Don’t be this boys mommy
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Girl he gets enough to hire merry maids
You are room mates not in a relationship. He isn’t going to change if he’s been like this for 2 years
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Leave and don’t look back you don’t deserve some one like that
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Sis leave his nasty ass
Sounds like you’re his maid, not his girlfriend. Would you treat someone how he treats you? If the answer is no, why would you let someone treat you that way.
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You need to leave! Don’t think you can’t make it on your own you are doing it now. I can’t believe you have love for this man you pity for him. You are a strong woman get out.
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Why do you need him? Find a place to live near where you work, and move on. He is not going to make a change as long as his needs are being met. Any guesses as to who is going to keep getting screwed in this situation?
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Sounds like time ti ditch the boy friend if he contiues to sit on his lazy ass & expects you to cater to him & clean up all his messes… Enough is enough…
What are you even getting out of this “relationship”? Sounds awful and from your post it seems you know exactly what you should do… first step is to find your own place closer to where you work (even with a true roommate if needed rather then someone who is labelled boyfriend but is actually a bad roommate)
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Toxic. Don’t walk, run away.
I don’t think you need our opinion I think you already know what needs to be done!! What you allow will continue!
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You need to leave him !
No, ma’am. This is not right. This is your home just as much as it is his. If he’s sitting around all day, he should be helping. Do not let him tell you definitely. Also, stop giving him money!
Why are you still there and putting up with his behavior, leave for your own mental health. You deserve better, good luck
Get a small apartment closer to work. Let him live in his own filth and misery. You don’t deserve it.
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Go rent an apartment and leave unless you Like being walked on
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This is a joke right!? I hope as soon as u wrote this post you realized how dumb u sound, And leave. Get ur own place. Shit rent a room. if your feel like u won’t be able to maintain a whole apartment. Your first mistake was moving in with a man that doesn’t clean up after himself.
Throw him away, totally not worth the stress.
Run, don’t walk, run.
Leave that shit well and truly behind you
Find your own place and you will find your peace of mind.
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get out get your own place and enjoy life
That’s not your boyfriend than
Ur a live in maid to him leave now
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omg leave him pleeeeeeaaaasssse
Wtf… sounds lk your a roommate 
or IN a situationship. F’ his nasty a$$. I tell him to get off his lazy a$$ and clean up after himself. Naw… I’d LEAVE. My X husband always pay for me, opens the door for me and helps me up in the Big ol truck he bought. And we aren’t even together. Awe hell to the DAMN NO… I know for a fact I’m a super &itch… but no way I’d ever put up with that shit…
I’m sorry, dear. It sounds like he doesn’t want a good, healthy relationship. It sounds like he wants a maid and someone to help pick up his slack financially. You deserve better.
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You’re practically a roommate and you take care of your roommate. If i made enough money to survive on my own the mice taking over the kitchen alone would be enough for me to leave.
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This sounds like you’re literally the cleaning lady, and not a partner.
That in itself is a warning. You’re in a relationship out of his convenience.
You work a mentally draining job. Your home life shouldn’t be like that too.
How are you pouring from an empty cup?!
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Honey you are being used !!! I’d leave and not look back. You are his live in maid and booty call. I’d tell him to kiss my ass and Good Bye. For what you are getting out of the relationship, you could get a sleeping room closer to work and be a much more rested happier person. Dump his ass and start living for you !!!
Wtf is wrong with ppl now days. 
I don’t let ANYONE confuse me for being F’d up… naw I meet them where the hell they meet me… … so if I’m a &itch you deserved that $hit.
He’s not a boyfriend, he’s a roommate with a live in maid and that’s you. Leave that dude in the dust, he sounds worthless and if he cared about you at all he wouldn’t treat you like that.
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That’s no BF! Get out now!!
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Live your life for once. Better to be alone than putting up with a lazy partner.
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Run as fast as u can now
I realize he must have some disability but he should do what he can and he he want to make a nice home for you and himself. I would not pay rent if he doesn’t clean up .
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That’s a guy that I wouldn’t even be with there was no need to ask that question. No disrespect.
He should be doing things around the house especially with you gone so long
He is wrong. Sounds like it is time you get your own place and leave him to his mess. If he is so disabled he cannot clean then tell him he needs hospice. Don’t waste any more money on him.
Sounds like the only trash you need to be thrown away is him
You deserve better. Love yourself enough to leave this toxic and abusive situation.
Girl leave him alone he wants a maid not a gf or wife
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Just leave now . Right now .
The only thing ur doing wrong is staying there.
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Wrong? The question is, what the hell are you even doing there. You don’t need his nasty sorry ass
Leave him ! He is sorry ass and just using you as a maid and using you for your money ! You work hard and pay rent and should not be cleaning up after a grown ass man that is BS. If you stay there your just letting him get away with it.
Um why are you still with him???
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You are raising a baby man and having less than a boyfriend. I would move on and you deserve better than this. He will not change, it will just get worse over time and he is putting pressure on your mental health. You need to put yourself first and not a man!
Yes he is indeed time to get your own place
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What a "boyfriend "! You can do so much better.
That is really a hazard
Leave, get your own place you don’t have to put up with that type of disrespect. That’s a lazy roommate and he’s not gonna change. LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE!!!
