If you need to ask on here, then you deserve everything you get!
Hell naw it’s wrong.
your significant other is cheating on you. dump his lard ass.
Yea you in deep shit
Snapchat deletes automatically
You already know the answer. F**k them off. #cheater100%
Smh… emotionally cheating… 
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Sounds like a red flag
Not unless its a sibling, parent, cousin , or uncle/ aunt.
3some is the only answer
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Leave the bastard ASAP.
That all seems realllllll shady
Somebody’s asking for it
NO! Kick his shady ass to the curb!
Go away little boy
Secure the Bank account.
Cut your losses.
Step.
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Thats definitely a problem
If it was mine he would be gone 
Nope . Your there for that.
No that’s not ok, but what was the convos like?
why can’t he sit and spend time with you?
Would the chatty spouse like it if it was the other way around? If answer is yes, time to run.
Yeah it’s 100% suss.
He’s cheating. Bye!!!
Honey come on 
you already know the answer to this question. If he wasn’t doing anything wrong then he wouldn’t delete things. If you’re in a relationship where you’re that blinded then you need to get out anyways.
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Not acceptable at all.
If he deleted then there is something to hide.
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All too familiar. Hiding. It’s fucking annoying and I don’t get how people can’t just be honest and say they want someone else.
If he deleted it all after the fact that you found it, there’s the big red flag.
There is absolutely no reason they should be snap texting all hours of the night regardless. Where’s his respect for you?! I’m so sorry. You’re worth more than that crap!
No. The fact that it all got immediately deleted so you COULDN’T SEE IT tells you it’s not innocent.
Ya, NO!. his 
would already be sitting on the front porch!
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Why is it always a he? She can be the one chasing too
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Cheating starts with sneaky conversation. Most people use snap chat cause it goes away after a little. Don’t trust it.
Big absolutely not. Would he want you to be up all night having similar conversation with someone of the opposite sex?
I wish someone had given me this advise when I was 16 
I’m still haunted by all those awful memories, I’m 31 now … Honey leave… Gaurenteed you can do 1000 times better 
Strongs to you
That’s a “NO “ from me
He is lying to you. DO NOT let him gaslight you and make you think that you are just CRAZY or OVERREACTING!!! He is playing you sis. Pack his shit and have it outside waiting for him!
Nope nope and nope!!
Oh hell no, not acceptable
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He’s cheating on you
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You already knew the answer to this before u even came here with it. It’s always gonna be a no, especially when it comes to hiding things.
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I hate snapchat can honestly never trust anyone on that thing.My ex hid PAGES of girls he was sexting on snap chat. I snap people too but I stop before bed and my SO can look into my phone whenever he feels like (he doesn’t ever but he could if he wanted to) and he doesn’t really use it at all. But when we first started dating I realized just how much of a trigger that stupid app is to me. But no if they’re hiding messages while they assume you’re sleeping then thats sketchy
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Why do you think he keeps his phone locked ? Hell to the no !!
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Aw hell naw shut that shit down or just throw the man away
Nope… that’s inappropriate and I would not allow it. How would he like you doing that
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O my 
leave or know u been cheated on online affairs are hard bc u are being cheated on w someone that u n maybe the other person has never even met ugh I feel for u so sorry u going thru this
I think you already know the fuckin answer to this! 
As long as they are not cheating on you yes.
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No ma’am! Female friends are one thing but not all night text AND deleting after you found out! NO MAAM! Even if they are JUST friends, why didn’t he tell you about her, and he needs to draw a line on when it is appropriate to talk/text and be mindful that he’s in a relationship.
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You already know the answer to that question.
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That person ur with is either cheating or looking to cheat.
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Cheating isn’t always sex, it’s also secret conversations.
I wouldn’t like that at all I think it is okay to have friends but it’s not okay to hide it from you and not be honest if he is hiding talking to her I’d be hurt and he isn’t being honest to you. If it feels shady to you your guts are always right.
Hes cheating…period.But you know that.You dont need strangers on fb to tell you that.You deserve better…
Still cheating, if you have to delete proof that’s cheating
Talking ok. All night and being secretive about it not cool. Talk to him about this and share how you feel and discuss your thoughts and discuss what you consider cheating.
And he woke up this morning?
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Talking and being friends with the opposite sex is fine. However, being shady and deleting everything after you found out about it is not. I would definitely sit down with him and have an extremely long talk with him. Make sure to voice your concerns and tell him how the whole situation made you feel. If he gets defensive and tries to call you controlling major red flag.
