When everyone got out he should have to get he has child he needs to help with. You yourself know it was wrong and should have booted him out .
Not necessarily but if youāre not ok with it thatās what matters. Let him know
Nope should of put your kid to bed and joined them
Why wasnāt he with his wife and child.
So they had a few drinks and only children have bedtimesā¦leave him alone about it (I try talking to strangers all the time)
Okā¦ switch the scenarioā¦ if you were in the hot tub with a man ā¦ would your husband be upset?
Thereās your answer.
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I think itās BS that he left you in the cabin alone with the toddler to start with. Like itās all YOUR responsibility.
Why did someone not watch the kids for awhile like the in laws. Or he could if switched out let her get a rest. He is inconsiderate .
Nope, no man should ever be alone with another women
I think heād have something to say if you were in the hot tub with a guy
Need to tell husband it is his turn to watch toddler and you get in the hot tub.
No, but I have a problem with him not taking his turn with his child so you could get in the hot tub.
Itās more disrespectful more than anything.
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My question is why did you stay in cabin?
I just read this to my husband and he said that probably is not a good situation.
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Trust is far more important than love 2 me if I donāt trust ur man why u with him
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Your husband should of had enough respect for you to get out when the rest did. Has nothing to do with trust its all about respect and he shown he hasnāt any.
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This isnāt about trust, itās about respect. Very inappropriate
Sounds like he got himself into some hot water. Haaa ! Just joking, Iām sure he wouldnāt like it, if you did it.
Uh yeah! Especially since you didnāt get to be apart of the fun
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Not appropriate whatsoever.
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Ya I donāt think itās appropriate he should of at least thought how you felt being inside
Absolutely. I am beyond appalled. There are NO - repeat NO - reasons for this to be ok.
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Very much. he should have been with you.
I would have been right out there ! Telling him to get in and had a few words to say to her ! They should have all got out together plus out of respect for u , he should of been coming in taking over so u could go out for a bit x
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I wouldnāt care. I trust my hubby 
Very inappropriate and no respect for you
Oh no you donāt. Everybody out. Inappropriate.
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He better look like coming in and spending g his talk time with me
If my husband and her were drunk āHell no!ā Sober, no problem.
Well how would he feel if tables were turned
Yes he should have gotten out
Oh hell no itās not appropriate at all he should have been spending time with you not her
Yes I do. He should have left when everyone else did
Yes he should have got out to
He should have come in to be with you
My Husband would never and if he did I would have bust him and her right over the headā¦ I Said what I said Periodā¦ 
Yes. And wrong on the woman part also
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Yes itās inappropriate. Well if itās my husband anyway.
I wouldnāt like it but this is how I got cheated on so 
Totally disrespectful! Get ya ass inside and help ya wife with the toddler
Absolutely!! My husband would never
If you donāt have trust then you shouldnāt be married. Period.
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In my experience ,I would probably be going home.IN A BODY BAG!!
Trade places tonight!!! Daddy w baby and ur w her hubby(plz say shes not single) UR TURN!! Go relax!! He did
If youāre questioning yourself then you know the answer.
I would NOT like it!
Yesā¦WRONG IN ALL WAYS ā¦U GET OUT HE GETS OUT ā¦
Definitely not ok and disrespectful on his part.
My opinionā¦ inappropriate.
I sure would not like it.
the husband should never put himself in that position, get out rather then being alone in the tub with another female to avoid misunderstanding
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I think it depends on the situation. Maybe he was being a gentleman to stay with her until she finished her drink? Or she stayed to make sure he didnāt drown alone because he was wasted? Why was the whole family ok with leaving them alone and intoxicated together? Why was your whole family (your husband)ok with leaving you alone with your toddler? I think thereās a lot of inappropriate and disrespectful or at least not very thoughtful activity being discussed here. If you felt bad, I would t blame you!
Ask my ex-husband, heād definitely say yes. Lol
It is very inappropriate in every way idc wat get yuh rass out
I think it depends on your relationship and what your boundaries are. For me this would be a line crossed. And o would not find it appropriate, but some relationships or marriages would not have a problem with it.
Itās not about if WE think itās appropriate or not. Itās about if YOU feel itās appropriate or not, thatās it.
Just as if some women feel as if porn is inappropriate and some donāt. Itās all about how YOU feel about it and what your boundaries are. Lay them out and let them be made clear from this situation & move on.
