I don’t think anything is going on there. Most people don’t sleep fully clothed. I’m sure you’re making a mountain out of a molehill. He doesn’t see his daughter that way.
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If a mom can sleep next to her kids. Why cant a dad? You’re being weird about it.
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My dad slept in tighty whities and never touched me when I was in bed with him
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Is it not like sleeping In shorts? 
Your the one who is weird for thinking of it other than a dad cuddling his daughter 
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I’m more bothered by the way he’s treating you, in a home that you’re paying for? You have to keep quiet and cower to him? I would re-think the entire relationship.
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Why do some individuals have to sexualize everything
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You should have a baby with him. Then you’ll get it.
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Anyone saying that it’s weird, y’all the ones MAKING it weird. That’s his daughter. Boxers are just like shorts, so I’m.nit sure why some of you are saying he should have pants on, I mean, he does.
I can see his anger towards you when you ask that.
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I don’t understand why you would think it’s weird.You sure you not jealous of his relationship with his Daughter referring to her has the Kid.
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Dude that’s her dad 
honestly YOU are the weird one
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You’ve got something wrong with you 
Christ
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Naked …I’d be like woah. He has boxers on and there I nothing perverted about that. Stop sexualizing everything !!!
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Yeah cuz u have no business getting upset. I have a toddler boy and I sleep in a nightie. My oldest slept with me on and off till he was 7 and I wore whatever I wanted to bed.
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You are out of line. He should remove you as an obstacle.
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Umm. That’s her dad. I sleep by my son naked, granted I won’t when he becomes curious, but I breastfed and birthed this boy. There’s nothing weird about a body…
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Not weird, he’s her dad
Your wrong for thinking its wrong, maybe even jealous of their relationship.
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Hmm. Look for ways to enjoy his children without bringing it up. In a lot of households believe it or not that’s pretty normal
STOP SEXUALIZING LITTLE KIDS… YOU are the weird one.
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Yes you’re wrong here! That’s his DAUGHTER! Stop sexualizing kids! It’s no different than a mom sleeping next to & cuddling her son in her underwear & a sports bra or t-shirt. I’d have gotten angry and kicked you out too!
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What is wrong with you. So when it’s hot and I sleep in my boxers and crop top with my 2 little boys in my bed is that a problem?
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Would your opinion be different if mom was snuggled up to her 5 year old son in her underwear?
There is NOTHING wrong with this. It’s a dad sleeping in the same bed as his daughter. Parents co sleep all the time. Don’t make it weird.
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This is the dumbest thing I’ve heard in weeks tbh lmao get over yourself, you’re weird for thinking it’s weird. Weirdo.
Today this page has absolutely made me lose all faith in humanity. Prior to this one alluding to a father sleeping next to his child being wrong or a pedophile another one revealed a bunch of women that would have led the charge during the witch hunts. God help us all
Reevaluate your situation sounds like your Unhappy in this.havent heard his side always two sides.sit down an talk with him.if your issues are still there you know what your answer is.
You don’t have kids do ya ? Nothing wrong with a child cuddling their parent .
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My ex still lets my 8 year old sleep in bed with him when she’s there. I don’t have a problem with it, that’s her dad. He wears boxers to bed
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You’re wrong for thinking like that nasty.
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You’re the weird one mate stop sexualising a dad loving and cuddling his little girl, you got issues uce
My question is, why do you feel so uncomfortable by it? What is your thought process in your head?
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You are weird. That’s his KID
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He shouldn’t get angry. Just when the kids are there. Unless he’s given a reason to be angry. But yeah that’s completely normal and innocent. Have you had some sort of past trauma in your life in which that would make you feel weird? Bc it is completely normal.
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Also, one of my daughters father’s bathes both of them, dresses them and helps with clothes, swim suits and sincerely all over. I don’t worry because it’s called fathering your children.
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No wonder his annoyed…. His trying to sleep and cuddle his daughter and your judging him for being a dad? Boxers are boxer SHORTS…. His not being weird it’s just what he wears to bed 
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You’re making it weird. Does he take her swimming? Swim trunks are basically the same thing only different fabric.
