Tell her my child not your’s keep out of it
That’s YOUR baby. You don’t let anyone else make you feel insecure about how you’re raising them and taking care of them. Especially if you’re a good mama. I’d be telling her to back off
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For whatever reason it sounds like shes tryin to find evidence so she can call cps on yall…id keep all children away from her… Some ppl use cps as a way of revenge or ive had them called on me just out of pure jealousy( they came and sae nothing wrong and closed the case and left) but still it was infuriating… So id stay away
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100% that is not okay. Firstly it’s insulting. Secondly it’s insinuating you cannot and do not care for your child properly. And if she’s taking pictures she’s documenting what in her mind is neglect.
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It is crazy how many mamas hold back…
Use your words, girl!!! Id go off on that woman. And shed never see my kid again
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I’d tell her to F off! That’s ridiculous. I would then never allow her to see my children or me again.
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Boundaries are important. Tell her if she doesn’t stop she won’t see the child. End. Of. Discussion.
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Dont allow this behavior. If she does this next time you go over there, grab your child up leave. It shouldnt be tolerated. Mama protect your child and your well being. Cut ties with your aunt
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Have you tried sitting down with her and talking? Maybe she had a bad experience as a child or with her children? I know it still isn’t right but maybe talking about it will help. Kids will be kids and are bound to have brusing and scratches from exploring things and running into things etc
Girl, I’ve been there! My aunt stuck her nose where it didn’t belong with my son…let’s just say the family get together have been much more peaceful without her!
I wouldn’t be bringing any kids around this crazy… family or not… she’s nuts. Cut her out now…
Keep your children away from her.
That is definitely not right I would be pissed and definitely not be seeing her anymore
Is she only an aunt because she can’t be a mom, sometimes my mother in law does this and I think it is because she I trying to relieve being the mom and can’t handle that it’s not her role any more but I psychological so it is not really her fault I think that this aunt is trying to make up for lack of parental ability by trying insert herself into things she doesn’t need to she probably doesn’t see anything wrong you need you significant other to talk to her their aunt their conversation
I wouldnt allow her around my child… Shes one whos going to call CPS thats why she takes pictures…
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She needs to back off…she is obviously up to no good! Visits done!
Ouch ! I wouldn’t even visit her next time… she has some psychological issues…keeps your kids away
I would be not letting her near my children at all ever… she’s over stepped BIG time!! She sounds crazy to me I have 6 kids of my own I have 6 nieces n nephew I would never check them over like thst what’s wrong with someone to do that!! Super annoying n I wouldn’t put up with it!!
I’d be so offended I wouldn’t bring her there.
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You already answered your own question… you think it’s going to potentially give your child and the child’s sibling a complex. Go with your gut instinct. Your job is to PROTECT so do that and stay away as much as possible if not altogether. Pictures ST never, I’d beat her A. Have you spoke to other family on that side about her? If that’s even a possibility you should and quietly to get their take on it. Is she in school for social work or a registered “mandated reporter”. Research whatever her field of work is and find out if she falls under the criteria for being a MR. She’s scary and toxic, exit 
her out of your life.
We would never visit again she might get off a lonely
That’s invasion of privacy for the kid I will put my foot down and tell her to stop and if she doesn’t she doesn’t get to see the kids that would make me really uncomfortable and really mad honestly it’s like she doesn’t trust your parenting
My children wouldn’t be with her wow nothing like setting kids up to hate the self and have self esteem issues
I wouldn’t be visiting that bitch. Tell her to mind her own business
First, stop going around. Second, what’s your SO think? Would he back you up for the insulting examine his sister does? Would he be ok with her thinking he’s abusive to the kids? Is it just you she’s insulting and making assumptions? Giirl! Speak up!! Be like uh, excuse me! Stop examining our children. If you have a freaking problem me, let’s talk it out now. Otherwise, back the f off.
I wouldn’t take my child around her! And I’d tell her why!! Look for CPS to show up at ur door if u do something she doesn’t like!!!
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Take the child from her kick her out and lock the door you dont need that toxic waste of shit in your life
I literally would freak out.
I would cut all ties w her. She’s looking for a fight or something to get you in trouble. Def not a good person.
