Is it okay for my wife to go to a musical festival with a bunch of guys she doesn't really know?

Mannnnnnn, if you don’t let that woman cheat in peace. You know better. You’re still with her after 3x being cheated on (that you know of.) Your dumbass isn’t going anywhere. If you aren’t gonna leave, leave it alone. Staying is consenting to her doing whatever she wants.

Um, yea, NO! She’s a cheater and you should let her go but not come back :v:t3:

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Go with her and if you can’t go with her you know somethings up and just lay it out if you can’t go and she goes she can take everything of hers with her and just not come back or if you want to get a different place and leave before she comes back so she comes back to an empty house nothing of your left

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No no no. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. If it’s a problem you offering to go with her… you already know. You have a gut and intuition. This is not good. No no no.

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Throw the whole wife away! :woman_shrugging:

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She’s cheated on you 3x!? That’s on you… You allowed the shitty behaviors…

WHAT! ABSOLUTELY POSITIVILY NOT!!! The trust is gone brother, sorry but sounds like a hookup.

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Yikes. None of that is ok

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Sure she can go but you should accompany her. :sunglasses:

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Uh, no I think she’s been around long past her expiry date. Get rid of that garbage, she’s making a fool out of you for sure.

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Just leave her , she’s for the streets lmao.

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What!? Why would any of this be normal? Especially if you’re married, none if that makes sense lol. You’re absolutely fucking right in this situation. Boy, let me tell you what, if I tried doing that my husband would either follow my ass there and stalk me, beat the dudes asses, or leave, and all I’m gonna say is it would be all 3.

Three times? Your very forgiving…but I’m sorry if she goes she needs to take everything with her…I would never do that to my husband

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You already have your answer.

Lol no. My spouse would honestly think I’m joking if I said that. Then he would ask if I’m drinking again (alcoholic and now sober). Then he’d ask if I’m off my meds and have imaginary friends bc I hate people and wouldn’t go in public unless I had to.

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Tell that ding bat to go! And to stay gone. She already has somewhere to stay, that tent she bought.

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Personally i would not did this, and my husband said hell no you stupid.

def not ok, red flags all over the place

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Let her go, and while she’s there, pack her stuff for her.

Or your own, if you’re happy to be the one moving out.

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You sir should grow a pair and refer to her as your ex wife….so
Erinyes loving someone from a distance works better in the long run.

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Dude…you know how silly that sounds…
Trust your instincts.

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Yeah ummmm nope makes no sense at all

Wtf did I just read? Three times and now wants to go"chill" with a train of dudes she just met? Run away don’t walk. Go get yourself into a better existence.

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are you for real?!! you know the answer to this…. tell her bye bye and don’t come back

Hell no. It’s not ok. I would never ever even consider doing something like that if I was even in a relationship but only terrible women can get good men apparently…

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It’s not only women that have to know their self worth na.
Men do to… u deserve much better than what ur selling for… tell wifey take a hike. While she at the concert move her bags outside one time… this is nonsense… don’t put up with this.

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Is it just a group of guys she’s going with? or is it a group of men and women and you’re just focusing on the men since she has previously cheated ?
Either way, I would ask her if you could go with her. See what she says about that.

But honestly, this sounds super weird. Why is another man paying for HER campsite ? Since she has already cheated, it’s no wonder you are concerned about this. Major red flags

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If you don’t trust her, leave.

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She’s cheated on you 3x and you’re still with her? What you allow will continue.

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From experience… RUN!!! Friends my ass and she doesn’t want you to go! Red Flags all over this post I’m sorry your going through this, after 3 times she’s going to think that nothing between y’all will change… and she will continue

Your relationship is over and you are being used. Pick up whats left of your dignity, love yourself and wait for a good woman. Chicks like this make women look bad :roll_eyes:

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I think you already know the answer to this…

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Sounds completely fine, if you are a gamma cuck soy sucking simp

Oh hell no!If you love her then put your foot down!

Cheated on you 3 times kick her out.

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Throw the whole girl away

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She must be supporting you and whole household, while you sit on your butt, not wanting to work. After 3 times you couldn’t care, as long as you keep your free ride !!

She cheated on you 3x. One of the times she cheated on you at the SAME venue??? Lol I’m sorry to laugh, but c’mon…you already know the answer to this.

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Leave her! Also, from my experience men rarely do something for women without expecting something in return so I would wonder why a guy paid for her campsite for her that’s a little fishy to me so on the ground alone I would be like oh no you can’t go she should not want to go to a thing like this with anybody but really you or close close close friends of hers. This is a recipe for disaster. If she’s cheating on you three times you definitely need to leave for your own dignity and sanity. Best of luck to you!

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Not ok big time. Let her go change your locks and be done. Once a cheater always a cheater

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Well, it’s about to be 4🤦‍♀️

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You need to love yourself and find someone that loves you

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Is this for edc? Those campsites are expensive as hell and likely sold out. She’s sharing a tent

Sounds like the tent gonna be shaking a lot…And not from the wind…

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Jesus wept :woman_facepalming:t3: you already know the answer! Let her go, change the locks and give yourself all the love you’ve been giving her :heart:

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Honey get a ticket and show up…

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Tell her if she goes not to come back

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throw her ash in the trash

She’s totally playing u!! U should dump her immediately!!

