Have you heard of hard labor you are living it. Move out or get him out or hire someone to clean.
Hire a maid. Have him pay for it. Why are you even still there if that’s ALL he wants ???
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Your not wrong. You need to move out.
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You are paying to get treated like a maid… make ot make sense
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I agree you should leave. I do understand that it is difficult. Get a couple of kittens and they will keep the mice down.
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Get rid of the jerk! If he can’t help then he’s useless!
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I would have left a long time ago! It’s not going to get better. Remember “you live in HIS house”.
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That D must be 
for you to put up with that but you can sho find another lol get out and find someone who isn’t lazy as hell (that’s a turnoff in itself) someone who will treat you the way you deserve…someone who isn’t filthy!! That’s disgusting…too lazy to get up and throw his own trash away 
Im disability and have a 9 year old daughter and my wife works 90 hours a week as a nurses assistance and she does help around the house but I do the minority of the cleaning the laundry and the cooking. It’s called being a team and your boy friend is not a team player and that is not going to change. Get up and leave because it will only get worst
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Leave. You’re not a maid.
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Why TF are you still there? Move out! He’s gross and a loser!
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No your not wrong, BUT WHY ARE YOU STAYING WITH HIM. you make enough money to be in your own place. He treats you like a SLAVE. GET OUT.
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You should have packed up along time ago. He’s only using you. You can do alot better on your own!!! Don’t let him use you anymore! RUUUUUUN and never look back
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Run and don’t look back!
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Life is to short not to enjoy , there is a better life for you on your own.
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Leave now. It’s not going to get better. Your better without him
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Absolutely! Move out!
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Oh hell no. Leave his ass!
It’s time to find your own place, and don’t look back
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Move out…quick.
You don’t need that shit from him.
He isn’t a team player
YOUR NOT HIS MAID…
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He’s a user. Dump him. You deserve better.
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Sloved–don’t be a doormat move out!
you are paying him and buying with your money when ‘socialising’ … he is treating you as a slave that pays their way…leave, don’t look back…go forth and find a better life for yourself.
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I lived that way for 12 yrs. Decided that I was better off alone. Saved for 9mths and moved out.
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He’s using you for free labor. Dump his ass!!
Pack your stuff and get out!!
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You don’t need us to tell you what you already know! Your never going to get him to change. I know the hard way. I heard for years how a man kept saying he would n go get help. It’s a way to manipulate. Go, run…
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If you can’t see what to do then nothing we say will make a difference!
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Dump his ass. He is taking advantage of you.
Yes he is if you Ness up clean it up you can’t be that tired
Leave him. He’s taking advantage of you.
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Oh hell no honey he’s just using you for his own personal care taker! He’s not a boyfriend he’s just using you! Dump him and move on
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Good grief, woman! Why ?
Run fast and don’t look back
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You work with mentally challenged people all the time…. So you should already know how to deal with the one at home
Get a new boyfriend!
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Ew. Throw the whole man out.
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I would say to him, I am hitting the road Jack, and I want be back anymore.
I’m in my 50’s so trust me when I say this. We are too old and been thru tooo much to put up with someone like that. Save up, move out and take peace of mind knowing you deserve better or you can do it yourself. 50 is not too old to start living the life you want!
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And you are still there because??
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WHY are you still there-----you are his servant!!! I would get a studio apartment close to my work. YOU OWE HIM NOTHING------NOT ONE CENT!
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U need a new boyfriend and a new place to live u already know this somewhere deep down. Move out move on.
Um no leave his ass move closer to work
Why are you even there? Can’t fix stupid.
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Leave. This is not working out for you. He wants a maid. He has no consideration or respect for you.
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Get a place of your own!
You deserve way better you are not his maid
You crazy I would not be there leave and go get your own place and be his girlfriend from afar
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I bet he has a side kick 
do you ever go home early by suprice
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Remind him that’s his house and tell him to clean and move on
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Lazy! Kick him to the curb!
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How can you be attracted to such a person? And how can you possibly be motivated to stay in this relationship? I’m surprised you need advice.
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Get your own place closer to your job. He wants a mother.
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Get rid of the dead weight, he will just bring you down!
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He is a gold digger. Wants a nurse and house maid, wake up.
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Umm, get rid of him… that’s not a man that’s a man child especially at that age… useless.
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Leave! Let him take care of himself.
