Throw the iPad out the window and see who gets it. 
Put the fear of God in her
The iPad would be getting it,insolent little madam
Ass whooping? My momma would have smacked the taste out of my mouth. She is 5 foot even and I respect her to this day. My 4 and 2 year old have the best manners I have seen (2 year old mainly signs them). Take everything thatâs a bonus away. She wouldnât get them till she realized she does not boss and demand an adult SPEACIALLY her own momma
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Following for advice. My 5 yr old is doing similar.
She shouldnât be allowed to keep it after using that tone. Not saying youâre doing wrong but thatâs how I would handle it. Iâm thinking sheâs learning this behavior somewhere? Also at 7, does she have any chores or is she being given any responsibility besides laying around on her iPad all day? At 7 my boys both knew how to do laundry and dishes and a few other things. They have not once demanded anything! They know if they did it wouldnât do them any good. Youâre her parent not her servant. Make her do things for herself, the days of babying her are over. If you donât intervene now sheâll only get worse, and sheâs not learning to do for herself. Whatâs going to happen when sheâs older and if anything happens to you? She needs to learn to do for herself, not everyone is going to cater to her. Entitlement thinking is a bad way of thinking. Stop allowing her to act that way.
Looks like your not getting your ipad
My 8 year old has currently lost her tablet for the 1000000th time. Sheâs not getting back for ages. She does the same shit your describing. Her attitude always clears up when she knows she has lost something. Iâm not sure if I should ever give it back to her this time 
Sounds like she needs a spanking
If I did this with my parents my dad would have hung it up and shot it right in front of me. âNow you get nothingâ is what Iâd have been told.
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You have to get that in control now, because it only gets worse when they get older. What types of punishments do you use? I would have taken her phone away from her for that and given it back to her when I was good and ready. There has to be consequences or thereâs no deterrent.
Take the iPad away âŚif she talked back like that to me she wouldnt have it for awhile âŚhave her butt up and helping around the house to teach her some responsibilityâŚmake her earn her own money she if her butt does t get up âŚand privileges would definitely be taken away over mouthy disrespectful talk
Children who have access to the Internet Are so overstimulated. My daughter become addicted to hers to the point her behaviors are so out of control that she started threatening me with my life. This started when she was 11 by the time she was 12 I had to admit her into a behavioral facility. Donât let it get to this point before doing something about it to include minimal time on social media.
Its good that you ignore it. Ecen with children you have to have boundaries and you need to let her know she cannpt talk to someone that way to get something she likes. She will also need to be taught that not everything goes her way.
You better handle this now will only get worse. Imagine the teenage yrs. That I pad sure I would of taken out of charger and she would not get back till she learned how to talk a normal tone to me.
Yeeeeeah my 7 year old did that once⌠her iPad went in the trash & she got her little her butt spanked. Got me messed up, talking to me like that.
Maybe she is mirroring behavior she sees. I would see just what she is watching on her ipad and also pay attention to people around her. I noticed my daughterâs behavior change when she would play with the girl next door. So one day I watched the girls while they played at our house and knew exactly why.
Take ipad away!! Full stop⌠xx
Oh no children donât demand anything from their parents and I feel you need to ignore her when she is being demanding but tell her if u want something we use please and thank you if you do not ask nicely I will ignore you. You have to stand your ground. Your the boss not your child. Take things awayâŚmake house rules anything. If she steps out of bounds you nip that in the bud right then and there. If you let just one thing slide she will push for more. KidsâŚgive an inch they will take a mile.
Whoses the Momma? YOU ARE!! Donât reward bad behave!! Sit down have a talk with child. Listen to what the child has to say. Ask questions with out screaming n hollering. Hug ur child. It gets better as long as You stand ur ground on the fact that you are MOM.
Sounds like you did the right thing by making her get it herself⌠I wouldnât have argued or entertained it at all since thats stooping to her childish level. I would simply say, âNo, maâam. You are capable of getting it yourself. It is at the end of the bed.â And if my kid would have argued further, I would advise of two choices- get it yourself or you are losing it for a WEEK. LOL. And if he didnât take it seriously, then he would absolutely lose it for a week. I donât play kid games with my kids, and thatâs I think the best advice I can give to you. Dont entertain drama. Try to operate like a textbook.
