Get away from that jerk!! My wife is also in the health care field. She is gone from 6 am until she gets done. When she gets home, I help her take the stuff out of the truck, I take a hot wash cloth and wash her feet, get things ready for dinner! Bottom line is, I love my wife and fully help and respect her. It looks like he doesn’t!
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If you have to ask, then you already know the answer- run like hell girl. You could have so much more.
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Demands?
Ha he can go to hell
Move on
He’s using you
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This is abuse… Mental control issues, you won’t change him, you won’t get him to see how unreasonable he is, your love and patience won’t make a difference, he is BAD NEWS you know it, that’s why your asking us, to get confirmation that your right. Leave him, or kick him out, which ever is feasible. If he won’t go, then pack your car up and go, start again. I’ve done that twice in my life, and you get through, you can do this. Good luck x
Hell no woman…get out now,he’s doing nothing but using you… go be free an happy! Life is to short for his stupid shit
Good riddance ya looney!
you are being treated like staff not wife; sounds like a huge mistake for you
Your not wrong for feeling the way you do. However I would be looking for a long term facility for him. That’ll teach him…and on his disability the facility he qualifies for will be just what he deserves.
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What are you doing there? Find a nice appartment close to work- only your messes to clean-- no yard work–go for a walk, a movie, a friends. YOU are important. You must like YOU
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Sounds like you’re his personal servant he really doesn’t respect you as a person and as far as hes concerned you’re just the maid leave honey you deserve better
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Your decision to be there. Why do u need him if u do all that.50 years old you’re an adult.
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Leave his a$&! Omg how terrible 
And why do you need him?
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Bye is what you need to say. I’ll be damned if I’m going to clean up behind a grown ass man who is home all day!
You really have no obligation to him.
You should find a place of your own.
He does not appreciate you.
Shame on him and his lazy ass.
It’s same in my house husband works and I am disabled , I stay home take care of house and kids , I don’t ask my husband do house chores on his days off since he only driver I do ask him run me do stuff or family outing or fix something I couldn’t or take baby for little I can get nap in , he more then willing do. He even cook do dishes randomly help me out …so ur man just ass , ik love hard and to leave someone , so I would try living separately
Find apt u could afford sign a year lease if he don’t get better treating u then break up w him, if treat u better stay u go bk living together but if u like living by ur self seeing him one or 2 nights week stay living apart , so many ppl do this even some marry cpls do this
You are missing yourself for staying there, get out.
Get out now. Get. Out. Now!
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pack your bags and get out …your worth more than this be strong …
You could always get a different job… one with better hours, closer to home, so you can take care of him…
OR
You can get a new boyfriend… one that isn’t a disgusting, abusive, controlling man child.
I suggest the latter.
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He’s using you. Get out now. While you are only 2 years in…
Leave him it’s that simple!
YOU ARE FULL GROWN! You should know damn well what to do here:roll_eyes:
You must be joking…you know he is using you …leave now
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Leave his sorry ass!!
I would save up a deposit and a month’s rent for a place to stay, change my phone number, and move out asap; leaving everything but my sanity. You are worth it.
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In my opinion you are not wrong. You should leave him. It sounds as though you are his slave and God does not want us to be slaves in a relationship. There is someone out there who will treat you right. You should be treated like an equal not a slave.
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Nope you’re not wrong he’s taking advantage
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Leave, he just wants a housekeeper
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Leave him and get your own place.he doesn’t care about you just your money.you don’t need him
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You need a new boyfriend he is mentally abusing you
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Why are you with him?? You just listed all the reasons why you SHOULDN’T be with him. Get out now
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I do the same work. Similar hours and what little time off I’m spent. Move closer to your job. Rent a studio apartment as your hardly ever there and you will save money to buy your own house. No gas $ to and from work. You will also have piece of mine and peace
Get rid of the bf and move out.
You can do better by yourself.
Disabled doesn’t mean that he has to be a slob and demand that you do everything.
If he wants a maid he can hire one or if you are gone, he’ll either cleanup after himself or live in his own filth.
He’s an adult and can make better choices.
On top of that, you are supposed to be his girlfriend, not his tenant. Why are you paying rent to stay in his place that he doesn’t even have a payment on.
You should be splitting the utilities down the middle if that’s the only bills.
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Leave his ass. He ain’t a man. He is a grown ass child. And if he hasn’t grown up by now he isn’t going Tom
why the hell are you still there???
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Tell him to get a housekeeper …Not you your already working…take care of yourself and leave him in his own mess!!!
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Get outta there. He’s using you
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I would be gone. That simple.
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He sounds more like a roommate than a boyfriend. You dont need him…sounds like you’d do fine and be much happier on your own. I’d say good riddance.
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I would leave make him live in those conditions
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Are you kidding??? Why in the hell are you still there?
