Ewwww you don’t want that
You can still have a relationship with him after he’s been running around with a 24 year old girl!? You guys aren’t living together, your fighting, he’s obviously controlling and keeping you on a back burner…heck no. If you stay then you are just as toxic 
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Gurl let him go already
And how nice of him to suggest you forgetting about everything 
how convenient for him.
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dump him he will do it again and again and again
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RUN, he gets upset because you can’t answer your phone at work? WTF does he have a job? Sorry but your phone sounds like an electronic leash. He’s only sorry because he got caught. AGAIN girl, you need to get away from him. Sounds like a very unhealthy relationship! Sorry if you don’t want to hear all this but it’s the truth, IMO
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He’s an arsehole. Move on and find somebody who will treat you with the respect you deserve.
I get your heart is hurting. 6yrs is long time but you need to move on. Its gonna keep happening and you shouldn’t put yourself through it. Take care of yourself first!
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It’s way past time to move on. You really have to ask?
Didn’t even need to read the backstory. The first line is enough…. You leave.
Run run little girl …take your freedom with you.
Well you’ve already seen red flags so why are you still with them
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DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK — voice of experience!!!
Bye bye! Once a cheater, always a cheater.
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A cheater always be a cheater n once you break the trust there’s nothing else
Buh-bye! Once a cheater always a cheater. Later loser.
Gross… honey, you’re being played. To top it all off he just cheated on you with someone that is young enough to be his daughter which is repugnant. Don’t lose anymore years of your life to this guy. You let him get away with this once, I guarantee he’ll do it again. I speak from experience. Drop him like the bad habit he is!
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That’s everyman dream get with a young chick at least once … he was in a relationship leave the dog 
!!!
Leave him! I did that with my husband gave him another chance and the bastard did it again and just hid it better
He needed an ego boost. I’d run, honestly!
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Get rid. Bish, bash, bosh. Done!
He has zero respect for you, it’s time to move on and find someone who actually deserves you.
I’m sorry to say but leave… If he did it once, he will do it again. You “forgive” him and he will take that as an “it’s ok to do it again”. I’ve learned this from past mistakes. You deserve someone that is going to be loyal to you. If you do decide to try to work it out, you will be wondering who he is with and what he is doing whenever you’re not with him. Do you really want a relationship like that? Do you really want to live the rest of your life like that? Good luck to you and whatever you decide, I hope it all works out for you.
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Don’t look back!!! DO NOT give him a second chance - he will do it again because he knows he’s done it before and you forgave him.
You will always be second guessing him, questioning him and doubting what he does and says. It’s not worth your sanity!!!
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You will never trust him again and he will cheat again trust me 
once a cheater always a cheater let him have the 24 year old !
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Bye Felicia! Find someone better!
Do you need him to say what you want him to say to leave? Or you going to say fuck this shit I deserve better. The bottom of the barrel doesn’t have to be the worst of days. I wasted 26 years on a fool. I felt like I had fool on forehead when I fianally gave him boot. Waited four years to date to find myself!
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I’d definitely leave his sorry ass! Especially for the simple fact that the girl he cheated on with works at the same place you do!! I mean how disrespectful among other things! I can’t imagine having to run into her on a daily basis.
Listen to your head stop listening to your heart.
He is 52? He most likely.has been a cheater all his life. Done it once they will do it again. Tell him No and mean it.
A tiger does not change his stipes… I would move on and you deserve someone that loves ONLY YOU… 
Leave him he will always cheat
Once a cheater always a cheater, especially with him denying it even after you had proof. He only wants to work on it now, because he knows neither of yous want to be with him!! Get away and heal (you did nothing wrong in this situation) and move on
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Too many chances already! Dump that piece of 
You break up. You sound like you are letting him treat you like crap. Be done with anyone who is messing around with a drama filled child. You know you can’t live together ( probably be a he’d rather be single) so just be done. There are people out there who will be with just you and are willing to commit. Tell this guy adios and be done.
Why is this a question dump the piece of scum and move on with your life
You’re not married, don’t live together, and nothing financially tying you together. Move on.
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Absolutely leave him.
Bye bye birdie sounds doomed from the start.
It’s your opportunity to get on with your life. Don’t look back.
He’s not going to mature if he hasn’t by now so just break it off and move on
The cheating part is no big deal, all of the rest is a really really big deal, end it…Thank him for the learning experience and go be happy…
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Ruuuuuuun!!! Respect yourself and GTFO
Walk away & DON’T WASTE ANY MORE OF YOUR LIFE! IT’S NOT GOING TO GET ANY BETTER!
Leave!! He will do it again! I know from experience
It was already tons if red flags and now this?!
Bye
Run and quick and don’t ever look back. You deserve better than this
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I gave not 1 but 2 chances
It never changes. Leave!!!
Dump his ass. You saw redflags b4 he cheated.
kick him to the curb
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Girl. Run as fast as you can. Why would you even consider giving him another chance? When someone shows you who they are… believe them.
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Girl, don’t follow your heart. 
Your heart is unstable. Your head said no.
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Ew he’s disgusting. He’s also a pedophile clearly. Leave now while you can.
