Give him another chance y’all too strict
Not a keeper If he did it once he will do it again just my thoughts
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Gross. Move on. Trust broken. Cry it out. We’re powerful fucking women. We beg for no “Dick” head up,tits out, and onward. Wishing you all the best!
Don’t be a fool . If they cheat in the beginning of a relationship they will always cheat . And they will always say they won’t do it again . You will want to believe it and keep on giving them another chance . Each time your feeling that it is your fault and you are not good enough for them to Love. With each time they cheat you feel less like someone anyone can ever Love . It is always a down slope and his charm will always make you the looser .
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Um. Leave.
Like go live ur life happily without stress or hurt
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Nah no going back. Once a cheater always a cheater for sure. There is someone out there that will love you and not do that to you ever! This loser just needs to go. Especially if there were already red flags before this.
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Relationship was over before that even happened. Get completely out.
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Run away you deserve a GOOD FAITHFUL MAN.
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The fact that there have been lots of flags… just no. That would’ve been my first reason to leave. The fact that he cheated on you - let alone with a girl from your work, absolutely not. Dump his @ss
Leave, that is disgusting.
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Once a cheat always a cheat kick him to the curb fast
Better off without him
Bye Bye Sucker !!! Go be with you’re Barbie Doll. Cheaters will always be cheaters. Always say "I’ll change " but won’t happen. Staying is not worth the stress. Been there…Done that.
I think your post answered your own quesiton. Do you really even need to ask it?
Move on to someone without a ton of red flags and who can love you fully!
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Leave that simple don’t be a stupid woman just leave
If there are a lot of red flags run
What do you need him to do to show you he’s not worth it? It’s been 6 years and you’re going no where but down, just end it.
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Tell him to kick rocks
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Time for a new guy while you’re young
One would think by age 52 they would not want to play games. Drop his ass like a hot potato! Seriously, don’t entertain the idea of staying with him. He can’t be honest with you!!
Don’t be dumb. No more chances.
Oh helllllllll nahhhhh
Let it go sis… he’s only gonna cause u more heartache! It’s not worth it. He’s NOT you’re one.
These questions can’t be serious
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Leave him. … don’t even worry about the age difference, that’s his problem now … you work and you provide , you bring something to the table …. He doesn’t need to be eating at your table any longer … 6 years is a long time …. Imagine asking yourself all these questions again in 12/13 more years …… Don’t live to regret…. And I am giving you advice I wish I would’ve took many many years ago ….
You leave. Cheaters won’t learn a lesson or change unless they experience some loss and the pain that comes with it.
He is a narcissist. Get away from him. He is using you. You HAVE to make this decision using ONLY logic this time. Do not let your emotions to make this decision. You are smart, you have a job and you can take care of yourself.
Cut ties. You don’t live together you I’m assuming don’t have kids together id quit while you’re ahead.
If he did it once he will go it again. Leave.
Don’t bother putting yourself through more heartache. He doesn’t value you or the relationship you had. Time to leave him for good, he needs to grow up!
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Leave him! Like cmon don’t be naive. You have the evidence you got him to admit it (kinda hard not to) so now it’s time to love yourself more and leave this
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Run sister. He sounds controlling and he doesn’t respect you. Tell him bye 
I promiseeee you it will never stop!! And someone who cheats on you does NOT love you!! Move on and find someone who’d never even think about doing something like that.
Gross move on and be sad for a bit to have a happier future. He sounds like a pos!
Get out now. At his age, he’s not going to change.
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Kick him to the curb!! Don’t look back!!
Move on, leave him , he doesn’t deserve you…cheaters, like leopards never change their spots.
Think…with your head, not your heart !
As you said in the beginning to many red flags, leave and live your life to the best
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leave him now. he is the wrong guy for you.
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You say “lots of red flags” for 6 years? Okay I’m no expert but it’s clearly been a rollercoaster ride with your guy and it sounds like you need to listen to what your head is saying for a change because your heart is showing empathy. Be smart and let him go.
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Throw the whole man away🤷🏻♀️
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He’s going through his mid life crisis, move on don’t look back, run
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Girl bye. You know what you need to do. Why you asking us? Don’t be naive. 
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Ew . Girl, respect yourself!
6 years is a long time… Of course it’s natural that you love him. It’s natural that you want him back and you want him to love you the way you deserve to be loved… But hunny, if there are this many red flags now, unfortunately it’s not a stop light. They’ll never turn green. You deserve more. And yes, it’ll hurt like hell to leave him and walk away for good, but I promise you, you WILL get over it. You will learn to love again and you’ll find someone that treats you like the queen you are. Don’t settle. What you settle for WILL continue. Because you’ve already let it be known that you’ll put up with it. So hunny, RUN!!! Run and don’t look back because the longer you hold on to him, the longer it’ll take to get over him, heal, and then allow someone to love you the way you deserve to be loved… It’ll hurt now, but when you find THE ONE, you’ll realize why you had to go through everything you did, and you’ll be thankful to this guy now for pushing you to let go so that you could find the one the truly deserves you. You got this, Hun! Keep your head up!
