That’s wild. If you’ve been together 3 years and she’s been his bestie this whole time then why don’t you know her all that well? Why couldn’t you go on the trip too? Then you could get to know her. Fishy AF if you ask me 
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OMG he’s got his cake n eating it too…SMH…
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Your gut feeling is already telling you to move on…
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Nope my man isn’t going anywhere with any girl with out me I don’t care how long they have know each other.
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What the fuck!!! Since when does this shit evn exist to hv these kind of shit friend wn ur in a relationship… r u dumb or what… so stupid if you… grow up open ur eyes they are fucking each other hole…
You don’t know her… that’s fwb
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Hes broken get a new one 
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People so dumb. Dump his ass. Why bother posting this. You have your answer already. Stop seeking peoples opinions for validation for your own feelings.
I’ve been best friends with my best guy friend since I was 14, 30 now… he finally has a girl friend that isn’t jealous of our relationship, and my bf of 15 years is also friends with him… if they truly are just friends then you need to chill out, if you can’t handle him having a friend who’s a girl then you need to leave.
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i woulda been gone the second i found out 
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It’s more than just friends 
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Hell nah. Move on sis.
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I’d be gone!! In no way is that acceptable!!
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Well, the good thing is he’s only a boyfriend and you gain three years of what not to do experience. Time to move on sweetie and by thankful.
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So let me get this straight they have been besties longer than you have been on the scene and went away for a weekend you didn’t get invited and your butt hurt his not replying to your messages quick enough.
Have you even attempted to get to know her at all? Would you be kicking up a fuss if his bestie was a bloke? Have they given any reason for you to think something is happening between.
Stop being so insecure and let him have fun if your so worried get to know the bestie and then make a decision do not ask him to choose between you two because you won’t like the choice he will make
Every girl my ex was “friends” with always ended up being someone he had sex with.
Either before, during, or after our marriage. Take that as you will and apply it to your situation accordingly.
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Did other people go away with them? I mean I’m single and would go on trips with a guy best friend knowing nothing would happen but I understand your concern all the same
I don’t see any harm in it . My best male mate of nearly 40 years knew my former husband, and other boyfriends and I know the woman that he deeply loved but unfortunately she abused that love but she and I never had any problems mind you it was and if I was ever stupid enough to date again it’s a Must to accept my best male mate ! We have been through so so much together but with our exs that I wouldn’t continue seeing a man who was jealous of my best male mate plus if I commit I Do commit so no time for jealousy or insecurities of a new partner . My ex husbands best friend who lives overseas came and stayed with us a number of times and she was or is a really lovely woman
Naw I would leave he should not be going on any trips with another female it’s something else going on. It’s nothing wrong with having friends but going on trips is a no. Cause I know if it was the other way around he would be pissed the h3ll off.
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I had a boyfriend who had a girl just over to the house when we used to date who was supposedly his bestfriend she met me and our son and one day tried to have sex with him over at the house.
Erm. You’re being played babe. 
I don’t believe they are just friends. Either he’s sneaking around with her or he’s the world’s most disrespectful dummy. I would not give this guy another moment of my time. It’s time to get rid of the garbage!!!
Do the same to him see his reaction
Then dump his ass!!!
Time to pack his clothes
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If he regularly does things with her alone and doesn’t invite you, that’s an issue. You can have friends
but you should meet them with your partner,
.Express how you feel.If he does not react on this, ask yourself if this is the kind of relationship you want…
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Why don’t you ask a guy friend of yours that you trust and go on a trip with him? See how he reacts to it cuz it seems like if he can do it then so can you 
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I think u are a little carzy???wake up girl…
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You are not Wrong!
Let Them Go
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Sorry she’s not just a friend. She’s his girlfriend. You are the other woman.
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Has he ever given you other reasons not to trust him 
No. You go along or he shouldn’t. Lose the loser.
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Girl I’m old and I can tell you — where’s there smoke there’s fire. Trust your instinct.
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You are not smart at all what do you think is goin on
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Move on he’s sleeping with her she isn’t just his friend
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If they’re just best friends and nothing else is going on, then she should automatically be one of your friends too now. You should have access to her phone number and contact information as well. If you don’t have access to this friend’s phone number or other information, move on
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Soooo, my Bestfriend was in this situation. And I was friends w them all. The (then) boyfriend took his “Bestfriend” on a trip to FL and did it when my bestie couldn’t get off from work.
I have them all on every social media account I have. And the girl Bestfriend must’ve forgot I had her on snap. She was posting pics and videos of them kissing and then some on snap and I sent my bestie a screen recording and she sent it to dude. He didn’t deny it. Didn’t confirm it. Just said when I get home I’ll move out. Now she’s 8 months pregnant and they broke up 8 months ago 
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I’m not ASSuming, but I’m gunna say something had been happening the whole time.
Personally , trust your gut. If you feel he’s moving funny, then he’s moving funny.
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This is my question and this is how I would react. My boyfriend tells me he’s going on a trip with his girl best friend and I’m not invited, I better have contact information for both people before they leave.
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Wake up,hes taking you for a fool hunny x
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I am so tired of hearing if a woman has doubts about a female friend of her partner , she is immediately branded Insecure. How about woman’s instincts are telling her the truth?
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So why would you date someone who already has someone special I. His life. Give him his freedom and blessings. Look for that someone for your life
No way in hell my husband would be going on a trip with another female not that he has any female best friends… but even if he did, A) he’d never go on a trip without me if there’s a female, out of respect. B ) I wouldn’t allow it even if he did want to go, even before we got married, wouldn’t happen.
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burn his clothes, change the locks
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I had a male bestie for years. Absolutely no hanky panky
This woman is unbelievably naive! That’s his woman…, your the side piece! 
