Yuck…that’s gross. Walk with your head held high.
Lmao dump him … why is that even a question
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Ask yourself, do you really love him, or is it the idea of him? …the potential of him, the fact that you have history with him?
Is he what you hope he will be, right now in this present moment? Is he the same person he was when you had good times together… are you scared to be alone if you leave him?
Then ask yourself are you happy with the person he is right now… does living apart because of red flags make you happy, can you trust him?
You know the answer to your question. You have to decide to put you and your peace first or allow yourself to continue this cycle of hurt to satisfy your want for him to be better.
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Why is this a question? I feel like you already know the answer as to what you need to do. Cheating is inexcusable!
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If you value yourself at all… walk away.
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Bye Felecia, don’t let the door hit you where the good Lord split you!!! 
Ma’am he’s 52 he isn’t going to change and i doubt he’s actually sorry. You need to just leave him be and move on with your life
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Is this really a question?
Why is is this even a question. Leave his ass
He sounds awful…how many red flags do you need? He’s already cheated…time to go
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BuhBye… Don’t sell yourself for a penny doll.
You’re stupid to stay with him down right stupid
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Once a cheater ,always a cheater. Plus his behaviour of wanting you to answer phones immediately , that’s because he cheats and is afraid you might. There’s “red flags “ for a reason. Move on and find someone who wants you ,someone who is good enough to deserve you.
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Move on that’s shit it is not ok
Run the other way. He is not worth any more of your time
Get out of that situation
He will never change
Let him go get yourself someone who loves you
Get rid of him honey, I took mine back after sleeping with someone 10 years younger whilst I was in hospital giving birth to his son, took me 8 years to stop crying and blaming myself for the cheating, 16 years together and he’s now gone and done it again. It is NOT worth the hurt, I REALLY wished I’d have kicked him out the first time, please PLEASE put yourself first xxxx
You deserve better. But only you can make the choice. Just know your worth. Sending you much love and prayers for you to make the right decision 
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You: My boyfriend cheated on me…What should I do?
Me: LEEEAVE, the end
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Dump him, you deserve better than that!
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Why would you even consider still being with him? You said it yourself, A lot of red flags. And now this!
Leave him in the past and move forward. It hurts and it’s gonna be hard, but in the long run it will be worth it. 
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He’s a 52 year old player honey. You ain’t the first and obviously not gonna be the last.Know your worth!!!
There’s a reason you left… listen to your gut, ya know the one that saying STOP letting him do this to you. You deserve way better. My head would be saying I could never be with him EVER again for the fear of catching something. She may not be the only one he is messin’ with. Tell him to kick rocks and find you a REAL man and stop wasting time with this 
!
Listen to your gut red flags included. Love yourself enough to know that you are worth more. God bless
I think you know the answer! It’s right in front of you. If you can’t figure it out then you deserve what you get!
I agree it may be difficult to leave your relationship rn but he has consistently given you a reason the relationship just does not feel right. Leave before you commit anymore of your precious time to a relationship that obviously is not working. He is using you out of convenience because you keep taking him back.
You just answered your question in the first and second question. Red flags…Run away!!
You DESERVE and ARE ENTITLED to someone SO MUCH BETTER. AND HE IS OUT THERE. Give yourself permission to leave and give yourself permission to find that great honest loyal man.
He IS. Out there❤️
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I am sorry this happened to you. The only reason he is begging is that he got caught. Please do not put any faith at all in this man. You are still young seem to have a successful career and do not need any more ugliness from this man.
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i’d say my goodbyes!
If he cheated he needs to go regardless, but then on top of it you’ve been together 6 YEARS and don’t live together due to “red flags”?! You’ve stayed far too long as it is. That answered your own question!!! They wont/don’t change it only gets worse!
First of all you are with him 6 years. And y’all are not even engaged? That’s a big red flag!!! Then y’all are not living together because of other red flags??? That’s an even bigger problem. The fact that’s he gets mad wen u do t answer his call while yur at wrk was the biggest red flag!!! You confronted him and he still lied. He does not deserve another chance. She’s probably not the first girl he cheated with and she definitely won’t be the last. He was disrespectful af wen he dated someone he knew u worked with. He does not respect u baby girl. It may hurt and you may be scared, but it’s best to start a new life. Find someone who love and appreciates you, someone who is scared to loose you. That man is a waste of yur time and effort
Your heart is stupid. Don’t trust it. Listen to your head.