Oh he would have way done gotten out that tub ā¦ hell nawwww.
I wouldnāt have liked that
You didnāt have to stay with your toddler both of you shouldāve or had the baby placed somewhere near safely so yāall both could of enjoyed the hot tub. I be damned if Iām going to hold off on the festivities
What did your gut tell you? Thatās your answer.
I guess it depends on the kind of guy he is and the trust level in your relationship. He may have thought you wouldnāt worry about it. If he is a player, worry more about when he is away from you. Jealousy will ruin your life whether it is necessary or not. Wait til there something for sure or just trust that he possibly didnāt see a problem with it because he had no intention to do anything
It is none of my buisness
I think it was disrespectful to stay there so long so late and ignore his wife. I would have felt hurt.
no nut you know if you can trust him or mot
Nope wonāt be happening.
To each their own but I wouldnāt like it
I think you already know the answer.
Why didnāt you go back out to the hot tub once someone was in there to watch your toddler?
Why are you asking us you already know
Stop bitching. Lord. Are you that sensitive? Like my man and i of 5 years do that shit all the time. It aint cheating. Stop bitching to facebook for attention
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Yeah no. The way my crazy is setup I would have ripped him out of the hot tub and then ripped him a new ass. 
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I donāt see a problem with it
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Yes and Shane on both of them. Smh he owes you a diamond girl go get it
If your name is Chaun Yates. and you live in Jacksonville, you wrecked my home.
Yeah Iād definitely be petty after that
I wouldnāt have an issue with itā¦ I trust my husband. If all they did is have a few drinks and talk then great. He still comes to bed and lays next to you so heās where he truly wants to be. Sometimes itās truly innocent 
Miiiight be innocent but I see your reasoning hunny. Would have been different if he got out and offered you a break with your baby. He should have left after his finished drink and accompanied his family. I just say have a talk with him explain how your feeling 
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Depends on if you trust himā¦i wouldnāt care because i have no doubt in my mind that i am the only woman my husband wants
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Yes itās rude, disrespectful, and inconsiderate to their partners. I would have been very uncomfortable. His parents have a young couple, your age, as friends, that they apparently hang out with regularly? Hmmmm. Seems a bit odd, but to each his own. I prefer to hang out with friends that are my age, or at least close to it. Also, drinking alcohol, in a hot tub, from a health perspective, is not recommended. But, again, whatever. I would let him know, in a tactful way, you felt left out, while he was free to enjoy himself, ignoring you, and his child.
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I trust Mikeā¦ Weāve been friends since I was 12 and he 15ā¦ Weāve been married 23 yearsā¦ Iād have zero issues with this scenarioā¦
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Iām just gonna say this. Nothing wrong with it but it is all trouble. Donāt put yourself in those positions.
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Id be more pissed that hubs seemed to be enjoying himself immensely, leaving you inside to care for the toddler that he also happens to be a parent of.
If they were truly alone then yes but with everyone in the house? Hardly anything to shake a stick at. Iād be more concerned you donāt trust your husband.
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How would hubby have felt if the situation was reversed?
Regardless, trust or not, drinking or not, making friends or not, it was disrespectful to his spouse and children. Should have said, āHey, you should meet my wife. Iāll go watch the baby send send her out.ā
I can tell you one thing my man would be inside me with and not out with some broad!!!
Let him watch the baby and you sir in the hot tub with another man late into the morning. See how he loves it.
Iād be dragging him inside by his damn ear. But I think heād rather be inside hanging with me anyway. And no, he shouldnāt be in there drinking with a woman.
They should have not done it out of respect to their mates, but I think it is more appropriate then sharing a bed 
Better questionā¦ Has your husband ever given you reason not to trust him?
If you trust your husband then it shouldnāt be an issue. Wouldnāt bother me.
Married people are allowed to have friends of the opposite sex. If you really trust they werenāt doing anything you wouldnāt even be asking.
All they did was talk? No, I would not be offended. Do you trust your husband?
If you trust your husband then it shouldnāt be a problem
No wtf thatās weird vibes. Iām all for them being friends but drinking in a hot tub? No thank you
Nope. Dude should have been with his girl.
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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Is it appropriate for a married man to be drinking in a hot tub with another woman?
Yes where else would he be going if Iām drowning him 
If you have to get marriage counseling from wastebook you are the problem
Totally inappropriate, he should have gotten out.
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