He has probably cheated more than you know
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I suggest leaving. I know itâs tough but you deserve so much better. Sending hugs
Holy shit are you serious?? You really have to ask?? Once a cheater always a cheater and he wants to know where you are at all times so he doesnât get caught. Kick his A-- to the curb asap.
Heâs not worth it. He cheated on you. And thatâs on top of all the red flags you already seen. You will find better.
Leave! Heâs toxic and you deserve better.
He has no commitment to you. Let him go and stop wasting your time. You canât invite anything new in your life while youâre holding on to the old. Good luck.
To sum up:
- Six years of up and down
- lots of red flags preventing commitment
- Heâs cheating with someone 28 years younger and wonât even admit it
I donât see the question.
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Say bye bye and carry on with your life. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Your better off without him. Lots of red flags, its not worth the bullshit.
too many red flagsâŚcut him loose
I would have suggested you to give him a chance if he was a young boy because guys mature with ageâŚbut this guy is 52 and still canât be loyal in a relationshipâŚyou better leave him for your own good
leave !!!
Just get away from him
Iâm sorry hun . But your heal with time.
Iâd give him the big 
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Reread what you just wrote. Please.
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Ummmm no just no honey
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âone day, youâll be someoneâs favourite⌠And youâll not be confused. You will not feel like youâre fighting for someone, who isnât fighting for youâ
Youâre worth more than this ⌠donât let anyone tell you otherwise.
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Once a cheater always a cheater
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Leave him. If theyâll do it once theyâll do it again. A line once crossed is easier to cross each time after.
That isnât the first time heâs cheated on you judging by how he acted about it and heâs a creep! Going towards people not even half his age, thatâs nasty predatory behavior.
He doesnât love or respect you if he treats you the way he does. Dump him. For your own safety and sanity.
Sure itâll hurt at first, but itâll get easier as you move on.
You donât need a piece of garbage like that.
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Run! He is already giving you red flags and you guys arenât living together. Get out now and stop wasting time with him.
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He is with her right now begging for you to put it behind you??? Get rid of him no questions asked
Not married? Tell him bye bye⌠lots of fish in the sea
Gross. Take the trash outâŚtake this 52 year old âmanâ out with it. Cut your losses-people only change if they want to, and if heâs not an honest man at 52, then those ways are likely set in stone.
Run away, Run away quickly
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Lot of red flags, he cheated on you. What else do you need to leave his ass?
RUN like hell girl!!! If you donât you will be sorry. He WILL Cheat again. He has probably cheated before too but just did not get caught!!! I speak from experience on this. Donât do that to yourself please!!!
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No way once they cheat they will cheat again
You have to choose you for a first. Heâs not worthy of you anymore. Heâs not sorry because he canât even own up to his wrongdoings. Itâs time for you to leave him and go on with your life. Yes, it hurts and hard to move on because you really love him but you canât love him more than you love yourself. Leave and go work on you and heal.
Older guys like him only pick up young as they can get girls because a grown woman wonât put up with their lack of acting like a responsible, grown, respectful, loyal , loving man. So they think if they pick up a young girl they can manipulate her how they see fit for themâŚrun away as fast as you canâŚthey donât change
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What advice would you give to your mom, sister, best friend, niece or daughter? You already know the answer
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Kick his ass to the curb
You deserve better !
He was trickin for sure!!
Girl, run away. He wonât change.
Wasted 22 yearsâŚ.
He will do it again the next chance he gets. It will hurt for sure to leave, but he left you when he cheated.
You said it yourself there are lots of red flags, you donât live together? I donât you really love him or are in love with him, I think you just want to say your in a relationship with someone you need that title. If you say your dump you can do so much better donât be no manâs doormat. Get a dog they love unconditionally and are loyal.
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acknowledge the RED FLAGS you are trying to swipe away girl you can do better
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Girl move on! Stop wasting your time on a piece of 
. You deserve nothing but the best! 
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Move on honey heâs not worth it
Leave. U recognize u need to leave.
Drop the loser and move on
If he is still acting this way at 52 hes not going to change. I would strongly suggest you leave him and seek counseling asap. Their has to be an underlying issue that makes you think you deserve this type of man. Time heals and there are plenty of good men out here. We attract partners according to whom we are at the moment. I learned this the hard way. I worked hard on my issues and self esteem and no longer accept disrepect of any kind. You should do the same. You deserve better. Kick em to the curb n let him become someone elseâs problem.
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If you canât live with the red flags that will be the end of the relationship eventually anyways. He cheated with someone that could be his grand daughter and someone who works with you. He sounds disgusting. He cheated. Move on. You are going to wonder why you didnât do it earlier
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Cut the loss and walk away. Move on to better things
Get rid of this liar.He will continue to cheat & lie as long as you allow him to have his cake & eat it too! Never marry him & have his children because then we are talking pure misery. Do not make excuses for him or let him make you feel guilty for HIS worse than bad choices. He is making deliberate choices - no one is twisting his arm.For your own mental health move on. Things will not get better if you stick with him until you are stuck! Be brave!
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Donât do it! Break free completely.
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Kick him to the curbâ
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Donât just leaveâŚ. Run leave!!!
Leave,if he did it once he will do it again
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Shit can the cheating bastard.
Tell him GOODBYE SUCKER!!!
Time to move on. You said yourself there are a lot of red flags. You know the answer.
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You are going to be so much happier when heâs gone.