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Yes definitely tell her to stop messing with your kids talk to her about tell her if she has something to say or ask to be direct with you and your partner I’m assuming she is your sister-in-law since you mentioned your daughter’s half-sister maybe it has something to do with her brother have you thought about that that’s why you should be direct and ask her and tell her to stop if she doesn’t stop taking both kids around her also talk to her about talking bad about the child’s mother especially in front of her if she has something to say about her to say it to her face and take it as a warning they too will be talking crap about you to in front of your daughter so keep that in mind I say if she doesn’t stop both checking the kids like that and gives you a good reason and talking crap about your partner’s daughter then don’t go visit her until she follows your rules about your kids but maybe she knows something about your kids if this is your sister same goes except for the part about your husband but it might be that someone told her something about your husband and she isn’t comfortable telling you
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I would be very offended and would not let it continue
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Uhm… stop visiting!
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She needs to fuck right off hey
Umm why are you continuing to have your child around this person and why haven’t you knocked her away from your child when she does this ? You are allowing this.
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That’s going to make your child feel insecure and start to wonder. I say your aunt needs to get a new hobby or you just stop bringing your kiddo around her.
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Cut that aunty out of your life before she really does make your life living hell 
this is just the Beginning girl it’ll only get worse.
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Auntie needs a swift kick in the backside
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Inform her you will not be visiting again unless she agrees to keep her hands and comments ( regarding BOTH children, and their mothers ) to herself.
Yep tell her to stop or you’ll stop your baby going over there and you’ll inform your baby’s siblings Mother too, she is way out of line…way, way out of line!!
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Your aunt sounds like someone who is just waiting for a reason to call cps on you. Especially if she’s taking pictures.
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Stop going around her.
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Tell her to back off. If she can’t or won’t don’t go over any more
Keep your child and yourself away from toxic people.
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She sounds really weird! Why is she trying to catalogue marks? Also speaking about a child’s mother in front of the child is wrong! I’d cut her out of their life’s
Id not let her around till she backed off period.
sounds like shes looking for a reason to call cps on you. honestly if i were you i wouldnt go around her at all, especially with my child. my 2 year old always has bruises, they fall, they run into things, theyre constantly hurting themselves. shes probably gonna try and say youre abusing your child if shes not already.
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Maybe don’t visit any more! She sounds like a bitch!
I wouldn’t visit her anymore. That’s just nuts.
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Punch her in the fupa
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Oh god if she examined my baby she would call DHS for sure- he is a little adventurer & constantly has bumps and bruises. Yes definitely tell her to stop- how fkn weird! I hope others think wtf too, like your family who are there
This is not normal or right!I’d put a stop to it one way or another sorry just my opinion…
if it was my child I’d have to go to jail cause that person would be getting a beat down…
Remind her that she is just an Aunt & if she continues to do this you will no longer visit her or that side of the family until this blatant harassment ceases
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What does she do for a living? Does she work in the child protective field? Have you or someone in the family had a case with cps?
Have you tried having a conversation with her?
Sound so familiar. My son had a head to to inspection and scrub (event the bag and clothes in the bad was washed) nails clipped, hair washed etc everytime he went to his grandma ( ex mother in law). His 5 and refuse to go there anymore🤔
It always made me feel that they thought my son is not cared for. Many water in the see and words said. We are now living in peace without her interference 
Somewhat have that going on with my family, idk why. The only point I wanna get across to them is I love my child as well. Ofc I am trying my very best to take care of him and make sure he is happy.
STOP GOING AROUND HER IMMEDIATELY!!! She’s trouble and will cause you drama. If your feeling she will give your daughter body image issues in the future listen your momma instinct!!!
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My mil did this is told her to back off then started to make sure my kid was not up to her standards everytime we went over there. She said “my granddaughter is not going to be no tom boy” ummm oookkkkkaayyyy …she stoped but I know hubby said something to her too
No it’s not normal why do u even allow her to do it
F that. My kid is always coveted in bruises and scrapes. They are kids ffs. This sounds like a red flag and I wouldn’t allow her to see said child anymore. Seems like they type 2 file false cps reports.
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I would stop visiting her
Id ask her what shes trying to prove, sounds like shes documenting for a custody battle, id back off for awhile, dont go near them.
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Keep her away!!! She can make false reports with those pics … This is not normal or okay. Stop your visits. Just always seem busy. Anything
I would avoid her
She’s trouble
This is not normal at all!! I have never had my kids examined by any family member.
My son’s grandma on his dad’s side is the same way. Since birth and he is now 8 almost 9 and she’s still that way. She even has made comments in front of him saying I don’t feed him or I don’t take care of him right. We moved 600+ miles away and every visit it’s the same. From the nails, the way his hair is cut, ears, his teeth and how he brushes them. Literally everything. It annoys me but I’m just thankful we no longer live in the same town so I don’t have to deal with it directly.