That my dear is a leech
You know what to do . Do it.
Time to say bye…Make you number 1…Take care of you…
Why are you still there?
You need to be for looking for another resident–He is no boy friend, he is wight round your neck,
You are a older woman so we Deserve to be happy get the hell out of there
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You must deserve better than this !
Do you get carers allowance for looking after him?
Leave and let the mice keep him company
And why are you friggin with him… buh bye
I mean, no offense but if you are dumb enough to stay then that kind of says it all… dont let anyone treat you like that… id been out last year screw that crap. He obv needs to go into a home himself
What the hell are you doing there? You don’t deserve that! You are at a point in your life where you don’t need to be waiting on a man who isn’t even nice to you. Oh honey, run and don’t look back. I met the love of my life at 50 going on 51 and I have never been happier. I waited 20 years to meet Mr. Right. Please don’t let this man ruin your life.
Please forgive me for telling you what to do. It sounds like someone I use to know we just felt sorry for each other I finally got up enough money to leave and never looked back good luck to what ever you choose to do
Leave’this is not for you’…Not his maid.
You shouldn’t still be there. You matter and he doesn’t appreciate you. Leave him
Show him the door. As long as you let him get away with it he’s not going to change. He’ll find out really quick how nice he has it. There are lots of wonderful men out there go find one or don’t complain.
The place for him is called the curb
Not my business but I sure as hell wouldn’t stay there or anywhere else with him.
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What the heck !!! Why do you stay ??? Leave him
He’s home all day and doesn’t do sh*t and expects you to clean up
Stupid piece of Sh•t !!! I can’t stand these people 
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Walk away from that mess now!
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He obviously views you are his own personal, free maid. Except of course, that he makes you pay to live there so you are technically paying to take care of him…Run, you have more worth than to let him walk on you. Does this man ever do anything for you in return?
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The only thing you’re wrong for is continuing to let him take advantage of you. Sounds like he needs you more than you need him, but somehow you feel obligated.
Take a moment or two, to yourself and regroup. 
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Pack your our bags and leave sweetie. You are doing things by yourself anyway.
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You are an idiot , LEAVE.
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Your a tenant and he’s the landlord. No way would I stay you better off without him get out asap.
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Hey lovely, sounds like you deserve better! By the things you are saying it’s screaming out that this is no type of relationship especially if you are paying him to stay there, let alone buying your own groceries. I’m sorry to say lovely but you are not his girlfriend your his personal cleaner! I know it may be hard but I can tell your not happy you need to get out and move on find your happiness again c
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Do what he says. You should be grateful.
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Seriously leave him you do better on your own !
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It’s quite simple what are you his girlfriend or his cleaner. Your choice.
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You do better on your own
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You don’t need him. Move out and get your own little place. You are an independent woman. He ads nothing to your life.
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Sweet pea, I’ve been there. I’d say leave. It’s not going to get better. It took me 16 years to figure that out. You are too good for him. Sending lots of hugs your way 
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Pack up and go you don’t need him.
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Put a garbage can next to his chair. If he refuses to use it, then you have your answer. He does not care about you one bit. You are just his slave. Get out while you still can. Move closer to work and get a new, better life. God does not want you to be mistreated.
You still there? Move on and fast.
I’d say to remortgage the house with your name on it too and then you should take care of the house for him. Otherwise this seems like he’s taking advantage and you will never get ahead and always feel taken advantage of
I feel like your a 50 year old women and you know the answer to your own questions.
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so You are unable to move out??and move on “why are You still there?”
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Your trying to hang on to him and all of what ur going through cause u think their is hope he might just change … Hun your a door mat and he is taking advantage of you and using his disability for an excuse to be lazy and an A…Hole … It will never change your still so young and still have so much to look forward too … Get out and live your life to… u are better off to have ur own place based on your income cause ur doing it alone anyways and him always throwing it in your face that it’s his house he is just a trashy controlling person …
Get out, he doesnt care he clearly just wants a maid
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I’m not trying to be rude but you’re to old to be dealing with that stuff. Move on and keep doing what your doing but on your own and without all those mice including that bum!!
Sweetie, he is not a boy. And he is NOT your friend . You are worthy of someone who values you and appreciates you. 
Throw the whole man out. You deserve waaaay better, from reading what you wrote is seems like he doesnt love you or appreciate you and is only using you as a maid. I can understand being worried about finding another man or someone to be with but 50 is young enough to find someone way better and old enough to know you are dating a dead beat. Girl respect yourself and know your worth!