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You will know when enough is enough. I would encourage you to go to counseling to help increase your self awareness and esteem. Then you will be able to set boundaries in your relationship. Best of everything to you.
nope walk away now. donât waste your life on someone that has no respect for you
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Break up with him and move on with your life
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If I hear about another older man being with a girl young enough to be his daughter, I think I will puke. Personally, once the trust is broken, I would be done.
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Heâs 52, heâs never gonna learn. I would seriously drop him so fast. You already live on your own, you got this.
Heâs 52 and obviously still a boy because heâs cheating on you. Girl you deserve better leave!
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Move on and donât look back better things ahead
I been there and done that with my ex whom I had 5 children with. I found a women in my closet⌠I left him as fast as I could and found someone that treated me with so much love. Iâm blessed.
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You really need to ask what to do? Do not ever settle for that. Leave and donât look back
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By By By kick to curb u r better than this
Walk awayâŚ
Even the Bible says that the heart is traitorous. Go with your gut feeling on this one.
Why you gotta disrespect yourself like that sis?
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Young one - you answered yourself the first sentence. He doesnât respect you, lied to you, and who knows what and who else. Cut your losses and run, sweetie. You deserve better. 
U said it urselfâŚ
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Boy bye!
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Know your worth! Donât take him back. You deserve better!
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6 years is too long to be putting up with a lot of âred flagsâ. Kick him to the curb. Giving him chances is not setting boundaries, itâs showing him what you will tolerate. You deserve better.
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Move on . What 52 yr old man child does that . He knows U know and so does the girl u work with . If that was me and gave him a second chance I wouldnât be able to show my face around that chick at work
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Honey you are worth more than that. Donât settle for a life like that.
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Life changing thatâs for sure
Why do you want to stay with someone who obviously doesnât want you? He may say he wants you, but clearly he doesnât. If you were his choice he wouldnât be out with this other girl! A leopard does not change his spots!!! Sometimes you have to send the leopard packing!
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Call him âex boyfriendâ now. He doesnât deserve you
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Why are you even with him!
you got a clown nose handy? bc you looking foolish to him RN. you know what to do.
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Girl hes 52 if he hasnt learned by now hes a done deal 
He might be old but hes immature as hell get over him and quick 
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Run away ,donât walk away.
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Keep it moving away from him.
Time to move on. I spent almost 9 yrs with a guy that cheated. He was always so upset with himself when he got caught and swore up and down it would never happen again. It did, again and again. He was always jealous like I was the cheater. Know your worth. it took me a long time to get there. I am with a guy now that would never cheat, we have kids, and he reminds me of my worth every time I forget.
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Heâs a complete loser walk away you deserve better donât waste any more of your time life really is too short
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You said it from the beginningâalot of red flags. Get out now.
If you have to ask??? Trouble for both of you
Itâll happen again, always does. Plus thatâs disgusting.
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You need to let go of that fool !!! He is a Cheater You donât need to put up with that!! Move on !! He Will never Change !!! They never DO !!!Been there Done That !!! Good luck !! YOU CAN DO THIS!!!
Toss him. He does it one time, he will keep doing it.
nope 
if the fights where about phone calls and such. he was projecting onto you. he has been cheating longer then you think and will comtinue. hes also 52 and youd think by then hed want to settle down and just be with his one. scrap that relationship.
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There are better out there
Heâs a total loser! Heâs 52 and has so many red flags his girl friend wonât live with him? Girl you deserve better. Iâm assuming youâre younger than he is so donât waste your best years on this POS.
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Eww. Find you a king doll not this court jester. Kick him to the curb. Buh bye
Walk away while you can. Although I get itâs possible to survive after cheating, you said yourself there are other red flags. Listen to your gut honey. Your heart will Heal. U deserve someone who will treat you right. Prayers and love.
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Fuck em moved on. donât fall for the BS.
Do you even have to ask? 
Get another boyfriend and kick him out first!
Let him go , let him go or get ready to live with what you get
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Re read your post as you were reading it from a stranger on the internet. What would you tell that person? Follow that advice.
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Well he has always cheated but this time he was caught and with proofâŚbut hey stay with him because you obviously arent going to break up with him since for the last 6 years there have been red flags ?..you dont sound happy and you will never be totally happyâŚso why did you come on here asking for advice when you srent going to leave?..especialky when he just finished screwing this girl but is asking you to forgive him yet tomorrow he is going right back to her place to get laid again and you are saying i cant let him go⌠why would anyone want to be treated with such disrespectâŚyou still care for
him WHY??? Because of how much he cares about you, how much attention he gives you, how much he values you as a person, how well he treats you,
Dog shit stuck to the bottom of your shoe has a higher standing than him he is self absorbed and selfish
You are delusional if for one second you think he csres about youâŚhe wants this relationship to work for whatever reason who knowsâŚhe is shitting on you over and overâŚgood luck
Depends on all the Red Flags but the Heart wants what the heart wants. Only you can make the decision. People make mistakes. Love is there then trust . If you can forgive and trust him then you will find answer
You are worth much better
I am totally surprised you would feel you had to ask this question. You should flatly state "I am done & outta here. Good - Bye.
Unless you want this pattern to repeat itself over and over in this relationship - leave now.
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listen to yourself you know there are red flags and you even give a thought of what you should do! Trust your instincts. This is how so many women end up in domestic violence relationships.
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