same clothes. I doubt she pushes him away because he went to kiss her. Due to the fact they were already on the bathroom together. Why not question why he’s going in there when she’s in there first before he even tried to make a move 
just doesn’t ring true
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And I highly doubt you walked in the literal SECOND he made such an “attempt” to magically coincide with her pushing him away. So I think the while thing is shady, but yeah he knew. He’s full of it. Bye boi.
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If he had to much to drink then I can see it being an accident on his part but I could be wrong. Was you’re sister drunk aswell could that have played a part in her kissing him back. I would find out the truth first before anything kicks off between you and your sister I doubt she would lie to you as you both being twins you can probably tell when one another is telling the truth. But just remember it’s more likely you will find another boyfriend if it turns out he’s lying but it’s unlikely you will have another sister. Family is everything try not to throw that away have a sit down and talk. Best of luck to you 
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Where did you catch them if they were in the bathroom as you walked in then even more dodgy, and regardless of being twins if hes been dating you for 5 years he should be able to tell,
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My question would be why were they in the bathroom together in the first place?? She knows she’s not you and shouldn’t have let him in there with her🙅🏽♀️
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What you should probably do is get a lie detector test and see if your twin actually wants what u have. Go to the Steve Wilkos show and it will be all clear then .
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Could have been an accident in his part. But not in your sister’s part. She knows who’s boyfriend he is.
You and your sister need to have a good talk. A counselor, or someone to help you keep it in the positive may be helpful.
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Sounds like you should be more mad at your twin. He might of really thought it was you but for her it should of never got that close to kissing at all. Sounds like she only pushed him away cause they were caught. I’d dump both of them.
Your sister was kissing him. She should know what’s right and wrong. She was wrong.
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Your sister who knew she was not you went into the bathroom with your boyfriend. Case closed.
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I’m an identical twin. Nope. Not a chance. Surely you don’t act identical? Your posture, voice, mannerisms are nurtured into you by environmental factors. Whilst identical every feature of you is not identical even if you look identical. Wouldn’t wash with me at all.
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Lies, lies lies even if he was drunk there is no excuse and your sister knew better, she only pushed him away because you caught them out I’d be gone like a shot, you deserve better x
My wife has a twin, they have completely different personalities. As a loyal husband ,it would be a hard pass for me to do this.
I believe he probably knew better. He was just dipping his toes it sounds like.
No when you’ve been going out with S twin that ling you know the difference even if the are identical ask any family member who has twins they will tell you the same he just wants his cake and eat it twice over
Sounds like you don’t need advice, you’ve stated you don’t have 100% trust in him. You just need someone to affirm it’s ok if you get out of the relationship. It’s ok for you to get out of the relationship.
You’ve been with him 5 years love he should know whose who by now
Oh no no no. They both knew what they were doing. Love yourself and set some boundaries and keep away from both of them. I’m sorry they would lie to you like this. I’m sorry you had to feel this hurt.
Why was he up with her when you were asleep? He must know where your bedroom is. He must know how to tell you apart after 5 damned years. I think when you walked in you busted them. I’m pretty sure you know the answer to this one.
Dump the boyfriend! You have been together for 5 years, he knew that wasn’t you! Alcohol is not a good excuse! You may be able to salvage a relationship with your sister, but the guy needs to go!
Your twin is dead wrong. Even if your bf did get y’all mixed up i wouldn’t even have let him come near my face let alone kiss me. Hell naw! Something don’t sound right about that situation
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Nawww after 5 years you know the difference. The manerisms, the way they talk, walk, act etc. And as if he didnt know his gf was sleeping. Sounds fishy to me
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It’s rubbish he thought it was you. My mum and aunt were identical but I could always tell them apart as were my best friends at school and again I knew who was who. You need to either have an honest discussion with them separately and by honest I mean ask them to be honest but lie by telling them you know what really happened because the other one already told you or just let it go. You can lie because you’re trying to find out the truth. Alternatively you could split up with your boyfriend because he was caught and tell your sister regardless of what he said his reasons were she knew better and how would she feel if the boot was on the other foot? I’d also suggest that this could happen to her too.