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Better off on ur own or with a mutual roommate. He’s using u. Move out.
Unless you change the situation with this man you will be doomed for the rest of your life. Build yourself a life while you can still work there are people who will help you if you go to the church and ask for help to get your life together and on your own.
Get away from the lazy ASS
Move out now! Don’t ever talk to him again!
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Why are you asking such a dumb question
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I say quit whining and clean!
Kidding of course
Ah …… I will give that a Big Fat No ! Throw him the heck out ! Sounds like he’s taking advantage of your kindness- just say GET OUT !!!
Get rid of him. If you are doing it all by yourself now… Do I by yourself point blank with out a stressful leach!
Why are you still there?
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Very simple solution, it’s time to leave him and move forward. You have one life to live , you deserve so much better.!!!
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It sounds like he doesn’t have any good qualities, id run. Im single, dont really want to stay single but in my experience its been better for me than putting up with that disrespect. You deserve respect… dont settle for that…
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Leave his sorry butt. There are better men out there than him.
Why in the fuck would you put up with this
At 50 I understand that the dating thing is hard! Shit at 30 it’s hard finding a mate that is for you. I can say this in confidence, THIS MAN IS NOT FOR YOU! I’d take my $ and my career and leave him in the dust.
You won’t struggle like this on your own beloved. Do you really think he adds value to your life? Go get your own apartment or condo and get your peace of mind back. He’s a waste of time.
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I too am disabled. Until recently, my mobility has rendered me almost useless. I do try to clean up after myself
My husband works 12 he shifts. I did clean the house and cook all the time, before my hip said No more. He is in depression, and medications can wreak havoc on your state of mind. I got prescribed an antidepressant, and it has eased my mind of being useless
Sorry you are going through this, but his feelings are likely not his own. Buy some peppermint plants to get rid of the rodents
Take from someone who been there. Your a nurse night and day. At home and work. Get out to a better life. Good luck 
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OMG woman get the hell out!!!
Move on you deserve better
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Move out and move on. He’s using you.
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Get out…start living your own life without lazy take all pig.
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Quit playing house. Move out or move him out.
Leave him and the mice there!!!
Sounds like you want told to leave. Leave.
He has a paying live in maid. He thinks hes got it made…get out! You’re not married to him!
Get ur own small studio apartment it might b small but u will b so much happier !
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He is NOT your boyfriend. That is your roommate. Take your hard earned money and get a place for you. LEAVE him now. You really need to leave him. It will not get better.
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Wrong? Beyond wrong, you’re an idiot for still being there.
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U need to pack ur things and move out. Enough us enough YOU deserve a life too just do it MOVE OUT
No you’re not wrong, he’s using you, I would leave immediately and cut off all ties with him. What a jerk! You deserve so much better sweetie.
Cut ties now! He’s using you and that life sounds miserable
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Girl find a new man. He sits at home all day while you bust your ass? You deserve better.
Find a small studio apartment or extra room that someone is renting out for a small income. Get out as soon as you can and don’t look back.
Run, my friend! Runnnnn
Dam girl jump out. Way out! Es un mantenido 
No. Leave him. Let him live in his own filth
He’s a controlling mooch! Pack while he’s asleep & leave
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You NEED to end this relationship IMMEDIATELY!!! You are being USED & ABUSED by a Narcissistic person. He will drain you dry and ruin your self esteem. GET OUT NOW!!
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Stand up and get out of there if you do all of this you can do this for yourself
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Move out he is using you
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Time to say “see ya later”
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You know what you should do!
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Run for the hills and don’t look back
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What boyfriend?! Why do women put up with this shit?! Honestly?!
Get out now. He’s using you. You deserve better. You can live a better life alone.
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Leave he isn’t worth it. He is 100% using you
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This is a toxic relationship. You are better than all of this.
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It’s time to get a new roommate
End your relationship because he’s a bad roommate. Say you want what you give out and you want to be in your own space. You only live once fuck that s
Why are you still there? Get out now🙏
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Why would you want to live with a tramp like that with mice and dropping all over gtf out of there you can do better
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You don’t owe him anything and he does not value You. Run! Move on with your life.
Get out of this it’s a cleaner he wants
I now what I would tell him! Not worth it your just a maid!
Get out.he is a leech. RUN GIRL RUN why are you allowing him to treat you like this. Seek help.
Definitely time to get a new boyfriend - or just a place of your own.
Start packing run and never look back if you want a life
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