You already know, you do you
brahā¦ once a hoe, always a hoe. Let her go an change the locks
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Nope ! If she wants to go that bad , you just need to back your sleeping bag and go enjoy a music festival or nobody goes
Sounds like you have an open relationship and sheās going to get some at this concert. 
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Throw away the wife and start over! Iād be livid
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This is a troll post or soundās like your wife wants too be single and have a hot girl summer Emily McConville
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You must be kidding!! No way you can really be that gullible or naive??? If youāre so called wife wants to go to a concert with a group of guys without you wake up and hit the ground running
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Nope. Not unless you go too. Sounds like sheās already planning on cheating again.
Tell her yāall will go together! If her response is defense saying why you donāt trust me?? Then something is up. If she loves you she is going to want to experience that joy of the festival with you not some guys that she works with.
Wifeās a hooker. Might wanna dump her and start over.
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Sorry but if she done it before and know Ur not happy about it and still going then she canāt love u mate xxxx if this was me I never think off going with any mails if I know them or not and if I was and if my man was not happy then that a no no xxxxx
Fuck no, sheās cheated on you 3 timesā¦ thereās no trust!
Leave her man thatās stupid af
Let her go and then when sheās due home make sure all her stuff is in a pile on the front lawn with a note telling her she needs to leave now 
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Yeh no! Not a good idea, sheās keeping her options open. Either dont let her go or go with her or even better yet if sheās willing to put herself in the same situations of somthing possibly happening then I think you should leave her (not that Iām saying it would be easy) if she wants to do shit like that and not take you with her sheās just going to cheat again sorry man itās just a thing
Boy if this post doesnāt show how double standards workā¦ If it was a woman posting All the other women on here will be screaming about how awful the guy is and how she should leave him so fastā¦ Not even stopping to speculate that it may be a troll postā¦ Yet, because this is coming from a manās viewpoint a lot of you assume that itās a troll post, that it canāt be real, as if women canāt be shitty as wellā¦ Some are even laugh reactingā¦ I hope for the posters sake that this is a troll post and not someone being hurt by the person that they love.
Just throw the whole wife out!
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Sheās going to cheat again lol tents festival alcohol mostly likely drugs and strange men off fb what a great mix.I would have dumped her 3 cheats ago
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Let her go. While sheās gone pack up her stuff and change the locks. Set her stuff outside and do your research on line about divorce in your state. In FL as long as there arenāt children involved you can file online and have it completely taken care of for like $450 bucks.
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Sounds like sheās upgraded to MĆ©nage a Trois 
Your problem is staying with her after she cheated BUT THREE TIMES??? Your own fault buddy!
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Is it okay for my wife to go to a musical festival with a bunch of guys she doesn't really know?
Are you a husband or jail warden?
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Hell to the NO!!! negative ghost rider! I mean seriously would she be okay with you going for a whole weekend with a group of females you met on Facebook and didnāt know?
In fact tell her your pretty excited and took off work and going with,that will shock her!!
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No itās not. Can you not go?
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Thatās a huge red flag especially if she did it three times already.
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No.
The only thing that proves is she isnāt worth it.
Not okay, ever !
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I wouldnāt be comfortable with my partner going to something like this with strangers. Thatās asking for problems. Not just the fact that she cheated. Thatās a whole separate issue at hand.
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Yeah. 3 times is a bit much 
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Absolutely not! When you get married you do those things with your partner typically before children but especially with your partner! It may be different if she was with her female friends and wasnāt spending the night but spending the night at a concert with another man is very inappropriate.
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Youāre about to get played.
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To me thatās so disrespectfulā¦
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Put it this way. If the roles where reversed he may as well pack everything and not come back.
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Hell No! Get rid of her . your life will be better. She is being very disrespectful to you.
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Find your self respect and leave her, no one deserves this level of muggery
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What in the heĀ”lllll
Umā¦how is this a question.
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Nope. Sheās obviously going to do something fishyš
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Leave her, what a narcissist 
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Internet friends are real friends, but thatās the only good thing I have to toss in about this situation.
I donāt see how she thinks this will prove her loyalty, you need to have an open conversation with her about WHY youāre not okay with this and proceed with caution. Good luck!
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No. And the fact that sheās probably trying to manipulate you with the ol āwell if you trust me it shouldnāt be a problemā bullshit. Why donāt you book yourself a little overnight shin dig and let her sit home and wonderā:person_shrugging:
No itās not okay. Itās also dangerous
Hell no, she knows what sheās doing. Donāt trust it.
Okay, so being in this group it makes me curious. Are you and your wife both women? Is she bi-sexual and has she cheated with men before or was it only women that sheās cheated with?
I donāt think I would like it if my guy went to a music festival with all chicks, especially if he had a reputation of cheating on me. But everyone is different and I think my above questions would help me better understand if you should be concerned or not.
Sounds like a whole lot of temptation. Tell her youāll get a ticket as well and go that would be the true way to prove her love
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Sounds like she should just be single
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Um excuse me what!? NOOOOOOOOOO
She cheats on you once, shame on her, cheats on you 2 and 3 times, shame on you for giving her one too many chances! If she did it 3 times already, sheāll do it again! 