You’ve been together for 5 years…I’d have to think by now that he’d be able tell you guys apart and obviously she knew. Sounds to me like they’re lying.
WHY WERE THEY IN THE BATHROOM TOGETHER WITH THE DOOR CLOSED?? That’s not an accident. Come on… Boy bye. That is weird. Shame on your sister.
You really believe after 5yrs together he cannot tell the difference between yourself and your twin? 
And your sister on the other hand definitely knew he’s your boyfriend…
It is possible he confused the two since alchohol was involved and they are identical twins.
I wouldn’t throw away a 5 year relationship on something you aren’t sure of. But I would keep an eye out on them.
I would think you could trust your own twin to tell you the truth about it, but I don’t know for sure.
My ex was an identical twin and drunk or not, you know the difference. Twin or not:sweat_smile:
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They’re both 
throw em out like yesterday’s paper. You’ve been together 5 years and he doesn’t know the difference between you and your sister? I call BS. And your sister knew that was your bf and she decided to act like scum 
hold people accountable for disgusting behavior bottom line
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Don’t wear identical clothes and try not to look identical so you can be sure he knows which twin Is his girl friend.
If he’s been with you for 5 years then he knows you! He was getting it on with your sister! Dump him!
No they new what they were doing both of them.You need to dump your boyfriend and not ever trust your sister.How far would it have gone if you didn’t walk in on them?Think about that.
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Walk away from that boyfriend of yours,as for your sister forgive her but do not forget what she did
Cut him loose. You can be mad at your sister for a while, but she’s family.
It was definitely your sister’s fault for taking advantage of the situation since he probably couldn’t tell the two of you apart under the influence
Even identical twins aren’t mirror images of each other there’s always a diff
I’d be gone wash my hands of them both… Your twin should never had treaded In your waters and he knew better no matter what he says … smhhh
You admitted you guys had a few drinks was it dark? You admitted to wearing similar clothes it was asking for trouble. Drinking were any of you beyond buzzed? The problem is 5 yrs he should know you guys apart by now ,but drinking when you are drunk can confuse one. Idk this has to be something you can o ky answer has your sis ever done anything like this before, has your bf cheated before or even have your friends tell you he has hit on them and he deny it?
If you trusted them this wouldn’t even be a discussion. You would’ve believed it was a mistake and moved on. So it sounds to me like you need to be single or not with him. Doesn’t mean it wasn’t an accident though seeing as you had on similar attire and everyone was drunk. I would have to know how the night actually played out to determine more.
Your sister should of never let it get that far. I think there is something going on between them.
But go with your gutt feeling its usually right . I know if i was you i wouldnt leave them alone again or if you do be sneaky and spy on them
And stop dressing identically to your twin. Develop your own personhood.
Um… why were they in the bathroom together in the first place??? If I know someone is in the bathroom, I don’t go in until the person comes out.
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I would be asking why were you kissing long enough for me to walk in catch you before you stopped you clearly didn’t just start kissing as I walked in before you make contact it’s not to hard to walk away
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Wtf you in the bathroom together for anyways
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If they where in a closed bathroom together I would bet they did more then kiss or were well on their way to doing more then kissing and I wouldn’t say it’s the first time either
you think if someone kissed you and you didnt want it itd be more than a push and 5 years im sorry drunk or not shouldnt he know which one is actually you? nah sis
Why would she of let him follow her into the bathroom ?? He could’ve thought it was you but as your sister she Was in the bathroom so why would she be like oh come in? I’m calling BULLSHIT ! Also you went to bed he knew you were asleep lmao .
I am a twin… they knew what they were doing… finish it and tell your sister to bugger off
Nah nah nah to let this slide. He knew, honestly can’t say if she did or not but he would know with body language, he’s your boyfriend of five years you’re beyond comfortable together. I’m sure it isn’t the first drunk experience you’ve had together, so he would know how you’re acting with him and that should be far from how your sister should be treating him. Unless he really did kiss her to try something and she pushed him away but don’t buy that lie cause he would know the difference.