I would let my daughter get away with one maybe two rounds of that and then I would stop what I was doing go right up in her face and tell her she does not need to be talking to me like that and that she needs to get up off her butt and go get her iPad. And if sheâs disrespectful she can just go ahead and not have the iPad for the rest of the dayâŚ
Better get a handle on her now or she will drive you crazy in a few years. Discipline. Donât reward bad behavior. No empty threats.
That CHILD is SEVEN. You are the parent. You need to take control of your house and start introducing her to consequences and punishments. You going back and forth with her is just instilling in her that she CAN behave this way and you wonât do anything about it. Her being rewarded with her tablet after being disrespectful speaks volumes. I say itâs time to remove the door to her room, completely empty her room of everything except a mattress, pillow and blanket. Leave her enough clothes to last 2 weeks and everything else comes out of her room. You are only required by law to feed, clothe and house her. All the other crap is extra and a privilege NOT a right. Stop letting your child run your house. If you truly are fed up with it, then why donât you do something about it? The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again but still expecting something to change.
Take the iPad away until she learns some respect, period. Obviously she knows she can speak to you that way and still get what she wants, so she does
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Have you tried slapping her mouth
My momma would have hit the restart button on me if I had talked to her like that. I would get her an old school one. A notebook and paper. She could write about why she thought it was a good idea to talk to you like that.
Activate pain receptors activates learning receptors . Her phone taken causes the most pain - opportunity for her to learn.
Ummmm. Whoop that ass⌠what do you mean??
If only people could discipline their kids like we used toâŚ
She may be pushing boundaries or she may have some type of ODD Might want to to her to a psychiatrist just let rule that out
Up to you what you let her get away withâŚGotta be the parent, not the friend
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Iâd be taking the iPad and putting it away.
Keep doing what youâre doing ignore it and let her get it herself if she wants to use it
She wouldnât have a ipad
Have you ever heard of a spanking??
Get an evaluation for behavioral
Iâd gladly go get it. And put it away for a very long time.
She sounds entitled. Uhm no
First off⌠you argued with your CHILD. Nope. Start there.
If you got the iPad youâre a damn fool. That is called SPOILED and the cure is A SWITCH ON THAT ASS!!!
Ignore her and take away the iPad if sheâs being nasty about it.
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Why reward her with a freaking ipad?! TAKE IT ALL AWAY!!!
Take it from someone who has a 22 year old that with a major attitude problem. I should have stopped it when she was 6 or 7 but I along with my deceased father spoiled her rotten. Do it when she is you. Take everything away from her and make her work to get it back by doing chores and make her respect you
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My kids know better. I set boundaries and expectations and have kept them the whole time they have grown up. Iâm only forced to provide a roof, clothes, and food⌠The rest is earned. Sit her down and discuss what is going to happen the next time this behavior occurs and when it does, have the consequences ready. Take the iPad away. And make her earn it back.
Maybe you need to get her checked by a doctor and if they say there is nothing wrong with her you need to start taking stuff away from her I have a 14 year old and he was so mouthy and disrespectful I took stuff off of him it didnât work so I took him to a doctor and she said he has a behaver problem and put him on meds now I have very little problems with him but seems your daughter thinks she is boss and you need to make her see she isnt that yall are
Yeah Iâm gonna say that she needs to lose privileges until she learns respect for authority. Itâs hard I have a 10 yr old that acts that way occasionally, I just take everything she likes until her attitude gets better.
Behavior therapy will help.
Also, sit and explain to her that she can not talk disrespectfully to you. Explain why. Also set and enforce boundaries. When she does that, set a consequence, ex: no iPad for a time out period, since thatâs what the subject of her disrespect is.
My daughter is 15 now and all I have to do is give her a certain look and her attitude changes QUICK. Iâm the type of Mom that I will tell you ONE time after that itâs either ass whooping or the disciplin I see fit. I grew up getting my ass tore up any time I was bad. And I turned out to be a very respectful adult without any mental issues from all the ass whoopings I got!!
Youâd be amazed how far actual parenting goes ⌠the issue appears to be yall do what this kid says⌠you are literally the problem 
stop arguing with spoiled kids and learn to be the adult
My 3yr old does this. She will demand I find her stuff and if that doesnât work sheâll whine and cry. Iâve started completely ignoring her after I say something like âI donât speak to people who are talking meanlyâ usually this ends up with tears and her running to her room and finding xyz herself
Iâd have grabbed that I pad and been like since thatâs how you choose to talk to me Iâm taking this once you clean up your act Iâll give t back 
Have you tried discipline or parenting?