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why do you need to ask people here? You already KNOW the answer. Treat yourself to a good life and move on. No sense in wasting precious time. Be Blessed and Pray a lot because it is over sooner than you think.
Leave, he’s not going to change, you already know there’s red flags
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big red flag - walk away
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You seem more concerned with the age of the lady then the fact that he’s a cheater. If it was a older woman would it not matter? Got to learn to love yourself more then some man that has no respect for you.
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So, he’s a skilled liar and you can’t trust him - it’s time to leave. Honesty and integrity are the foundation of a relationship and he busted that concrete up so bad you can’t walk on it anymore. It’s super hard, but it’s time to go
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Leave, the trust is gone
Screw him, leave. He should know how to keep his pony is his pocket. Besides there’s many red flags. Just move on.
He cheated before unless you have changed
Do you honestly need us to tell you? You legit aren’t living with him because of red flags…
Please move on for your own good. He’s 52 he isn’t changing by this point for u. I know from experience he will do it again and again. U are young and have so much in life to experience still. It will be hard and hurt but it will be for the better
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Throw the whole ass man away. You don’t need that smelly garbage.
Wave by by & walk away do you want sexual illness
You deserve better! There’s a lot of fish in the sea, you need to know you are baked. Start by loving yourself.
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ok, the age… isn’t a factor in this. that is irrelevant. what is relevant are the red flags you speak of and those being the resons you don’t live together. he shows signs of being controlling, and now to top it all of hes cheated… you shouldn’t be with him.
It will happen again.
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If you had RED FLAGS you should NEVER had been with him let alone be calling him your BF.
He is looking for an ego booster and her a sugar daddy. He is not trusting you that is why he calls and gets pissed when you don’t get back to him right away, That is what they do they cheat and then accuse you of doing it too., makes them feel better. Dump his butt.
Move on girl! He will seek opportunities to repeat this behavior.
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Time to dump him move on
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I think you answered your own question hun. You refuse to move in with him due to all the red flags. He’s already showing controlling and abusive tendencies but arguing with you for not answering your phone right away while at work. Sometimes it seems easier to over look major things due the convenience of staying with that person and not starting over with another or bring single for a bit. I was in the same boat as you so I get it. You need to do what’s right for you and throw that relationship in the trash where it belongs. You will find someone who values you and treats you how you should be treated but you have to take this first step.
It’s gonna hurt but you need to do what’s best for you and he is not it
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If it was more than an isolated one night stand, you leave because he’s shopping/dating for his potential next.
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Bye ,Bye,Too many out there world is full girl?
Let him go and go fast!!!
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I could never forgive a cheeting man I’m done get rid of him they always say they won’t, lie they will trust me move on you deserve better
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Why are you even asking?
Nope I’d tell him to beat the 
No no no leave him he disrespected u in ur place of work…he gave another female the audacity to disrespect u… beautiful lady u deserve better
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My friend you are worthy of being treasured and truly loved do not cut yourself short of being able to find that 1 true love…he is out there .
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Cut him loose and consider it a blessing.
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Let his sorry ass go!
Run don’t look back.
Break it off with him,
U need a break. Period! Don’t talk to him or limit it dramatically. Take some time for yourself to just unwind.
Girl don’t be the work clown and stick with that man… get rid of him…
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I sure hope all this drama is from more than one Mama Uncut person…
run as fast as you can!
52? He knows better… dump him!!!
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Love yourself and walk away. You just stated he gives you nothing but shit, that’s he’s a walking, talking red flag and now this. What are you waiting for? What more proof of how little value you are to him do you need ….
Respect yourself because hes clearly not ! Cut him off permanently. Thats not the love you deserve.
Get away now. He can’t even admit to his wrong doings and is continuing to do it. You can’t keep a man that doesn’t want to be kept.
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How much of your life are you going to waste on this prick?
, girl. Leave that’s drama. The girl at your JOB??? No.
cut and send him away
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Run 
run away from him as fast as possible
Leave his cheating ass !! You don’t need a cheater!!
If he did it once he will do it again. Don’t give in. Your piece of mind & heart will find someone who will love you and only you. Especially when he is still liying after being caught.
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6 years of nothing, 6 years of red flags, cheating… MOVE ON. you deserve better!!
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If you already have seen red flags before the cheating then why are you even asking this? Take the cheating as a tapestry size red flag, consider that the final straw, and do better for yourself. If you’re already living on your own and taking care of yourself it’s not like you’re gonna lose a lot with him, you can do better. Find it!
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52 and still cheating. Dump his ass.
Um…LEAVE. How is it even a question?
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LEAVE him. You are worth SOOOOOOO much more 
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What?! And how many times do you want to repeat the same thing? My answer would be NO!!
Run! Y’all don’t live together or have kids together? Block, delete and move on
Break up and never look back.