So we’re they in the bathroom? I’m trying to get this straight…if they were in the bathroom together, that’s question 1…maybe this has been going on before now and she just played it off by pushing him away…would probably get rid of him and tell your sister what’s up
New boyfriend, maybe someone with an identical twin.
Even IF he didn’t know, she definitely knew she wasn’t you
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5 years and you think he didn’t know it wasn’t you… I don’t think I believe either of them
Move on. And don’t trust your sister around anymore boyfriends
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But she knew and why the fuck were they even in the bathroom together at all. Seems weird af
Why are they in the bathroom together is the question first then the kissing what on Earth 
Break up with him not worth the stress and you don’t trust him now . There are many fish in the ocean dont settle for one that dont make you feel good.
So I think there’s only one way to resolve this situation. Both of you get naked and walk in on him taking a shower… I think you know the rest amirite amirite? Lmao
I call bullshit. How did your boyfriend not know you were asleep, and clearly your sister knew she was kissing your boyfriend. They are both sneaks and liars in my opinion.
Accept his apology and forget it! If it happens again you may have grounds for concern.
If you’re not identical twins then he knew what he was doing…drunk or not
Maybe he thought it was you and that is a genuine mistake, however your sister knew and did nothing, what does that say
Your gut is telling you what you already know it probably wasn’t the first time either come on girl you it would have gone further if you hadn’t busted them
It is better not to be stupid than yourself, because if your boyfriend makes a mistake, it can be accepted, but your sister, who did not make a mistake and seriously wanted to kiss your boyfriend, so if you ignore this issue, is it related to you?
I’m an identical twin and all of our friends/family can tell the difference. I don’t believe it
He knows who you are, get rid of him if the situation makes you feel awkward. You did nothing wrong.
He might not have known, actually probably an easy mistake especially drunk but she knew!!
Maybe he wanted to check if ye were really identical in more ways than 1.
Yeah right. There are thousands of excuses. In your spirit you know the truth. Don’t lie to yourself. Don’t hold on to him. He knew you were asleep.
Tossing the bs flag on her sister. They both knew. She also knew or else she would not have asked.
Why was they in the bathroom together? Sorry that’s the worst cop out tale I’ve ever heard.
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If he can’t pick you out after 5 years then… need say no more.
What room were they in, you can get the answers from that
This is the plot of some porn movies. Does her Step Mother get stuck in the dryer too??
Did he know that you went to sleep? Cause if he did, there’s your answer.
This is shady. Why were they in the bathroom together in the first place?
He thought it was you but then said it didn’t mean anything
Hes just a guy looking for some strange stuff and got caught lol
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It was one kiss don’t make a mountain over a molehill forgive and forget, if you do have suspicion then keep an eye out
And your sister allowed the kiss because?
He forgot his gf went to bed?
Fuck that! She should know better too! Go with what you feel is right. Don’t let this get to you. You’ll spend forever trying to figure it out. You deserve peace of mind.
He knew it wasn’t you
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Mmmm nooo Sis… They’re messing around!
Even if he made a mistake, SHE knows he’s YOUR boyfriend. Sounds sus for sure.
Why were they in the bathroom together?
Don’t trust it, that’s your sign to go! Don’t ignore it.
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Listen to ur guts. Our guts is never been wrong as u knw.
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Question? Did he know that you were sleeping?
Sounds like you sister is a backstabbing ass, I’m sure your bf really was just drunk and confused but your sister definitely knows better.
I don’t believe that! He should no your lips and how you kiss him! 
girl you better watch him!
Seriously if ur asking for advice…open ur eyes! She def knew it was him.
Laura, at least it wasn’t her mom! 
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Dump him and don’t trust your sister anymore. Rotten pair.
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I’m a Twin, I’m calling this excuse bs plain and simple. Your loyalty to your twin has been compromised. Get rid of him and put her behind on Check.
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