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#inkcarcerationproblems
you are not going to keep her from having sex with other people by controlling her behavior. If you think she might cheat, thereās nothing you can do about it. Sheās going to cheat whether she goes to the concert or not. Itās not about the concert. Itās about your relationship
she clearly does not have the same expectation of monogamy as you do.
you canāt force her to. All you can do is try to put a leash on her. And then sheās with you because you leashed her and not because she chooses actively to be monogamous with you
is there a very high likelihood that sheās going to cheat on you at this concert? Yes. But thereās also a very high likelyhood that sheās going to cheat on you again in the future whether thereās a concert or not. Itās not the venue, itās her morals, her priorities, and her decisions.
whether she goes to the concert or not is irrelevant. you canāt guarantee fidelity by limiting other peopleās behavior
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You are not controlling or manipulative being concerned about your already cheating wife going out to a sausage fest. The amount of people who change their tune because itās a male asking a question is astonishing.
He deserves the same answers as what half of you would give to a woman who has a cheating man. Quick to put your 2 pence in until itās no longer ārelateableā
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Thatās a big bucket of yikes for everyone
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Drop her. She is scandalous.
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Dude. How on earth could this prove her loyalty?? Are you full of money or something?? Cuz clearly sheās using you
I canāt believe this is an actual question. This is called gaslighting
Why are you even asking this? No itās not okay. Why donāt you go with her.
Why would you even really have to ask this question to a group of strangers? Of course its not ok. Lord.
Ummm dump her or go with her to concert no exceptions
No itās not appropriate and itās inconsiderate. Thereās clearly no trust so why are you still with her? Do yourself a favour x
Why ask the question? You already know in your heart the answer, get a divorce lawyer, no concert is more important than a marriage.
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Sounds like sheās about to cheat on you again.
Please leave. You deserve better.
Down to trust at the end personally mine wouldnt be going she wouldnt want to but I havenāt got the right to stop her if she did
Dude she already cheated. What makes this time any different. Loyalty and trust are gained and she clearly hasnāt done that all. I would be furious and if her going to a concert is more important then respecting you and your marriage. Then you need to invest in a lawyer.
Why wouldnāt you go with her? If sheās proven to cheat any other timeā¦
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Why are you with her still
Cheated on you 3 times 
omg she said of been gone
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She belong to the streets
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Take these red flags and run to a divorce lawyer,then have her mentally evaluated as thatās dangerous and crazy and just proves her loyalty. Tell her your going if she says no thereās your answer.
Dude leave that chicken in the dust 
. The fact that you even asked this question means that itās no good
Tell her you want to go with her
Why are you still with her after she cheated three timesš¤¦ Thatās not a her bad anymore thatās a You Dumb for staying on your partš
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helllllllllllllllllllllbigfu-kingNO just leave her, going to the same place, with randoms, that she cheated on you already does not prove loyalty just proves she has the audacity lmao
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Iād be gone by the time she got back
Are you dense? I just canāt anymoreā¦
Find yourself a new wife !!!
I say this as respectfully as I possibly can, RUN. As fast as you can, you deserve someone so much better than a person who has cheated 3 timesā¦
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Run, why didnāt you leave already? Sheās done it 3 timesā¦itās gonna happen again
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Are you stuck on stupid?
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Why are you still married to this woman?
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Ummm No. Especially with people she doesnāt know and with a history of cheating. My husband would never allow it but then again I would never go to something like that without him . Truthfully, that just shows that she doesnāt value your opinion or your marriage at all! She literally has no respect for you at all! If I were you I would leave the marriage.
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Thatās just disrespectful
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Sounds like sheās going to have a gang bang. I would say itās definitely not okay and you deserve more and should leave immediately anyways. She sounds like a nasty little girl. Ewe.
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Is this Blue Ridge Rock Festival?
Hell no, why would she even think itās okay? Is she stupid!?! Sheās a married ass woman that has no business spending a weekend with unknown men she meet on Facebook at a music festival. Throw her ass to the streets where she belongs getting smashed by multiple men as she wants. Shows no respect for first off, you! Or her marriage. Stupid of her to even think it would or should be ok. Sorry not sorry for the blunt truth.
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They gonna run a train on her ass. ā¦lol
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shes a slut bro step up ur game she got not respect for ya smartin up lol
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Sounds like a Fuck fest
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Like even if she was a loyal person, thatās a SAFETY concern! Who goes places like this with strangers?!
But run. Fast and far away.
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Cheated 3 times? Ditch the bitch.
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Doesnāt sound to good to me just saying
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Yea let her goā¦and while she gone get all that bitches shit the fuck out and change your locks and your number. You already know the answer to your own question. Fuck that noise.
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I hope this is fake. 
if not, please leave her and go and be happy and find someone who truly values you. This chick is no good.
Im guessing Aftershock? Dude shes gonna get rocked in more ways than 1. Sorry 
Lmao leave. Shell cheat again
Sheās going to cheatā¦
In my opinion: sheās already cheated 3 TIMES!!! I think you probably already know where this is going. Really you need to leave her. Youāre worth so much more than that
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Sure, let her go!!!
But,send ALL of her sh*t with her because I can about guarantee sheās stiLL cheating and never stopped 
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Ask her if sheād be alright if you done the same thing 
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You already know the answer to this!
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Very strange question you have for what obvious thing. Whatās going on with you
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