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Something is definitely wrong with you . It’s his child I can understand him getting mad about you saying something. You will loose if you try to come between him and his child
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Boxers are like shorts. So many men sleep in boxers. Its his daughter. My daughter is 5 and when she goes to her dad’s she sleeps with him. And I know for a fact he would never do anything to her. Shit at 5 alot of kids still shower with thier mom. You must not have kids of your own.
You don’t see an issue with the other half of your post though…? He takes his outbursts out on you… etc etc ? That alone you should be deciding what you will and will not tolerate in your life on how you want to be treated because it doesn’t sound like it’s an ideal situation.
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I sleep in a tank top and shorts no bra… my son is 11 and special need and ends up in my bed after nightmares most nights… so should I start sleeping with a bra on??
As much as I loved my Dad I would feel creeped out if my Dad wanted to sleep with me this way.
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Hes covered…
Im sorry but sounds like he gets mad at u because ur brain has some serious issues…
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Literally totally normal. I mean hes covered is he not? I totally understand why he gets mad. Sounds like your trying to accuse him of being a pervert towards his child when that is not whats going on at all.
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I don’t see a problem and Im super modest. Your children are extensions of you and you view them as such. Nothing sexual.
No, it’s not weird. It would be different if he was completely naked but I think that’s all most men sleep in are boxers.
As a mother I don’t see anything wrong with it , I feel like fathers can not even comprehend their babies as something sexual. So why would it be wrong ? You see it as sexual because you are not the mother , sounds like not a mother at all .
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It’s you who’s weird! Ur the one thinking that way! I’d have told you to leave as well
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I think maybe OP is worried that Dads member may slip out 
I don’t think the problem is that he’s in underwear.
Old school boxers don’t have a closed/contained front, and this may be why she’s worried.
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What’s wrong is that you making it weird and uncomfortable. Of course he’s going to get mad cause you’re basically accusing him of the worst unspeakable thing. I don’t blame him for asking you to leave. Just leave already seriously.
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Better sit there like a good girl then.
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I don’t see anything wrong with it. I slept with my middle son until he was 6 and that is when it was time to force him into his own bed.
Did you know when little girls are babies they shower with either one of their parents? 
my goodness lady, get a grip.
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If you had a 5 year old son, would you sleep in underwear and a shirt while
In bed with your kid? I do, and see no problem with it. Cause that’s pretty equivalent to a male sleeping in just underwear. (Which my husband does) We also have a 1 year old daughter who breastfeeds at night so sometimes my boobs are out. If you don’t make something sexual, it just won’t be. 
You need some therapy because if you dealt with SA these are common emotions of mistrust.
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Tbh I find it weird that you find it weird it’s his kid nothing weird about it
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You’re sexualizing a child which is wrong or being jealous of her ? If you think your boyfriend is a pedophile than you need to leave him/ go heal your own trauma that’s making you think and feel this way ! You are wrong for this. His children Come first and if you plan on having children with him, you will respect that!
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Stop turning a father sleep next to his child sexual. You wouldn’t complain if he were a mother
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No offense, but just curious if an adult man was inappropriate with you as a child. It happened to me and it made me have unrealistic boundaries with my 2 sons. I was so worried about crossing the line. Seems to me you’re a little sensitive to it.
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My son cuddles up to me all the time he’s 4 almost 5 
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Something is wrong with people like you, sexualizing everything. I can’t believe he just told you to leave his house rather than telling you to gtfo of his whole damn life.
Something is wrong and it isnt you. Stand your ground
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It’s only weird if you make it weird, which you are…
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He should probably just break up with you for sexualizing that. You just sound jealous that you don’t have his full attention and are looking for ways to break it up.
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Not wierd. My husband sleeps next to both our kids in boxers.
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If she’s older than 10, I’d ask questions.
Something everything isn’t commenting or doesn’t seem to realize is that it’s not odd for you to wonder. Most sexual abuse occurs within the family and is usually the father.