He’s cheating I’d be done.
if they have to delete it they are already cheating
Nah secrets in general are just not ok
nah lol been there done that. when i was in that situation i just asked. i didn’t like the answer, but knowing was better than assuming.
No I’d not be happy whatsoever especially with deleting stuff if there’s nothing to hide then there’s no reason to delete stuff he would be fuming if you was on your phone to next man all night the cheeky fucker don’t settle for this shit and allow him to dismiss his shitty behaviour either if she’s so cool why hasn’t he introduced her to you already
No No absolutely No! He’s wrong!
Do the same find someone else lol.
I mean I Snapchat my friends of both genders some my husband doesn’t actually know just knows of. My best friend of 12 years is a male who has never met my husband or child and there is never an issue. Said friend also works graveyards so that’s really the only time we get to talk. Deleting it after you found out though is not a good sign.
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I think you already know the answer if you’re coming to Facebook to ask. Be confident in what you see and feel, trust your gut.
No hes a cheater get rid of him
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Nope. Hard no. The only people my husband has on Snapchat are our kids, our nephews, me, my sister, a few of our mutual friends. I’d blow my top if he was doing that, and then deleting it on top of everything. If he wants to discuss his anime, the games he plays, or anything else, he can damn well speak to me. 
Girl don’t b naive lol. You know deep down there’s more to it then them just being cool or sharing same interest.
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More important question… DO YOU think its ok for your spouse to talk to members of the opposite sex all night?
No not okay. If he doesn’t want you to do it. Then its really not okay…
Time for a new spouse
Definitely not okay.
He is cheating, love. And if he isn’t, he soon will. His eyes are drifting, his mind is drifting, his heart is drifting. Do yourself the favor of not being an anchor, and let him go.
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Um…nope. not appropriate
If you expressed stuff like that hurts you and he still does it, cut him off. Thats not okay and hes manipulating you.
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& I share this while being in a relationship 
Girl, kick him to the curb. 
If it was innocent then why would he delete it? Your partner should want to do everything to make you feel secure, not act in a way they wouldn’t want you to act and then say “don’t you trust me?”
I’d get a divorce. I’m not sure why this is a question. If it upsets you then it is absolutely not okay!!
No. He’s engaging in a emotional relationship… leave
Nope. Some smells 
there
Ummm…that would be an emphatic NO!!! unless it’s his daughter, mother or sister😊
If its nothi g he wouldnt be deleting the messages. He wants to cheat.
If they were just friends he would not have deleted it.
You only delete things that you can’t share. You only lose sleep for a person you love, or are lusting after. You already know what’s going on. There are few things more obvious than this.
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No it’s not ok. If he has a lock on his phone, he is cheating !
Get rid of him!!
Hell.no… my ex.did this then said.inwas crazy cause theres.nothingnhe was hiding he just deletes.messages after he talks to.ppl. even family. Notttt he’s hiding alot.of shit.in my eyes
oh HELLLLLLL NO! If he didn’t have anything to hide he wouldn’t be hiding everything by deleting it all
Leave him. He’s hiding something by deleting it and doesn’t doesn’t respect you.
If you have to keep it a secret from your partner you are up to no good.
If you express your conserns and he
Dismissis you, says sorry but contines, he’s gas lighting and he could care less about how you feel.
People like this please themselves first above all else
I can’t build my future with a man I don’t trust.
i’d say it’s strange women on the Internet or me, your choice, but if it happens again after choosing me I walk!
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No, Love… Not at all. That’s a HUGE red flag!
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I had no issue with my late fiancé talking to anyone.
Maybe you should be more worried as to why he hid it from you
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Oh hell no… Drop him, definitely has something going on there
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That’s a red flag def let him know that has to stop
If you keep from your partner, it’s cheating. Even if he isn’t having a physical affair, it is definitely an emotional one. Emotional affairs turn into physical affairs and, to me, regardless of emotional or physical, it’s cheating.
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He may have hid it from you if you are insecure. It’s easier to delete than to answer a thousand questions about basic conversations. But only you know your relationship to know if it seems off.
Childish situation. I’d say hell to the no! But any man who wants to spend time talking to another individual all night and not me doesn’t deserve me.
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If they deleting they be hiding something
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run and don’t look back
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Is this even a real question??? Good lord. where is people’s common sense at these days? Let’s use the time we come to social media asking an assanine question by packing our shit and leaving. 
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It woulda been fine if he didn’t delete everything after