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i wouldnt trrust him at all
l think hes playing both
If there was no issue you would be there🤷🏽♀️
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You’re being used. End it.
Nope. Get evidence and move on
Be careful honey because this woman will come between you two…sooner or later. And if your boyfriend was concerned for your feelings he would not do what he’s doing. Even if they are good friends
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Oh hell no. No trip with her, without you.
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Hell No!! That is a negative ghost rider! None of that! You are his best friend,hes fired!
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It’s in appropriate period. Yes u should be able to trust him and if u can’t u shouldn’t be with him but he should also have enough respect for you not to put you in that situation.
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Pack yo bags or pack his
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He has zero respect for u. Your relationship should be his priority. It doesn’t mean he shouldn’t have a female friend. This is crossing the line. I’m betting he wouldn’t like it if u spent the weekend with a male friend then refused to answer the phone. Get out now before u get hurt even more
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there is definitely a boundary being crossed, it’s no longer appropriate to go on an overnight trip or anything like that with someone else once you are in a relationship
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Stay single and you dont have to worry about dumbass shit like this
It’s a known fact boy and girl can’t be just friends eventually they hook up every boy girl friend relationship I know has ended up with a hookup
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Leave he’s bogus Leave
Naw that’s her man now lol
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Pack his 
& give him the Boot 
he is just playing you & its a big red flag what he is doing big NO NO from me " get rid of him just HEARTACHE AHEAD 
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Leave him otherwise you will get hurt real bad😭
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Me and my guy best friend hookup when I’m single…leave girl.
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No female friends allowed . 
Fluck that, hell no girl. Run his ass on. No way in hell my man is going out for a weekend with a female. Well, if I had a man.
If nothing was going on they could have taken you with them. And if she was just a friend, she would get to know you better so you would not be concerned. Don’t sell yourself short girl. Get rid of him. Good luck.
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Boy, buh bye now. That would not fly w me. Ever.
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Girl leave him!! Point blank period!!
I would not like that at all and wouldn’t put up with it. How would your boyfriend like it if you took a trip with a boy (friend!)!? I wouldn’t trust any guy that much!
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The red flag is you don’t know her and they went away without you.
Is it worth the overthinking? Especially when he is doing nothing to reassure you
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If u all can’t hang together then he has no business being around her… Or no business being in a relationship 
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Kick him to the curb
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How long have you been in the picture???..……communication is key:pray:
He cheated. Sorry but it’s true.
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Thats not a red flag, it’s a whole A** red carpet
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I have had male best friends for years. We have even gone to conferences together - definitely separate rooms. I really have mixed feelings about this. I would never take a trip alone with him, other than conferences, so that is a line I would not cross. If nothing else, I would have a serious conversation with both of them. Not happening again on my watch.
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This is just a scam, not real !
You will chase him out with unfounded jealousy anyway. You should just go nnow.
Get rid of him!! Going away with just his ‘best friend’ of more than 3yrs and you haven’t even met her is a massive red flag
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I have a guy bestie that I do lots of things with. My hubby would totally trust us with a trip, but I probably wouldn’t go on a trip he couldnt go on anyway.
Nope nope and nope. Once I’m in the picture you can keep your friends but you wont disrespect my place in your life, you know first place!
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Find yourself a new male best friend and go on a trip with him see if he is ok with that😝
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I’ve never had a real girl best friend. I’m the only daughter and only granddaughter on one side.
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There’s a line and I think he’s crossing it. This is more than just a friend. You’re going to get hurt.
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Once you came into the picture she shouldn’t be going on a trip with your boyfriend you should be he should have waited maybe she could tag along here and there with you both
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Always trust your gut feelings.
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Instead of listening to people on social media just talk to him
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All I can say is, yeah nah f**k that
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Cheating definitely!!! Probably telling u it’s his best friend bc he can’t explain it any other way,if u haven’t met her definitely a red flag bc he probably telling her something else… please leave and don’t believe this bullshit he thinks he is getting away with this bullshit pls don’t let him. Even if it is really his best friend he is still crossing a line and doesn’t care about your feelings or thoughts about it that reason enough to lock his ass to the curb
Talk to him about it rather than randos on the internet who don’t actually know your relationship.
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Lol ma’am you’re being played. Leave.
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Gotta have trust, if you don’t, stop wasting time you do get back.
There’s A lot is missing here. It makes no sense Why didn’t you go on a trip together? Where did they go? What is the reason they are going together? Does she have a man? You should know her better than yourself at this point.
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He’s seeing this girl! Are you crazy! I would be meeting this so called bestie…lol She prolly don’t know about you either.Trust your gut!
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They are in a relationship & going on a trip. Let them enjoy it
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My ex had a friend like that
Turns out they weren’t only friends and she knew about me
How long have you been together? Only thing I find weird is how you don’t really know his female best friend… I have a male best friend and if I had a partner he would 100% know my bestie!! my previous partners have known my bestie, and pretty quickly into seeing eachother because I was with my bestie alot before he moved !!
People are aloud to have friends of the opposite gender… but the fact you don’t know her… that’s weird…
They’re on vacation. Do you spend your whole vacation on your phone? Let them enjoy themselves. But make sure to let them know youd appreciate some check ins here and there next time. Or ask to come with next time.
Personally I wouldn’t be comfortable with it at all. Being friends is no problem but going away together alone is a problem for me.
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As having been the girl best friend who was hated by the new girlfriend, I say trust him. But I also was EXTREMELY respectful of their relationship. I gave them distance, I tried to be her friend, etc. So the fact that she is completely ignoring you and he is too, that’s not okay. Definitely crossed a line, and you are valid for feeling some kind of way about it. You do what you feel is right.
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