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I think it’s sick & disturbing that you even think like that and I would want you to leave too:woman_shrugging:t3: you’re sexualizing him with his daughter & that’s just disgusting & disrespectful on so many levels 
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Here’s a line:
Is she expressing that she is uncomfortable and she has communicated it with him? Is he forcing her to sleep in the same bed with him and not her own bed?
If the answer is no then, let him enjoy his daughter wanting to co-sleep with him as young kids do.
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Do you know how many dads give their daughters baths when they’re babies and toddlers??
This is insane!!! Grow. Up!!! You obviously don’t have children!!! You’re the problem. I’d be mad too!
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I would tell you to leave too.
“This guy I’m dating for a year” is he your boyfriend or what? You pay bills too?
Maybe you should be with someone that doesn’t have kids because I don’t think you understand how this works
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Nothing wrong with it.
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Everyone should be diligent when it comes to children however, this is not weird. We cosleep with our littles ones and my husband sleeps in his boxers and I sleep in a T-shirt and underwear. I’m assuming you don’t have children but unless you see something more concrete I think this is something that’s in your own head. 
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If you wanna be a single Mom, just say that.
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uh what? why would that ve weird?
Yeah it’s normal. But he shouldn’t be angry too. Anyway, it’s his kid, totally fine.
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It’s not weird, you are…
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On another note… If the outbursts and disagreements are common over his children, you either should go to parenting classes together so you can be on the same page or be done with the relationship because it doesn’t seem you know how to come to agreements on parenting
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I think you’re the one deranged
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You sound like your just a jealous girlfriend. Your jealous when his little girl comes over.
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That’s inappropriate to me. I don’t like it.
Maybe he should atleast put some shorts on or something? Coming from a daddys girl who slept in my dad’s bed til like 12 he could dress a little more appropriately 
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I sleep in underwear and a truck short when I have my son. My bf sleeps in his boxers. I ain’t find nothing wrong. I basically grew up with my grandparents sleeping half naked.
It wouldn’t be any different if a mother was sleeping next to their child in just underwear. So tell me why you think it’s weird that a father is doing it
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Sounds like you have ptsd from something happening to you at a young age. I’d be more concerned if dad felt weird and uncomfortable his 5yo. That’s his babygirl. I’d be pissed if someone accused my husband of this cause he comforts his children.
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It’s not weird at all.
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My husband sleeps that way and if any of our kids are in the bed, it doesn’t change. What so different when moms do it but dads do it and it’s weird or suspicious! You need to look into yourself. He’s definitely in the right
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This isn’t the relationship for you for many reasons… move on
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Your the one making it weird.
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You are the problem bb
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You’re CRAZY!! STOP sexualizing something so innocent! You’re weird as hell seems like your jealous that he co sleeps with his child!
He should LEAVE you! Jealous of his child much?
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You sound a lil cuckoo 
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Erm your the one with the issues
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Why are you sexualizing this. I must be wrong too because I sleep in my underwear with my son and fiancé, my son will climb into our bed around 3/4am
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Do you take kids to the beach? I’m not sure if you’re aware people are naked under swim suits. I’d get angry too if some one implied I was sleeping inappropriately with my child too
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Maybe you have some traumas you need to reflect on, being why you’re bothered by it? It’s his child? I don’t know what you’re assuming or thinking by him sleeping next to his daughters with boxers? I sleep next to my daughter with a shirt and panties would that make you uncomfortable?
Regardless where the child sleeps, you need to ditch the boyfriend. You’re paying the rent, you aren’t married and he’s telling you to get out!? There’s already an abusive relationship!
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My son is 4 and he likes to cuddle in the recliner with me between my legs and he takes naps with me and I’m usually wearing panties and a tank top.
Yea you don’t have kids do you?
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Sleeping in boxers should be ok. As long as it’s sleeping. He is wearing clothes ,no different than shorts. That isn’t a problem, the problem is the verbal . You don’t need to stay with someone who yells at you. I don’t think it’s wrong but the louder they deny the more likely they are guilty of something
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You do need to leave… Let the single dad find a new gf that’s not a pervert
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Sounds like you’re jealous of their relationship, move on
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