You said there is constant fighting, tons of red flags and now confirmed cheating.
Do better for yourself. Doesn’t matter how long you’ve been together, it’s not okay to allow someone to treat you that way and you should already know because of the repeated fighting and red flags, but when you forgive someone repeatedly for something they have done to you, all you’re doing is giving them the okay to keep doing it. They do it, ask you to forgive them, you forgive them, they do it again. Repeat. Repeat. Repeat. How many chances does he deserve? No one cheats by accident. You can forgive but you’ll never forget.
Me personally, if my husband cheated and I “forgave” him, I wouldn’t ever be able to look at him the same again. I don’t even know if I would ever be able to allow him to touch me, knowing he’s been with someone else. And yes, we have both been with others before we were together, but that’s different than one of us being with someone else while we’re together.
I’m sorry this is happening to you. I would walk away, value yourself and know your worth. You do not need him.
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he will do it again, walk away sweetie
Leave. That will be how your life will be led with him. You alot of red flags you should realize he isn’t going to change. It will be hard to do but do it also in the time you have been together no progress has been made in the relationship Y’all still live apart progress has to be made or you just live in a rut until it’s deep enough to become your grave
U had me at red flags. Ur trust w him will be gone.
So he is controlling, a liar, and a cheater! Oh no honey! If you forgive him and let it go he will for sure do it again. I’m so sorry this happened to you. Thankfully you are not married! Please get away from him.

Kick him to the curb! He has already made you look like a fool and your coworker knew. I would have to find me another job !
How many red flags does it take? He loves only himself, & you deserve much better. You deserve a man who will treat you with honesty, & respect, on good days & bad…not BE THE BAD DAYS!! Love yourself, & walk away without looking back.
Get out. Once a cheater always a cheater. They always say never again, but they do. He sounds very controlling could turn violent. Please stay away.
Doesn’t sound like there’s anything worth staying for. That trust is gone, beyond repair, not coming back.
Burn that bridge and walk away
Girl NO don’t walk run! That’s definitely NOT ok. He doesn’t love you when he’s doing that
Take the garbage out.
Girl run fast.hes 52 he should know better he needs to grow up and has no business with a 24 year old
He will do it again! Once it starts it doesn’t stop. It’s a repeating cycle. The fact he slept with such a younger women is probably making him feel powerful. Leave him you deserve better
Dump him. Always dump him.
Leave period 6 years wasted.
It’s ridiculous youre even asking this question
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Perfect reason to break up and reclaim your freedom and power
If you have to ask… you’re not ready to leave. Your boundaries are your own. While there is a small percent of people who will change… a larger portion of people only use it as as mark for tolerance and testing limits. If he thinks he can continue to “get” women, his ego might not let him correct this action. Personally, this is crossing a line that a person can’t go back from with me. Certain things you just have to let your heart break over.
Don’t give him a second chance, to many red flags
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Time to let go and send him on his way
Once they do it once they will continue and just find other ways to be sneaky .
Let him go girl!!! There’s nothing to hold on to! You’re better off without him!
Walk away fast. He’ll do it again!
honey please let him go because he will always cheat on you men never stop your feeling will always get hurt let him go and the girl who works with you she who he is cheating with she so young so just try to make the best decisions
Don’t let him to continue to disrespect, lie to you,and use you. You know you deserve better. Forget him. Find a man who deserves you.
Are you for real rn? Lol leave him, he’s controlling, a cheater, and in his 50s so he will never change and the age gap between him and the new girl is disturbing
You aren’t living with him because you already know the answer.
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Kick him to the curb and run in the other direction.
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Didn’t even read past the question… Leave.
Dump his sad ass once a cheat always a cheat
Just run and never look back
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This has never happened to you before that you know of……Why would you want to be with someone that you can’t live with, can’t trust and feel the need to keep giving chances too? Is cheating not a big enough Red flag 
for you? Do yourself a favor don’t waste anymore time on this POS.
