Oh my goodness.GET OUT and start a new normal life for your self.YOU CAN DO THIS…
Get outta there.no reason u should be treated like that
I think if you want him as your boyfriend I would be best to move out, otherwise the resentment will break you up. He does sound lazy and spoiled, and maybe you didn’t see these traits initially when ‘courting’ but obviously being a problem now.
Are you seriously asking if you are wrong?! Ha. Ma’am, you don’t work 5-6 days a week…. being in a “relationship” with him is having you busting a$$ working 24/7. If you’re not working at the facility, you’re working at home and what’s sad is that you are paying HIM to be his in-home caregiver and maid. He is a man child. Straight up, you need to kick his pathetic a$$ to the curb because he ain’t worthy of you.
That’s not healthy you’ll end up getting sick
Give him the flick he’s not your boyfriend. Understand that he is not treating you right…how long since he worked
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Girl, find another man….my dads single….just sayin
Surely you aren’t asking if this is acceptable?? He is taking the royal piss. He doesn’t want to partner, he wants a maid/ Mum. Zero respect for you and is beyond lazy. Terrible attitude. If you stay you are crazy. He will treat you how you allow him to.
Get out of there, you’re being treated like a slave, you ain’t his momma
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Leave, you deserve More 
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Uhhhmmm… With all that stress and boyfriend expecting you to be his mama, how do you age gracefully? 
You need to get your own place and then move out asap… He’s not good for anyone except someone much like himself or worst than him.
Lady move out! 50 is too golden for that shat
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Why are you still there? You deserve more.
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Girl he’s using u pack up and get out that’s not love that’s control in his eyes he’s looks at u like a mother not his girlfriend
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Please leave… I was once in the the sane situation as you I work in end of life nursing I work 12hr shifts nights and days and its so tiring as you age I’m 42 this year and the job just keeps on getting harder!
My previous partner was unemployed he did nothing for me sat around all day making mess waiting for me to come home and feed him he was rubbish with money too hardly contributed so eventually I left him… Fast foward 6yrs and I’m now living with my current partner who cookks cleans and contibutes and it’s really made a world of difference to my life to have someone who actually supports me and helps out
You are 50 you deserve to be taken care of little… Theres more to life than working and being someone’s skivvy…
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i stripped reading after the phrase “my boyfriend demands” because you need to know your worth and don’t let anyone “demand” a damn thing from you. 
Lady, get the hell out of there. You obviously don’t need him. What’s there to love? He’s a slob. Leave that rodent infested house ASAP
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Get your own place… and a real man… you’re worth more than that.
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He sounds like he should be a patient of yours, nor a boyfriend
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And you’ve not left yet, why?
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You don’t need a man like that. A d can do much better. Kick him to the curb and find some one that will treat you much better.
You honestly have enough to be doing your not his housekeeper and if anything he should be doing it as hes home all day …know your worth xxx
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Get your own place then he will see how bad it is then when he has to do everything for himself and do not under any circumstances go back
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Oh hell girl you are AMAZING you so don’t need that you are MORE then WORTHY but I’m sure you know this right? Sort it quickly 4your mental health…you’d walk away with good lessons & a sound PEACEFUL mind…PUT YOURSELF FIRST…OR NOT? Wish you all the best honestly 
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Has he got any good qualities
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He sounds like a very controlling self centered person . My advise leave him it won’t get any better for you . Go and find a happy life for yourself ! God Bless you
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Leave. He doesn’t treat you like a gf but like a tenant. And that is what you are. How does a bf even take money from you. You should contribute out of your own towards the house. Which is what you do besides the money you pay. Its seems you are working for his convenience now. Just leave already. You are tired leave.
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No he needs to help you that is just called lazy pig on his part I would be mad to
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I’m sorry but why are you questioning yourself you no he’s taking the piss LEAVE
Honestly two sides of this one at 400.00 month cheaper then anywhere else your going to find and if living on your own you would be doing exactly what you are now… Me on the other hand sorry if I am with someone and they are not working and they are only bring in 800 month plus my 400 an don’t do anything an causes more of mess an bitches ect sorry I’d be gone… I’d tell him im moving out in two months these next two months you will not see 400 month from me…. Take the 800 from the two months there’s close to your security an move out you would be better on your own
Leave… you know how wrong hes treating you x
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Nah baby ,get the hello kitty out of there ,you’re paying him to be his maid ,get out
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You are C R A Z Y…what is he giving to the relationship? I would throw my shit in the car and exit! {{Hugs to you}}
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Bf? Thank God not husband! Ditch the lazy a$$ pig. You can do better alone or find a man!
Ditch the lazy shithead and find a real man
Move yourself closer to work. let him play with his little mice friends
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This has to be fake😵💫who would live like this?
Slavery was abolished years ago. Time for you to leave sweetheart as he is just using you not loving you.
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You are joking me right. Who would put up with this.
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Sounds like he’s the mess maker. You pick up after yourself! He caused the mice problem… You said disability can he not walk or bend?? If i cleaned up after someone like him. He’d be paying me. Not me paying him!! I’d be looking for a different room mate. One that cleans there own mess NO commitments NO controlling asshole. Js
Why are you with him?
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Say WHAAAAAATTTTT??? Oh hell, NO!!! That is TOXIC as hell. How is this relationship beneficial for you? He is draining you emotionally, physically and financially. Please know your worth and leave. RUN:running_woman:
Your living conditions are unsanitary and harmful for your health. A shelter would be better option than your current circumstances, should you have no other option for housing.
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Move,run! Get away from that man now that low life is draining you.
You work as a nurse you should know better when you are treated bad. RuN! You don’t need another patient in your life!