Get the heck out . Why are you even with a slob ? He doesn’t respect you and is using you
Sorry love but he’s no nice person just using you fine someone new and a nice place were your happy you only get one life and it goes so quickly I am disabled and my partner works and we do it together love please 
Get the F away from him. You can do it on your own.
Why would u allow the BF to abuse you
What the hel# di U need him for - leave his butt!!
Get out you work and can take care of yourself let him find another housekeeper you deserve better.
So what does he do for you? There are givers and there are takers. Find someone who does for you like you do for them it’s a 50/50 world now
So, basically, you are a slave. No rights to the house and he is your master, RUN!!!
The only trash you need to get rid of is him!!
RUN!!! You need a new boyfriend or none at all.
Not wrong! At all. but it’s all up to you honey, I for one would not put up with it. I would be looking for my own place. figure if I had to put that much effort into a place it would be my own & not someone else’s. Looks like he gets all the benefits and doesn’t;t have to lift a finger. Guess I’m old school, I believe the man is suppose to take care of the woman & not the other way around. I can see cleaning the inside of the house but outside should be done by him. Unless of course if you have a little garden or something of your own , but still! Hon you deserve better than that. Totally disrespectful for him to be throwing stuff on the floor expecting you to clean up after him. definitely would not work for me, so no I don’t think you are wrong at all. I also don’t think you should waste time trying to change him & arguing over it. That’s how he is and if he hasn’t changed it yet I doubt he ever will and I’m sorry but I wouldn’t put up with it at all. Just all depends on how much you care for him and how much you are willing to let him get away with. Like I said you deserve way better than that.
Put your foot down to him stop letting him boss you around if he doesn’t like you putting your foot down then truly your much better off on your own it’s time to leave there better fish in the sea
This man does not love, cherish, value, or respect you. Save your money, bide your time, and leave as safely as you can.
Time you left this ass hole he’s taking everything and giving nothing you are a care worker did it myself for years you can only get a knife stuck in your back so many times before you call time and get out could say a lot of bad words about this bf but for once I’ll not get out and live your life for yourself
Honey, he is not a boyfriend; he is your warden.
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Why do you let him walk all over you… You don’t need him… move out now!!
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Get a new one. Your not appreciated
Get the he’ll out…RUN
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That house sounds discusting. It sounds like he just wants someone to pay his bills. You deserve so much more then him.
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It should be a two way partnership,if he doesn’t want to do his part, kick him to the curb and find you somebody else that knows your worth!
Good bye I really don’t think you need him
Leave his dumb dirty ass
I’d be packing my bags!!!
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lazy git gets £1250 for sitting on his backside all day!! You deserve better than that - he’s treating you like his slave and using you - that’s not love
You haven’t left yet? What exactly is your holdup? Girl, get out of there and let his next one do all of that and work also!
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Now you know why I am dIvorce! I had to take care of the kids, and the house. Shop, and cook. 3-kids. While he would Sit and watch sports. I would run, and don’t look back!!!
Leave run dont stay!!!
You need a new boyfriend.
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You are not wrong at all. Save money and leave without him knowing. Cut all ties with him. Start fresh rents a room for a bit enjoy re discovering yourself and love yourself first. Best wishes.
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Get out. You’re much better off alone.
Ditch that lazy controlling bastard.
If he isn’t contributing to the chores, then I wouldn’t pay him anything. I would also move out!
STOP degrading your self
then WHY did you move in with him…??
I need a roommate are you close to Missouri? I a female, 51 and tired of men taking advantage of my kind nature
Lady u need mental help to put up with that crap! Run do t walk and never look back!
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I live in low income housing in an apartment but I would love to find something that I could buy with someone else. I am not gay or anything I just don’t like being alone all the time
Honey they use emotional abuse on you. Get away while you can…
Spoken from one who had physical abuse, stress and I worked and he did nothing. Your being used. Trust me. Oh and they cheat. Would you.like this person if they were the apposite sex. Would you really hang out with him. He is controlling you. Pack yourself get a place and don’t let him know. Tell your place of work not to give out info. And that you quit. I thought I could make a man out of him. Nope. Once a snake always a snake
Ya think?!! You’re the one working dump his behind! I’d rather live alone then put up with that crap. (And I do) & I’m much happier.
Pack up and find another place! You have a job, congrats and amazing that you aren’t disabled! And you aren’t caring for others either! I would never put up with that!
RUN!!! Quickly!! And never look back!!