If he’d been sorry, he would had been sorry enough to stop and tell you himself, however that may be why she told you, had he tried to cut it off & tell you and try to work it out, she may have just beat him to it out of spite. BUT that all to me would be pretty irrelevant. It’s more that he could do it in the first place, it’s the anger if you don’t respond while working, it’s a lot more you need to back up and really think about, like step back and really think about the entire picture and then decide what you want to do. I am a very forgiving person, but alot of times that just gives them the mindset that when they do it again, it will be ok. Every single person is different though. Many ppl mess up and actually correct their behavior and wouldn’t dare hurt the person again, but some just aren’t actually sorry, they are sorry that you found out and it hurt your feelings, and of course when they are caught they will try anything to keep you BUT it depends on if it’s permanent changes or “bc I’m caught”, his age leads me to believe that things may not change, but that’s just me. Nobody can tell you what to do, or judge you for what you choose. I will just remind you that you shouldn’t tolerate some things and you deserve to be treated properly.
Use your brain.
You don’t live together because of red flags… after 6 years? I would have been done with it after 1.5-2 years.
Now you find out he cheated on you, I can guarantee you he has cheated on you before this, and he will do it again.
Walk away. Save yourself any more years of wasted time and move on with your life.
He is using you. There is no relationship. Leave.
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Let her have him. Move on
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I different would not take him back, cause if he did it once he will do it again, you would not be able to trust him again, you would always be wondering what he was doing when you was not with him
Leave him and don’t look back… U deserve way better than that
Yuck get rid of him. stat
Run for the hills. You’ll be way better off without that controlling pig around.
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Once a cheater, always a cheater
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Leave him. Don’t ever give in to someone cheating.
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You should leave him
Be done. it will never stop… you might love him, but his actions are proving he doesn’t love you. Find a man that will treat you right.
Leave! Once he cheats and you take him back he’ll do it again and again!!!
Get rid of him. Liars do not change v
Let the rascal go. He will never stop.
A chest is always a cheat leave him
he will do it to you again . Mine keeps saying lets put it behind us and go forward i will never do it again. Which he did
This ain’t the first time he’s done it just the first time he got caught…u can do bad by yourself…LEAVE!!
Ewwww get rid of him. Sounds like a pig 
Only go back if you feel you can keep going through this, cheaters remain cheaters
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Oh it’s time to move on….
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One thing I’ll say is I’ve given more chances then I can count on three sets of hands and it happened again everytime. I’ve herd it all “she came on to me first” " I was too drunk to do anything" “I’ll never do it again I promise on my life” “I was just trying to be nice and she got the worng idea” “I only did it to get something from her” yeah yeah yeah excuses are bullshit and it’ll happen again. He’s trying the boohoo trick because he knows you’ll let it go and fall for it. It’s classic manipulation.
Run, run, as fast as you can!
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Have a good cry and move on
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11 yrs I was with my ex boyfriend once a cheat always last straw was when he cheated on me with my best friend and while I was in hospital losing one of our babies it qont get better your trust is gone hope you are ok stay strong I left mine after 11yrs and pregnant plus 5 other children we had x
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let him go, you are better than this
Leave his ass! Fuck that he’s only telling u the truth now because he got caught red handed. Otherwise he would still be lying. Don’t listen to your heart on this one because either way it is going to get broken just bite the bullet now before worse things happen and save yourself of that much! Seriously it isn’t going to end well so time to love yourself more than you love him and walk away! Your heart wants to stay because it doesn’t want to feel the pain of a breakup but it’s better to do it now listen to your brain!
You already know the answer to that question…
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it is a damn shame you really have to ask people what you should do !! I am truly sorry !!!
Please don’t be a Pendeja and move on!!!
Was a cheater always a cheater. Say goodbye and leave him behind.
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Once a cheater always a cheater… your better off on your own… get your confidence back & be with someone you can trust!!
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Sirry, ONCE A CHEATER,…ALWAYS A CHEATER
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Sweetheart if hes 52 and still doesnt know how to treat a lady and make her feel secure…hes not relationship material. You deserve better. Its not hard to keep it in your pants and have self control. Sounds like hee has commitment issues and just wants to be a player
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Nope Nope Nope. They ALWAYS do it again. ALWAYS
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Find a dumpster put him in it…
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