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I would have said if you want it you grab it and if you answer me with an attitude Iâm taking it away for the rest of the day and we can try again tomorrow.
Walk away and donât respond to her when she demands you to do something.
Also take the iPad away until her attitude improves. Limit screen time. Spank her ass if needed.
When I was about 8/9 I went through a phase of being a right little brat, itâs probably just a phase
Oh this is quite the mouthy age. You have to set clear boundaries. If kids donât fear you just a little⌠they will never behave.
My son was diagnosed with ODD at 7. I didnât do meds immediately until the adhd and odd made school impossible. But just having an answer helped my parenting a lot
What kind of discipline are you using or are you doing nothing? If there are no consequences for her actions then youâre just setting your entire family up for failure. iPad should be taken away if she cannot behave appropriately and with respect. The moment she started to raise her voice or catch and attitude I would have ignored her, calmly removed the iPad and tell her she can have it back when she decides to act right then put it away until she does. Make her earn items back with good behavior.
She needs a calm sit down talk with you or Dad, or both. Ask her if thereâs anything sheâd like to tell you because her behavior as of late is concerning you. She needs boundaries set and firmly now before the teen years start. It will get worse if itâs not corrected soon. But, see if there is a reason for her behavior outside of normal childhood stuff.
I think the best move is not even to entertain that behavior. Calmly give her one warning and tell her if she continues this way there will be consequences.
I would have grabbed that iPad and hid it for a week. She would have never repeated that behavior.
You say âalright, Iâll get it. And now itâs mine until you learn a thing or two & that attitude of yours changes. Now, go clean your room (or, whatever) or Iâll find something else to hold ontoâ.
Having the same issue my child she is 9âŚ
Spank her and stick her in a time out
Crack her arse and send her to bed !
Sheâs 7
Good ole fashioned Ass Whoppin. Never goes out of style.
Take it away. Tell her she gets nothing until she speaks nicely. Period.
Take the iPad away from her for a week. Be the pack leader. You are in charge. Donât stop at the iPad. You can and should take away all that she cares about until sheâs willing to act right. Explain this to her.
therapyâ:sparkles:
It will get to the root of her issues and the therapist will work with you on techniques that you can use in the household
She wouldve lost it indefinitely.
My son is only 3 and JESUS Iâm afraid 
Take the iPad. Period. Maybe whoop that ass ⌠there will be her attitude adjustment.
Um⌠Get rid of the tablet.
I woulda popped her butt!
Brittany Nicole Garcia girl I wish you would have 
If all else fails try ABA therapy.
Cherish before too late
Beat the crap out of her !!
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Smack the shit outta her
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Grab it , then put it away
Sounds like she wants attention
UmmmâŚtake away her ipad
If you dont like my answer, Iâm sorry, but my opinion is she needs her butt spanked HARD. If you tolerate this, it will only get worse and she will be a mouthy adult and run her mouth to the wrong person and theyâll whip her. She will also make any future husband absolutely miserable. Youâre not just raising a child, youâre raising someoneâs future spouse.
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Monkey see, monkey do???
Needs as ass whoopin
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Take her ipad away until she gets better 
Take the iPad away for a few days!
Just get it mom⌠and then keep it 
Lord Jesus what happened with todayâs parents and kids smh.
A good slap. Problem solved.
Iâm so sorry! Please PM me if you want to chat
Smack or discipline her
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Have you tried biting her to assert dominance?
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Mine too, youâre not alone
Is there any history of mental illness in either side of her family???
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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. I'm feeling out of depth with my 7 year old, help?
I would say to my son, âif you are needing this iPad and it makes you so upset and mean spirited, then the iPad has to go away for 48 hours. We need to learn to always be kind and considerate of each otherâ. But you have to make the 48 hour rule happen. And itâs a tough 48 hours, but you will get a lovely daughter after this happens twice. (I do this with all items, clothing, toys, candy, meals, dessert, tv, computers, iPhones). Not everything gets taken away for 48 hours, but everything gets the lecture about âitems arenât important, our relationship and how we treat people is importantâ.
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In situations like this at first I ignore my 8 y.o. attitude. If he continues I remind him if he wants it bad enough he can get it himself. If he tries to be pushy/disrespectful he gets one warning that it will be taken away for the day, then if he chooses to continue I follow through with the consequence. Slowly I am seeing more reasonable behaviour, with repetition of the same set of rules and boundaries. I hope this helps, good luck!
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