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Dump him now. You will meet someone new who really can love you and treat you with respect. Give yourself a chance at real love.
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Cheating and dishonesty can never be separated.
All his 
red flags
Proverbs 12:19 Truthful words stand the test of time, but lies are soon exposed.
You fight and are good again? 6 years is a lot of life you cannot get back.
John 3:20-21 Everyone who practices wickedness hates the light and does not come to the light, so that his actions may not be exposed. - his actions were exposed and he is clearly hurting you.
Do you not want to see them clearly? Red flags are there to keep you from going deeper into a relationship. Since you’ve seen them and are still in the relationship, him cheating on you, and you asking what you should do……
You’re not ready to leave. Why? Only God and you know.
But when you’re truly FED UP AND TIRED OF BEING TIRED of everything that he’s done and continues to do, you will leave. You won’t need us to tell you anything!
Hugs
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Hell no, the man’s 52 guaranteed he’s always been a cheat, cut your losses which arnt many, he sounds controlling too, run for the hills go be happy theirs more to life than a cheating rat.
Sounds like me and you need to leave. These men got us fucked up. I’m sick and tired of trying to be with a male lol and showing them unconditional love and treating them right only to find out they cheating. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Not married and don’t live together? Yep, bye. Clean break.
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Take him to the dump the dump the dump dump dump
You deserve to be happy, leave him, you will thank yourself later.
Kick him to the curb
52…theres your answer, this man will never change, out here a senior citizen still acting like a boy.
If there were to many issues that you can’t live together this should be deal breaker. He sounds controlling that is worse than cheating not by much but control freaks sucks the life out of you. Speaking from experience. Your worth better
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It will be a waste of time to stay with him. You deserve to be happy and life is short. Surround yourself with positive people. I think it’s time you move on.
Ummm kick him to the curb🤔
Omg… you KNOW the answer and what everyone is gonna say. Ditch that piece…
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Leave him, once a cheater always a cheater
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Run girl. You owe it to yourself. Let him go. He sounds toxic
Once a cheater always looking for someone else to cheat with
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If you won’t live with him due to all of the red flags, why stay with him for the same reason. He won’t change. You deserve better
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ditch him like a prom date. Love yourself, first and always
Is this a serious question? Why do some women love men more than they love themselves? Block him. Don’t even waste time to dump him officially. Delete and block him off of everything.
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not going to change dont be second best
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That man belongs to the streets
Don’t settle, get your power back, he will do it again, he isn’t committed or respects you !!! Move on and get your life back
The boyfriend cheating is definitely the ultimate red flag, definitely time to spend your time And heart elsewhere
Why ask. You know the answer. What would he do if you cheated?
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Run baby girl!!! RUN!!! You have all the red flags already and nothing and I mean NOTHING will ever change!! It may get better for a minute but it will always get bad again
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Please don’t give him another chance. Did this girl know you were together, when she started messing with him?
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Leave his ass. He denied everything until you had proof. Now he is guilty and wants to work shit out??!!??
F*ck that. B!tch wants to go mess around when yall have your downs. No worth staying with him. Because every relationship will have their downs. Its part if life.
Once a cheater always a cheater! remember sleep with dogs you get fleas!!!
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Do you own tekkies? Use them and don’t look back! Good luck, you deserve better🌸
Cheated on you, a lot of red flags! Run like the wind and never look back!
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Let her have the pig
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Walk away from that mess as quick as you can. Because of what he was doing and got caught doing and the fact you guys don’t live together red flags just go your separate ways you deserve better then that.
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Run away as fast as you can this is a hot mess, you deserve so much better.
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take some time to allow your head to clear and then I think you’ll make a sound decision. I think it was a really good idea to keep your own place. A common ploy used by some is to make the other person feel it’s their fault they cheated which it’s not. Just FYI.
You said yourself that there are many red flags, not just this. If you cannot even trust him enough to live with him, do you really need us to tell you what to do here. I think you already know what you want to do. There are good men out there that would never hurt you. He is not one of them.
Dump him. Move on. He’s not good for you.
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Me on the same boat its an affair fr me so i m continuing with him coz loved him truly even he did but i would never forget or forgive his mistake it vl be on my mind and i dnt know wat to name this realtionship coz i m really attracted to him !!!
Once a cheater always a cheater…
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Doesn’t sound like a good situation all the way around. Get out while you can.
Nope!! He ruined it!!
Your heart will mend…you deserve better…RUN & DON’T LOOK BACK!!!
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Respect yourself and get out! I think the fact you are asking strangers on Facebook means you know what you should do!
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I would leave him! You said yourself too many red flags.
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He’s to grown to do this. You need to move on. It’s over with.
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No. Don’t give second chances. His not sorry, his sorry he got caught.
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I encourage you to strongly think about this significant other . If you had those many red flags before ? Now you have a whole race track. Run girl run. Gain some self love , you can do 100 percent better !!! And. She sounds real immature … move on, I am sorry he did that. If you take him back he will continue this behavior . Let her have him, 
bye! You do not need that kind of drama , treatment and grossness .
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