What you allow will continue. What continues will escalate! You are not his mother nor his maid! Move out and move on!
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Time to get out while you can!
Boyfriend???
EX boyfriend should read
You need to move out hunnie you deserve better xxx
Is this a joke.?
Why are you there.?
He’s treating you like a piece of crap and YOU’RE allowing it.
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Why are you asking all of us if you’re wrong. You should be already packing it up and leaving. He doesn’t help financially physically or otherwise. He is abusive and toxic from what it sounds like. Girl love yourself like you want to be loved. You will never find greatness by settling. If you’re already taking care of that much he’s just dead weight. Go do it by yourself and be rid the stress.
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Why are you still there? Get out and leave at once
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you would be better off on your own you don’t deserve to be treated that way leave the sooner the better
Maybe he thinks you’re also mentally challenged,run for your life
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Get your own place and let him fend for himself!!
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Get out of there as soon as possible 
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Please leave your boyfriend. You are worth more.
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He can’t use you unless you let him.if that makes you happy keep doing what you are doing if not,get out and make a life of your own.there is a good guy out there for you.what you have now is a loser.is this how you want to spend your life.if this is not what you want then move on.life is to short to waste it on this kind of person.its your choice.is this your life .a new start would be good for you.
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OMG, girl!! Please leave this scumbag!! I can’t imagine him being okay living with mice and filth! That’s a health hazard and with you being a Nurse, you should know that! Have some self respect and leave the loser!!
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rent your own place , you deserve to be treated so much better than his ungrateful lazy ass can offer you !!
Walk asap and do not look back!!!
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I’m sorry your dealing with this. You deserve way better. Just what you wrote there is way too many red flags that are not healthy. We can’t tell you what to do, just give our advice. If you get your own place you can look in the area you are working. That way you can save on gas. Having your own space will help give you the relax you need to have. I was in a very unhealthy relationship and it has effected me. Take time on your self before you start seeing anyone else, is my advice. Be safe I will keep you in my thoughts
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You need a new domicile and an Xbf.
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You need a new boyfriend!
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Run and never look back!!
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Leave and don’t look back. You can do better than that.
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No you not wrong, he could do something about wheeling his wheelchair around
Please respect and love yourself enough to know you deserve so much better. Leave, he’s using you.
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leave him immediately… he does,nt need a girlfriend … he needs a maid !! know your worry girl and run !!!
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He is not your boyfriend … I’m sure you can find yourself another place sweetie …I’m on retail and know what is feels like to be in your feet 24/7 you do not have the energy to work at home …at least I pray you earn a better salary so you can get yourself a little place closer to work , which will cut down on travel time …and if you have your own little place …less cleaning …you being sucked dry , used and not appreciated at all…my husband makes my morning coffee , my breakfast , my school lunch as he calls it …takes me to work and fetches me , does most of the cooking , tidying etc…and we say I love you every day …find someone like that sweetie …
…I’m 58 …59 I. April …
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Your worth more, it’s time to move on.
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RUN RUN RUN You have your life and you deserve better. The right person is out there waiting for you and will love you and appreciate you
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What the hell are you doing there? You are not his girlfriend, your a renter and as such you do have some benefits. Get out as fast as you can!
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The fact that she’s asking… she knows she’s wrong. She won’t find anyone who thinks she should stay. She knows better.
I’m sorry but you are old enough (grown woman) and smart enough to know you need to leave! Why are you even with him. He’s rude, dirty, lazy and disrespectful. Please know as a human being you deserve better and should move out asap!
When your living together you don’t pay eachother rent, and you usually split the food bill. Sounds like your his carer and lodger, ill be gone if that was me. X
He is wrong, leave him. He doesn’t value you or the relationship.
Just leave he clearly wants a maid or something! He’s never going to change so don’t be expecting it to. I’d definitely get out of there while you can xx
Leave as soon as possible. That is not a home it is a hovel.
I’m sorry but your not his maid or servant 
LEAVE GIRL. Tell him to get off his lazy arse and do it , don’t take no shit from any man! He Sounds very manipulative and controlling , treating you like a dog , run and keep running
Not defending him but, He doesn’t have a house payment but he does have taxes 2 times a years for that house. I would rent a room some where else, sounds like you need to relax andmost places you rent a room you pay and keep your space and the bathroom tiddy.
You certainly are!!!
You probably could have had the house cleaned what time you was complaining on here
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Stop been skivy and a slave. Leave asap
Honey, you livin with a slumb lord not a boyfriend. Run like hell!!!
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You’re not his carer and you know his demands are wrong
Move out. Take a year of serious self-reflection to figure what made you want him as a boyfriend to begin with, and fix that.
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Demands !!! There’s you problem right there … Get out of there and don’t look back He’s using you as a cook & cleaner and a financial asset He’s not your boyfriend … he’s a user !
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Get out of there and away from him, he doesn’t deserve to have you there. Get rid of him!
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You had me in the first sentence at demands…a relationship is built on mutual respect no one has the right to demand anything of another
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The only thing you’re in the wrong for is staying with someone who treats you that way!
Based off everything that you just said I can’t fathom what you get out of this relationship. And something tells me his shlong and dance can’t make up for the crap he’s putting you through.
Simply put. Leave. You deserve so much better!
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Get out n dump him he s using you n you deserve better.
Get rid of the deadbeat
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