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What makes him so special that he can make you a slave? Get out now and DONT marry him! Then your stuck!!
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Kick him to the curb!
Honey he wants a maid an you don’t need another job. You will be much better off without that bum. Good luck 
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Sorry friend but you are being a doormat, get out when you can!
It’s his house right? THEN LET HIM CLEAN IT!
He can at least pick up after himself and not expect you to be his maid.
Why would you put up with that, you really need to ask yourself why you are in this relationship, it sounds like it benefits HIM more than you.
You need to get out an get own place he can always hire a maid, just not you
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Girl leave! He is treating you like his own personal bank and is just using you. You deserve so much better!
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Leave him and leave the rats there with him for Company 
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Leave. You’re worth more than that.
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Men are like that. Mom did everything for them before meeting a woman and they expect nothing less. It’s ridiculous. The. Yu agree to help eachother out and it doesn’t happen. We’re not maids. 
Go get your own place !! And Don’t worry about him!!! I’m sure they have people to help him Clean the house and get him his food and alot of people don’t know what they have until it’s GONE !!! SO PLEASE YOU GET HELP AND MOVE ON !!!MAKE YOUR LIFE ALL ABOUT YOU !!! HE HAS DONE NOTHING FOR YOU !!! PRAYING FOR YOU !!!
!!!
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Ditto to what everyone else as said ! He’s using u , you don’t need a limpet clinging on !
Leave!!
You can do better!!!
Run for the hills… that’s not a relationship and you deserve better x
Get the fuck out of there!
You need a new boyfriend! No one has a right to demand anything from you.
He should clean up after him self just being lazy
People will keep taking till you stop giving…wake up!!!
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No you are not wrong and to be completely honest you can find someone a lot better
Woman MOVE OUT. Why in the world would you stay there?
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You need to get out of their he ia not your boyfriend you are his maid. Get out
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Are you for real…Time for a reality check love pack his bags and hire a cleaner take some me time and spoil yourself
Toss his ass. You don’t need that.
Don’t walk, RUN away!
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Find a place to live and leave this person. You definitely are being used by him.
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Why are you even allowing yourself to be treated this way? Move out. I promise you’ll be happier without him because it sounds like you’re pretty miserable. Good luck.
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Hell to the no this is 2022 not frecking 1902!!!
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Uhhmmm I think it’s time you leave and one day you’ll find a real MAN. Sounds like you’re living with a lazy child
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So WHY are you there at all?
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You’re a tenant and live in maid in his mind. Meal ticket. Run girl
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Yall be accepting anything smh
no your not wrong . but i would look for a new place
Pack your bags & leave his sorry ungrateful ass. You deserve more!
Hope u listen to all these comments cause everyone is giving u the best advice ever GET OUT!!
You are complaining on fb because you are unhappy. Writing this here must surely make you realise that this man needs a maid and a mama to put up with his bad behaviour. Every person deserves dignity, acceptance, love and respect. You are not getting any of that from him so why are you still there.
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Time to move on honey!!! You don’t deserve to be treated that way!! And he’s damn sure not worth it!!
That’s not a boyfriend it’s a man child that belongs in assisted living.
I’m sorry, I couldn’t get past like the first sentence. LEAVE HIM.
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Run. Get out. No person should be treated like that.
if he cannot help tell him to hire a housekeeper to come in once a week and do his house cleaning .
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find a new place to live immediatly
He doesn’t want a girlfriend he wants a mother.
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Know your worth. You are an experienced woman, you have a good job. You are more than capable of taking care of yourself. You have loads of empathy to worth with the people you do. You do not need to do it outside of work. We all have a price tag - our worth - stop discounting your price! You are worth more. He does not deserve you. You deserve better. Get yourself your own place and walk away.
Move. Nobody has to live with a lazy asshole!!
You are being his maid. Get out of there now! No man demands anything from me! Get strong and walk away!
Ask yourself why you are living there? Honestly, think of yourself and leave. Apply that $400 to your own space.
Put out the real trash with his shit .
Wow… this is ridiculous. Imagine this. Because I couldn’t. I couldn’t be treated as a slave with no love but demands. You used that word. That he demands you do. No… be your own person. She’s worth it. The woman in you is screaming for change so be that change.
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You’re not his mom your his partner and there like no partnering goin on and at the very tip you said he makes it known it’s his… then give it back to him and make him watch you glow tf up. You can do it I feel it and i don’t even know you.
Time to get a partner not a lazy sac who won’t help
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Leave! ASAP! Using you and your $
Dump him and get a new bf. Leave himinhis mess he created
I think u know what to do. Get out
No your not
Hit the.ground.running
You know you need to move on.
Simple——- Get rid of him today, he’s no good to you in any way, you’d be so much happier not coming home to him every day!!!
Where is your self worth???
Get out of there!! 
Why r u asking such a question get out that’s all you need to know