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He’s got it made! This is terrible! I’m sorry you have to live like this!Get out as soon as you can. You deserve so much more!
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Girl, throw the whole man away!
Wow why would you allow yourself to live like this when you could live by yourself and be much happier and healthier too.
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Run like hell. Your do better of with out him girl 
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So what is he bringing to this relationship, that you can’t provide on your own?
Leave him, he sounds awful, and useless.
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Time to enjoy the fruits of your labour…move out & enjoy your OWN life x
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You are 50 time to live life and be happy MOVE ON LEAVE HIM !!! DIGUSTING IS how it sounds he likes to live “unless he has a maid aka live in gf” move and move fast you are only being used
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Wow he’s taking you for a free ride.
Girl he’s using you big time! Don’t know his disability, but he can sit and clean a lot!
He should hit the road !
Ummm you don’t have a boyfriend… you have a man baby… walk away and lift your standards hunny
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I would certainly not put up with that. You deserve so much more than that! That is not a relationship.
Dump him , he’s a narcissist
Ma’am you’re too grown to have m.n stressing you out. Leave him right there and find a place to live where you can be at peace.
I was giving him my full mind before I left as well. I was offloading everything❗
Give him a broom and tell him to shove it where the sun don’t shine.
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I would be finding me another place to live. My husband doesn’t treat me like that and you’re boyfriend sounds like he just wants a maid
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Feet the hell outa dodge girl,
I dont hear any positives why are you still there sounds like an awful situation
After the first 3 sentences I determined you’re a door mat with no mind of your own and you need strangers on the internet to tell you what’s obvious. LEAVE! TF is wrong with you??? At this point you deserve it.
He’s using you. Leave.
You picked him plus he is a BF, move on and stop crying about something you got into with your eyes wide open. Geeesh,
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Why do you tolerate his behavior? I’d be so gone. You deserve better. Know your worth. Leave him and let him stay there in his filth. That’s just disgusting for him to be that lazy. What does he possibly do to improve your life? KNOW YOUR WORTH!!!
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Run 
asap. GIRL YOU DESERVE BETTER. THIS HURTS MY HEART. PLEASE GO
Take that 400 and find yourself a nice little apartment and get rid of that disrespectful loser . X
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they say love is blind and so are you,move out,or stay and complatn some more
get out! he is not
worth it.
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He wants a caregiver not a gf move on pumpkin and know your worth .
If he was my bf I’d say see ya bye!
You work leave. Shouldn’t be anyone’s slave. Living with rodents and he cleans nothing …think about it …your wasting your time
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Run! As fast as you can.
You’re his girlfriend, not maid or carer as he’s treating you like
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Wow! I am sorry but he is taking the absolute pi** and you need to leave! Know your worth! Stay strong! Good luck!
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Leave. I speak from experience. It’s not going to get better. I was married to a man like that.
I’d leave he doesn’t appreciate you.
Time to move. You are his slave.
You are being,disrespected. Taken advantage of. No no no
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I would move .That’s not right .Get your own place .I could not do that. You will be better off and happy .Your life matters also.
Sound like you need a new man, because that’s not a man you’re describing. Just because he’s disabled doesn’t mean he can literally just sit around all day and do nothing. I’m disabled and still get shit done around the house.
Wow! Get out of there!! Stop giving him money, stop cleaning up after him. He sounds like a lazy twat. You are no one’s slave!!!
Are you a roommate or his girlfriend? You’re practically living as an independent woman now, so why not make it official? Maybe you’d be happier 
. R-U-N
Bye bye 
I’d be getting out of that. Relationships work both ways… don’t waste your time putting effort into something that obviously isn’t their. Your meant to be his partner, not his carer/slave
Run for your life hugs
Leave. You will be better off, that’s not right. You work your butt off and just want to relax not look and clean up after a man child.
Lazy slob get out of there no woman is a man’s slave
Why are you still there, he sounds like a real chauvinistic pig. The more you pick up after him the worse its gonna get. Your encouraging him, get the hell out of there and never look back.
You need to go as fast as you can
So out of order, on his part. Get out soon as. He doesn’t want a partner he just wants a personal slave. He’s just a lazy f@@k n hes also just using u as a personal cash point aswell. U so deserve so much better x
If you act like a Fool then be expected to be treated as a Fool. Only have yourself to blame. Stop acting like a Victim if you are not prepare to do something about the way your BF tests you. If it were as bad as you say you would have left him
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I’m not sure why this is even a question. Don’t put up with this. Leave.
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I think I’d find another place to live.
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I have not worked in 18 months due to my health issues but my BF works his butt off… I do sleep in but I help as much as I can around the house. I do dishes, laundry (wash dry n put away), and provide food so that we can eat… Just because he has a disability does not mean that he should treat you like a roommate instead of his GF…
I couldn’t even finish reading it. Seriously move on. Why are you with him? Honestly he don’t care for you and do not deserve you. He is using you pack your stuff and leave. You should have better self esteem do you know your worth.
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You’re dating a chauvinistic sloth. Find your own place.
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you are wrong for staying there get out!!!
He’s got it made!! Maybe YOU need to reexamine this???
If this is true.pls why would you allow yourself to be treated so poorly. Learn your worth. Pout on a beautiful 
make yourself feel beautiful.then move on . He does not deserve to have you .
He’s using you. Period. Go back and read what you wrote…there’s nothing about that - that says mutual respect, love, or admiration. Run…don’t walk away from that situation and do not look back.
WTF? Leave, firstly working those hours ,I’ve done the same but I was older, its exhausting. And he’s on his recliner throwing rubbish on the floor!!!. Pleas don’t tell me you love hi., he’s unlovable.