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No, it is not acceptable.

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Ask if you can go w .
If she says no there’s your answer or tries to manipulate you into not going after saying yes PLAY YOUR PART. I mean play it find a screenshot of the ticket or a confirmation let her know you’ve paid for your ticket & your coming along & if she gets mad or upset there’s you answer again.

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Not even sure why he asked. Like ditch the bitch and move on

Just change the locks while she’s gone🤷🏼‍♀️

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Suggest going with and base your ultimate conclusion on her response.

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You are really asking after she has cheated on you 3 times. Sorry but after the first time it falls on you

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Go with her. Otherwise nope

It makes ZERO sense. Tell her to go and while she’s gone pack her shit and take it to her momma’s. No explanation needed

You don’t sound like a stupid person

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She sounds like she doesn’t want to be a wife.

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Yea nope for 3 reasons… 1ST AND FORMOST SHE CHEATED 3XS…
2nd your not going with her
And 3rd she doesn’t know them outside FB. Sex trafficking and human trafficking are real things so there is that and they could also be weirdos and try to kill her :woman_shrugging: but I wouldn’t be concerned about the rape possiblity being as she seems to like being easy :woman_facepalming:

Ummmmm…NO! She is out of her mind if she feels that is appropriate!

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Yeah, that will give you time to move your stuff out in peace.

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The more important is, is this a question? :thinking:

I agree with above responses… act like you wanna come too and it will be a great time and excited and if she pushes back on you going then there is an alternative motive … probably having a train ran on her but ya know what do I know lol

You’ve caught her cheating on three occasions, and she’s still your wife?

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Nope! Disrespectful in my eyes!

:joy: Tell her to pack all her shit whilst she at it :joy: WTF!

Tell her to go & don’t come back :rage:

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:joy::joy::joy: dude let her go!
And then help her pack allllll her shit to take with her!

I don’t even believe this is a real story. Are you serious? No!

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Wow wow ummmmmmm why are you still with her??? Shes planning a whole fuck fest and your not invited dude! I’d say get out yesterday ago! Sucks but damn…
Say it with me Slut…

She can move into her tent :camping: :laughing:

She’s only cheated on you 3 times and you forgave her, what’s 1 more time?:woman_shrugging:

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Why don’t you go along?

Really if you let her go she’s gonna cheet on you come on man you need a real woman

Omg she is feeding you a bunch of BS. She shouldn’t even want to go.

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Nope. Why would U Even want to be with someone like that tbh . Leave mate U deserve better then some nasty " wife "

This can’t be real. Just for entertainment

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Goodbye wife. I’d be saying if you go don’t bother coming back. Not to mention she could be putting herself in a dangerous position.

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You are her doormat!!! Ditch the witch and find yourself someone worthy.

She’s a cheater and a liar, so how do you know that these guys are really strangers? Why would a stranger pay for some married woman’s campsite if he doesn’t have any interest in her or expect payback??? Does he even know that your wife is married? How & why can you trust someone who has already shown you exactly who & what she is?!? :triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post:

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Deff red flags… run :man_running:

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Why not go with her?

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She cheated 4 times … including this time!

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Nobody can control what anybody else does. You only control your behavior. So, choose how you move now. Personally, I’d file for divorce. Who cares what she does now?

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Sry but shes cheated before, so ur a dope to still have her in ur life.

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Dangerous, this is how women disappear and or get killed

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No it says a lot about her lack of faithfulness and lack of honesty

Nope nope nope. No question. Are Divorce papers free online?

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If you even have to ask this question I feel sorry for you. LEAVE HER!!!

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No no no thats not okay.

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Ok but how will it prove her love and loyalty when you have no idea what she’s actually doing there?! That doesn’t make sense, It’s actually extremely suspicious and weird for her to even want to go without you. If she wants to prove her love and loyalty maybe she needs to plan a weekend getaway or something with just you two and not with a bunch of dudes she doesn’t know :woman_shrugging:t2:
Total red flag to me.

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After the 3rd time she would be long gone. Why are you staying to let her destroy you like this? I don’t understand how women and men can stay with someone who constantly cheats on them :pensive: maybe I just don’t understand and I truly hope I never have too.

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Three times?! You’ve been more than accommodating and she’s taking advantage of that at this point. She’s made her position clear. Time to let this one go unless you want to keep violating your boundaries.

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I’m sorry but this is for your own good. Watch this video

Then empty out your 401k, hire a divorce lawyer and bang some escorts.

Oh my God …. Come on , be a man .

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Your tolerating it so she’s just walk-in all over you …you sound like a dumbass for even asking man the hell up

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She goes then you should be done with her open your eyes

Yeah i wouldn’t trust it

That is not okay at all. You are being taken advantage of at this point. No woman who has a significant other should be going out to spend the night with multiple men she barely knows. She could get killed, raped, or she’s cheating on you. Straight cheating on you and you are just ignoring it and letting her walk all over you. I would have been left.